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By *ornybanker OP   Man
over a year ago

London

I look at a photo and think wow! I read the profile and think what you are looking for is me. We are so well matched! I send a short message that I think is interesting but not pushy and I think I am so going to get on well with you. I send the message and it is immediately deleted. I am gutted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best get used to it

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By *iss Grrr and ChrisCouple
over a year ago

Canterbury


"I look at a photo and think wow! I read the profile and think what you are looking for is me. We are so well matched! I send a short message that I think is interesting but not pushy and I think I am so going to get on well with you. I send the message and it is immediately deleted. I am gutted."

Pics = good

Profile = good

Name(and possibly profession) = not so good.

Try changing it to hornytaxman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's such a shame for you as you have a great profile and good pics. Your day will come.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look at a photo and think wow! I read the profile and think what you are looking for is me. We are so well matched! I send a short message that I think is interesting but not pushy and I think I am so going to get on well with you. I send the message and it is immediately deleted. I am gutted."

This can be the way of fab. Keep trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens to us all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh the joys of fab. You have a decent profile OP. Just keep plugging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I look at a photo and think wow! I read the profile and think what you are looking for is me. We are so well matched! I send a short message that I think is interesting but not pushy and I think I am so going to get on well with you. I send the message and it is immediately deleted. I am gutted."

Gutted, really??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

generaly the way god loves a trier though mate, dont be so dissapointed.

patience and perseverance

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I look at a photo and think wow! I read the profile and think what you are looking for is me. We are so well matched! I send a short message that I think is interesting but not pushy and I think I am so going to get on well with you. I send the message and it is immediately deleted. I am gutted.

Gutted, really?? "

Cause he is. I didn't reply

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

It happens. A profile and pics only tells you so much. I always think 'Well, I thought we might be suited. We weren't. Saves time messaging back and forth to find that out later and have to have an awkward conversation as a result.'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Persistence pays! Don't get to hung up on a profile that looks like it was tailor made for you. We've all done it, but there's nothing you can do if the other person doesn't feel the same way. Best to fire and forget with messages, that way if one comes back it's a bonus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disappointment is understandable, you can't guarantee message or profile was even looked at so best not to take it personally as others have said profile and pics are alreet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lt's only Fab. lt's not the real world. The hierarchy of attraction is different on fab. One guy was saying that he never had success on fab but women were all over him at clubs. Don't worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes folk mass delete...I know I have. Persistence can pay off so it can be worth another try down the line! Just my own personal taste, but I think you've better public pics than your avatar as whilst it shows off your dimensions admirably this isn't my favourite angle to view the male anatomy! Good luck x

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