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"It's a general thing, not confined to Fab and not confined to swinging. It's an extension of the "we're wonderful and, if you're like us, you can be wonderful too" contention. BBWs use it to annoy/ upset/ bait/ etc their slimmer counterparts. Their slimmer counterparts reciprocate though not, it seems to me (and not just on Fab), quite so vociferously or so regularly. I don't know where the balance of the truth lies save for the fact there's a multi-billion £ 'get slim' industry out there and I don't see any 'become a BBW' counterpart." TREAT PEOPLE WELL.... RESPECT DIFFRENCE...... HAVE RESPECT FOR ALL NOT JUST THE CHOOSEN FEW ......FORGIVE WRONGS AND JUDGE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU DO OTHERS....... PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS SO DONT HURT THEIR FEELINGS BUy BEING INSENSITIVE B*******S sorry felt i had to shout to to make ppl take note lol | |||
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"Firstly just testing the freedom of press on here and secondly not looking for an argument just curious. Until Fab I cant say I was very aware of this term or maybe didnt really think about it. However, after reading different threads of the past few months Im given to wondering..... why is it that people who describe themselves as big beautiful women can be very scathing towards others who are not as large. It appears that they feel they are the only ones allowed to use the b. word and that if you are over a certain size this makes you automatically entitled to it. Is this a swinging phenominen or just a general thing. Apparantly if you say bbw are not for you its your loss and if you say you are attractive but not large you are stuck up your own arse. Im sensing some double standards here ... is it just me thats wondering? Would really like to see people replying in a polite mannered way. Im by no means bashing anyone. Simply curious about those that feel they are entitled to bash others either way and hoping they will see the others point of _iew and be a little more openminded! Us girls all have our insecurites no matter what our size or looks. Why oh why cant we stick together more and not tear someone down if they appear to have a little self confidence. Yours, hopefully but not holding her breath, Mistress " speak for yourself, you may have some insecurites but not all women do. Ive lost a lot of weight, i was happy before but started loosing weight for health reasons. Im still very over weight just not so much so now. Double standards work across the board. Some dont like the term skinny some dont like the term fat. From what ive seen on here its 50/50. In an ideal world there would be no bashing of any kind but its not a perfect world. Any thread that is started regards slim or large woman tends to go into a full scale argument generally because there are some tactless people on here. Personally someones size has very little to do with how i _iew a person. Signed A fatty who doesnt describe herself as a bbw. Oh and bbw term has been around for years, way before the internet but it a very common term to describe a woman that is large. Now alot of people use the term as its easy way of describing large. If there was a term to describe very petite women or medium women that was common im sure that would also get used | |||
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"It's a general thing, not confined to Fab and not confined to swinging. It's an extension of the "we're wonderful and, if you're like us, you can be wonderful too" contention. BBWs use it to annoy/ upset/ bait/ etc their slimmer counterparts. Their slimmer counterparts reciprocate though not, it seems to me (and not just on Fab), quite so vociferously or so regularly. I don't know where the balance of the truth lies save for the fact there's a multi-billion £ 'get slim' industry out there and I don't see any 'become a BBW' counterpart. TREAT PEOPLE WELL.... RESPECT DIFFRENCE...... HAVE RESPECT FOR ALL NOT JUST THE CHOOSEN FEW ......FORGIVE WRONGS AND JUDGE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU DO OTHERS....... PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS SO DONT HURT THEIR FEELINGS BUy BEING INSENSITIVE B*******S sorry felt i had to shout to to make ppl take note lol " The point Im trying to make exactly actually. Why are women judging eachother and attacking? know attractive women of all types (well I think they are anyway). I dont care what size you are.... why make unprovoked verbal attacks. Obviously this post was unwise and we cant have a civilised discussion. Think I have answered by own question. Really shouldnt have had that last glass of wine and posted it. Beam me up scotty. | |||
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"It's a general thing, not confined to Fab and not confined to swinging. It's an extension of the "we're wonderful and, if you're like us, you can be wonderful too" contention. BBWs use it to annoy/ upset/ bait/ etc their slimmer counterparts. Their slimmer counterparts reciprocate though not, it seems to me (and not just on Fab), quite so vociferously or so regularly. I don't know where the balance of the truth lies save for the fact there's a multi-billion £ 'get slim' industry out there and I don't see any 'become a BBW' counterpart. TREAT PEOPLE WELL.... RESPECT DIFFRENCE...... HAVE RESPECT FOR ALL NOT JUST THE CHOOSEN FEW ......FORGIVE WRONGS AND JUDGE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU DO OTHERS....... PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS SO DONT HURT THEIR FEELINGS BUy BEING INSENSITIVE B*******S sorry felt i had to shout to to make ppl take note lol The point Im trying to make exactly actually. Why are women judging eachother and attacking? know attractive women of all types (well I think they are anyway). I dont care what size you are.... why make unprovoked verbal attacks. Obviously this post was unwise and we cant have a civilised discussion. Think I have answered by own question. Really shouldnt have had that last glass of wine and posted it. Beam me up scotty. " Am i missing something here, there has only been a few responses and i havent seen any unprovoked verbal attacks | |||
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"It's a general thing, not confined to Fab and not confined to swinging. It's an extension of the "we're wonderful and, if you're like us, you can be wonderful too" contention. BBWs use it to annoy/ upset/ bait/ etc their slimmer counterparts. Their slimmer counterparts reciprocate though not, it seems to me (and not just on Fab), quite so vociferously or so regularly. I don't know where the balance of the truth lies save for the fact there's a multi-billion £ 'get slim' industry out there and I don't see any 'become a BBW' counterpart. TREAT PEOPLE WELL.... RESPECT DIFFRENCE...... HAVE RESPECT FOR ALL NOT JUST THE CHOOSEN FEW ......FORGIVE WRONGS AND JUDGE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU DO OTHERS....... PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS SO DONT HURT THEIR FEELINGS BUy BEING INSENSITIVE B*******S sorry felt i had to shout to to make ppl take note lol The point Im trying to make exactly actually. Why are women judging eachother and attacking? know attractive women of all types (well I think they are anyway). I dont care what size you are.... why make unprovoked verbal attacks. Obviously this post was unwise and we cant have a civilised discussion. Think I have answered by own question. Really shouldnt have had that last glass of wine and posted it. Beam me up scotty. Am i missing something here, there has only been a few responses and i havent seen any unprovoked verbal attacks " Well maybe Im wrong but Im sensing this isnt going to go well and really dont want anyone launching personal attacks on anyone. I would love to think that we could discuss anything on here in a polite and respectful way but Im thinking is already too heated. This is a swinging site and for entertainment only. Maybe its just too sensitive a subject. | |||
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"Just because someone uses the term BBW It does not mean they automatically think they are, it is just a well known term to stop people who don't like larger ladies away equally ssbbw is use(super size) some use it a big breasted woman Some of us don't judge / bash anyone for the way they are. " not heard the ssbbw term at all or the big breasted woman (how big or doesnt it matter). That was the attitude I was hoping for. | |||
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"Just because someone uses the term BBW It does not mean they automatically think they are, it is just a well known term to stop people who don't like larger ladies away equally ssbbw is use(super size) some use it a big breasted woman Some of us don't judge / bash anyone for the way they are. not heard the ssbbw term at all or the big breasted woman (how big or doesnt it matter). That was the attitude I was hoping for. " sbbw and ssbbw started off mainly as american terms, same as queen size is used to describe a smaller bbw. Instead of dress sizes in america it used to go on how many lbs someone weighed. bbw used to start at a size 18 in england but i think up to a 20 is classed as queen size. Not sure where ssbbw starts | |||
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"Just because someone uses the term BBW It does not mean they automatically think they are, it is just a well known term to stop people who don't like larger ladies away equally ssbbw is use(super size) some use it a big breasted woman Some of us don't judge / bash anyone for the way they are. not heard the ssbbw term at all or the big breasted woman (how big or doesnt it matter). That was the attitude I was hoping for. " as with everything, people have different veiws on the subject some consider a size 14 a bbw some a 20 to be honest i don't know what is what. I've just used the terms to indicate to anyone sizest to stay away and not waste their or my time. Suprisingly people who say they don't like BBW's still contact me so it doesn't always work. But the scathing thing does work both ways personally i just ignore it it all. | |||
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"Think we must be reading different threads." Scratches head in confusion too! | |||
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"Firstly just testing the freedom of press on here and secondly not looking for an argument just curious. Until Fab I cant say I was very aware of this term or maybe didnt really think about it. However, after reading different threads of the past few months Im given to wondering..... why is it that people who describe themselves as big beautiful women can be very scathing towards others who are not as large. It appears that they feel they are the only ones allowed to use the b. word and that if you are over a certain size this makes you automatically entitled to it. Is this a swinging phenominen or just a general thing. Apparantly if you say bbw are not for you its your loss and if you say you are attractive but not large you are stuck up your own arse. Im sensing some double standards here ... is it just me thats wondering? Would really like to see people replying in a polite mannered way. Im by no means bashing anyone. Simply curious about those that feel they are entitled to bash others either way and hoping they will see the others point of _iew and be a little more openminded! Us girls all have our insecurites no matter what our size or looks. Why oh why cant we stick together more and not tear someone down if they appear to have a little self confidence. Yours, hopefully but not holding her breath, Mistress " I think you've asked a good question very well as I have also seen some of the behavior on here you refer to. I would however say for clarity that not all large women display that attitude and you may be allowing your opinion to be overly influenced by a vocal minority. That vocal minority are probably very unlikely to attempt to answer your question directly. | |||
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"Some 'bbw's' look great, some don't look so great. Some 'average's' look great, some don't look so great. Some 'slim's' look great, some don't look so great. Some 'skinny's' look great, some don't look so great. Some 'curvy's' look great, some don't look so great. Some 'fabulous' look great, some don't look so great. Some 'athletic's' look great, some don't look so great. All of the above are highly subjective and subject to the personal taste of the person looking and what mood they are in and what day it is. Politeness and respect is actually a different subject, an unpleasant person will simply be nasty about anything they think might wind you up, not just size or build. " Couldn't have said it better myself... | |||
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" Couldn't have said it better myself..." Right, I'm off to talk inane bollox in other threads before this becomes a habit. Enjoy, play nice. | |||
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"Big Handsome Man (BHM)!! " That maybe sounds a little concieted ....I was thinking more of BMF big mother f####er !! | |||
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"Firstly just testing the freedom of press on here and secondly not looking for an argument just curious. Until Fab I cant say I was very aware of this term or maybe didnt really think about it. However, after reading different threads of the past few months Im given to wondering..... why is it that people who describe themselves as big beautiful women can be very scathing towards others who are not as large. It appears that they feel they are the only ones allowed to use the b. word and that if you are over a certain size this makes you automatically entitled to it. Is this a swinging phenominen or just a general thing. Apparantly if you say bbw are not for you its your loss and if you say you are attractive but not large you are stuck up your own arse. Im sensing some double standards here ... is it just me thats wondering? Would really like to see people replying in a polite mannered way. Im by no means bashing anyone. Simply curious about those that feel they are entitled to bash others either way and hoping they will see the others point of _iew and be a little more openminded! Us girls all have our insecurites no matter what our size or looks. Why oh why cant we stick together more and not tear someone down if they appear to have a little self confidence. Yours, hopefully but not holding her breath, Mistress I think you've asked a good question very well as I have also seen some of the behavior on here you refer to. I would however say for clarity that not all large women display that attitude and you may be allowing your opinion to be overly influenced by a vocal minority. That vocal minority are probably very unlikely to attempt to answer your question directly. " I think you are right. I just dont see why any of it is an issue. We are all different. Dont know why some have to bash others to make themselves feel better. You are right its just a feeling I have got from reading other threads. Maybe other peoples experiences are different. | |||
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"and don't get me started on the lads.. " lol ooo i would love you starting on the lads xxx | |||
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"and don't get me started on the lads.. lol ooo i would love you starting on the lads xxx " I though you had View? | |||
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"and don't get me started on the lads.. lol ooo i would love you starting on the lads xxx I though you had View? " that's IN the lads | |||
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"Think we must be reading different threads. Scratches head in confusion too! " I think when I see postings in CAPITALS, suggesting others are just being insensitive and using the phrase B..S... I guess I just assumed here we go... downhill maybe.... | |||
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"I think.. some larger ladies are comfortable with themselves and other have a huge chip on their shoulders.. some very slim ladies are comfortable with themselves and others have a huge chip on their shoulders.. and some people expect meeting a larger lady to be easier in arranging.. all so wrong and highly patronising. I do agree it is a shame we can't have the discussions on here that are informed, respectful and informative... instead of breaking into a name calling free for all. I do dislike the term BBW" Good post View | |||
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"BBW'on this and other sites are often aggressive. I think its because as basically unattractive people they find that on a sex site even they are in demand from the 'needy'and this makes them over confidant and arrogant." Well you've just proved what a nasty peice of work you are, and shown that generalisations don't work as you are what you claim bbw's to be. | |||
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"BBW'on this and other sites are often aggressive. I think its because as basically unattractive people they find that on a sex site even they are in demand from the 'needy'and this makes them over confidant and arrogant." I find the first part of your post quite accurate.. would change 'often' to 'on occasion'.. However, the second part.. Just Offensive. and I say that as one of the guys on here who does not kiss every females ass on this forum, I don't post after the females on the 'fuck me' threads squealing Yes Yes Yes.. I do believe some forget themselves and believe their own hype.. not exclusive to females tho. but there was just no need to add that bit. | |||
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"Think we must be reading different threads. Scratches head in confusion too! I think when I see postings in CAPITALS, suggesting others are just being insensitive and using the phrase B..S... I guess I just assumed here we go... downhill maybe.... " if you are refering to my posting then i think you need to read it again and let it sink in what is it im actually saying | |||
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"BBW'on this and other sites are often aggressive. I think its because as basically unattractive people they find that on a sex site even they are in demand from the 'needy'and this makes them over confidant and arrogant. I find the first part of your post quite accurate.. would change 'often' to 'on occasion'.. However, the second part.. Just Offensive. and I say that as one of the guys on here who does not kiss every females ass on this forum, I don't post after the females on the 'fuck me' threads squealing Yes Yes Yes.. I do believe some forget themselves and believe their own hype.. not exclusive to females tho. but there was just no need to add that bit." I would kind of agree, in a way.... I noticed that the Clubs empower woman and make the feel more confident and more secure in themselves... WHICH CAN ONLY BE A GOOD THING. Whatever walk of life you are running in, you will always meet people who think that they are Gods Gift and that you are not....thats life. Opinions are like testicles. Kick them hard enough, it doesn’t matter how many you got. | |||
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" Whatever walk of life you are running in, you will always meet people who think that they are Gods Gift and that you are not....thats life. Opinions are like testicles. Kick them hard enough, it doesn’t matter how many you got." exactly, the site reflects real life.. | |||
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"i'm sorry but i find these threads very yawnio it gets dragged up constantly we are fat and we wobble so fucking what we use the term BBW to warn those that are offended by those wobbles to walk on by so they don't have to look its for their sake not ours and to help those that love our wobbles to find us easier i first heard the term a good 15 years ago on a prog called central weekend a fabulous discussion show on friday nights if memory serves me right and ever since then it seems peeps are offended by the fact we as fat birds use the term, i mean how how attrocious we should try and be positive about our flab, bad bad fat birds " I don't think anyone finds'fat birds' or wobbles offensive. They may not find them attractive, but that is totally different. I think this type of chippy reply is what the op was referring to | |||
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"I AM NOT POSTING THIS TO UPSET ANYONE - Just Curious.... Do BBW not worry about their health or hearts? or that some people like them due to their size first and personality second? NOT judging anyone here, just my wife and I tend to look for a personality that we like, well actually more than several.... Looks do not matter so much. I actually find it funny when my wife blows out some "Gods Gift" man who is trying it on in their well rehearsed slick ways..." Do married couples not worry about being promiscious with other people and the health of their marriage. Not posting to be offensive to anyone but if you're married why isn't your partner enough? See...we can all have an opinion on life choices of other people can't we! | |||
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"Ohhhh I love the _iew from the high road..........now where did I put that cake.............." Some day's you come on here and you just wondered what some people have been drinking! We are on a site where we're fucking strangers, not knowing their sexual health, thereby putting our own health at risk and some people have the audacity to be asking other members if they worry about their health because they're fat. You couldn't make it up on here some days! | |||
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"BBW'on this and other sites are often aggressive. I think its because as basically unattractive people they find that on a sex site even they are in demand from the 'needy'and this makes them over confidant and arrogant." TUT TUT not very nice is it?We all have our Preferences.And just to make a Point I don't find myself Unattractive And i Defo don't Need to go on a Sex site to have fun i like the NSA part of it.And after reading your Profile i could say a few things but i am a nice Person so i keep my comments to myself.It all boils down the the fact we are all Different and i Thank God for that. | |||
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"Ohhhh I love the _iew from the high road..........now where did I put that cake.............. Some day's you come on here and you just wondered what some people have been drinking! We are on a site where we're fucking strangers, not knowing their sexual health, thereby putting our own health at risk and some people have the audacity to be asking other members if they worry about their health because they're fat. You couldn't make it up on here some days! " ooo you do have a way with words xx | |||
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"I AM NOT POSTING THIS TO UPSET ANYONE - Just Curious.... Do BBW not worry about their health or hearts? or that some people like them due to their size first and personality second? NOT judging anyone here, just my wife and I tend to look for a personality that we like, well actually more than several.... Looks do not matter so much. I actually find it funny when my wife blows out some "Gods Gift" man who is trying it on in their well rehearsed slick ways... Do married couples not worry about being promiscious with other people and the health of their marriage. Not posting to be offensive to anyone but if you're married why isn't your partner enough? See...we can all have an opinion on life choices of other people can't we! " Thats answering a question, with a question, maybe you had no intention of answering it. To answer yours, our marriage is very healthy, and we keep ourselves fit. I would say to keep ourselves healthy for each other so we can be alive together for longer! My wife is more than enough for me, this is an extra curricular activity that we very much enjoy. | |||
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"I AM NOT POSTING THIS TO UPSET ANYONE - Just Curious.... Do BBW not worry about their health or hearts? or that some people like them due to their size first and personality second? NOT judging anyone here, just my wife and I tend to look for a personality that we like, well actually more than several.... Looks do not matter so much. I actually find it funny when my wife blows out some "Gods Gift" man who is trying it on in their well rehearsed slick ways... Do married couples not worry about being promiscious with other people and the health of their marriage. Not posting to be offensive to anyone but if you're married why isn't your partner enough? See...we can all have an opinion on life choices of other people can't we! Thats answering a question, with a question, maybe you had no intention of answering it. To answer yours, our marriage is very healthy, and we keep ourselves fit. I would say to keep ourselves healthy for each other so we can be alive together for longer! My wife is more than enough for me, this is an extra curricular activity that we very much enjoy. " Don't you just Love Couples lol...I will answer your Question from a Fatty's Point of _iew.WE should all Worry about our Health in this day and Age.As you can get some STD from not just intercourse but also from just Oral so the next time your Wife gives a Guy a BJ or you go down on a Woman are you sure they are safe?As i can only speak for Myself i am very Healthy not a thing wrong with me just be course i am Big does not mean iam unhealthy or not Fit. | |||
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"BBW'on this and other sites are often aggressive. I think its because as basically unattractive people they find that on a sex site even they are in demand from the 'needy'and this makes them over confidant and arrogant." See this is just the sort of thing I mean. Totally uncalled for, why does anyone have to be needy to want to fuck me? Of course people are going to be defensive and aggressive when faced with posts like this! Be they fat thin gay or straight etc As for the health thing. It is something that's plays on my mind. Bit as with those who smoke or drink its my decision whether I act on the concerns | |||
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"BBW'on this and other sites are often aggressive. I think its because as basically unattractive people they find that on a sex site even they are in demand from the 'needy'and this makes them over confidant and arrogant." What a fucking hoot that was to read. Seriously you obviously have some serious issues. Maybe you dont like the fact that many guys find the larger lady attractive both in swinging and everyday life. You really have made yourself look a complete idiot by completely contridicting what you wrote. Oh and every guy ive had a serious relationship in my life havent had a natural preference for big women, ive been the only big woman they have been with but they where attracted to me as a person. My boyfriends ex wife was a size 10. So after reading this thread i will say some slim women are aggressive and basically unattractive because they have a shit personality. But hey dont worry cause there are needy on here that will shag anything | |||
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"I AM BAILING OUT. Was never my intention to cause any upset. I was asking some questions, thats all, was curious as to why people like to be pigeon holed a BBW. I think it's unhealthy to be too overwieght, the strain on your heart, knees back etc is just too much. Read again I said "I think", NOT "I am telling you this is how your life should be". Going back to the original post, I agree, some BBW on here are very arrogant and full of themselves, and cakes.." errr I hate cake... | |||
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"I AM BAILING OUT. Was never my intention to cause any upset. I was asking some questions, thats all, was curious as to why people like to be pigeon holed a BBW. I think it's unhealthy to be too overwieght, the strain on your heart, knees back etc is just too much. Read again I said "I think", NOT "I am telling you this is how your life should be". Going back to the original post, I agree, some BBW on here are very arrogant and full of themselves, and cakes.." To be honest i didnt see anything wrong with the question you asked. But you just went and spoilt it by your last paragraph | |||
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"BBW'on this and other sites are often aggressive. I think its because as basically unattractive people they find that on a sex site even they are in demand from the 'needy'and this makes them over confidant and arrogant." Don't think that was called for.... | |||
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"BBW'on this and other sites are often aggressive. I think its because as basically unattractive people they find that on a sex site even they are in demand from the 'needy'and this makes them over confidant and arrogant. Don't think that was called for.... " I do cause it proves what she has typed is a load of bollocks | |||
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"I AM BAILING OUT. Was never my intention to cause any upset. I was asking some questions, thats all, was curious as to why people like to be pigeon holed a BBW. I think it's unhealthy to be too overwieght, the strain on your heart, knees back etc is just too much. Read again I said "I think", NOT "I am telling you this is how your life should be". Going back to the original post, I agree, some BBW on here are very arrogant and full of themselves, and cakes.. To be honest i didnt see anything wrong with the question you asked. But you just went and spoilt it by your last paragraph" Probably did ruin it with the throwaway cake comment... it was meant in jest, take it anyway you wish to. The last paragraph was written in response to the jumping up and down by peoples. Keep jumping and you'll loose weight. Another couple of question for BBW's - Would you be upset if you lost weight and were no longer a BBW Was there a point where you thought "just a few more stone and I will be BBW" I am just curious and taking the opportunity to ask. Also are there any BHM here advertising? | |||
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"I AM BAILING OUT. Was never my intention to cause any upset. I was asking some questions, thats all, was curious as to why people like to be pigeon holed a BBW. I think it's unhealthy to be too overwieght, the strain on your heart, knees back etc is just too much. Read again I said "I think", NOT "I am telling you this is how your life should be". Going back to the original post, I agree, some BBW on here are very arrogant and full of themselves, and cakes.." indeed being every offencive ....dont try and lecture people about their weight and heath issues ....i had a brother who died in feb at the age of 47 fitttest guy i know who died from sudden adult death syndrome one thing that has tough me is live life to the max for tomorrow you might not be here. yours a BBW living life and loving it not arrogant or up my onw ass | |||
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"I AM BAILING OUT. Was never my intention to cause any upset. I was asking some questions, thats all, was curious as to why people like to be pigeon holed a BBW. I think it's unhealthy to be too overwieght, the strain on your heart, knees back etc is just too much. Read again I said "I think", NOT "I am telling you this is how your life should be". Going back to the original post, I agree, some BBW on here are very arrogant and full of themselves, and cakes.. To be honest i didnt see anything wrong with the question you asked. But you just went and spoilt it by your last paragraph Probably did ruin it with the throwaway cake comment... it was meant in jest, take it anyway you wish to. The last paragraph was written in response to the jumping up and down by peoples. Keep jumping and you'll loose weight. Another couple of question for BBW's - Would you be upset if you lost weight and were no longer a BBW Was there a point where you thought "just a few more stone and I will be BBW" I am just curious and taking the opportunity to ask. Also are there any BHM here advertising?" you would not believe it but not so many moons ago I was a size 10 and hated it why because it was not right for me..then I went to a size 24-26 and hated it.. why because it was not right for me.. Now I am a size 18-20 and love it why because its right for me.. what is right for me may not be right for everyone else but is the important part making yourself happy and not other people? If I had a sudden urge to loose more weight I would having lost 5 stone already I stick to a healthy eating plan but if I want a blow I will because that makes ME happy. We have to embrace who we are as individuals. I love older guys does that make me agest? I like a man with a big willy does that make cock sizeist no it makes me happy. So even if the cake comment was said in jest its not a nice comment to make.. Its like saying to a skinny woman you need feeding up she maybe happy that she is skinny the same as a volumptous woman maybe happy that she is she. I am a fit person I don't need a jcb to hoist me out of the bed in the morning I walk a mile to get me to work and I do Zumba...... Do I sit here and eat cake no because that is my choice but don;'t knock someone that does because that is their choice... | |||
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"Thanks Diamond. PLEASE PLEASE accept my apology if I have offended anyone. Was NOT my intention at all. Have fun." I took no offence to this and suffered many a jibe in the past and water and duck comes to mind... Just be aware that there are some sensitive souls out there that could take these comments to heart... x | |||
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"I think some people just can't help showing themselves up for what they are. Today we've had racist claiming not to be - thankfully the Mods removed that post, and people making nasty comments about the size of others then pretending not to offend. Oh well, if it makes them feel good about themselves, so be it." Hello Goddess, whats it like up there looking down on us mere mortals?? Goodbye, I'll close the door on the way out..... | |||
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"I think some people just can't help showing themselves up for what they are. Today we've had racist claiming not to be - thankfully the Mods removed that post, and people making nasty comments about the size of others then pretending not to offend. Oh well, if it makes them feel good about themselves, so be it. Hello Goddess, whats it like up there looking down on us mere mortals?? Goodbye, I'll close the door on the way out....." Tiresome people! | |||
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"I think some people just can't help showing themselves up for what they are. Today we've had racist claiming not to be - thankfully the Mods removed that post, and people making nasty comments about the size of others then pretending not to offend. Oh well, if it makes them feel good about themselves, so be it. Hello Goddess, whats it like up there looking down on us mere mortals?? Goodbye, I'll close the door on the way out..... Tiresome people!" What I have learnt from this, is that I do not like You! Sassy. | |||
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"It's a general thing, not confined to Fab and not confined to swinging. It's an extension of the "we're wonderful and, if you're like us, you can be wonderful too" contention. BBWs use it to annoy/ upset/ bait/ etc their slimmer counterparts. Their slimmer counterparts reciprocate though not, it seems to me (and not just on Fab), quite so vociferously or so regularly. I don't know where the balance of the truth lies save for the fact there's a multi-billion £ 'get slim' industry out there and I don't see any 'become a BBW' counterpart. TREAT PEOPLE WELL.... RESPECT DIFFRENCE...... HAVE RESPECT FOR ALL NOT JUST THE CHOOSEN FEW ......FORGIVE WRONGS AND JUDGE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU DO OTHERS....... PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS SO DONT HURT THEIR FEELINGS BUy BEING INSENSITIVE B*******S sorry felt i had to shout to to make ppl take note lol " shout ! errr i thought you just had cap lock on by mistake lol | |||
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"I think some people just can't help showing themselves up for what they are. Today we've had racist claiming not to be - thankfully the Mods removed that post, and people making nasty comments about the size of others then pretending not to offend. Oh well, if it makes them feel good about themselves, so be it. Hello Goddess, whats it like up there looking down on us mere mortals?? Goodbye, I'll close the door on the way out..... Tiresome people! What I have learnt from this, is that I do not like You! Sassy." this was taken for the botton of you post :Why oh why cant we stick together more and not tear someone down if they appear to have a little self confidence you work it out | |||
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"It's a general thing, not confined to Fab and not confined to swinging. It's an extension of the "we're wonderful and, if you're like us, you can be wonderful too" contention. BBWs use it to annoy/ upset/ bait/ etc their slimmer counterparts. Their slimmer counterparts reciprocate though not, it seems to me (and not just on Fab), quite so vociferously or so regularly. I don't know where the balance of the truth lies save for the fact there's a multi-billion £ 'get slim' industry out there and I don't see any 'become a BBW' counterpart. TREAT PEOPLE WELL.... RESPECT DIFFRENCE...... HAVE RESPECT FOR ALL NOT JUST THE CHOOSEN FEW ......FORGIVE WRONGS AND JUDGE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU DO OTHERS....... PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS SO DONT HURT THEIR FEELINGS BUy BEING INSENSITIVE B*******S sorry felt i had to shout to to make ppl take note lol shout ! errr i thought you just had cap lock on by mistake lol" ermmmmmmm no caps was on for a very good reason but seems the origonal poster missed my point | |||
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"I think some people just can't help showing themselves up for what they are. Today we've had racist claiming not to be - thankfully the Mods removed that post, and people making nasty comments about the size of others then pretending not to offend. Oh well, if it makes them feel good about themselves, so be it. Hello Goddess, whats it like up there looking down on us mere mortals?? Goodbye, I'll close the door on the way out..... Tiresome people! What I have learnt from this, is that I do not like You! Sassy." I'm tearing up at that! Devasted! | |||
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"I think some people just can't help showing themselves up for what they are. Today we've had racist claiming not to be - thankfully the Mods removed that post, and people making nasty comments about the size of others then pretending not to offend. Oh well, if it makes them feel good about themselves, so be it. Hello Goddess, whats it like up there looking down on us mere mortals?? Goodbye, I'll close the door on the way out..... Tiresome people! What I have learnt from this, is that I do not like You! Sassy. I'm tearing up at that! Devasted! " Thought you might of said something like that | |||
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"It's a general thing, not confined to Fab and not confined to swinging. It's an extension of the "we're wonderful and, if you're like us, you can be wonderful too" contention. BBWs use it to annoy/ upset/ bait/ etc their slimmer counterparts. Their slimmer counterparts reciprocate though not, it seems to me (and not just on Fab), quite so vociferously or so regularly. I don't know where the balance of the truth lies save for the fact there's a multi-billion £ 'get slim' industry out there and I don't see any 'become a BBW' counterpart. TREAT PEOPLE WELL.... RESPECT DIFFRENCE...... HAVE RESPECT FOR ALL NOT JUST THE CHOOSEN FEW ......FORGIVE WRONGS AND JUDGE YOURSELF BEFORE YOU DO OTHERS....... PEOPLE ARE HUMAN BEINGS SO DONT HURT THEIR FEELINGS BUy BEING INSENSITIVE B*******S sorry felt i had to shout to to make ppl take note lol shout ! errr i thought you just had cap lock on by mistake lol ermmmmmmm no caps was on for a very good reason but seems the origonal poster missed my point " I think you missed mine too... hopefully the posting above will clarify. | |||
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"Theres all sorts of resons why some people are bigger its not always like like there food ..... i know years ago i was bigger i lost two badys at 16/18 weeks and was bed rest after that i put on ....... was not easy to take off years of diets so now i am happy .... i am me" i was there 8 weeks and over having a go at having babys bed rest was monthes ........... but told i could do very little ... i know its years ago ....... all i am saying theres resons why .why people put on pounds. | |||
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"this whole thread is really funny. Only a few with glanular problems have a reason to be overweight. Most BIG girls (and boys for that matter) eat too much and dont take enough exercise.." well i am now a 14 would be nice to see you and me in a room i have long legs nig tits .... thay would like us both even when i was a 16 size is not everything is the person. people are more then a size. | |||
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"closes the door softly behind her " WHY was your post x i am a bigger woman and can take most you size 6/8/10 12 on . lol | |||
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"I think the Mods deserve a pat on the back, they haven't been over zealous and closed this debate. It's good to see people being allowed to sort it out for themselves. Whatever your point of _iew, to those that have resorted to insults or being unnecessarily rude, you should be embarrased. I do think the Ops original question was a valid one, whether it's been answered in the melée that followed is open to debate, but one thing in my humble opinion is clear. Generalisation is a lazy, irresponsible, ill-informed way to debate most arguments. I'm sure many of us believe this, but it still finds a way of dominating the forums. For the record I don't like the term BBW, just like I don't like the term BBC etc and so forth. They are labels that mask over an individual. I'm for individuals without labels wherever possible. " You always have a way of putting things nicely! | |||
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"Firstly just testing the freedom of press on here and secondly not looking for an argument just curious. Until Fab I cant say I was very aware of this term or maybe didnt really think about it. However, after reading different threads of the past few months Im given to wondering..... why is it that people who describe themselves as big beautiful women can be very scathing towards others who are not as large. It appears that they feel they are the only ones allowed to use the b. word and that if you are over a certain size this makes you automatically entitled to it. Is this a swinging phenominen or just a general thing. Apparantly if you say bbw are not for you its your loss and if you say you are attractive but not large you are stuck up your own arse. Im sensing some double standards here ... is it just me thats wondering? Would really like to see people replying in a polite mannered way. Im by no means bashing anyone. Simply curious about those that feel they are entitled to bash others either way and hoping they will see the others point of _iew and be a little more openminded! Us girls all have our insecurites no matter what our size or looks. Why oh why cant we stick together more and not tear someone down if they appear to have a little self confidence. Yours, hopefully but not holding her breath, Mistress " Its all down to a secret movement called the Fattist Freedom Front but i cant say any more Shhhhhhhhhhhhh | |||
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"closes the door softly behind her WHY was your post x i am a bigger woman and can take most you size 6/8/10 12 on . lol" Ok, sneaked head back in. Lol. Well prob because I had had a couple of glasses of rose when I posted this and rambled over too many points which I felt were ignored in favour of a fat or thin debate. Just for vthe record I'm not skinny, have curves myself and would rather enjoy being in the same room as you. | |||
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"Firstly just testing the freedom of press on here and secondly not looking for an argument just curious. Until Fab I cant say I was very aware of this term or maybe didnt really think about it. However, after reading different threads of the past few months Im given to wondering..... why is it that people who describe themselves as big beautiful women can be very scathing towards others who are not as large. It appears that they feel they are the only ones allowed to use the b. word and that if you are over a certain size this makes you automatically entitled to it. Is this a swinging phenominen or just a general thing. Apparantly if you say bbw are not for you its your loss and if you say you are attractive but not large you are stuck up your own arse. Im sensing some double standards here ... is it just me thats wondering? Would really like to see people replying in a polite mannered way. Im by no means bashing anyone. Simply curious about those that feel they are entitled to bash others either way and hoping they will see the others point of _iew and be a little more openminded! Us girls all have our insecurites no matter what our size or looks. Why oh why cant we stick together more and not tear someone down if they appear to have a little self confidence. Yours, hopefully but not holding her breath, Mistress Its all down to a secret movement called the Fattist Freedom Front but i cant say any more Shhhhhhhhhhhhh" | |||
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"closes the door softly behind her WHY was your post x i am a bigger woman and can take most you size 6/8/10 12 on . lol Ok, sneaked head back in. Lol. Well prob because I had had a couple of glasses of rose when I posted this and rambled over too many points which I felt were ignored in favour of a fat or thin debate. Just for vthe record I'm not skinny, have curves myself and would rather enjoy being in the same room as you. " Thats ok as may like to be in same room as you xx | |||
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