FabSwingers.com forum: Internal beauty

By *mo-amas-amat OP Man
over a year ago

brighton

After all the recent threads about external indicators of beauty or sexiness, (fat/thin, black/white, big tits/small tits, BBC/BWC et al) I am curious to know what internal traits turn you on. Humour? Intellect? Confidence? Shyness? Kindness? Assertion?

Thoughts on the virtual postcard beneath....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Piety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can "

Bloody phone is playing up! Haha.

Can I say all OP?

If I had to choose one, it would be humour.. Dry humour to be exact.

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By *mo-amas-amat OP Man
over a year ago

brighton

"Piety"

In that case, want to hook up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Assertiveness, humour, kindness, sincerity.

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

We both have a strong attraction to people who enjoy life and aren't afraid of having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty, Confidence and filthy mindedness

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By *mo-amas-amat OP Man
over a year ago

brighton

"Assertiveness, humour, kindness, sincerity. "

Sincerity. That's classy.

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By *rSuitedAndBootedMan
over a year ago

London

Got to be humor 100% and depending on the mood either shyness (I like to lead) or confidence again depends on the mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We both have a strong attraction to people who enjoy life and aren't afraid of having fun"

Aren't afraid of having fun - I see that on profiles a lot and I'm a bit confused by what people mean by that. Would you be able to clarify?

I'm not being argumentative or facetious, just curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We both have a strong attraction to people who enjoy life and aren't afraid of having fun

Aren't afraid of having fun - I see that on profiles a lot and I'm a bit confused by what people mean by that. Would you be able to clarify?

I'm not being argumentative or facetious, just curious. "

No, I'm the same with the confusion on that one. Surely fun is subjective.. If one persons idea of fun is not the same as someone else's... Surely that just means they like different fun.. Not that they aren't fun... Bloddy hell, confusing myself there

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By *LUKCouple
over a year ago

Loughborough

"Aren't afraid of having fun"

Hard to quantify but I suppose it's like being in a situation where you can choose to do something without knowing the outcome, taking a risk and saying "Fuck it, lets do it!".

It's being able to let go and fully enjoy yourself without thinking "Can't do that, I might look silly" or "I'm too old to do that" or "What would x think if they knew I did that?" etc. Let your hair down and have some fun.

It's being able to sit around a table and laugh your arse off all night about absolutely nothing, instead of telling us about how much money you earned in the last quarter or how your car broke down last week. Or talking about the fucking weather.

We've all had meets where you're sat there thinking "Jesus...I wish he/she would just shut up. I think I might fall asleep". We've also had meets where you wish the night would never end and time flies in. We're after the latter.

Does that make sense or have I complicated it even more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ambition, a bit of drive. I don't care what people do, particularly, but I like them to be trying to succeed in whatever field they work in.

Sarcasm or a dry sense of humour. Not too fluffy or romantic because that shit is a huge turn off for me.

Argumentative, assertive and will challenge me back and give as good as they get from me.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Loyalty, kindness, honesty and wit.

Not enough emphasis on loyalty nowadays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour, but not at the expense of others

confidence (not arrogance)

kindness

and intellect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not sure really. i'm not falling for character any more as it's easy to fake that.

if we get on, don't annoy each other, thats good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the women around me growing up were bright so l do think intelligence is the trait l find most attractive.

Confidence less so, l believe men are better at overlooking shyness than women are.

l am also attracted to women who are good mothers.

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By *urvygirl75Woman
over a year ago

chester

Making me literally laugh out loud, confidence without arrogance, being able to hold a proper conversation and being interested in me so not just asking the usual boring questions.....and the big one for me-being able to spell....well at least not just using text talk! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ambition, a bit of drive. I don't care what people do, particularly, but I like them to be trying to succeed in whatever field they work in.

Sarcasm or a dry sense of humour. Not too fluffy or romantic because that shit is a huge turn off for me.

Argumentative, assertive and will challenge me back and give as good as they get from me. "

You do love a debate. So do l though.

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By *mo-amas-amat OP Man
over a year ago

brighton

"All the women around me growing up were bright so l do think intelligence is the trait l find most attractive.

Confidence less so, l believe men are better at overlooking shyness than women are.

l am also attracted to women who are good mothers. "

Good mothers. That's beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Aren't afraid of having fun"

Hard to quantify but I suppose it's like being in a situation where you can choose to do something without knowing the outcome, taking a risk and saying "Fuck it, lets do it!".

Does that make sense or have I complicated it even more?

Oh yes, makes perfect sense now - I know exactly what you mean about both types of meets. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Polite, intelligent and positive personalities are essential for me and as someone who is easily persuaded I'm often attracted most to assertive adventurous types!

I'm not asking for much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all my beauty is on the outside

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Humour, intelligence and an ability to know what's important.

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Desperation!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not sure really. i'm not falling for character any more as it's easy to fake that.

if we get on, don't annoy each other, thats good."

How does one fake character?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

It is so hard to quantify but it's exactly what I look for in a one on one meet. At the risk of being accused of elitism, someone who is bright, isn't afraid to have a different opinion than me and express it without being a twat about it, funny with a dry sense of humour and a sense of the absurd, quick thinking, candid when necessary and non-clingy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My man has a cheeky chappie nature and he's so funny - that's what I like in a person. Oh, -and someone who can have an intelligent conversation - I also find intelligence sexy

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All the women around me growing up were bright so l do think intelligence is the trait l find most attractive.

Confidence less so, l believe men are better at overlooking shyness than women are.

l am also attracted to women who are good mothers. "

Women who are good mothers is a good one, but not really something you can see online,only in real life I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kindness,

Humour,

Intellect,

Prude to a certain extent

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Intelligence, a passion for something however obscure, a dry sense of humour and quick wit. I also like someone who can challenge me and isn't afraid to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour definitely.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

someone who is sincere, kind, has common sense, unpretentious, not too serious.

down to earth, hasnt got anything to prove, polite and a gentleman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Passionate enough to care about others, wise enough to not care what others think of them and happy enough to really care about themselves.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes, it's what's inside that matters - if it's my cock then that's just perfect

No, actually, a sense of humour, down-to-earth attitude, not superior, easy going . Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sanity is a quality especially on this site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, it's what's inside that matters - if it's my cock then that's just perfect

No, actually, a sense of humour, down-to-earth attitude, not superior, easy going . Simples

Haha good answer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sanity is a quality especially on this site!"

Sanity is over rated. It's a understandable reaction to this world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not sure really. i'm not falling for character any more as it's easy to fake that.

if we get on, don't annoy each other, thats good.

How does one fake character?

easily, if they want to do that.

i had a relationship with someone for almost 3 yrs who did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

confidence is sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not sure really. i'm not falling for character any more as it's easy to fake that.

if we get on, don't annoy each other, thats good.

How does one fake character?

easily, if they want to do that.

i had a relationship with someone for almost 3 yrs who did."

It's been said that sociopaths/psychopaths are generally capable of faking like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kindness. Sense of humour is good but even if they're funny but a bit of a asshole then their sense of humour wouldn't be enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour and confidence (but not arrogant) is a must, and a naughty imaginative mind is a necessity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not sure really. i'm not falling for character any more as it's easy to fake that.

if we get on, don't annoy each other, thats good.

How does one fake character?

easily, if they want to do that.

i had a relationship with someone for almost 3 yrs who did.

It's been said that sociopaths/psychopaths are generally capable of faking like that. "

Yes. And you only find out when the police come knocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who is chilled and relaxed and sexily confident...with my humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a real thing for intellgient guys who are funny. Marc is probably the smartest person I've ever met, and he makes me laugh, so in my eyes he is perfect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"not sure really. i'm not falling for character any more as it's easy to fake that.

if we get on, don't annoy each other, thats good.

How does one fake character?

easily, if they want to do that.

i had a relationship with someone for almost 3 yrs who did.

It's been said that sociopaths/psychopaths are generally capable of faking like that. "

covert ones, yeah.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Self assuredness, confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour and wittyness is definitely one for me it's what won me over with my fiance

L xx

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"not sure really. i'm not falling for character any more as it's easy to fake that.

if we get on, don't annoy each other, thats good.

How does one fake character?

easily, if they want to do that.

i had a relationship with someone for almost 3 yrs who did.

It's been said that sociopaths/psychopaths are generally capable of faking like that. "

Yes and narcissists, for years.

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By *liciaKLWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

beauty is only skin deep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Integrity

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

Intelligence and humour are a major attraction for me. The ability to laugh at yourself helps x.

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