FabSwingers.com forum: What do people put as there open msg

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering how people make they msg stand out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what her profile says...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

May be am to nice but good morning how is your day going

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Usually we just receive "hi" or "howz yous" ...not sure if this is much help.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Be creative, be original, be yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't most guys to say "fancy a fuck" or similar?

I'm sure that works.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I use your shitter ?

It usually get me a nice reply

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Just wondering how people make they msg stand out "

Hard to say without knowing what other messages say really....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my limited experience people check out your profile before even reading your message so get that sorted before you send a message.

Make sure that you have read their profile and attach relevant pics

Don't be upset if you get no reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How much does a polar bear weigh?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"May be am to nice but good morning how is your day going "

Did you not do this thread last week?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How much does a polar bear weigh?"

More at the pole than at the equator.....it's a gravity thing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you need to put the effort in OP ..

read the profile and tailor your message to that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How much does a polar bear weigh?

More at the pole than at the equator.....it's a gravity thing!"

I would say 'enough to break the ice'

& that's how I open a message

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"May be am to nice but good morning how is your day going

Did you not do this thread last week?

I also look at the profile first, if there are no public pics I'm not interested (even if they have attached one) Because it makes the profile look lazy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But not ever one want people to no they r on fab it might be work or something

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"But not ever one want people to no they r on fab it might be work or something "

I'm not saying it has to be your face, I'm sure your work colleagues do not see intimate parts of your body on a daily basis do they? ie chest, back physic etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"But not ever one want people to no they r on fab it might be work or something

I'm not saying it has to be your face, I'm sure your work colleagues do not see intimate parts of your body on a daily basis do they? ie chest, back physic etc

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that a good point

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Just wondering how people make they msg stand out "

Maybe read the advice on your other post, on the same subject, running on here.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brace yourself love......

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"But not ever one want people to no they r on fab it might be work or something

I'm not saying it has to be your face, I'm sure your work colleagues do not see intimate parts of your body on a daily basis do they? ie chest, back physic etc

that a good point "

Exactly I have plenty on mine, but my tattoos are never on show, most people at my work don't even know I have them never mind seen them, so they are plenty of pics you can post to pique interest

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"May be am to nice but good morning how is your day going

Did you not do this thread last week?

Yes, its still running..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not the same

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Not the same "

Please use the quote and reply so we know who you are speaking to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not the same

Please use the quote and reply so we know who you are speaking to

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ok sorry

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Not the same "

If you are talking about the title of your posts, it is the same thing, worded slightly differently. If you read back through the advice given on your first thread, the general consensus of opinion, is that you need to have an interesting profile with some pics on, otherwise the majority of people will just delete your message, without even reading it. Loads of single guys on here with great profiles and pics, these are the one's who are likely to get replies to their messages and I'm sure many of them will tell you, they still struggle getting replies.

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By *un4allxMan
over a year ago

Altarnun

"I'm behind you, don't look round"

Just kidding, might freak them out.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

OP Whatever you put in your opening message you are unlikely to get a reply because of your black shadow avatar.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi,,,ive been following for weeks

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"OP Whatever you put in your opening message you are unlikely to get a reply because of your black shadow avatar.

Sally"

You are right Sally. This is what a lot of posters were advising him in his other thread...!!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"hi,,,ive been following for weeks

Hope you're not stalking...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually with "hi wnt 2 sck my cock u dirty slut"

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some of it is similar to most but always part of it personalised - dont get many deleted straight off - but then choosy who gets messages

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Usually with "hi wnt 2 sck my cock u dirty slut"

~Mia"

Yeah, that would work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect that you may be straying into dangerous territory here OP as I'm pretty sure we're not allowed to discuss the content of private messages in the forum, but I think Admin would be better place to clarify this.

Also, having read a number of threads and statuses over the years complaining of 'copy and paste' messages, I would gather that some may be of the opinion that using the same, generic message to everyone might fall into this category and might be interpreted by the recipient has having been sent by someone who hasn't read their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually we just receive "hi" or "howz yous" ...not sure if this is much help."

Annoying isn't it? As a straight guy, you'd think gay guys would try and woo me with more than ''Hi''

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually with "hi wnt 2 sck my cock u dirty slut"

~Mia

Yeah, that would work for me

.."

Drop the panties there and then

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't most guys to say "fancy a fuck" or similar?

I'm sure that works.....

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lmao

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I suspect that you may be straying into dangerous territory here OP as I'm pretty sure we're not allowed to discuss the content of private messages in the forum, but I think Admin would be better place to clarify this.

Most of our messages are from people who don't read our profile!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Usually with "hi wnt 2 sck my cock u dirty slut"

~Mia

Yeah, that would work for me

Drop the panties there and then

~Mia"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of our messages are from people who don't read our profile!

You may be surprised to read this, but us single guys also suffer from this, so it's not just the menfolk of fab who aren't reading profiles

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Most of our messages are from people who don't read our profile!

You may be surprised to read this, but us single guys also suffer from this, so it's not just the menfolk of fab who aren't reading profiles"

I'm not surprised, at all and it is mainly couples who don't read our profiles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wondering how people make they msg stand out "

I always go with the truth

"Wow I can't believe they let my join this site in prison"

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

Hi big boy do you want your cock sucked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi big boy do you want your cock sucked "

Yeah that would work with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey im free now, the misses is out. Fancy a 5 min fuck before i have to go?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

What we all said in your identical post.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"What we all said in your identical post. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What we all said in your identical post. "

Ah yes, the all revealing Green Arrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually start with hi im Fred Flinstone can i make your bedrock? Im only jokin btw lol

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

"What we all said in your identical post.

Ah yes, the all revealing Green Arrow"
wow i only just found it

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"What we all said in your identical post.

Ah yes, the all revealing Green Arrow wow i only just found it

Yep, he's only posted twice on the forums and they are both exactly the same question within hours.

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

"May be am to nice but good morning how is your day going "

I'm sorry I love the Welsh accent & im sure if I heard you say those words I'd melt, but aht messages inget like that f that just at hi get instantly deleted as I feel like the person is expecting me to start up a conversation

I'd rather they make some comment as to my profile and preferences

Another pet hate is 'I have good oral skills and want to lick your pussy' when my profile clearly states I don't enjoy that, it shows they haven't read our profile, so that's an instant delete too

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By *imited 3EditionCouple
over a year ago

Live in Scotland Play in England

"From my limited experience people check out your profile before even reading your message so get that sorted before you send a message.

Make sure that you have read their profile and attach relevant pics

Don't be upset if you get no reply."

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Be polite and make it more than 1 line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't matter what a guy puts in his first message, nobody reads them anyway!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"It doesn't matter what a guy puts in his first message, nobody reads them anyway!

I'm sure they do, if they are looking for a single guy and he has a decent profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't matter what a guy puts in his first message, nobody reads them anyway!

I'm sure they do, if they are looking for a single guy and he has a decent profile

Yep we always read our message. Whether we reply or not is another matter. If anyone is rude or demeaning in any way we just ignore them

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't most guys to say "fancy a fuck" or similar?

I'm sure that works.....

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lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've homed my opening gambit to....

F.A.F?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've homed my opening gambit to....

F.A.F?"
I never recieve a first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another annoying one is when women message with a one word sentence. They tend to do the old "hi" as well because they think we'll try to fuck anything with a fanny.

Delete for no effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another annoying one is when women message with a one word sentence. They tend to do the old "hi" as well because they think we'll try to fuck anything with a fanny.

Delete for no effort."

This bugs the crap out of me to. It normally happens this time of night. I got one last weekend from a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face pic??grrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another annoying one is when women message with a one word sentence. They tend to do the old "hi" as well because they think we'll try to fuck anything with a fanny.

Delete for no effort.

This bugs the crap out of me to. It normally happens this time of night. I got one last weekend from a couple. "

Exactly. lt's basically saying ''l find you attractive but l can't be arsed putting any effort in because l think the man should do that and l'm lazy. Please wow me and make me laugh too''

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always polite and curtoiois mostly get ignored though

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"May be am to nice but good morning how is your day going "

Yawn!

One good morning to you maybe fine

Put yourself in the woman's place...

Do you want a whole inbox of nothing but

Morning how are you

Not saying it isn't polite but you have to make yourself stand out

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"May be am to nice but good morning how is your day going

Did you not do this thread last week?

Yes... he has another post

Clearly didn't like the answers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read the guys profile... says nothing on it I move on ... Guy messages me I reply either way... the person has taken the time to write me so only nice to at least say no thank you... like guys that are honest and have a sense of humour ...

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