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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you get mail ...... Staying in so and so hotel all alone come over ... and you have never seen them before or even chated . I know we all like to be spontaneous at times but i do like to know i am not meeting jack the Ripper . lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just has a way of making me feel like a un- payed call girl , lol xx

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Yep get lots and feel the same as you about them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep get loads...worst one i had was a message from a lorry driver, never spoken to him ever

"im in a layby off junction 16, fancy a fuck"

Course i jumped at that offer..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

however hotels have a function for some people dont they? a neutral location. I stay a lot in hotels and find them of good use although i do try and pre arrange in good time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol i can see why you were right up for it x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ooo making me feel better knowing you get them too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think every woman/couple will get them at some time or other. Wish i was in hotel now near you....just so i could send you a message x lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cum and meet Jack The Licker then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you get mail ...... Staying in so and so hotel all alone come over ... and you have never seen them before or even chated . I know we all like to be spontaneous at times but i do like to know i am not meeting jack the Ripper . lol "

yeah ive had a few messages from guys staying in hotels near me

I have met a couple of times from such messages but on both occasions ive met them in the hotel bar and had a drink first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i think every woman/couple will get them at some time or other. Wish i was in hotel now near you....just so i could send you a message x lol"
well can you say hello and chat first get to know me a little as it helps. lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Cum and meet Jack The Licker then "
lolol ooo jack i bet you are too xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just has a way of making me feel like a un- payed call girl , lol xx "

un-payed call girl. now you tell me.

when you free lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually I feel a lot safer meeting on a hotel

I need to know real name, room number before deciding to venture out

I also meet in the bar

And Im on CCTV the minute I walk through the door

I have no problem with hotel meets. indeed I actually prefer them. Surely as a woman meeting on my own im more at risk inviting a stranger to my home or going to his

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

i agree about hotels being much safer.It annoys me cos our profile clearly says kev works shifts and we have kids.

Yet more proof profiles are rarely read.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

We have had quite a few. I recon a lot of them are lieing and just want to see your pics or cam. Just passing through? Pass on by.... Having said that... very hot turning up late at night at friends hotel. Felt soooo naughty sneaking out with wet hair from the shower in the wee hours.

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By *averiMan
over a year ago

Swindon to bristol


"Do you get mail ...... Staying in so and so hotel all alone come over ... and you have never seen them before or even chated . I know we all like to be spontaneous at times but i do like to know i am not meeting jack the Ripper . lol "

I admit to writing such messages. I travel a lot and am never 100% sure where I will be each night.

It has to be said NOT ONCE has anylady responded in the positive...the best is usually 'let me know when your here next time'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you get mail ...... Staying in so and so hotel all alone come over ... and you have never seen them before or even chated . I know we all like to be spontaneous at times but i do like to know i am not meeting jack the Ripper . lol "

i replied to ameet today and met him ina hotel about 2 hrs after talking best sex for ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my job puts me in hotels , often at short notice so i cant get to chat alot first but do try to send an open invite , xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get them a lot and just delete normally...

But then I don't meet at other places as always on cam... and only meet when it suits us... and I'm not on here to be a free prostitute and that's what those sort of messages make me feel they see me as..

Master normally replies if we reply...

Katie. X

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Yes get a lot of them and it now states on my profile i wont meet under these circumstances.

Mercedes x

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I'm in my time machine in spring 1783 just outside Paris...

Anyone fancy a meet let me know.

Bring some sandwiches, the French food's a bit weird for my taste...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So errr "i'm near you in a coo field , fancy coming over to help put ma tent up so we can have a quick hump in it ?, i've cleared away the coopats ready , its easy to find , my pushbikes leant against the gate see you soon xx" might not prove attractive then

*scrapes dung off flipflop*

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do you get mail ...... Staying in so and so hotel all alone come over ... and you have never seen them before or even chated . I know we all like to be spontaneous at times but i do like to know i am not meeting jack the Ripper . lol

i replied to ameet today and met him ina hotel about 2 hrs after talking best sex for ages

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Did you have a letter or two here on fab or just said meet at hotel and nothing more ...... If i got a nice letter i may meet ...... just a hotel name and time ...... I get ... at times.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

with the right person it can be fun, have arranged 'surprises' before after arranging with regular visitors to local hotels.

did have a one liner the other week at nearly 11 at night saying 'come and fuck'...yeh right.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Starting to feel very left out as we don't have half the trouble and type of emails that others seem to get.... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get loads them every week and i say sorry ain't spoke why would i want to meet!! At you hotel to relive ya hand from wankers cramp lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually I feel a lot safer meeting on a hotel

I need to know real name, room number before deciding to venture out

I also meet in the bar

And Im on CCTV the minute I walk through the door

I have no problem with hotel meets. indeed I actually prefer them. Surely as a woman meeting on my own im more at risk inviting a stranger to my home or going to his"

They don't have to give their real name and cctv shows you entering in some hotels not necessarily what room.

It's all about how safe you feel. I wouldn't meet a stranger in a hotel ever. I wouldn't go dogging or meet today as I like to get to know people, know their real names etc and their address. Unlikely someone is going to harm me in their home and considering how I play I think my playmates initially feel the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about this?

"I'm in a hotel room,

there are two dinky tea cups, two shortbread fingers, two pots of something pretending to be milk, two tea bags, but only one me.

One of the cups is going to be awfully lonely....fancy keeping it company? "

well......worth a go...slinks off in shame....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How about this?

"I'm in a hotel room,

there are two dinky tea cups, two shortbread fingers, two pots of something pretending to be milk, two tea bags, but only one me.

One of the cups is going to be awfully lonely....fancy keeping it company? "

well......worth a go...slinks off in shame...."
Thats a new one on me and your right , so get a glass of water , lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol thanks.

ok, how about "I'm in a hotel room,

and I heard your were a generous and giving person, how do you fancy helping me to help others?

The hotel has a 'good nights sleep' policy, lets get together and have loud passionate sex all night long so the people in the rooms beside us can get a free night. It's a win-win situation "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"lol thanks.

ok, how about "I'm in a hotel room,

and I heard your were a generous and giving person, how do you fancy helping me to help others?

The hotel has a 'good nights sleep' policy, lets get together and have loud passionate sex all night long so the people in the rooms beside us can get a free night. It's a win-win situation ""
well if you mailed me charmed me into your bed mmmmmmm At times i get letters that go ..... Hotel Norwich room 6 ...... see you there at 7 ,, lol Now this is a person i have never said even a hello too ... see why i say could be Jack the Ripper x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just keep the fully charged Tazer gun in the handbag....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"just keep the fully charged Tazer gun in the handbag...."
lolol no i go with the gutt feelings have not let me down so far .. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually I feel a lot safer meeting on a hotel

I need to know real name, room number before deciding to venture out

I also meet in the bar

And Im on CCTV the minute I walk through the door

I have no problem with hotel meets. indeed I actually prefer them. Surely as a woman meeting on my own im more at risk inviting a stranger to my home or going to his

They don't have to give their real name and cctv shows you entering in some hotels not necessarily what room.

It's all about how safe you feel. I wouldn't meet a stranger in a hotel ever. I wouldn't go dogging or meet today as I like to get to know people, know their real names etc and their address. Unlikely someone is going to harm me in their home and considering how I play I think my playmates initially feel the same. "

Thats the wonderful thing about humans - we all have different takes on things and different experiences.

I live in the country - deep in the country - no one to hear my screams So for me hotels are safer.

All the hotels Id use have cctv on all floors and I know that when I have tried to book and pay without a debit card they have wanted proof of id as well as car registration number.

But then perhaps here in NI we are a bit more security conscience?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stay in a lot of hotels all over the UK and I do try and organise a meet before hand,

I always send a polite message explaining that I am in their location and the name of the Hotel,

Sometimes I get a meet sometimes I don't most times I get blocked lol.

So if any of you get a message from me saying I am in your area and blah blah please dont think bad of me lol

But it can't do any harm to ask now can it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not the guys being in hotels thats the issue..sometimes its very nice lol...its the way some guys just randomly send a message, you have never spoken to them ever and they expect you to jump up get in your car and race over to them like they have ordered a bloody pizza lol, if i had chatted to a guy for a while and he mentioned he was going to be in the area etc etc that is slightly different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel meets are the safest . Its a neutral venue.

I am not so sure about going into a strangers house for a first meet .

Men have to feel safe too just like the ladies .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"just has a way of making me feel like a un- payed call girl , lol xx "

Yes, this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotel meets are the safest . Its a neutral venue.

I am not so sure about going into a strangers house for a first meet .

Men have to feel safe too just like the ladies ."

Totally agree and I often do a first meet in a hotel. But it's as the OP says - the ones who rock into town on business and message random women asking them to join them that night at their hotel - it's *that* that makes us feel like unpaid call girls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotel meets are the safest . Its a neutral venue.

I am not so sure about going into a strangers house for a first meet .

Men have to feel safe too just like the ladies .

Totally agree and I often do a first meet in a hotel. But it's as the OP says - the ones who rock into town on business and message random women asking them to join them that night at their hotel - it's *that* that makes us feel like unpaid call girls. "

I can understand that totally, That's why I always message in advance, and the message alway's starts with a bit of an apology !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can understand that totally, That's why I always message in advance, and the message alway's starts with a bit of an apology !!!!

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Personally, I will NEVER meet someone this way. Any stranger who messages me like this is not going to interest me because my profile explicitly says I don't do short notice meets and I expect to have some correspondence first to see if we might be suited. Many other single women on here won't meet like this for similar reasons.

The one time I made an exception for someone, I never got as far as his hotel room as one of his previous conquests turned up in the bar, threatened violence and the guy walked off and left me. Back out on the street the previous conquest threatened to kick my head in. So never again.

I automatically delete all such requests without replying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'm in the same hotel every week (just outside of Manchester) and see quite a few strangers meeting in the bar. i'm normally next door to someone that is the worlds loudest cummer too! never had anyone to my room...........

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"i'm in the same hotel every week (just outside of Manchester) and see quite a few strangers meeting in the bar. i'm normally next door to someone that is the worlds loudest cummer too! never had anyone to my room........... "

Sorry, will try to keep the noise down

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