FabSwingers.com forum: First messages. A reflection...

By *ed wine OP Man
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

I rarely send first messages. I understand that women and couples receive dozens of them and I prefer respect their intimacy.

Just in cases that their profiles share common preferences and possibilities with mine, I dare to write them.

A few lines with some creative ideas. Clear, concise, interesting... Observing their reaction, then in a second message, I send (or not) a face picture and write a longer text.

There are people here so charming that deserve not one first message and a face pic, but a thousand...

There are others that pretend to be the Center of the Universe and have total right to be unrespecful, with rude reactions close to an irrational mind.

I don't care too much to be rejected. It is part of the game here.

But I wouldn't like to live in a so self-centered mood...

Just a reflection

Adrian, West Midlands

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is the point of this thread?

You don't like sending first messages? Or you just don't like been turned down after you have sent a message?

By *ed wine OP Man
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

"What is the point of this thread?

You don't like sending first messages? Or you just don't like been turned down after you have sent a message?"

It is about that there are people who THINK they are superior than they actually are and THAT, gives them a false reason to be unrespectful with others...