FabSwingers.com forum: Tips on fingering a lady

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What tips have you guys or girls got for giving the perfect finger to a lady and making her orgasm and squirt?

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By *aysmitMan
over a year ago

walsall

Lots of lube and start off gentle

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"What tips have you guys or girls got for giving the perfect finger to a lady and making her orgasm and squirt?"

Well first thing's first ensure she actually wants to squirt!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Even if she doesnt i still want to master the fingering lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Practice and be gentle. It take time to learn and remember everyone is different!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fingerblast her tiger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every woman likes different things.

Some prefer external stimulation, some prefer internal, some prefer both.

Some can squirt, some can't.

Some want to squirt, some don't.

Some prefer a gentle touch, some prefer a more forceful touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trim those nails!

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By *tarlord6969Man
over a year ago

stockport

top tip!!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Pretend her quim is a xbox controller.

Or find out what she likes and try not to believe there is a one finger fits all rulebook.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clean the smeg from under your fingernails. Insert said fingers. Do it to however the lady likes it. Some like rough, others gentle, some a bit of both. The best advice is to ask a few questions maybe. Don't go in full pelt if she likes a more gentle touch. Everyone is different and mastering one may not be right for the next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her whilst you touch her. Look into her eyes , you will know if she's enjoying it just by looking at her.

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By *icurguycovMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Get her to fuck herself with a dildo as you tickle her clit, gently at first. When she's come you can increase the pressure. She can suck your cock at the same time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make sure your hands are clean first, use a couple of fingers at first, finger her whilst licking and sucking her clit

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

Pay attention to her reactions and be prepared to multi task

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By *nequeenslutWoman
over a year ago

rugeley

"Every woman likes different things.

Some prefer external stimulation, some prefer internal, some prefer both.

Some can squirt, some can't.

Some want to squirt, some don't.

Some prefer a gentle touch, some prefer a more forceful touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually start rubbing slowly on the clit then gently insert the middle finger, slowly sliding it in and out, getting deeper and I hook my finger up and rub the top wall, then I slide in another finger and do the same motions, slowly separating the two fingers then putting them back together. I usually find this technique works with most women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

start by rubbing her clit

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Circling around the clit gently is usually a good place to start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What tips have you guys or girls got for giving the perfect finger to a lady and making her orgasm and squirt?"

Absolutely no fingerblasting!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask the lady as we are all different

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By *ick RapidMan
over a year ago

coventry

That's right there

Start of by rubbing her pussy threw her knickers you will be able to tell what she likes

If she puts your hand down there she wants your fingers inside

If not she she is a clit chick

Maybe both

Depending on your technique

Your best to have multiple techniques because different woman like deifferent but some like new things so learn my friend it's like martial arts

It's a craft

Have style

Always " finish her"

Mortal combat style

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Even if she doesnt i still want to master the fingering lol"

Do exactly the same thing to every single woman you meet as we are all exactly the same with exactly the same wants, needs and desires.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trim those nails! "

Exactly what I was going to say!

Softly and build pace, don't start poking and jabbing about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get her to fuck herself with a dildo as you tickle her clit, gently at first. When she's come you can increase the pressure. She can suck your cock at the same time."
feck sakes why would u increase presure once she's done

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

some men i have met are experts at this, they have very short fingernails and small fingers are best, use lube gently massage the clit and around it with one finger only, dont put the finger inside just concentrate on the clit and around it. This is what i like and if hes patient and i feel relaxed with him then i will cum. I have no desire to squirt either. If he doesnt do it how i like it i can always use my rabbit vibrator.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

short nails and dont ram them home - sheesh -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even if she doesnt i still want to master the fingering lol

Do exactly the same thing to every single woman you meet as we are all exactly the same with exactly the same wants, needs and desires."

Had to laugh!!

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By *aris69Couple
over a year ago

Cambridgeshire

Ask my husband he has this down to a fine art all about hitting the g spot I can't get enough niagra falls is all I can say hell yes

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By *e ja vue 2Couple
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

Mr totally agree with the short nails........... yet seen mrs de ja with nails done in a salon 1/2 inch long fingering women and they have never complained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get her to fuck herself with a dildo as you tickle her clit, gently at first. When she's come you can increase the pressure. She can suck your cock at the same time. feck sakes why would u increase presure once she's done "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask the lady as we are all different"

This makes me wonder, do women like to be asked or do they prefer a man who shows some initiative and reads your reactions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd just take two fingers to her pussay and pound away until it looks like a punched lasagne! I've never had any complaints!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd just take two fingers to her pussay and pound away until it looks like a punched lasagne! I've never had any complaints! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No rough nails or cuticles.

No pneumatic drilling of the cervix.

Two fingers in and curled towards wall of pubic bone. Do a cum here motion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start circling the clit with your finger slowly. Slide a finger inside every now and then till you can feel how wet she's getting. Then slip two fingers in and rub against the top wall. You will know you've hit her gspot by her reaction.

Then start to lick and suck on her clit whilst doing this and this will definitely give her a massive orgasm!!

Works with me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd just take two fingers to her pussay and pound away until it looks like a punched lasagne! I've never had any complaints!

I knew you would like that!!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"Ask the lady as we are all different

This makes me wonder, do women like to be asked or do they prefer a man who shows some initiative and reads your reactions?"

Communication is key the first couple of times but after that it's wonderful when your man can read your body and knows what you like. Another reason why I prefer repeat 'meets'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd just take two fingers to her pussay and pound away until it looks like a punched lasagne! I've never had any complaints!

I knew you would like that!!

I love being finger blasted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's about all the other things that come with it lots of kissing, tease taking your time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Short fingernails and invest in an emery board

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By *izbitMan
over a year ago

St Helens

Hitchhikers

tried and trusted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask the lady as we are all different

This makes me wonder, do women like to be asked or do they prefer a man who shows some initiative and reads your reactions?

Communication is key the first couple of times but after that it's wonderful when your man can read your body and knows what you like. Another reason why I prefer repeat 'meets'

This is really useful advice!

I would normally be too proud to ask I think, but it definitely makes sense to cut out the trial and error approach! Totally agree about repeat meets though, when you know what works it's great for all involved!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pay attention to her reactions and be prepared to multi task"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's about all the other things that come with it lots of kissing, tease taking your time x"

And this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd just take two fingers to her pussay and pound away until it looks like a punched lasagne! I've never had any complaints!

I knew you would like that!!

I love being finger blasted! "

Haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First tip is to actually have a lady to finger.

Most of which men on this site aren't so lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First tip is to actually have a lady to finger.

Most of which men on this site aren't so lucky

Very true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't. I have rarely been fingered well. Fucked well yes, but fingered....just no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just use your finger to point to the kitchen and then tell the bitch to make you sandwich.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't know how to fingerbang a girl, then don't. Fingers can bend in a way a cock can't, so if you just stick them in there, it feels like you are fucking with a tiny cock. You've got to insert, curve up and rake.

I guess practice makes perfect?

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