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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I need some help and advice from you folks ta

I'm currently sitting on over 100 messages and I'm finding it really hard to keep up with them all. I don't like to just delete, I like to answer everyone who takes the time and effort to message me but I'm losing conversations with people who I am talking to. Not sure what to do about it ?

I'm thinking I need to maybe hide my pictures or veris or just to block all single ladies ? I mean to be honest most of the message from the ladies are just rude and repetitive anyway, the likes of 'fancy a fuck' or 'I'll suck you like a dyson on boost' are very common I can kinda handle those sort of messages and just laugh them off usually but the amount of boob pics they send, boob pic, boob pic, boob pic, all the time, ohh boob pic over the toilet bowl, boob pic wi a can of deodorant or sky control in the middle of them ! It just turns me off I'm afraid . It's like I'm not a person to them, just an object that should be on fab 24/7 and drop my pants after 1 message .

Anyway sorry to rant, any constructive ideas I'd be grateful to hear them

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

See who is local and reply to the ones you like and don't reply to the ones you don't like.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Decimate them it's the cohort approach to messaging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I need some help and advice from you folks ta

I'm currently sitting on over 100 messages and I'm finding it really hard to keep up with them all. I don't like to just delete, I like to answer everyone who takes the time and effort to message me but I'm losing conversations with people who I am talking to. Not sure what to do about it ?

I'm thinking I need to maybe hide my pictures or veris or just to block all single ladies ? I mean to be honest most of the message from the ladies are just rude and repetitive anyway, the likes of 'fancy a fuck' or 'I'll suck you like a dyson on boost' are very common I can kinda handle those sort of messages and just laugh them off usually but the amount of boob pics they send, boob pic, boob pic, boob pic, all the time, ohh boob pic over the toilet bowl, boob pic wi a can of deodorant or sky control in the middle of them ! It just turns me off I'm afraid . It's like I'm not a person to them, just an object that should be on fab 24/7 and drop my pants after 1 message .

Anyway sorry to rant, any constructive ideas I'd be grateful to hear them "

I have the same problem. I just meet them in groups of 5. It's all good.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

why not change your Avatar ..a cock pic should slow down the messages..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hire a field , arrange a gladiator style tournament and the one who wins gets to 'suck you like a dyson'

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Why don't you just block all single women and then look for the ones you actually want to meet....simples

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By *heBlackPantherCouple
over a year ago

Guilford


"So I need some help and advice from you folks ta

I'm currently sitting on over 100 messages and I'm finding it really hard to keep up with them all. I don't like to just delete, I like to answer everyone who takes the time and effort to message me but I'm losing conversations with people who I am talking to. Not sure what to do about it ?

I'm thinking I need to maybe hide my pictures or veris or just to block all single ladies ? I mean to be honest most of the message from the ladies are just rude and repetitive anyway, the likes of 'fancy a fuck' or 'I'll suck you like a dyson on boost' are very common I can kinda handle those sort of messages and just laugh them off usually but the amount of boob pics they send, boob pic, boob pic, boob pic, all the time, ohh boob pic over the toilet bowl, boob pic wi a can of deodorant or sky control in the middle of them ! It just turns me off I'm afraid . It's like I'm not a person to them, just an object that should be on fab 24/7 and drop my pants after 1 message .

Anyway sorry to rant, any constructive ideas I'd be grateful to hear them "

Seems like you're trolling us or just teasing the hell out of the guys here. No man ever complaint about too many messages. That is typical woman writing

But hey! Nice one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I need some help and advice from you folks ta

I'm currently sitting on over 100 messages and I'm finding it really hard to keep up with them all. I don't like to just delete, I like to answer everyone who takes the time and effort to message me but I'm losing conversations with people who I am talking to. Not sure what to do about it ?

I'm thinking I need to maybe hide my pictures or veris or just to block all single ladies ? I mean to be honest most of the message from the ladies are just rude and repetitive anyway, the likes of 'fancy a fuck' or 'I'll suck you like a dyson on boost' are very common I can kinda handle those sort of messages and just laugh them off usually but the amount of boob pics they send, boob pic, boob pic, boob pic, all the time, ohh boob pic over the toilet bowl, boob pic wi a can of deodorant or sky control in the middle of them ! It just turns me off I'm afraid . It's like I'm not a person to them, just an object that should be on fab 24/7 and drop my pants after 1 message .

Anyway sorry to rant, any constructive ideas I'd be grateful to hear them "

Said no single man on Fab ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That is typical woman writing

But hey! Nice one! "

He could be fab straight...

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By *BW100Couple
over a year ago

Suffolk/Norfolk border

I would just delete the rude messages as they don't deserve a reply, anyone who can't be bothered to write a decent message, more than a few words should also be deleted and then out of the ones left then look at those local to you. When I was single I was getting 1000 messages a week so know how difficult it is to not come across as rude for not answering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm laughing at how many are taking the OP's post so seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm laughing at how many are taking the OP's post so seriously "

i know! it's a bit worrying!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"So I need some help and advice from you folks ta

I'm currently sitting on over 100 messages and I'm finding it really hard to keep up with them all. I don't like to just delete, I like to answer everyone who takes the time and effort to message me but I'm losing conversations with people who I am talking to. Not sure what to do about it ?

I'm thinking I need to maybe hide my pictures or veris or just to block all single ladies ? I mean to be honest most of the message from the ladies are just rude and repetitive anyway, the likes of 'fancy a fuck' or 'I'll suck you like a dyson on boost' are very common I can kinda handle those sort of messages and just laugh them off usually but the amount of boob pics they send, boob pic, boob pic, boob pic, all the time, ohh boob pic over the toilet bowl, boob pic wi a can of deodorant or sky control in the middle of them ! It just turns me off I'm afraid . It's like I'm not a person to them, just an object that should be on fab 24/7 and drop my pants after 1 message .

Anyway sorry to rant, any constructive ideas I'd be grateful to hear them "

Man up and hit delete!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hire a field , arrange a gladiator style tournament and the one who wins gets to 'suck you like a dyson' "
On boost (kat) xx

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By *ercuryMan
over a year ago

Grantham

Yes, will you women stop messaging. It's getting to be a right pain sorting out my daily empty mailbox!

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By *FuckWellMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Lucky you. Select people by distance from you. To be honest you can't have 100 good friends. Maybe select few which are worth your time and stick to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I need some help and advice from you folks ta

I'm currently sitting on over 100 messages and I'm finding it really hard to keep up with them all. I don't like to just delete, I like to answer everyone who takes the time and effort to message me but I'm losing conversations with people who I am talking to. Not sure what to do about it ?

I'm thinking I need to maybe hide my pictures or veris or just to block all single ladies ? I mean to be honest most of the message from the ladies are just rude and repetitive anyway, the likes of 'fancy a fuck' or 'I'll suck you like a dyson on boost' are very common I can kinda handle those sort of messages and just laugh them off usually but the amount of boob pics they send, boob pic, boob pic, boob pic, all the time, ohh boob pic over the toilet bowl, boob pic wi a can of deodorant or sky control in the middle of them ! It just turns me off I'm afraid . It's like I'm not a person to them, just an object that should be on fab 24/7 and drop my pants after 1 message .

Anyway sorry to rant, any constructive ideas I'd be grateful to hear them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is he telling porkies?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bloke complaining about lots attention, now there's a first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete the ones you can tell by the photo, a quick skim of the profile or the first line of the message that you're not interested in. All this "being polite" and "manners cost nothing" bollocks; sod that. Sitting typing out a polite rejection message to 100 messages is a pointless waste of your time and theirs.

That's what I'd do. If that makes me rude, I really don't give a shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ps, I do get that this is tongue in cheek, but my answer is the same whether it's a man or a woman who asks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a wind up!

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By *BW star and DocCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Hahaha. Very good post, made me laugh.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advice.

I'm thinking that it might just be easier to delete my account and maybe start a new one, I've always wanted to be a naked TV maybe that's the route I will go down.

I tried to reply to some of the messages today but it just ended up with me having 3 separate meets and now I'm exhausted and I feel like ive been used, not one of them would accept a social 1st and because I have 'can accommodate' they also demanded to come round here. Gonna be washing bed sheets all week but to be fair Dyson No 2 was a cracking girl. So much so I actually believe that 10 years ago she looked like her pictures .

I'll maybe sleep on this before putting status up for a month saying I'm leaving but ultimately still here a year later

Again thanks for the help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't forget your daily countdown to when you're leaving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I need some help and advice from you folks ta

I'm currently sitting on over 100 messages and I'm finding it really hard to keep up with them all. I don't like to just delete, I like to answer everyone who takes the time and effort to message me but I'm losing conversations with people who I am talking to. Not sure what to do about it ?

I'm thinking I need to maybe hide my pictures or veris or just to block all single ladies ? I mean to be honest most of the message from the ladies are just rude and repetitive anyway, the likes of 'fancy a fuck' or 'I'll suck you like a dyson on boost' are very common I can kinda handle those sort of messages and just laugh them off usually but the amount of boob pics they send, boob pic, boob pic, boob pic, all the time, ohh boob pic over the toilet bowl, boob pic wi a can of deodorant or sky control in the middle of them ! It just turns me off I'm afraid . It's like I'm not a person to them, just an object that should be on fab 24/7 and drop my pants after 1 message .

Anyway sorry to rant, any constructive ideas I'd be grateful to hear them "

This made me giggle

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Oh dear OP. You have no codeword on your profile for people to put as their message subject. One of those with a warning that if they don't use it they'll get deleted absolves you of all guilt in deleting tentative introductions without reply. That's what all the cool kids do, anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey, forward those messages to me. I know how to reply to each and every one of the single females.

Share the burden, bro!

Too bad you live in a fantasy world, mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im wondering...

Perhaps u might well be further in the closet than Narnia dude?

hmm just a thought......

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I need some help and advice from you folks ta

I'm currently sitting on over 100 messages and I'm finding it really hard to keep up with them all. I don't like to just delete, I like to answer everyone who takes the time and effort to message me but I'm losing conversations with people who I am talking to. Not sure what to do about it ?

I'm thinking I need to maybe hide my pictures or veris or just to block all single ladies ? I mean to be honest most of the message from the ladies are just rude and repetitive anyway, the likes of 'fancy a fuck' or 'I'll suck you like a dyson on boost' are very common I can kinda handle those sort of messages and just laugh them off usually but the amount of boob pics they send, boob pic, boob pic, boob pic, all the time, ohh boob pic over the toilet bowl, boob pic wi a can of deodorant or sky control in the middle of them ! It just turns me off I'm afraid . It's like I'm not a person to them, just an object that should be on fab 24/7 and drop my pants after 1 message .

Anyway sorry to rant, any constructive ideas I'd be grateful to hear them "

Is this a "Carlsberg" moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear OP. You have no codeword on your profile for people to put as their message subject. One of those with a warning that if they don't use it they'll get deleted absolves you of all guilt in deleting tentative introductions without reply. That's what all the cool kids do, anyway."

No Waaaaay.....

This site has `cool kids`?

Well blow me down with a reversable boosted dyson.

I so never knew this... I must go find them innit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear OP. You have no codeword on your profile for people to put as their message subject. One of those with a warning that if they don't use it they'll get deleted absolves you of all guilt in deleting tentative introductions without reply. That's what all the cool kids do, anyway.

No Waaaaay.....

This site has `cool kids`?

Well blow me down with a reversable boosted dyson.

I so never knew this... I must go find them innit!"

The not so cool kids are the ones with useless disclaimers plastered all over their profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I need some help and advice from you folks ta

I'm currently sitting on over 100 messages and I'm finding it really hard to keep up with them all. I don't like to just delete, I like to answer everyone who takes the time and effort to message me but I'm losing conversations with people who I am talking to. Not sure what to do about it ?

I'm thinking I need to maybe hide my pictures or veris or just to block all single ladies ? I mean to be honest most of the message from the ladies are just rude and repetitive anyway, the likes of 'fancy a fuck' or 'I'll suck you like a dyson on boost' are very common I can kinda handle those sort of messages and just laugh them off usually but the amount of boob pics they send, boob pic, boob pic, boob pic, all the time, ohh boob pic over the toilet bowl, boob pic wi a can of deodorant or sky control in the middle of them ! It just turns me off I'm afraid . It's like I'm not a person to them, just an object that should be on fab 24/7 and drop my pants after 1 message .

Anyway sorry to rant, any constructive ideas I'd be grateful to hear them "

First world problems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear OP. You have no codeword on your profile for people to put as their message subject. One of those with a warning that if they don't use it they'll get deleted absolves you of all guilt in deleting tentative introductions without reply. That's what all the cool kids do, anyway.

No Waaaaay.....

This site has `cool kids`?

Well blow me down with a reversable boosted dyson.

I so never knew this... I must go find them innit!

The not so cool kids are the ones with useless disclaimers plastered all over their profiles "

they arent actually useless if u wanted to pursue someone who was using ur pics without permission. what wud be useless would be having pics stolen and wanting to pursue the person or people who use them without having it on there.

and actually i done my disclaimer a little differently to most, was intended as more a light hearted fun type of reason for why its there on profile. i have put emphasis on certain words related to sex/swinging or the site etc... it took me ages to caps up all those letters by myself so it just goes to show how vigilant the cool kids really are and how i imagine the light hearted pun i had intended perhaps might be wasted on the `cool ones` of the site who dont have a disclaimer but do have codewords.

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