FabSwingers.com forum: Awkward question

By *heBlackPanther OP Couple
over a year ago

Guilford

Let's say your best friend introduces her FB to you, because she bragged about him and maybe have future threesomes. You know your friend really likes him. Would you meet up with him,alone, for a fuck , almost on a daily basis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would she be unhappy if I did? If yes then no, because I'm not a cunt.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Of course, a FB is for life, not just for Xmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would she be unhappy if I did? If yes then no, because I'm not a cunt. "

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Nope , I value my friends to much , changing subjects slightly ..... nice avatar

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Would she be unhappy if I did? If yes then no, because I'm not a cunt. "

This

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By *heBlackPanther OP Couple
over a year ago

Guilford

She wouldn't mind the first but would be annoyed by the fact that both were always asking for her permission, although she always says that it's up to their conscience to do it.

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

"Nope , I value my friends to much , changing subjects slightly ..... nice avatar

(Past tense)

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By *heBlackPanther OP Couple
over a year ago

Guilford

"Nope , I value my friends to much , changing subjects slightly ..... nice avatar

(Past tense)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

too much potential for drama and lost friendships for me, so no.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Nope,my friendship would be more important to me.

Miss

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

"Nope , I value my friends to much , changing subjects slightly ..... nice avatar

(Past tense)

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

On a daily basis? Once or twice maybe but no more than that. Friends are more important than a fuck!

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By *heBlackPanther OP Couple
over a year ago

Guilford

"On a daily basis? Once or twice maybe but no more than that. Friends are more important than a fuck! "

I thought so! But not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my friends wouldn't need permission from me to fuck someone i've fucked. i'm a good friend like that.

in fact i recommend guys off here to my sister sometimes.

it's only fuck buddies, not like they're married or anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Friends before fucks every time. I've seen this happen between friends and it rarely ends well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well ladies if any of you live in Yorkshire and are after a new FB ime right here you don't have to look any further lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its as simple as that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I couldn't do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I knew it would bother my friend then no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it bothered my friend then no I couldn't, but isn't sharing what swinging is all about?

Surely feelings like jealousy shouldn't be present?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty , I wouldn't want to have sex with someone my mate had / is anyway

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Would she be unhappy if I did? If yes then no, because I'm not a cunt. "

Simply!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"In all honesty , I wouldn't want to have sex with someone my mate had / is anyway "

This was my first thought!

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

"In all honesty , I wouldn't want to have sex with someone my mate had / is anyway

This was my first thought!

Ill second that .... get your own FB ... simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree friends before fucks always. Also agree not too keen on the whole idea that my friend has also been there. Once or twice yes don't see it being a problem but nothing regular. It never ends well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have this with a friend. I introduced her to a guy I really like. They now see each other and she doesn't talk to me much now and he's no longer a friend. hurts very much as she knew I really liked him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like the FB means a tad more than this 'friend' is letting on.

I wouldn't go there, just because there's a friendship & an open approach to sex doesn't mean everything has to be shared.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Drama llama!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're just sleeping together - then why not? And why's it all about the 'friend'? It takes two to tango, and he's the one putting his dick where he wants to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's say your best friend introduces her FB to you, because she bragged about him and maybe have future threesomes. You know your friend really likes him. Would you meet up with him,alone, for a fuck , almost on a daily basis?"
no.. as its my friends partner..be it fb or otherwise

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I'd say find an FB of your own x

Why jeopardise friendship for a cheap thrill ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very interesting dilemma. makes me jealous of you sexy ladies having this problem. If only I could help...

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Never, there are plenty of men to go around, find someone else!!

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By *izbitMan
over a year ago

St Helens

'is the juice worth the squeeze' personally if you know there's more going on and did then bit of a cunt nugget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'is the juice worth the squeeze' personally if you know there's more going on and did then bit of a cunt nugget "

'fuckbuddy'... I was under the impression that a 'fuckbuddy' was just about putting things into holes for mutual satisfaction... nothing more 'going on'...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people saying it's a jealousy thing, I wouldn't do it because as others have said i wouldn't want to go with someone my friend had been with. Also think the guy has a lot to answer for as well, some women are very quick to blame other women in things like this!

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By *izbitMan
over a year ago

St Helens

"'is the juice worth the squeeze' personally if you know there's more going on and did then bit of a cunt nugget

'fuckbuddy'... I was under the impression that a 'fuckbuddy' was just about putting things into holes for mutual satisfaction... nothing more 'going on'... "

Then you should re read the ops statement of there's potentially more than that.

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By *eicsbimaleMan
over a year ago

loughborough

"'is the juice worth the squeeze' personally if you know there's more going on and did then bit of a cunt nugget

'fuckbuddy'... I was under the impression that a 'fuckbuddy' was just about putting things into holes for mutual satisfaction... nothing more 'going on'... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I had a friend

lol

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

'fuckbuddy'... I was under the impression that a 'fuckbuddy' was just about putting things into holes for mutual satisfaction... nothing more 'going on'... "

That's what I thought too.

Baffled why they have to ask for one's permission.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'is the juice worth the squeeze' personally if you know there's more going on and did then bit of a cunt nugget

'fuckbuddy'... I was under the impression that a 'fuckbuddy' was just about putting things into holes for mutual satisfaction... nothing more 'going on'...

Then you should re read the ops statement of there's potentially more than that.

The OP hasn't made such a statement. She merely said they were 'FB' - or fuckbuddies.

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By *izbitMan
over a year ago

St Helens

"'is the juice worth the squeeze' personally if you know there's more going on and did then bit of a cunt nugget

'fuckbuddy'... I was under the impression that a 'fuckbuddy' was just about putting things into holes for mutual satisfaction... nothing more 'going on'...

Then you should re read the ops statement of there's potentially more than that.

The OP hasn't made such a statement. She merely said they were 'FB' - or fuckbuddies."

In true panto style 'oh yes she has'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'is the juice worth the squeeze' personally if you know there's more going on and did then bit of a cunt nugget "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'is the juice worth the squeeze' personally if you know there's more going on and did then bit of a cunt nugget

'fuckbuddy'... I was under the impression that a 'fuckbuddy' was just about putting things into holes for mutual satisfaction... nothing more 'going on'... "

In an ideal world that would be the case , but it's rarely that way .

There's nearly always much more going on .

In the case of of the op , what happens when the friend isn't getting any as the fb is shagging her mate every day ?

Chances are she finds out her best mate is getting all the fun and she gets the hump as she introduced them !

And no , we wouldn't do it .

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By *mo-amas-amatMan
over a year ago

brighton

"'is the juice worth the squeeze' personally if you know there's more going on and did then bit of a cunt nugget

'fuckbuddy'... I was under the impression that a 'fuckbuddy' was just about putting things into holes for mutual satisfaction... nothing more 'going on'...

Then you should re read the ops statement of there's potentially more than that.

The OP hasn't made such a statement. She merely said they were 'FB' - or fuckbuddies."

FB. Fuck Buddy. You've helped me out here. I've spent the last 5 years believing it to stand for Felicificative Belonophile.

Cheers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of people saying it's a jealousy thing, I wouldn't do it because as others have said i wouldn't want to go with someone my friend had been with. Also think the guy has a lot to answer for as well, some women are very quick to blame other women in things like this! "

Same with me. It comes down as respect for my friend. Id refuse to meet a fb of someone I knew without them being there.. and if they stopped meeting I certainly wouldn't go there.

Its not about ownership or jealousy more a code of conduct

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

Is this an exclusive FB or is he fucking half of fab get a grip its a free world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather keep the friendship.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

If you love potential drama and possibly loss of a "friend" then fill your boots!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose that being really brutal...if he likes the friend more than he likes you there's really nothing you can do about that...feelings can't be controlled in that way, no matter how much you like him too...

but I'd reconsider a friendship with someone who would behave like that in the first place with someone they knew i really liked and put me in the position where I had to ask these kinds of questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would ask if it was ok to fuck them alone sometimes but would more go for the 3some most days

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"I'd rather keep the friendship. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have many rules when it comes to sex, but the one I would never break, is to never, ever sleep with some I class as a friends girl.

There is so many other girls to choose from. Not worth the risk, now I'm not perfect by any stretch of the imagination, I've slept with girls who've had boyfriends, fiancés, and husbands and done so with out their partners knowledge, but I didn't class them as friends.

I've slept with friends on here girlfriends fiancés and wives but that was with their permission and knowledge.

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By *heBlackPanther OP Couple
over a year ago

Guilford

"Is this an exclusive FB or is he fucking half of fab get a grip its a free world"

He wasn't fucking anyone else. The said ,friend, just started inviting him around whist blocking and refusing to see others from fab. Or just having BJ socials with other guys while waiting to be fucked by him.

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By *azza80Woman
over a year ago

Your wildest Dreams

Personally to me a fb is just ther at ur convenience but a friend is more.. So I wudnt meet wiv a friends fb alone if she was really into him. But each to ther own

Mazza x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose that being really brutal...if he likes the friend more than he likes you there's really nothing you can do about that...feelings can't be controlled in that way, no matter how much you like him too...

but I'd reconsider a friendship with someone who would behave like that in the first place with someone they knew i really liked and put me in the position where I had to ask these kinds of questions "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By. The sound of it you already doing it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He wasn't fucking anyone else. "

So you were in a relationship then? Doesn't sound like a fuckbuddy with no commitment.

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By *heBlackPanther OP Couple
over a year ago

Guilford

He wasn't fucking anyone else.

So you were in a relationship then? Doesn't sound like a fuckbuddy with no commitment."

Not in a commitment relationship but growing closer to something more than FB.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah got trouble written all over it. Plenty of other men to play with!

Doll x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1st girl meets guy as a FB . they get along great and she introducing him to her bestie mate "possible 3some etc"

Great idea !

Bestie mate fancies having guy as more than just a part time FB so decides to go behind her friends back fucking him whenever she wants not when her friends says its ok.

girl 1 and bestie mate fall out over a bit of cock ........2 months later the exact same scenario now happens to bestie mate after another friend wants to fuck her now boyfriend behind her back = no guy for either of the fem friends and lost a friendship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He wasn't fucking anyone else.

So you were in a relationship then? Doesn't sound like a fuckbuddy with no commitment.

Not in a commitment relationship but growing closer to something more than FB. "

Sounds like you didn't ask him for exclusivity fast enough and he wasn't on the same wavelength as you.

Next time perhaps make it clear with the people you're sleeping with how you feel about them and how you expect them to behave?

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By *heBlackPanther OP Couple
over a year ago

Guilford

He wasn't fucking anyone else.

So you were in a relationship then? Doesn't sound like a fuckbuddy with no commitment.

Not in a commitment relationship but growing closer to something more than FB.

Sounds like you didn't ask him for exclusivity fast enough and he wasn't on the same wavelength as you.

Next time perhaps make it clear with the people you're sleeping with how you feel about them and how you expect them to behave?"

Fair enough. But tell me, is it really up to me to decide whether they , as independent thinking adults, should or should not fuck?

It's not my cock nor it's my fanny.

Isn't that up to one's conscience?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Would she be unhappy if I did? If yes then no, because I'm not a cunt. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He wasn't fucking anyone else.

So you were in a relationship then? Doesn't sound like a fuckbuddy with no commitment.

Not in a commitment relationship but growing closer to something more than FB.

Sounds like you didn't ask him for exclusivity fast enough and he wasn't on the same wavelength as you.

Next time perhaps make it clear with the people you're sleeping with how you feel about them and how you expect them to behave?

Fair enough. But tell me, is it really up to me to decide whether they , as independent thinking adults, should or should not fuck?

It's not my cock nor it's my fanny.

Isn't that up to one's conscience? "

They're not mind readers. Don't expect humans to do what you want, if you don't tell them what you want.

In my world there's nothing wrong with sleeping with friends or friends partners, as long as individuals are consenting and having fun.

In your world that's clearly not the case. That's why communication is so important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He wasn't fucking anyone else.

So you were in a relationship then? Doesn't sound like a fuckbuddy with no commitment.

Not in a commitment relationship but growing closer to something more than FB. "

if he's up for fucking someone else more regular then i doubt that.

also, i notice how the guy has escaped all blame here despite him being the one fucking both women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He wasn't fucking anyone else.

So you were in a relationship then? Doesn't sound like a fuckbuddy with no commitment.

Not in a commitment relationship but growing closer to something more than FB.

Sounds like you didn't ask him for exclusivity fast enough and he wasn't on the same wavelength as you.

Next time perhaps make it clear with the people you're sleeping with how you feel about them and how you expect them to behave?"

Think the issue is with thr friends behaviour.... no way would I do this. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He wasn't fucking anyone else.

So you were in a relationship then? Doesn't sound like a fuckbuddy with no commitment.

Not in a commitment relationship but growing closer to something more than FB. "

So you aren't wanting him to swing then? You need to talk to him if you're wanting exclusivity as he's probably thinking he's doing nothing wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I doubt it would matter if they are just FB's but I wouldn't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are enough people in the world that I, or my friends, don't need to shag the same person no matter how "good" they are. Far too much drama.

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By *FuckWellMan
over a year ago

Coventry

When I was introduced as FB, I didn't ask her friend maybe you would like to try...

But if I have been asked, I would ask the opinion of my FB. I wouldn't risk my friendship over having sex. I make friends for live not weeks or days...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'is the juice worth the squeeze' personally if you know there's more going on and did then bit of a cunt nugget

'fuckbuddy'... I was under the impression that a 'fuckbuddy' was just about putting things into holes for mutual satisfaction... nothing more 'going on'...

Then you should re read the ops statement of there's potentially more than that.

The OP hasn't made such a statement. She merely said they were 'FB' - or fuckbuddies.

In true panto style 'oh yes she has'"

No she hasn't. She's just insinuated with her posts there is more. And to be honest that's the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck buddies only work if the people are on the same page feelings wise.

OP if you are the one giving permission tell them that you are pissed off. Or if you are the one seeking permission ask yourself why you feel guilty.

And ask yourself is the drama worth it for a Shag?

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By *heBlackPanther OP Couple
over a year ago

Guilford

Thank you all for your comments. It's clearly that one shouldn't tell friends about their fuck.

It's also clear that one should take control of FB's cock/pussy and tell them if it's OK or not for them to use their cock/pussy on other people, because clearly they can't judge that by themselves.

It's also clear that you don't need to ask for someone permission to know that fucking it's friend's FB almost daily whist refusing and blocking other guys on fab, it's just wrong .

So I learnt.

If you want someone to yourself then tell them they are not allowed to use their on body on others, no matter if you are in a relationship or not and no matter if it's their body or not. I also learnt that friendship is worth preserving and no matter the situation, you shouldn't fuck other's FB wether they permit it or not.

In conclusion, I learnt that although it's fab, you should never, ever mix your friends with your FB. It always ends up in drama.

Thank you all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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This in my opinion is not how friendship works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never do that to a friend.my mates mean the world to me.big no from me

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

There is not even the chance that I would meet up with him or her once, in that situation

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Clearly although the term fuck buddy is being used for your best friend it is more than that.

If the guy views it as a fb situation then things are already in trouble as they are not on the same page.

Bringing you in probably wasn't a great move.

The fact that anyone feels the need to ask permission :/ means you and he know her feelings.

Sounds like he needs to walk away from both of you

You need to decide if your best friend is worth more than the guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I manage to have sex with the same people as some of my friends and there's never any 'drama'... Probably because we communicate about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stealing is a crime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is a fuck worth losing a friend over OP? If yes then you were never her friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is a fuck worth losing a friend over OP? If yes then you were never her friend."
I got the feeling its her friend rather than the op doing the deed with her friends fb. I could be wrong

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