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By *yrdwoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I visit Bristol regularly and usually have meets lined up but this time I haven't been so successful (one guy apparently falling off the face of the earth didn't help there). So I am now doing a browse and messaging some likely looking guys. Guess how many replies so far? Yep, not a one! So I now know how you poor people feel who message people to get nothing back! Such irony!

Not that it will make me reply to the next guys who message me of course!

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

Yes but wouldn't it be ironic if no one responded to your thread.

oh bugger I've just stuffed that theory

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Yes but wouldn't it be ironic if no one responded to your thread.

oh bugger I've just stuffed that theory "

You do a thing like that??

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By *yrdwoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Yes but wouldn't it be ironic if no one responded to your thread.

oh bugger I've just stuffed that theory "

LOL, that did occur to me. At this rate I'll be posting on the meets page.

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

lol and you'll need a bunch of lucky white heather on that too

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By *yrdwoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"lol and you'll need a bunch of lucky white heather on that too"

Seriously!

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I've had someone messaging me on and off for a few weeks. I've offered to meet him socially (he's too scared to go to a club) but he wusses out - and then mails again a few days later. Apparently he's getting lots of offers to meet at the club (yeah right - 3 line profile, no pics, no verifications... I'm sure he's inundated) I've just told him he's obviously not got the balls to follow the talk through and therefore isn't man enough for me Too harsh perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had someone messaging me on and off for a few weeks. I've offered to meet him socially (he's too scared to go to a club) but he wusses out - and then mails again a few days later. Apparently he's getting lots of offers to meet at the club (yeah right - 3 line profile, no pics, no verifications... I'm sure he's inundated) I've just told him he's obviously not got the balls to follow the talk through and therefore isn't man enough for me Too harsh perhaps? "
Thought you said you would never mention that lol

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By *yrdwoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I've had someone messaging me on and off for a few weeks. I've offered to meet him socially (he's too scared to go to a club) but he wusses out - and then mails again a few days later. Apparently he's getting lots of offers to meet at the club (yeah right - 3 line profile, no pics, no verifications... I'm sure he's inundated) I've just told him he's obviously not got the balls to follow the talk through and therefore isn't man enough for me Too harsh perhaps? "

I do sometimes wonder about soem of the men on this site......

A few weeks ago I was gagging for it, willing to travel, but I even had the house to myaself for once. posted on my status and not a peep, even from guys who had 'meet tonight' on their profile. I just don't get some people.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Sorry you have been let down but you seriously can't be expecting single guys to jump when called for..

I have seen so many posts slagging off guys for expecting ladies to drop em..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I've had someone messaging me on and off for a few weeks. I've offered to meet him socially (he's too scared to go to a club) but he wusses out - and then mails again a few days later. Apparently he's getting lots of offers to meet at the club (yeah right - 3 line profile, no pics, no verifications... I'm sure he's inundated) I've just told him he's obviously not got the balls to follow the talk through and therefore isn't man enough for me Too harsh perhaps?

I do sometimes wonder about soem of the men on this site......

A few weeks ago I was gagging for it, willing to travel, but I even had the house to myaself for once. posted on my status and not a peep, even from guys who had 'meet tonight' on their profile. I just don't get some people."

Maybe you werent what they where looking for. As been said, how many guys can accomodate, travel, meet at short notice and still not get meets. quite a lot.

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By *yrdwoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Sorry you have been let down but you seriously can't be expecting single guys to jump when called for..

I have seen so many posts slagging off guys for expecting ladies to drop em..

"

That was why I titled the post 'now I know how it feels'. I'm being tongue in cheek.

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By *yrdwoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I've had someone messaging me on and off for a few weeks. I've offered to meet him socially (he's too scared to go to a club) but he wusses out - and then mails again a few days later. Apparently he's getting lots of offers to meet at the club (yeah right - 3 line profile, no pics, no verifications... I'm sure he's inundated) I've just told him he's obviously not got the balls to follow the talk through and therefore isn't man enough for me Too harsh perhaps?

I do sometimes wonder about soem of the men on this site......

A few weeks ago I was gagging for it, willing to travel, but I even had the house to myaself for once. posted on my status and not a peep, even from guys who had 'meet tonight' on their profile. I just don't get some people.

Maybe you werent what they where looking for. As been said, how many guys can accomodate, travel, meet at short notice and still not get meets. quite a lot."

They're on my friends list, so i hope I am somewhat attractive to some of them. But you're right - expectign them to be available at short notice is a bit off. But I was sooooo horny!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had someone messaging me on and off for a few weeks. I've offered to meet him socially (he's too scared to go to a club) but he wusses out - and then mails again a few days later. Apparently he's getting lots of offers to meet at the club (yeah right - 3 line profile, no pics, no verifications... I'm sure he's inundated) I've just told him he's obviously not got the balls to follow the talk through and therefore isn't man enough for me Too harsh perhaps?

I do sometimes wonder about soem of the men on this site......

A few weeks ago I was gagging for it, willing to travel, but I even had the house to myaself for once. posted on my status and not a peep, even from guys who had 'meet tonight' on their profile. I just don't get some people."

maybe those that were available to meet didnt fancy you ??? men can be discerning too you know ...

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By *yrdwoman OP   Woman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I've had someone messaging me on and off for a few weeks. I've offered to meet him socially (he's too scared to go to a club) but he wusses out - and then mails again a few days later. Apparently he's getting lots of offers to meet at the club (yeah right - 3 line profile, no pics, no verifications... I'm sure he's inundated) I've just told him he's obviously not got the balls to follow the talk through and therefore isn't man enough for me Too harsh perhaps?

I do sometimes wonder about soem of the men on this site......

A few weeks ago I was gagging for it, willing to travel, but I even had the house to myaself for once. posted on my status and not a peep, even from guys who had 'meet tonight' on their profile. I just don't get some people.

maybe those that were available to meet didnt fancy you ??? men can be discerning too you know ..."

Ouch!

Well so much for my 'trying to be flippant' post. I'll take that as my cue to withdraw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had someone messaging me on and off for a few weeks. I've offered to meet him socially (he's too scared to go to a club) but he wusses out - and then mails again a few days later. Apparently he's getting lots of offers to meet at the club (yeah right - 3 line profile, no pics, no verifications... I'm sure he's inundated) I've just told him he's obviously not got the balls to follow the talk through and therefore isn't man enough for me Too harsh perhaps? "

No, I know exactly what you mean. I've been talking to someone for ages now. Don't get me wrong, I know what it is to be busy - but if you want to meet someone, after a few months you'll have managed to find an evening or a weekend afternoon to get a drink together if nothing else....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had someone messaging me on and off for a few weeks. I've offered to meet him socially (he's too scared to go to a club) but he wusses out - and then mails again a few days later. Apparently he's getting lots of offers to meet at the club (yeah right - 3 line profile, no pics, no verifications... I'm sure he's inundated) I've just told him he's obviously not got the balls to follow the talk through and therefore isn't man enough for me Too harsh perhaps?

I do sometimes wonder about soem of the men on this site......

A few weeks ago I was gagging for it, willing to travel, but I even had the house to myaself for once. posted on my status and not a peep, even from guys who had 'meet tonight' on their profile. I just don't get some people.

maybe those that were available to meet didnt fancy you ??? men can be discerning too you know ...

Ouch!

Well so much for my 'trying to be flippant' post. I'll take that as my cue to withdraw. "

wasnt meant to be ouched at???? just stating the obvious ..... i know im not everyones cup of tea and thank god for that...i dont want to meet guys who would just meet anyone i want them to meet me because they see something in me they like the look of ?

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"I've had someone messaging me on and off for a few weeks. I've offered to meet him socially (he's too scared to go to a club) but he wusses out - and then mails again a few days later. Apparently he's getting lots of offers to meet at the club (yeah right - 3 line profile, no pics, no verifications... I'm sure he's inundated) I've just told him he's obviously not got the balls to follow the talk through and therefore isn't man enough for me Too harsh perhaps?

No, I know exactly what you mean. I've been talking to someone for ages now. Don't get me wrong, I know what it is to be busy - but if you want to meet someone, after a few months you'll have managed to find an evening or a weekend afternoon to get a drink together if nothing else...."

Not harsh. Accurate.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

I think you will find people want it how and when it suits them. Singles and couples alike. Often feel that single guys want it all their way but really we are all guilty of that arent we. Just luck who has your match at the time unless you bide your time and meet someone where a lot of planning has gone into it. We are not that good with planning.... lol

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"I've had someone messaging me on and off for a few weeks. I've offered to meet him socially (he's too scared to go to a club) but he wusses out - and then mails again a few days later. Apparently he's getting lots of offers to meet at the club (yeah right - 3 line profile, no pics, no verifications... I'm sure he's inundated) I've just told him he's obviously not got the balls to follow the talk through and therefore isn't man enough for me Too harsh perhaps?

I do sometimes wonder about soem of the men on this site......

A few weeks ago I was gagging for it, willing to travel, but I even had the house to myaself for once. posted on my status and not a peep, even from guys who had 'meet tonight' on their profile. I just don't get some people."

Next time that happens just message me direct! Problem solved!

x

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Whats wrong with posting on the meets page, it is how we sort something at short notice.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I've had someone messaging me on and off for a few weeks. I've offered to meet him socially (he's too scared to go to a club) but he wusses out - and then mails again a few days later. Apparently he's getting lots of offers to meet at the club (yeah right - 3 line profile, no pics, no verifications... I'm sure he's inundated) I've just told him he's obviously not got the balls to follow the talk through and therefore isn't man enough for me Too harsh perhaps? "

Not harsh as it seems you are correct.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I've had someone messaging me on and off for a few weeks. I've offered to meet him socially (he's too scared to go to a club) but he wusses out - and then mails again a few days later. Apparently he's getting lots of offers to meet at the club (yeah right - 3 line profile, no pics, no verifications... I'm sure he's inundated) I've just told him he's obviously not got the balls to follow the talk through and therefore isn't man enough for me Too harsh perhaps?

I do sometimes wonder about soem of the men on this site......

A few weeks ago I was gagging for it, willing to travel, but I even had the house to myaself for once. posted on my status and not a peep, even from guys who had 'meet tonight' on their profile. I just don't get some people."

Email me next time. I have a car lol.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"I visit Bristol regularly and usually have meets lined up but this time I haven't been so successful (one guy apparently falling off the face of the earth didn't help there). So I am now doing a browse and messaging some likely looking guys. Guess how many replies so far? Yep, not a one! So I now know how you poor people feel who message people to get nothing back! Such irony!

Not that it will make me reply to the next guys who message me of course! "

It could be plenty of guys wanted to meet you but it was just too short notice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well never had this problem as have few reg guys anyway and can see them short notice so lucky me .....but i do hear girls and guys saying they cant get meets ,like you say you ain't all mens fantasie or cup tea .

maybe get reg bud local to satify you when you horny .....or get a magic wand you not need man then lol

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