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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else genuinely feel they're just too cynical for this lark...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

absolutely yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

best to be cynical really. i think if you're too trusting you'll have a bad time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"best to be cynical really. i think if you're too trusting you'll have a bad time."

I dunno, the people who aren't as cynical as us seem to have a lot of fun.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"best to be cynical really. i think if you're too trusting you'll have a bad time.

I dunno, the people who aren't as cynical as us seem to have a lot of fun. "

i have a lot of fun, but it's cynical fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"best to be cynical really. i think if you're too trusting you'll have a bad time.

I dunno, the people who aren't as cynical as us seem to have a lot of fun.

i have a lot of fun, but it's cynical fun."

- cynical fun, love it.

I guess as a couple looking for couples we have a different perspective.

We'd never take one for the team, and a lot of couples say the same, but we sometimes find that hard to believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not , rather I'm always a little sceptical.

What is fun is putting oneself deliberately outside ones comfort zone. That way one learns new things that you like, and don't like too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"best to be cynical really. i think if you're too trusting you'll have a bad time.

I dunno, the people who aren't as cynical as us seem to have a lot of fun.

i have a lot of fun, but it's cynical fun.

- cynical fun, love it.

I guess as a couple looking for couples we have a different perspective.

We'd never take one for the team, and a lot of couples say the same, but we sometimes find that hard to believe. "

i probably would, if someone really loved me and the other person wasn't that bad. but i'm cynical in the first place that guys would pretend they want me so they can get more sex anyway (as this tends to be what happens).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"best to be cynical really. i think if you're too trusting you'll have a bad time.

I dunno, the people who aren't as cynical as us seem to have a lot of fun.

i have a lot of fun, but it's cynical fun.

- cynical fun, love it.

I guess as a couple looking for couples we have a different perspective.

We'd never take one for the team, and a lot of couples say the same, but we sometimes find that hard to believe.

i probably would, if someone really loved me and the other person wasn't that bad. but i'm cynical in the first place that guys would pretend they want me so they can get more sex anyway (as this tends to be what happens)."

Ah you see we both have taken one for the team before, not exactly on purpose but it happened.

Plus I've suspected being the one who the other woman has taken one for the team for, if that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"best to be cynical really. i think if you're too trusting you'll have a bad time.

I dunno, the people who aren't as cynical as us seem to have a lot of fun.

i have a lot of fun, but it's cynical fun.

- cynical fun, love it.

I guess as a couple looking for couples we have a different perspective.

We'd never take one for the team, and a lot of couples say the same, but we sometimes find that hard to believe.

i probably would, if someone really loved me and the other person wasn't that bad. but i'm cynical in the first place that guys would pretend they want me so they can get more sex anyway (as this tends to be what happens).

Ah you see we both have taken one for the team before, not exactly on purpose but it happened.

Plus I've suspected being the one who the other woman has taken one for the team for, if that makes sense.

"

took a few minutes but yeah that made sense eventually, and it could've happened but hopefully you'd really not have an idea.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

You call it cynicism, I call it realism. I've been on here a while and can usually see the BS being peddled quite early on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wouldnt known im npt cynical ..... well perhaps a little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me cynical ?? never !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, my opinion of men has nosedived since joining this site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep, my opinion of men has nosedived since joining this site!"

Our opinion of people, female and male, has taken a knock due to fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else genuinely feel they're just too cynical for this lark..."

I was always cynical, joining fab only made me more so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep, my opinion of men has nosedived since joining this site!

Our opinion of people, female and male, has taken a knock due to fab "

My opinion of hamsters has changed since joining xhamster

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Yep, my opinion of men has nosedived since joining this site!

Our opinion of people, female and male, has taken a knock due to fab

My opinion of hamsters has changed since joining xhamster "

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Nope

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't think it's possible to be too cynical for the internet in general.

I trust nothing on the net unless I can verify it and its stood me in good stead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You call it cynicism, I call it realism. I've been on here a while and can usually see the BS being peddled quite early on."

Maybe that's the difference between cynicism and realism/pragmatism.

Being a realist means you're aware of the bullshit but you manage expectations and have fun.

Cynic means you see bullshit everywhere and it gets in the way of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This place forces you to be cynical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep, my opinion of men has nosedived since joining this site!"

Same.

Anyone would think this is dial-a-vag!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep, my opinion of men has nosedived since joining this site!

Same.

Anyone would think this is dial-a-vag! "

Lol

To be fair though some of the women and couples can be as bad, It's a lack of respect by people towards others in general.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst


"Yep, my opinion of men has nosedived since joining this site!"

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Nah. Cynical with a soupçon of merriment here. Renders me a pragmatist who keeps her sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah. Cynical with a soupçon of merriment here. Renders me a pragmatist who keeps her sense of humour."

well put yes......remain realistic perspective of human behaviour but always prepared to be pleasantly surprised!

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