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Does swinging mean no seduction required?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Curious to get people's thoughts on this as slow seduction is a real key to opening my sexiness and dirtiness but as it's a swinging site either people feel it's not needed or it's not wanted! Discuss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your mind has to be seduced before any play. For me the more effort put into the build up the more rewarding I am during play..................

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in my books it's doesn't.

You want to get into my knickers, you'll need to seduce my mind 1st.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your mind has to be seduced before any play. For me the more effort put into the build up the more rewarding I am during play.................."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some its not wanted or needed.. others say its essential

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think your mind has to be seduced before any play. For me the more effort put into the build up the more rewarding I am during play.................."

I'm so with you on that.. even if I flat out fancy someone I still need them to stimulate my mind first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have feelings, I am not just a wonderful bearded body

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have feelings, I am not just a wonderful bearded body

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By *iffraffMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Always better if you've talked/flirted for a while. Spontaneous meets and fucking are exciting but not nearly as satisfying. #butthatsjustme

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Seduction for me. If I'm not aroused mentally, my body doesn't respond. I find it difficult to maintain interest but the subtle flirting and conversation helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all in the build up for me. Seduce my mind first and all kinds of fireworks will explode when that meet happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think swinging is all about the Art of Seduction. From the saucy profile, the naughty pics,that 1st attention grabbing message you send, the seductive chat-up building upto a meet, to the moment u open the door dressed in a sexy outfit that screams 'take me to bed now'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mind has to be seduced first definately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel weird if a meet tries to be seductive.. for me its kinda like a wasted thing.. and makes me uncomfortable... i dont like to chat on lead up and prefer spur of the moment meets...

Mr likes the seduction and flirting with ladies we are going to meet.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Swinging doesn't mean any one thing. Discussion with the person/people you're meeting about what you all want does.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Seduced? No.

But he has to put some effort in, wanna fuck never works for me. In fact it has the total opposite effect, and seduction makes it sound that I wasn't interested in the first place but kinda talked me round.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I can honestly say nobody we've ever met has tried to seduce either of us and vice versa.

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