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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

morning, has anyone browsed profiles and thought to try someone a lot younger than they are, and if you did was it sccessful and did you enjoy it?

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"morning, has anyone browsed profiles and thought to try someone a lot younger than they are, and if you did was it sccessful and did you enjoy it?"

No I have limit to my age range. Too young and it would feel very wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

had msg of a 20 yearold for meet, been chatting a while now thats all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard for us because we are 22 and 21 and people wont give us the time of day, we know what we want....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a 25 yr old lad, luckily he found a girlfriend so I didn't have to think up an excuse why I wouldn't take it further as it just scared the hell out of me, shagging someone seriously outside of my age preference and nearer my kids age group. Never again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's of an adult mind and if she perks your interest why not?

Depends on the woman, an 18 year old may be quite savy and sophisticated and a 24 year old may be an emotional retard. Which would you choose and who would you do the most harm to in the long run if things didnt go well (by that I mean there wasnt any sort of spark for you when you met?)

So anyway if you find her attractive why not is what I guess im saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's of an adult mind and if she perks your interest why not?

Depends on the woman, an 18 year old may be quite savy and sophisticated and a 24 year old may be an emotional retard. Which would you choose and who would you do the most harm to in the long run if things didnt go well (by that I mean there wasnt any sort of spark for you when you met?)

So anyway if you find her attractive why not is what I guess im saying "

If you were commenting on what i have said, it was a LAD not a LADY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's hard for us because we are 22 and 21 and people wont give us the time of day, we know what we want.... "

It's five to seven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's hard for us because we are 22 and 21 and people wont give us the time of day, we know what we want....

It's five to seven "

OO thanks muchly xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's of an adult mind and if she perks your interest why not?

Depends on the woman, an 18 year old may be quite savy and sophisticated and a 24 year old may be an emotional retard. Which would you choose and who would you do the most harm to in the long run if things didnt go well (by that I mean there wasnt any sort of spark for you when you met?)

So anyway if you find her attractive why not is what I guess im saying

If you were commenting on what i have said, it was a LAD not a LADY "

Sorry no was just my two pennies on the op's conundrum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She's of an adult mind and if she perks your interest why not?

Depends on the woman, an 18 year old may be quite savy and sophisticated and a 24 year old may be an emotional retard. Which would you choose and who would you do the most harm to in the long run if things didnt go well (by that I mean there wasnt any sort of spark for you when you met?)

So anyway if you find her attractive why not is what I guess im saying

If you were commenting on what i have said, it was a LAD not a LADY

Sorry no was just my two pennies on the op's conundrum "

Except they havent said whether it was a male or female only that its 20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we experimented with a younger guy once but he just got rediculously clingy and would not leave us alone,never ever again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To some peopel ages are not that relevent. To me, the fact that you asked that makes me think you aren;t 100% comfortable so to me, and for that reason alone, it should be a no.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

If they are over the age of consent - I see no problem. Having said that - it is unlikely that they would want me (although I'm eternally grateful to those who simply adore the older gent).

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

The youngest person I've met was 26.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I have been told off by friends that I should try the younger guy....ie in 20's, tried chatting on msn to one or two and I'm sorry the imaturity soon got in the way, if I couldn't handle it on msn there is no way I could handle it in real life, ie on a meet in my own house, so sorry to all you youngsters xx

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Yep thats our thing. Lovely guys who are gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I placed my post about the younger ones and realised this was here after, beaten again, argh, dont you just hate that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The youngest person I've met was 26."

The youngest girl I've met was 14

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Mind you.......I was only 14 myself too!

Go on admit it........I gotcha! R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

49 + 20 ... I would think that's wrong. We never met guys under 30.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been told off by friends that I should try the younger guy....ie in 20's, tried chatting on msn to one or two and I'm sorry the imaturity soon got in the way, if I couldn't handle it on msn there is no way I could handle it in real life, ie on a meet in my own house, so sorry to all you youngsters xx"

AGREES!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my general rule is if i am genetically old enough to be their dad, then i stay clear. ok there is a couple of year leaway but u get my drift

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 up is fine for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tiger is quite a bit younger than me but we did not meet on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my general rule is if i am genetically old enough to be their dad, then i stay clear. ok there is a couple of year leaway but u get my drift "

What's the age at which a guy can father a child then? I would guess it is quite young which does not give you that much leeway.

I think people who have this viewpoint are confusing the issue. The peeps you play with are not related to you? I really do not understand this barrier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no under 35 for me like my people taught am not in to teaching young ones ...plus have daughter 21 ...i do get loads offers though no thanks not for me like mature people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"49 + 20 ... I would think that's wrong. We never met guys under 30. "

Definitely agree there

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By *ours BlancMan
over a year ago

east mids

this topic always makes me laugh on here when lovely ladies insist on how wrong the older younger thing is! its not wrong its just your prefrence! the whole maturity side of things is a load of bull also a very stero typical! ive only had the pleasure of ladies alot older than myself as this is my prefrence! and never has conversation been an issue or common intrests for that matter! but saying that what would i know??? im more than likely just another young arrogant single male on here looking sleep with everything thing with a pulse haha!

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By *ours BlancMan
over a year ago

east mids

and apologies for the bad spelling and grammar! ; )

x

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

If you're both comfortable with playing and are both mature about it then why not?

At the same time I fully understand peoples who do set age restrictions, they are often based on the age of their own grown up children.

The point is you decide what works for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally, they would be 42

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"Ideally, they would be 42 "

Damn, 2 years waiting with cobwebs on my pulling pants!

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By *s_4_uCouple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire


"this topic always makes me laugh on here when lovely ladies insist on how wrong the older younger thing is! its not wrong its just your prefrence! the whole maturity side of things is a load of bull also a very stero typical! ive only had the pleasure of ladies alot older than myself as this is my prefrence! and never has conversation been an issue or common intrests for that matter! but saying that what would i know??? im more than likely just another young arrogant single male on here looking sleep with everything thing with a pulse haha!

x"

Well said, makes my blood boil this subject. why do people say young people rnt mature ok some arent some are. same as older people some are and some arent.

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By *ours BlancMan
over a year ago

east mids

i understand the concept of the age of your grown up children matter! how ever if your child is a 5'2 petie blonde hair dresser! and the possible male is a 6'4 18 stone bearded bodybuilder with a degree in quantum physics! can you really put the two people in the same catergory based purely on there age with out even talking to them? the people used are just examples but im sure you understand my point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ideally, they would be 42

Damn, 2 years waiting with cobwebs on my pulling pants! "

You make a decent sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its not wrong its just your prefrence! x"

You should have ended your post there! Your experience is true to YOU, other's experience is true to THEM.

To dismiss other peoples point of view shows your...erm immaturity!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i understand the concept of the age of your grown up children matter! how ever if your child is a 5'2 petie blonde hair dresser! and the possible male is a 6'4 18 stone bearded bodybuilder with a degree in quantum physics! can you really put the two people in the same catergory based purely on there age with out even talking to them? the people used are just examples but im sure you understand my point?"

But you seem to be missing and disrespecting the views of others! No one is saying young people shouldn't be here, no one is saying a 55 year old man shouldn't get it on with an 18 year old girl, what some of us are saying is WE don't feel comfortable playing with people the same age as our children!

Some people don't want to play with fat people, some don't want to play with short people, some don't want to play with those outside their own ethnic group. It doesn't mean any "isms" are in play, just that people have their own comfort zone, and it shows a total lack of maturity and respect for others if you can't recognise that!

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By *ours BlancMan
over a year ago

east mids

i seem to have got quite a reaction from you with my comments but from what i have said i never dismissed anyones views and simply said it was there prefrence! and then followed with my endevours to show that other people have success and fully enjoy wider age range encounters! with my following post after i simply asked a question in a forum?? which wasnt a provocative question?? so why youve decide to take a negative stance towards me im unsure?

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By *ours BlancMan
over a year ago

east mids


"i understand the concept of the age of your grown up children matter! how ever if your child is a 5'2 petie blonde hair dresser! and the possible male is a 6'4 18 stone bearded bodybuilder with a degree in quantum physics! can you really put the two people in the same catergory based purely on there age with out even talking to them? the people used are just examples but im sure you understand my point?

But you seem to be missing and disrespecting the views of others! No one is saying young people shouldn't be here, no one is saying a 55 year old man shouldn't get it on with an 18 year old girl, what some of us are saying is WE don't feel comfortable playing with people the same age as our children!

Some people don't want to play with fat people, some don't want to play with short people, some don't want to play with those outside their own ethnic group. It doesn't mean any "isms" are in play, just that people have their own comfort zone, and it shows a total lack of maturity and respect for others if you can't recognise that!"

ive re read my message and the only dissmal was the comment about people of certain being immature and me following by saying its aload of bull! so really if your going to defend someone thats willing to sterotype people of certain age saying they are all immature openly in forum! im sorry but thats very narrow minded and then to have to ordasity to call me immature is quite shocking really!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

just to clear age thing up, years ago when i was 20 i shagged my mums mate for 3 days, it was the best bloody lesson i had in how to entertain a woman , i recommend it to any young lad, and no my mum doesnt know!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a 22year old round the other week. He was a fit bit of eye candy. Good on the eye and a nice toned body. But I do find with younger men is that what they make up for in stamina they lack in finesse. Just my personal experience not saying all younger people are like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So tell me how do you view older men with younger fems?. That was the ops question!.

Its strange that when i think of older guys with younger fems. It rubs me up the wrong way. Yet have no problems with older fems with younger guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have met pople who are in their 50s and it doesnt bother me and i am only 27. i had a great time playing with them.

***her***

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So tell me how do you view older men with younger fems?. That was the ops question!.

Its strange that when i think of older guys with younger fems. It rubs me up the wrong way. Yet have no problems with older fems with younger guys.

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and just to add another angle, what about same sex older with younger ?

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By *s_4_uCouple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire


"i understand the concept of the age of your grown up children matter! how ever if your child is a 5'2 petie blonde hair dresser! and the possible male is a 6'4 18 stone bearded bodybuilder with a degree in quantum physics! can you really put the two people in the same catergory based purely on there age with out even talking to them? the people used are just examples but im sure you understand my point?

But you seem to be missing and disrespecting the views of others! No one is saying young people shouldn't be here, no one is saying a 55 year old man shouldn't get it on with an 18 year old girl, what some of us are saying is WE don't feel comfortable playing with people the same age as our children!

Some people don't want to play with fat people, some don't want to play with short people, some don't want to play with those outside their own ethnic group. It doesn't mean any "isms" are in play, just that people have their own comfort zone, and it shows a total lack of maturity and respect for others if you can't recognise that!

ive re read my message and the only dissmal was the comment about people of certain being immature and me following by saying its aload of bull! so really if your going to defend someone thats willing to sterotype people of certain age saying they are all immature openly in forum! im sorry but thats very narrow minded and then to have to ordasity to call me immature is quite shocking really! "
like button pressed !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to throw in another spanner.......

I am 50, I am the same age as George Clooney, Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp..........

Tell me ladies on here of ALL ages

Who would not fuck any of the above men....

So when an 18yr old has a crush on Brad Pitt and people think its OK to fantasise about sex with him then why not the same with an ordinary guy of similar age....

Same goes with women...... The trio from Friends are now 40+ and how many guys on here aged 18-100 would not give their eye teeth for a fuck with any of them.

I have 2 kids aged 31 and 29...I do on occasion socialise with them and their friends....If I was comfortable enough with their company and they mine then why the hell not.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In this country we are all horrified with the amount of paedophilia rings etc that are kicking about that people automatically label guys over 40 who are seeing younger women especially those under 25 as perverts and should be castrated....

Hence the reason this thread becomes a hot and emotional topic

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Consenting adults.

Personal choice.

It really is that simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Consenting adults.

Personal choice.

It really is that simple. "

so what is the definition of an 'adult' ?

the legal age of sexual consent is 16 but i think most people would regard 18 and above as 'adult'

when i was in my early 30's, i had a group session with 3 others and was mortified to find out 2/3 days afterwards that 1 of them was only 16. i assumed (wrongly, with hindsight) that as his mates were in their early 20's he was of a similar age.

i have been uber cautious since (hence my over 25 barrier).

although once, i had 1 lad offer me his student ID as proof of age. quite sweet in a way. could have just hugged him - but he had other ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest as I grew up, I have never been attracted to anyone outside of my age and I have no intention starting now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are the long established fantasies of young men looking for the experience of an older woman/MILF and the middle aged man looking for a 'younger woman' to reaffirm his virility. we are on this site to fulfil fantasies and to engage in 'non-mainstream activities' that the rest of society thinks of as potentially immoral. If all parties to a meeting are adults and consenting then is it wrong if there is an age gap?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think there are the long established fantasies of young men looking for the experience of an older woman/MILF and the middle aged man looking for a 'younger woman' to reaffirm his virility. we are on this site to fulfil fantasies and to engage in 'non-mainstream activities' that the rest of society thinks of as potentially immoral. If all parties to a meeting are adults and consenting then is it wrong if there is an age gap? "

For me yes but thats just my choice and preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i met a much older woman than myself ( by 10 years ) and it was a great time.

its just a number.

as long as you look after yourself you can enjoy this for many years.

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