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By *CER.J OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester

Iv been on this site for a while now.And have been knocked back more time,s than I care to mention. so what do you do when it appears your just no one,s type.I'm polite and thought I was reasonably good looking but since being on hear I starting to think otherwise has anyone else had the same experience.i thought butie came in a shapes and sizes but it seems I'm wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sorry to hear that OP, maybe try a different approach ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Go to a sex club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You had a meet a few weeks ago, so you're doing better than a lot of guys.

Don't let it get you down, don't take this place so seriously and just let it happen. Persistence pays, but don't obsess over this stuff!

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By *aneSmith5TV/TS
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Sadly, most on here have no intention of ever meeting and just play games.

Be patient, there are some genuine members on here.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Try reading the replies to others asking the same question.

The solution doesn't change...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worth what? As a single guy on Fab you are supposed to spend months sending out dozens and dozens of messages, each individually crafted to the particular profiles of the women in question. Your profile has to be a work of literature. The reason for that is that there really are actually very few women on here. Of course you could just treat it all as a laugh and if something happens then fine. But really, don't pin all your hopes on this site...

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By *Devil77Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

just hang in there op, theirs someone else feeling the same as you looking for you, they just haven't found you yet.

us guys are a premium, the lovely ladies have to sift though the others to find you

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

Chin up dude

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By *CER.J OP   Man
over a year ago

Winchester

Thanx for all the messages I.l be taking the advice on board..

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Thanx for all the messages I.l be taking the advice on board.."

More than the last time you asked 3 months ago?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You had a meet a few weeks ago, so you're doing better than a lot of guys.

Don't let it get you down, don't take this place so seriously and just let it happen. Persistence pays, but don't obsess over this stuff!"

What he said^^. And don't take it personally, it's got nothing to do with what you look like. Maybe you're trying too hard, maybe you're not putting enough effort/imagination into your messages. Who knows!?!

You could put more info into your profile. What are your like/dislikes etc.

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By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop

Keep your pecker up mate and always be polite and nice, its a reflection on yourself...

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mother always said " Every pot has a lid "

Your lid is out there , just don't give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't let it bother you and don't let the women on here define what you think of yourself.

You should understand that for some of them, rejecting is part of the fun.

Fab is where ugly people can be Queen and the attractive are the irrelevant. Not to worry.

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax


"My mother always said " Every pot has a lid "

Your lid is out there , just don't give up."

Ha that's a new one I like it

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By *reakShow90Man
over a year ago

Manchester/halifax

Hey OP I use this as more of a watered down face book never had any meets off here but have met people off this site at clubs best thing I could say it get out there go to the club or 2 and get meeting others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say you've got a decent profile and photos that are something different than the usual cock pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear you OP, I've given up trying to meet on here, I just read the forums and check the hot pictures everyday!

Messaging women was pretty fruitless, on the off chance that someone did message back we never got as far as meeting.

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