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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why are so many "single" men unable to accommodate even when profiles state they can?? And they expect single women to put themselves at risk by us accommodating or randomly jumping in our cars to meet them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are so many "single" men unable to accommodate even when profiles state they can?? And they expect single women to put themselves at risk by us accommodating or randomly jumping in our cars to meet them? "

No idea. What are your thoughts?

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Why are so many "single" men unable to accommodate even when profiles state they can?? And they expect single women to put themselves at risk by us accommodating or randomly jumping in our cars to meet them? "
cause some single men or women are full of shit and lie about that they are single, gives us real singles a bad name.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why are so many "single" men unable to accommodate even when profiles state they can?? And they expect single women to put themselves at risk by us accommodating or randomly jumping in our cars to meet them?

No idea. What are your thoughts?"
that they just want to empty their ball sacks however they can lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Well mine is all genuine hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same reason why women cant, you never know who you meet, or they live at home and got a family lol.

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By *ed wineMan
over a year ago

Where the streets have no name

If I were a woman and meet a man alone, by no means at his or mine.

Definitely a hotel.

Cleaner and safer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are so many "single" men unable to accommodate even when profiles state they can?? And they expect single women to put themselves at risk by us accommodating or randomly jumping in our cars to meet them? "

Because they are lying and they are not single. !! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've had a stalker and two guys trying to get into my house at two am that's why I no longer accommodate and now only meet with my partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are so many "single" men unable to accommodate even when profiles state they can?? And they expect single women to put themselves at risk by us accommodating or randomly jumping in our cars to meet them?

Because they are lying and they are not single. !! Lol

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and not straight either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why are so many "single" men unable to accommodate even when profiles state they can?? And they expect single women to put themselves at risk by us accommodating or randomly jumping in our cars to meet them?

Because they are lying and they are not single. !! Lol

and not straight either "

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Exactly the same reasons ladies or couples can't, won't or don't,

If the profile doesn't meet your requirements move on, simplest.

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham

Good one mate 100%right

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Various reasons,some will be cheating,some live with family or have children with them.Some just don't want to invite people they dont know over,that used to annoy me when i had my single profile.People who would quite happily try and get to mine ,but wouldnt accom or have strangers over

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a lack of trust involved as well.. people who say they'd accommodate don't trust the visitor because they don't know them. Mutual meeting points and a build up of trust is a must.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I can't accommodate as I live with parents that's not to say people can't join me in a hotel room or at a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't accommodate because my son lives with me ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Child in the house. That simple. Im a widower so babysitters tend to come to me. Saves any upheaval of little miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why I meet at clubs - safe and sexy environment and no need to clean my sheets or disclose my address to someone I don't know.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"This is why I meet at clubs - safe and sexy environment and no need to clean my sheets or disclose my address to someone I don't know."

Oooo what about to those you do know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shared house. I feel uncomfortable having sex in a house full of people/strangers I live with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't speak for everyone, but my reason I can't accom often is that I live with my sister, and it wouldn't be fair to bring people back when she's at home. I'll accom if she's at her bf's or away for the night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally i share a apartment at the moment with a friend who been good enough to put me up while i get myself sorted here in UK and move into my own place next month.

I have no problem people coming to visit me here but wouldn't wont to take advantage of my host and have sex here with random strangers.

It's their home not mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some men have figured out the having can't accomodate means no-one will meet them and seeing as hardly anyone asks them to accom then it's ok to lie.

not saying why they can't accom or making accusations here, just that lying means they will have more 'success'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Exactly the same reasons ladies or couples can't, won't or don't,

If the profile doesn't meet your requirements move on, simplest."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are so many "single" men unable to accommodate even when profiles state they can?? And they expect single women to put themselves at risk by us accommodating or randomly jumping in our cars to meet them?

No idea. What are your thoughts?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hosted when i was part of a couple but after really knowing the person and would host again but not until ide met at a club bar or hotel several times prior. Discretion is my biggest concern I can't risk work knowing I'm swinging so generally ask for meets at a club or hotel..

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I see no reason for guys justifying the reason they can't won't or don't, the same assumptions aren't generally made of ladies or couples..

I said it before ...any reason a lady or couple can offer could be just as valid for a single guy.. if the can but won't or doesn't accommodate reason or choices doest suit...folk have two choices move on or sort out a mother venue.

I can accommodate I have accommodated, it's my choice whether I will again and with whom, if others aren't happy with that ..I'm happy for them to move on to the next guy,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's because l live in a shared house, and I don't really want to be explaining my sex life to my housemates.

When they are away then I'm very happy to accommodate, but that can unpredictable as to when.

And I rather like hotels.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"some men have figured out the having can't accomodate means no-one will meet them and seeing as hardly anyone asks them to accom then it's ok to lie.

not saying why they can't accom or making accusations here, just that lying means they will have more 'success'."
but surely they don't have success as they are caught out when they lie??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can accommodate and do accommodate, but only when I know the woman or couple. As some women and couples don't let complete strangers into their house, why should single men? It is not a gender issue.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I see no reason for guys justifying the reason they can't won't or don't, the same assumptions aren't generally made of ladies or couples..

I said it before ...any reason a lady or couple can offer could be just as valid for a single guy.. if the can but won't or doesn't accommodate reason or choices doest suit...folk have two choices move on or sort out a mother venue.

I can accommodate I have accommodated, it's my choice whether I will again and with whom, if others aren't happy with that ..I'm happy for them to move on to the next guy, "
I frequently have to justify to guys why I accommodate my partner and not them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind tbh. I much prefer hotel meets nice and easy , clean and no mess to clear up after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can and do accommodate. I do, also, always suggest or offer to meet somewhere neutral first.

However, I would say over 90% of my meets have trusted me enough to meet directly at mine...or actually to invite me to theirs on a first meet.....that includes couples and single women.

There is still a lot of trust on this site!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I can, I did but no longer.

Lack of discretion by people stopped me.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I've had a stalker and two guys trying to get into my house at two am that's why I no longer accommodate and now only meet with my partner"

....whereas no woman ever stalked anyone ever.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)


"I see no reason for guys justifying the reason they can't won't or don't, the same assumptions aren't generally made of ladies or couples..

I said it before ...any reason a lady or couple can offer could be just as valid for a single guy.. if the can but won't or doesn't accommodate reason or choices doest suit...folk have two choices move on or sort out a mother venue.

I can accommodate I have accommodated, it's my choice whether I will again and with whom, if others aren't happy with that ..I'm happy for them to move on to the next guy, I frequently have to justify to guys why I accommodate my partner and not them lol"

Your choice to explain to others, personally if the other person or folk are that demanding , delete move on.. like I said folk have two choices accept that and arrange something else or move on to someone else..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some men have figured out the having can't accomodate means no-one will meet them and seeing as hardly anyone asks them to accom then it's ok to lie.

not saying why they can't accom or making accusations here, just that lying means they will have more 'success'. but surely they don't have success as they are caught out when they lie??"

i figure they get meets anyway? to people who will accom? just off having that they can accom on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we can't name and shame liars on here so if some people don't ask to accom it's no problem for them to lie about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can accomodate,but prefer not to unless it's either someone I know reasonably well,or have met a few times and can trust to be respectful.I don't want someone I don't really know much about in my fortress of solitude.Most people who visit aren't too keen on my pets anyway besides,an Englishman's home is his castle don't you know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't accommodate for a couple reasons, one of which was a bad experience accommodating a couple from another site.

I'm not in a relationship and I don't lie, but you will believe whatever you choose to anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't accommodate for a couple reasons, one of which was a bad experience accommodating a couple from another site.

I'm not in a relationship and I don't lie, but you will believe whatever you choose to anyway... "

i did say some men, and i just mentioned my experience on here. it was a direct answer to why some men won't accomodate but say they can.

and, from experience, i know some attached men will acoomodate also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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i did say some men, and i just mentioned my experience on here. it was a direct answer to why some men won't accomodate but say they can.

and, from experience, i know some attached men will acoomodate also."

Yeah I know, sorry I wasn't responding directly to your question, as I don't know the answer to that.

My post was more of a response to the posts on this, and other threads, saying that single men that can't accommodate are all lying cheats. It gets my goat a little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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i did say some men, and i just mentioned my experience on here. it was a direct answer to why some men won't accomodate but say they can.

and, from experience, i know some attached men will acoomodate also.

Yeah I know, sorry I wasn't responding directly to your question, as I don't know the answer to that.

My post was more of a response to the posts on this, and other threads, saying that single men that can't accommodate are all lying cheats. It gets my goat a little. "

yeah i hate it when people say that too as it's not always the case.

it's also exactly why when guys say they can accom is when people think they are single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why are so many "single" men unable to accommodate even when profiles state they can?? And they expect single women to put themselves at risk by us accommodating or randomly jumping in our cars to meet them?

No idea. What are your thoughts?that they just want to empty their ball sacks however they can lol"

Lol.

Some people are just very cautious who the let into their homes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Teenage kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All manner of reasons and not always because they live with a partner and are cheating.

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By *eeowlsMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Can accommodate even though I'm married and mrs dee maybe around if or when I ever get a meet or she might not be around on other occasions xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As already said ,for many different reasons, better to ask than to guess or assume the worse.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I see no reason for guys justifying the reason they can't won't or don't, the same assumptions aren't generally made of ladies or couples..

I said it before ...any reason a lady or couple can offer could be just as valid for a single guy.. if the can but won't or doesn't accommodate reason or choices doest suit...folk have two choices move on or sort out a mother venue.

I can accommodate I have accommodated, it's my choice whether I will again and with whom, if others aren't happy with that ..I'm happy for them to move on to the next guy, "

I know for a fact my mother won't accommodate

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Because I don't want you twats in my house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"some men have figured out the having can't accomodate means no-one will meet them and seeing as hardly anyone asks them to accom then it's ok to lie.

not saying why they can't accom or making accusations here, just that lying means they will have more 'success'."

I totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see no reason for guys justifying the reason they can't won't or don't, the same assumptions aren't generally made of ladies or couples..

I said it before ...any reason a lady or couple can offer could be just as valid for a single guy.. if the can but won't or doesn't accommodate reason or choices doest suit...folk have two choices move on or sort out a mother venue.

I can accommodate I have accommodated, it's my choice whether I will again and with whom, if others aren't happy with that ..I'm happy for them to move on to the next guy,

I know for a fact my mother won't accommodate "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most single girls we know only meet in clubs till they get to know people x

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Most single girls we know only meet in clubs till they get to know people x"

Most single women that I have met off here have never been to a club and most have no desire to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most single girls we know only meet in clubs till they get to know people x

Most single women that I have met off here have never been to a club and most have no desire to. "

Lol that is si funny ! You have no verifications

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

I can accommodate but it's not ideal, I have my cousin as a housemate as of recently so it's not as easy to guarantee the place to myself. I can't imagine a lot of women being happy playing with my cousin in the house.

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