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By *azbirdy93 OP   Couple
over a year ago

alfreton

For the first time today I've had a horrible message about the size of us and the fact that we cannot be wanted!

Does this happen a lot? We've been on here a few months and it our first!

Slightly cheesed off!

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

Just block and move on

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By *erdita Von TeaseWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Ignore it, block it and focus on the nice people. There's a troll under every bridge

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"For the first time today I've had a horrible message about the size of us and the fact that we cannot be wanted!

Does this happen a lot? We've been on here a few months and it our first!

Slightly cheesed off!

"

Report and block.

Don't give one bad message more significance than lots of good ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I am afraid that the only way to prevent this is to block all the people doing this (I am assuming a single guy, don't know why). Once you have blocked everyone you will then have to do the searching yourself (if you instigate a message they can reply), concentrate on the people you would like to meet and who would like to meet you (they may have their preferences written in their profile) and ignore the rest of the site.

Good luck, oh and "Welcome to Fab" xx

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Some people are just nasty op,like others have said report,block and forget them.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't take any notice OP, you look lovely. Block the rude ignorant member and move on.xxx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You're getting sex and they are not. I bet it was from a man. Just ignore and block.

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By *igmatt82Man
over a year ago

birmingham

Don't let idiots like them annoy you op there not worth it...keep your head up and block the idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all get them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For the first time today I've had a horrible message about the size of us and the fact that we cannot be wanted!

Does this happen a lot? We've been on here a few months and it our first!

Slightly cheesed off!

"

My guess is that they are frustrated because they're not getting any. As already said, block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's so many lovely people here, just ignore the occasional idiot cropping up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's not very nice at all

Tell them to p%¥s off and block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haters everywhere

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Don't give them a minute of your thoughts,unfortunately if we're going to be on these site's we lay ourselves open to the scum of society. Two fingers to them...

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By *asy going swingersCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

You look good to us. Definitely block them and forget about it they don't deserve your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course you are wanted. I want to meet you x

So, I'm sure, do lots of other people

Happy fabbing x

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By *aiseaneyebrowMan
over a year ago

Fylde

Can't understand this kind of behaviour. Not just rude and ignorant it's down right unpleasant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the years sadly have had quite a few, at first it used to get to me, came to the conclusion just idiots and give them no thought or time brush it off, block move on.

Think of the good messages not the bad x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unfortunately in life as on here there are nasty people that we will meet ... they arent worth the effort of being upset or annoyed over

its what the block button was invented for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ignore and block it's not worth getting upset over someone you're never meet anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block and move on ....feels so much better once you have blocked them to

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I haven't had it happen often, just occasionally from single men who I have turned down. When I tell them I'm not interested they decide I'm a "fat, ugly bitch they wouldn't want to fuck anyway". Didn't stop them practically begging for it in the first place lol.

There are always idiots online, just report and block. Don't take anything to heart, it really isn't worth it. Regardless of your body shape there are plenty of people on here who will be attracted to you.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Block and ignore, and concentrate on those that do find you attractive

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Bollocks to them!! Idiots x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm appalled at the way _azbirdy93 has been treated.

If I'm interested in anyone on here, female or non MM couple, I send one polite message, and request a reply if interested. All I ask is if there is no interest, it's deleted. I then block and move on. Block means no longer in search results. If a reply is no interest, then all I ask is a polite refusal. Message Read and no reply, or unread is no interest.

This scene is for all adult humans over 18, male or female, of any shape, creed and colour. Each to their own. Nobody should be insulted on here.

As I'm 62, I'm waiting for somebody to say I'm too old to be on here. Hasn't happened yet. Maybe it's because I'm out of most member's age range!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately it does OP, just block, move on and chalk it up to experience. Their loss not yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The world is full of dicks ... and I don't mean the lovely stiff ones and there is nothing we can do about it. We have been blocked by one couple because we aren't married and another man said a white man and a black girl being partners just wasn't right. Apart from being an ugly person he had a very small penis which was God's revenge on the fucker. Mean people exist in abundance but we have found that the good greatly outweigh the bad as you can see from the above posts.

You both look delicious by the way. Cxx

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