FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

'User no longer on site'

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So people are always writing and next to their message it says 'user no longer on site'. Wtf? Do people on here get the willies and constantly close their accounts for fear of something?

Have always ignored these phantoms but why do they bother??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

They join up when they're full of lager and horny, then wake up next day hungover and get second thoughts.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ehm.. they've already gone!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or do admin boot them off or ban them .. then they delete their account?

I find it odd to see so many OP then a few mins later they have left the site.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or do admin boot them off or ban them .. then they delete their account?

I find it odd to see so many OP then a few mins later they have left the site. "

I'm afraid it's you.

What on earth are you doing to them?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They always come back ...i wouldnt worry about it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of them are cheats who get cold feet.

Or lads who come to the forums, say stupid shit, get crucified by everyone and run away with their tail between their legs.

I prefer the second one, they're far more entertaining!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They join up when they're full of lager and horny, then wake up next day hungover and get second thoughts."

Years ago when I first joined on a Saturday. Went out on the night and logged on here at the end of the night. Needless to say I left the next morning.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ayde BlanchardTV/TS
over a year ago

lancashire


"They join up when they're full of lager and horny, then wake up next day hungover and get second thoughts.

Years ago when I first joined on a Saturday. Went out on the night and logged on here at the end of the night. Needless to say I left the next morning. "

And done it again lol ffs

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They join up when they're full of lager and horny, then wake up next day hungover and get second thoughts."

Yea.... I did that, but I stayed

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there mom's make them leve and ground them we call them weekend fabbers you see the same people every Friday then gone on Monday, it's a bit sad really when you think about it !

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have filters on that stops people being able to message until they've been on site for a week. I barely get any messages from UNLOS now. If they can stick it out a week, it seems they're more likely to stay

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I think a lot of single guys join on a Friday expecting to have ladies queuing at their door all weekend.

When they realise it's not like that, they leave...or take to the forums to ask why it's not like that...and leave.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So people are always writing and next to their message it says 'user no longer on site'. Wtf? Do people on here get the willies and constantly close their accounts for fear of something?

Have always ignored these phantoms but why do they bother??"

Danger wank?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of single guys join on a Friday expecting to have ladies queuing at their door all weekend.

When they realise it's not like that, they leave...or take to the forums to ask why it's not like that...and leave. "

Haha. You summed it up perfectly

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London

I did ilke to think I can come and go on this site as I please working around my own schedules, obviously not

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did ilke to think I can come and go on this site as I please working around my own schedules, obviously not "

But why cone and go if you want to be on the site just stay on and use it when you want to !

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They join up when they're full of lager and horny, then wake up next day hungover and get second thoughts."

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"I have filters on that stops people being able to message until they've been on site for a week. I barely get any messages from UNLOS now. If they can stick it out a week, it seems they're more likely to stay "

UNLOS?? can i ask what that means?

Relative newbie who hasn't left the site asking

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe there should be a chat forum for those of us who have more than one veri..... ??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have filters on that stops people being able to message until they've been on site for a week. I barely get any messages from UNLOS now. If they can stick it out a week, it seems they're more likely to stay

UNLOS?? can i ask what that means?

Relative newbie who hasn't left the site asking "

User No Longer On Site

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop


"I have filters on that stops people being able to message until they've been on site for a week. I barely get any messages from UNLOS now. If they can stick it out a week, it seems they're more likely to stay

UNLOS?? can i ask what that means?

Relative newbie who hasn't left the site asking "

User no longer on site

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"I have filters on that stops people being able to message until they've been on site for a week. I barely get any messages from UNLOS now. If they can stick it out a week, it seems they're more likely to stay

UNLOS?? can i ask what that means?

Relative newbie who hasn't left the site asking

User No Longer On Site "

Thank you

D'oh!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eliz NelsonMan
over a year ago

The Tantric Tea Shop


"I have filters on that stops people being able to message until they've been on site for a week. I barely get any messages from UNLOS now. If they can stick it out a week, it seems they're more likely to stay "

But if you do stay for more than a week, you become trapped ,

It's like The 'bloody' Matrix

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I did ilke to think I can come and go on this site as I please working around my own schedules, obviously not "

Do you delete your account every time you log off? If not, this post isn't referring to you.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ecky400TV/TS
over a year ago

/highlands

Lol just had a guy saying stuff then no longer on site wtf. X

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ondon-guy68Man
over a year ago

London


"I did ilke to think I can come and go on this site as I please working around my own schedules, obviously not

But why cone and go if you want to be on the site just stay on and use it when you want to ! "

Why, because I can. I've been on and off on here for about 6 years now and how I use my time on here works best for me.

We all use our profiles and time on here differently, this can be a very distracting place if you don't want to be distracted.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They join up when they're full of lager and horny, then wake up next day hungover and get second thoughts.

Years ago when I first joined on a Saturday. Went out on the night and logged on here at the end of the night. Needless to say I left the next morning. "

And gone again prime example

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ayde BlanchardTV/TS
over a year ago

lancashire


"Lol just had a guy saying stuff then no longer on site wtf. X "

You think that's bad I had a friend who met a guy off here. After went to varify him and he left the site lol.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Lol just had a guy saying stuff then no longer on site wtf. X

You think that's bad I had a friend who met a guy off here. After went to varify him and he left the site lol."

Ouch, that is harsh!

I went away for a couple of weeks and came back to a long message from an unlos. Lots about how he had enjoyed chatting to me but he was leaving, and how he wished we had met like we planned.

I still don't know who he is!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *antsguy007Man
over a year ago

Whiteley


"Lol just had a guy saying stuff then no longer on site wtf. X

You think that's bad I had a friend who met a guy off here. After went to varify him and he left the site lol.

Ouch, that is harsh!

I went away for a couple of weeks and came back to a long message from an unlos. Lots about how he had enjoyed chatting to me but he was leaving, and how he wished we had met like we planned.

I still don't know who he is! "

Ouch - his loss though

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ayde BlanchardTV/TS
over a year ago

lancashire


"Lol just had a guy saying stuff then no longer on site wtf. X

You think that's bad I had a friend who met a guy off here. After went to varify him and he left the site lol.

Ouch, that is harsh!

I went away for a couple of weeks and came back to a long message from an unlos. Lots about how he had enjoyed chatting to me but he was leaving, and how he wished we had met like we planned.

I still don't know who he is! "

Amazing I don't know why they bother

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aneSmith5TV/TS
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Just one of the features of this site, together with fakes, jokers and blockers.

However there are some real members here for genuine fun

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andm_69Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage


"I did ilke to think I can come and go on this site as I please working around my own schedules, obviously not

But why cone and go if you want to be on the site just stay on and use it when you want to !

Why, because I can. I've been on and off on here for about 6 years now and how I use my time on here works best for me.

We all use our profiles and time on here differently, this can be a very distracting place if you don't want to be distracted. "

It can get very distracting!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ackardMan
over a year ago

North West & beyond

I think if a user is banned then it should say "user banned" rather than "left site", most other forums I use do that. As for reasons why people leave I think others have summed it up.

I must admit I've left the site a couple of times but for csrious reasons then ended up coming back, but not after being here gor only 24 hours!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once you commit fabiside I suppose it's the only option to re invent themselves and start fresh ?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are people on here always judging others? They may have understood this lifestyle isn't for them, what do you want them to stay here just because you say they should. People are free to come and go as they wish, live and let others live don't judge

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *laclkguyMan
over a year ago

Pontefract

"I think it's the same reason why women do the same things... Scammers!! I get messages and the profile usually contains "send a message with email" but I ignore and some I'll report, but by the end of the day the profile has been deleted and I just assume it's an admin whose done it. "

I've had a lot of messages from girls & couples (pretending to be)

they ask how big you are (men)

or only want to chat via email msn or phone (scammers)

as soon as you move the conversation away from the subject they go quiet and then when you log on later

"user no longer on site"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *isterPepperMan
over a year ago

Central Swindon

Does it show this message when someone hides their profile? I feel like some women do this as they get SO MANY messages that it can get a bit overwhelming, then they reinstate their profiles when they're ready.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few beers,sign up to fab then knee deep in minge,as swingers will fuck anything.

thats the perception of most weekend fabbers

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it show this message when someone hides their profile? I feel like some women do this as they get SO MANY messages that it can get a bit overwhelming, then they reinstate their profiles when they're ready."

No, it only shows that when they've actually deleted. If they're just hidden you can still message (unless their filters stop you), you just can't view the profile.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top