FabSwingers.com forum: Tell tale signs of a time waster..

By *wilight Payment OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall

What are the tell tale signs that you have found of someone that is wasting your time?

Other than the obvious (lacking face pics/verifications) For me the main two are:

-failing to answer questions directly

-asking for other forms of social media too soon (weird: think they want to perv)

Time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both wrong. We've had time wasters that have provided face pics and are verified.

Much harder to tell unless you are looking to meet someone with 10+ veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to the world of fab!

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By *wilight Payment OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall

"Welcome to the world of fab!

It's a shame because I've thoroughly enjoyed 90% of it

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

Mine was loads of messages then the dreaded UNLOS.

Still got all made up and found someone to have fun with.

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By *erfumedpornovampireWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

I've been blocked on here by someone who called me a time waster as I couldn't make it to a meet when I'd met him twice already. He knows I'm disabled as well which is why I couldn't make it. His loss

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

"I've been blocked on here by someone who called me a time waster as I couldn't make it to a meet when I'd met him twice already. He knows I'm disabled as well which is why I couldn't make it. His loss

well we'd all love to comment on your profile... but guess what its hidden!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You got kik??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Avoiding direct questions isn't necessarily a timewaster trait, but it is a red flag for us.

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By *wilight Payment OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall

"You got kik?? "

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got called a fake and a time waster, by a couple who contacted me initially, for asking for a face pic after supplying them with a pic of mine..

Didn't think it was unreasonable to see what they looked like prior to meeting.

Biggest flags are too many ping pong messages. The people who.meet agree very quickly and stick.to the arrangements

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By *wilight Payment OP Man
over a year ago

Birstall

"I got called a fake and a time waster, by a couple who contacted me initially, for asking for a face pic after supplying them with a pic of mine..

Didn't think it was unreasonable to see what they looked like prior to meeting.

Biggest flags are too many ping pong messages. The people who.meet agree very quickly and stick.to the arrangements "

Agree with the ping pong messages - there's one thing getting to know someone and another thing knowing what their pet budgie has for supper.

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By *elnkazCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

"What are the tell tale signs that you have found of someone that is wasting your time?

Other than the obvious (lacking face pics/verifications) For me the main two are:

-failing to answer questions directly.

-asking for other forms of social media too soon (weird: think they want to perv)

Time wasters

When I had my single account and got chatting to a guy. I coukd usually tell he was a timewaster as everytime I arranged to meet he would come up with some excuse but want to talk dirty to me via messages... I soon learnt.... oh I love that block button ...l

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a plethora of ways folk can waste your time. Some are just after pics. Others may like to keep you dangling on their metaphorical hook with false promises of intent. Still others seem to get what they desire from you agreeing to meet and then shut down afterwards as that is the culmination of their desire. Meh! It happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We found that profiles of couples that are quite new (like us) but only have one or two cam verifications and state FF play and own partners to watch or only play with own partners. We admit this was our initial first rung on the swinging ladder but soon realised there's much more to it than that. We now see these profiles as belonging to very insecure couples that are not really ready to swing.

Then you've got the quote obvious 'couple' profile that is clearly just the husband on here without the wife's knowledge.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"I got called a fake and a time waster, by a couple who contacted me initially, for asking for a face pic after supplying them with a pic of mine..

Didn't think it was unreasonable to see what they looked like prior to meeting.

Biggest flags are too many ping pong messages. The people who.meet agree very quickly and stick.to the arrangements

Agree with the ping pong messages - there's one thing getting to know someone and another thing knowing what their pet budgie has for supper."

Nope I can ping pong message for months. I enjoy it. And it helps me decide if I like someone.

And I'm very good at avoiding a direct question too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got called a fake and a time waster, by a couple who contacted me initially, for asking for a face pic after supplying them with a pic of mine..

Didn't think it was unreasonable to see what they looked like prior to meeting.

Biggest flags are too many ping pong messages. The people who.meet agree very quickly and stick.to the arrangements

Agree with the ping pong messages - there's one thing getting to know someone and another thing knowing what their pet budgie has for supper.

Nope I can ping pong message for months. I enjoy it. And it helps me decide if I like someone.

And I'm very good at avoiding a direct question too.

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there's a distinct difference between flirting online and ping pong meaningless delaying messages. I'm guessing that you are good at keeping the flirting going...

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