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By *angerdave OP   Man
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

I see a lot of ppl looking for clubs big women so why is there none for men or is it only men that like big ladys and not ladys that like big men so do you ladys like big men ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer the bigger Man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i vary, tend to go for one sort then another, or none at all and just whoever takes my fancy.

don't think there is a demand for big men really. despite women saying they like dad biod you can see it's the hot body guys on here who get most sexual attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly would have a dad bod than a 6 pack, just my preference, however my hopefully fuckbuddy ( we are friends but done everything but fuck yet lol ) is quite slim x

Surely its about the person not how they look x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a lot of ppl looking for clubs big women so why is there none for men or is it only men that like big ladys and not ladys that like big men so do you ladys like big men ???"

Because womens bodies have historically been fetishised and objectified. Being a fat bloke has always been acceptable. Look at all the fat blokes from history who are rich and sucessful. Nobody says that they should lose a bit of weight or they won't find a wife.

Being a woman is different though. You're expected to be slim. So at some point a load of blokes who liked bigger women and who fetishised them decided they should be referred to as 'big beautiful women', made internet sites devoted to them, and then held club nights where they could 'worship' them.

If you're bisexual you could look into chub and chaser nights - they are for fat gay men.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

There are, of course, alternative opinions available

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By *uthTVDerbysTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

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By *igtittedteaseWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I prefer bigger guys

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far

Hope this thread dnt turn nasty, well do op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a lot of ppl looking for clubs big women so why is there none for men or is it only men that like big ladys and not ladys that like big men so do you ladys like big men ???"

Basically, no youre pretty fucked to be honest. Youll prob have to go down the club/social route as youll be passed over for the fitter guys based on pics alone. If any woman says she'd pic a fat guy over a fit guy shes essentially lying, all other things being equal of course

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone


"I see a lot of ppl looking for clubs big women so why is there none for men or is it only men that like big ladys and not ladys that like big men so do you ladys like big men ???

Basically, no youre pretty fucked to be honest. Youll prob have to go down the club/social route as youll be passed over for the fitter guys based on pics alone. If any woman says she'd pic a fat guy over a fit guy shes essentially lying, all other things being equal of course"

I went out clubbing with my mate, not long after he'd split with his misses, spent all his time down the gym chiseling himself into a statue of david. I spent all nite getting chatted up and having my arse groped and by the end of the night he's like wtf, why do i even bother, i spend my life down the gym and you get all the attention. Lol, what can i say, ladies like a podge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a lot of ppl looking for clubs big women so why is there none for men or is it only men that like big ladys and not ladys that like big men so do you ladys like big men ???

Basically, no youre pretty fucked to be honest. Youll prob have to go down the club/social route as youll be passed over for the fitter guys based on pics alone. If any woman says she'd pic a fat guy over a fit guy shes essentially lying, all other things being equal of course

I went out clubbing with my mate, not long after he'd split with his misses, spent all his time down the gym chiseling himself into a statue of david. I spent all nite getting chatted up and having my arse groped and by the end of the night he's like wtf, why do i even bother, i spend my life down the gym and you get all the attention. Lol, what can i say, ladies like a podge "

Chances are it was prob his attitude or lack of acumen in a social situation that counted against him, not his physique.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a lot of ppl looking for clubs big women so why is there none for men or is it only men that like big ladys and not ladys that like big men so do you ladys like big men ???

Basically, no youre pretty fucked to be honest. Youll prob have to go down the club/social route as youll be passed over for the fitter guys based on pics alone. If any woman says she'd pic a fat guy over a fit guy shes essentially lying, all other things being equal of course"

untrue for me, as i imagine it is for many women...bit of a generalisation..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a lot of ppl looking for clubs big women so why is there none for men or is it only men that like big ladys and not ladys that like big men so do you ladys like big men ???

Basically, no youre pretty fucked to be honest. Youll prob have to go down the club/social route as youll be passed over for the fitter guys based on pics alone. If any woman says she'd pic a fat guy over a fit guy shes essentially lying, all other things being equal of course

untrue for me, as i imagine it is for many women...bit of a generalisation.."

It may be, but its one id be happy to hang my hat on though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see a lot of ppl looking for clubs big women so why is there none for men or is it only men that like big ladys and not ladys that like big men so do you ladys like big men ???

Basically, no youre pretty fucked to be honest. Youll prob have to go down the club/social route as youll be passed over for the fitter guys based on pics alone. If any woman says she'd pic a fat guy over a fit guy shes essentially lying, all other things being equal of course

untrue for me, as i imagine it is for many women...bit of a generalisation..

It may be, but its one id be happy to hang my hat on though"

well i'll concede to your greater understanding of what women want...men on here are always far more knowledgeable about such things than women..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not the slimmest of guys but I more than make up for that trying my hardest to satisfy a lady. Pity guys out number ladies by miles on here. To much choice I guess makes it harder as all the muscle toned guys get all the luck. Some of us don't have all the time in the world to spend in the gym unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spent two weeks with work in Spain with a colleague who's built like a brick privy. I'm a skinny toned cyclist. Neither of us got chatted up. I guess women just don't know what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I spent two weeks with work in Spain with a colleague who's built like a brick privy. I'm a skinny toned cyclist. Neither of us got chatted up. I guess women just don't know what they want. "

Well thats a totally different scenario...thats the night out scenario. Women dont do the chatting up. Why should they be arsed? Unless they look like the back of a bus, theyll have plenty of selection from being chatted up by men

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By *bwplaydateMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and travel/hotel

The more it wobbles the better - and that goes for the guys and the gals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can be a Greek god but if you've got the personality of a tin cup it can be a let down lol

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By *bwplaydateMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and travel/hotel


"You can be a Greek god but if you've got the personality of a tin cup it can be a let down lol"

Meh, give me padding any day of the week. The more the merrier in fact.

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