FabSwingers.com forum: Too Nice

By *ifuw OP Man
over a year ago

Hull

I was wondering is there such a thing of being too nice on here. I know people are after nice guys who are none pushy. But is there a limit?

I have noticed that i keep getting friend zoned by people who i have meet with and by people who i haven't meet with. Because of this never want to play again.

What are peoples thoughts on this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no such thing as the 'friend zone'. Thinking that there is just makes you one of those entitled pricks who believes that if they are nice to a woman, if they are 'friends' with a woman, then eventually the woman will put out.

Women aren't a vending machine. You don't put friendship in to get sex out.

There are simply women who want to have sex with you, and women who don't. Some of them will be your friend, some of them won't be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's no such thing as the 'friend zone'. Thinking that there is just makes you one of those entitled pricks who believes that if they are nice to a woman, if they are 'friends' with a woman, then eventually the woman will put out.

Women aren't a vending machine. You don't put friendship in to get sex out.

There are simply women who want to have sex with you, and women who don't. Some of them will be your friend, some of them won't be."

Harsh but true

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By *ifuw OP Man
over a year ago

Hull

It's not normally a term i use. I was thinking of a way of putting out to the masses.

It's a good job i am not one of those guys you mentioned. When i become friends with people i never expect anything in return. If anything i would go out my way to help them where i could.

but thank you for your input on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not normally a term i use. I was thinking of a way of putting out to the masses.

It's a good job i am not one of those guys you mentioned. When i become friends with people i never expect anything in return. If anything i would go out my way to help them where i could.

but thank you for your input on this "

Well, I mean you could try being a wanker. Bit I don't think that'll help you get into bed with people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's definitely nothing wrong with being nice, in fact I'd say it's preferred in the majority. But, as above, it doesn't guarantee anything. Miss T

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By *ifuw OP Man
over a year ago

Hull

Well, I mean you could try being a wanker. Bit I don't think that'll help you get into bed with people."

LMAO well i could try but something tell's me I just don't have it in me and you would properly be right

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I havnt met many nice men on here but lots of men who pretend to be nice. I think some women may take advantage or have less respect for men who are too nice as they see it, i think you can be nice and also assertive and self confident, not cocky but dont treat women like they are better than you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women aren't a vending machine. You don't put friendship in to get sex out.

There are simply women who want to have sex with you, and women who don't. Some of them will be your friend, some of them won't be."

So so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I was wondering is there such a thing of being too nice on here. I know people are after nice guys who are none pushy. But is there a limit?

I have noticed that i keep getting friend zoned by people who i have meet with and by people who i haven't meet with. Because of this never want to play again.

What are peoples thoughts on this?"

There isn't such a thing, sorry. I only meet nice guys, as opposed to arseholes.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm in agreement with Interrupted85.

I also think that by implication you're saying that women don't want to have sex with decent, respectful men which would make us all pretty stupid, no?

In my experience if a guy is too keen to agree with me, overly complimentary etc I will class him as "too nice" but in a cynical way. I like a guy to recognise me as a person rather than someone who needs to be treated in a special way in order for me to have sex with him.

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