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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I'm at work the other day and a couple of ladies I work with start asking me about sex and whether I've slept with any black ladies (they are black too). So I answer yes after a couple of questions about if I notice much difference between white and black ladies I thought the conversation was dead. Suddenly out the blue I get asked if I have a big dick anyway one of the lady's tells me she's checked out my bulge and it's big. Now I can handle sex talk but this was somewhat embarrassing. Since this day I've been asked by one of the women what type of black woman I slept with.

I'm confused as to what is happening? Am I being checked out or am I reading into things too much?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask your husband

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Don't know,but that's a bit awkward at work isn't it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ask your husband "

I am the husband. And I'm only asking not thinking of acting on it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't know,but that's a bit awkward at work isn't it! "

Certainly is, I understand it from men but not women.

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

What type of black women you slept with?? In what context??

But yes, you're being groomed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm at work the other day and a couple of ladies I work with start asking me about sex and whether I've slept with any black ladies (they are black too). So I answer yes after a couple of questions about if I notice much difference between white and black ladies I thought the conversation was dead. Suddenly out the blue I get asked if I have a big dick anyway one of the lady's tells me she's checked out my bulge and it's big. Now I can handle sex talk but this was somewhat embarrassing. Since this day I've been asked by one of the women what type of black woman I slept with.

I'm confused as to what is happening? Am I being checked out or am I reading into things too much?"

If you were female, being approached by males the words 'sexual harrassment' would surely have come up by now.

It's inappropriate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

women love to tease eh - but yes inappropriate questioning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ask your husband

I am the husband. And I'm only asking not thinking of acting on it. "

I was being silly just for a change. My mind goes off on it's own sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was the other way around it would more than likely be construed as unwanted sexual behaviour at work and lead to a HR case. Why is it OK for women to do this and think it's fine tho.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"If it was the other way around it would more than likely be construed as unwanted sexual behaviour at work and lead to a HR case. Why is it OK for women to do this and think it's fine tho. "

It's not OK for women to act this way. If this was a union member I represented, I would be advising him to lodge a formal grievance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you were female, being approached by males the words 'sexual harrassment' would surely have come up by now.

It's inappropriate."

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was once asked by a colleague what I looked for in a woman. A bit embarrassed I made a joke of it and replied A comedian in the living room, a chef in the kitchen and a whore in the bedroom. She looked me dead straight in the eye and said " I can't cook and I'm not funny. Sadly I already had a g/f at the time so never got to find out if she could cook.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"If it was the other way around it would more than likely be construed as unwanted sexual behaviour at work and lead to a HR case. Why is it OK for women to do this and think it's fine tho. "

It's not OK. OP should be reporting this.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

You can find a way of telling them you're embarrassed and feel it's inappropriate.

It certainly isn't ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an innappropriate story about work but i cant say in the forum, but happy to tell if you want to know in private message. I couldnt believe it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh how I'd fucking love to see the forum reaction if it was a female asking this about male co workers

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I think they are having some fun, by imagining you are more prudish than you actually are , and that their questions will either embarrass you or turn you on.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Oh how I'd fucking love to see the forum reaction if it was a female asking this about male co workers "

Lots have said 'report them'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh how I'd fucking love to see the forum reaction if it was a female asking this about male co workers

Lots have said 'report them'. "

Which I've seen. But I'm fairly confident that if the genders were switched it would cause a lot more outrage.

I've seen plenty of things in the workplace where If genders were switched the outcome would be completely different. Violence and intimidation being the main one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So far I've not found it particularly embarrassing or creepy just more not sure what's happening. I will try and talk to her as wait for it but I'm her manager!!!

I'm reasonably private at work so haven't mentioned being a swinger as I know that's very inappropriate plus know how people judge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So far I've not found it particularly embarrassing or creepy just more not sure what's happening. I will try and talk to her as wait for it but I'm her manager!!!

I'm reasonably private at work so haven't mentioned being a swinger as I know that's very inappropriate plus know how people judge.

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i would be very careful at trying to talk to her/them about it apart from saying that you think the chat is somewhat inappropriate

unfortunately i can see if you say something beyond that it could soon be turned and made into a bigger issue where as a man you might be seen to be in the wong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What type of black women you slept with?? In what context??

But yes, you're being groomed.

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Only African ladies to date. But apart from that there's bugger all difference between any lady.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So far I've not found it particularly embarrassing or creepy just more not sure what's happening. I will try and talk to her as wait for it but I'm her manager!!!

I'm reasonably private at work so haven't mentioned being a swinger as I know that's very inappropriate plus know how people judge.

i would be very careful at trying to talk to her/them about it apart from saying that you think the chat is somewhat inappropriate

unfortunately i can see if you say something beyond that it could soon be turned and made into a bigger issue where as a man you might be seen to be in the wong"

That's what I'm afraid of.

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