FabSwingers.com forum: Is Chemistry necessary.

By *etter the devil you know OP Woman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Is chemistry necessary on a first meet for you to enjoy sex with somebody?

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Most definitely for me

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

Definitely what's the point otherwise??

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By *ime2shortMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Yes I think so. Specially if you make love rather than just have sex. Much more enjoyable and softer with

Consideration.

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By *etter the devil you know OP Woman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I dont think its necessary but its better if there is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely! I wouldn't enjoy it without chemistry.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Yes, I don't give of my best unless I am really turned on by someone, and they are really turned on by me. It's the heat of desire that trips my trigger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chemistry - Semisonic

https://youtu.be/qgCVR2pjXc0

And as for the answer to your thread. Without chemistry it's a damp squib.

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By *ustin666666Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

I think there definitely as to be to have enjoyable sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah think its a must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes for good sex. I couldn't imagine just humping something for the sake of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deffo, on both sides.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without chemistry it's a cock in my pussy. I can do that myself, with a dildo, without getting out of bed.

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By *etter the devil you know OP Woman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"Without chemistry it's a cock in my pussy. I can do that myself, with a dildo, without getting out of bed. "

Its not just about having a cock or sex toy in your pussy though its the whole experience, of having their body close to yours, the feel of their skin, touching and sucking their cock, giving them pleasure as well as recieving it, the company.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without chemistry it's a cock in my pussy. I can do that myself, with a dildo, without getting out of bed.

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be chemistry I couldn't go with anyone I didn't fancy

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By *aul happyMan
over a year ago

tilgate crawley

I think chemistry is needed with every meet ........ patience is a virtue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes! no point bothering if no chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what I'm looking for at the time and the situation. So no, its not always necessary for me - Mrs J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Necessary? No.

Preferred? Very much so.

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By *herealdeal90Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

"Without chemistry it's a cock in my pussy. I can do that myself, with a dildo, without getting out of bed.

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By *ryrotMan
over a year ago

shag pile

you've got to want xxxxxxx

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By *etter the devil you know OP Woman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"Without chemistry it's a cock in my pussy. I can do that myself, with a dildo, without getting out of bed.

Because the sex can still be good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, chemistry leads to intense fuckery

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

It's necessary even messaging.

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Yes it is.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Couldn't have sex with anyone I didn't fancy and would expect my man to feel the same. So, yes, it's important to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally yes

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Most men would say no but I say definitely YES without a shadow of a doubt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

No chemistry no sex,simples....

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By *angerdaveMan
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

You got to have a spark between you both fir good sex but saying that I did meet some one and we both said we was not each others type but fucked any way and we both go a kick out of it and very wet sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be chemistry would never go with someone if not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on the situation. if it is a gangbang large group sex then possibly not. But if it is a smaller more intimate gathering then yes it does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely yes. There has to be chemistry or it's a non starter from me.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

No chemistry no action

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure. We find if we turn up with Bunsen burners, test tubes and white lab coats it really puts a dampener on things.....

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Without a doubt there needs to be chemistry and a connection on some level, if it's not there it makes for a pretty unsatisfactory experience all round in my experience.

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no it's not necessary. so long as they're good in bed and not selfish you can have good sex with someone and no chemistry.

porn and the sex industry wouldn't exist if it was necessary.

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By *ark_the_sexyMan
over a year ago

Cawood, between Selby and York

If there wasn't chemistry I'd never get to the first meet

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By *eviousLiasonsCouple
over a year ago

Travelling

If it wasn't for chloroform....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Is chemistry necessary on a first meet for you to enjoy sex with somebody?"

I prefer Biology

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely....required to arouse and stimulate ones mind and body!

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By *etter the devil you know OP Woman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"no it's not necessary. so long as they're good in bed and not selfish you can have good sex with someone and no chemistry.

porn and the sex industry wouldn't exist if it was necessary."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is chemistry necessary on a first meet for you to enjoy sex with somebody?

I prefer Biology

More of an Ancient History person myself, which sums up our current swinging experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Deffo, on both sides. "

I disagree. There have been times when my libido has been so high, I have had sex to scratch that itch. I prefer to be turned on by a playmate, but it isn't always necessary.

If my libido isn't high, then I need the chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without chemistry it's a cock in my pussy. I can do that myself, with a dildo, without getting out of bed. "

Ditto. Which is why I cannot have a fuck n go session.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say for this side of things, Yeah there has to be an element of chemistry but then depends what the person is after.

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By *opblokey2kMan
over a year ago

a11

"Is chemistry necessary on a first meet for you to enjoy sex with somebody?"

I would say it 100% is. If there is no chemistry the physics and biology just don't come close!

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By *louWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes for good sex. I couldn't imagine just humping something for the sake of it. "

Something?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For sure

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Is chemistry necessary on a first meet for you to enjoy sex with somebody?"

Is this a trick question?

If don't require chemistry to shag then you may as well prostitute yourself IMHO - at least you'd make money out of it then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the individuals really. Some people can and do fuck anything. No chemistry required it's just a fuck. Pure and simple. Not for me. There needs to be chemistry or I just can't get turned on so no point.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"Is chemistry necessary on a first meet for you to enjoy sex with somebody?"

It's an absolute must

(Dreams)

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By *alentino7Man
over a year ago

London

Absolutely! That's what it's all about

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Absolutely! That's what it's all about "

It's all about biology...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes chemistry is wet important

I would never just have sex for the sake of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Recycling is what is all about

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By *aughtyLittleMissWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Definitely, I need to feel turned on by the person I'm with, and chemistry is a huge part of that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely! That's what it's all about

It's all about biology..."

Surely as long as someone has a GCSE in at least one of the sciences it's OK to fuck them.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Absolutely! That's what it's all about

It's all about biology...

Surely as long as someone has a GCSE in at least one of the sciences it's OK to fuck them."

No, I'm afraid they need at least a 'c' grade in either English Language or English Literature too....obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely! That's what it's all about

It's all about biology...

Surely as long as someone has a GCSE in at least one of the sciences it's OK to fuck them.

No, I'm afraid they need at least a 'c' grade in either English Language or English Literature too....obviously

As if there wasn't already enough exam pressure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely it is for me yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes chemistry is wet important

I would never just have sex for the sake of it"
think you was multi tasking when you replied lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't happen without the chemistry

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Absolutely! That's what it's all about

It's all about biology...

Surely as long as someone has a GCSE in at least one of the sciences it's OK to fuck them.

No, I'm afraid they need at least a 'c' grade in either English Language or English Literature too....obviously

As if there wasn't already enough exam pressure!"

Well, in some cases I will also consider having sex with those who have lined up a resit...it shows determination

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

"Is chemistry necessary on a first meet for you to enjoy sex with somebody?"

Absolutely. We always have a social meet first and wont play if there is no connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Absolutely! That's what it's all about

It's all about biology...

Surely as long as someone has a GCSE in at least one of the sciences it's OK to fuck them.

No, I'm afraid they need at least a 'c' grade in either English Language or English Literature too....obviously

As if there wasn't already enough exam pressure!"

Obviously lowered standards if only asking for C grades!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Guessing someone has bumped an old thread?

My comment of a year ago still stands!

If chemistry isn’t necessary and a person is willing to shag just about anyone - then imo you may as well charge for it!

Sadly for me the opposite is the case (sadly as I wouldn’t be so damn skint if I could bring myself to charge strangers!

) - there needs to be oodles of chemistry- both looks and personality - before I’ll even risk touching lips, let alone anything else!

Peachy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is chemistry necessary on a first meet for you to enjoy sex with somebody?"

Yes absolutely, despite what most men and a few TS/TV think

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Guessing someone has bumped an old thread?

My comment of a year ago still stands!

If chemistry isn’t necessary and a person is willing to shag just about anyone - then imo you may as well charge for it!

Sadly for me the opposite is the case (sadly as I wouldn’t be so damn skint if I could bring myself to charge strangers!

) - there needs to be oodles of chemistry- both looks and personality - before I’ll even risk touching lips, let alone anything else!

Peachy x"

^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely it is for me yes"

So what is 'looks wise' chemistry? Surely you know what they look like before you meet?

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs

"Definitely it is for me yes

So what is 'looks wise' chemistry? Surely you know what they look like before you meet?"

Some times you only think you do...

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By *issIrishCoffeeWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely it is for me yes

So what is 'looks wise' chemistry? Surely you know what they look like before you meet?"

I’d say looks wise is an attraction.

I could be very sexually attracted to a lady but if she has the charisma of a dying swan and is boring then there would be no chemistry.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I'd say it's a "Nice to have" but not necessary.

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