FabSwingers.com forum: Really means ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When a profile states "Age, sex, colour ,build and looks unimportant" does that mean That they are a free spirit up for all new experiences or just that they are gagging for it and they'll screw anything ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Both I would imagine.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well in my case, its because I just want to have fun! And I have found that you can have fun with anyone as long as they have the right mindset! I play mainly in a club, and like it to be an 'anything goes' situation - so age, size colour etc are unimportant to me! As long as you have a hard willy, then we can play!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

In a way it can kind of out me off, the ppl who say anyone goes. I guess im one of the fussy brigade, cant play if there is not at least some attraction, but saying that they also have to have a personality, so for me its a bit of both. For example if a guy was a stunner but arrogant as shit, then it would be a no. I slo have age limits, cause i just cant see myself playing with someone lets say over 58,(random number). So no for us there has to a few factors before we play with ppl we meet. But the ones we wont play with for whatever reason we still like to be freinds with them and have a laugh. Just cause we dont want to play with them dont mean we cant be freinds.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In a way it can kind of out me off, the ppl who say anyone goes."

Same here HL. When you see someone who's not fussed about who they play with, you risk moving into "any hole's a goal" territory - like the guys in chat who basically work their way down the list... They're not fussed who it is, as long as someone, anyone, agrees to play!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Each to their own but not for me....call me fussy but there needs to be some kind of attraction and I do have an age limit.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In a way it can kind of out me off, the ppl who say anyone goes. I guess im one of the fussy brigade, cant play if there is not at least some attraction, but saying that they also have to have a personality, so for me its a bit of both. For example if a guy was a stunner but arrogant as shit, then it would be a no. I slo have age limits, cause i just cant see myself playing with someone lets say over 58,(random number). So no for us there has to a few factors before we play with ppl we meet. But the ones we wont play with for whatever reason we still like to be freinds with them and have a laugh. Just cause we dont want to play with them dont mean we cant be freinds. "

Member of the 'fussy brigade' agreeing with you!!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the majority of cases I have never interpreted that sentence to mean they will shag anything - to me it signifies that they are not caught up on one particular body type, one particular hair colour, etc etc, that they will view a person individually and judge on merit rather than sticking to the same old formula

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the majority of cases I have never interpreted that sentence to mean they will shag anything - to me it signifies that they are not caught up on one particular body type, one particular hair colour, etc etc, that they will view a person individually and judge on merit rather than sticking to the same old formula "

I agree with iconic on this one but it shows how some members assume . I can never understand how some people in this day and age still specify certain colour types they will only meet when quite easily they can ignore , reply with a no thanks or just block for them to never bother you again.

Secretly I think these people have an attraction to all types and are waiting for the exceptional and there are in every colour and age group to message them so they can sound like they are doing them a favour in meeting them in the first place .

I dont like people like this not very attractive .

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I can see this both ways. We have 'limits' but we would play beyond them. They are more general guidelines nowa days rather than hard and fast rules.

ie we may have an age limit in our heads of 45, but just cause someone has had an extra day in their lives, it does not mean that extra day is going to put us off.

In the end we tend to look in this order.

1. Are they they located in the right place

2. do they like similar stuff

3. Do they physically attract us

4. Do they talk a good game

5. Do they play a good game

We may put age limits in the search someewhere but the range depends on the day of the week. lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I dont like people like this not very attractive ."

I fully agree with both of you have to have open mind there are to many fussy shallow people in the world today ,i have no preferences on my profile thats why i have met many cpls be they asian west indian or white for everybody is the same to me ,the same goes for age and sexuality ,does that make me a every hole is a goal merchant no i have an open mind its about having fun

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spreading the net wide but you can still be choosy....or at least that's what I kid myself

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I fully agree with both of you have to have open mind there are to many fussy shallow people in the world today ,i have no preferences on my profile thats why i have met many cpls"

Ah, so it's fussy and shallow to have preferences now??

Good God.

I think people need to get a grip on the difference between racism and preference for a start. To say that preferences are racist shows an inability to understand the complexities of such an issue.

And just because I won't meet someone close to my father in age, for example, doesn't make me shallow. I have played with people of all types but I still have to find them attractive to do so. Haivng a cock isn't the only prerequisite to playing with me, but that doesn't make me fussy or shallow.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I fully agree with both of you have to have open mind there are to many fussy shallow people in the world today ,i have no preferences on my profile thats why i have met many cpls

I think people need to get a grip on the difference between racism and preference for a start. To say that preferences are racist shows an inability to understand the complexities of such an issue.

Are you talking about the racism or the preferences issue in that statement ?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I fully agree with both of you have to have open mind there are to many fussy shallow people in the world today ,i have no preferences on my profile thats why i have met many cpls

I think people need to get a grip on the difference between racism and preference for a start. To say that preferences are racist shows an inability to understand the complexities of such an issue.

Are you talking about the racism or the preferences issue in that statement ? "

My post was mainly aimed at the fact that apparently having preferences in general is now fussy and shallow...

But I do find it odd how people always equate preferences with racism. Now, I'm not saying that some people might not have issues of racism also. But surely in the majority of cases it's no different to having a preference for brunettes or larger boobs or smaller?

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I am half and half on this one.......at first I used to think they can't be fussy and as long as the person had a pulse they would do it.

But then we had a meet with a man who I would have said at the time was not the "type" I would normally go for....but he impressed us, we met, had fun, and now I have decided I don't have a "type" and go with the flow, if we like them enough and I fancy them, we play, simples.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

Its not to say i have a type i dont, but like someone above said, i would just not consider playing with someone older than my father. It is like saying i should play with someone who has a beard when i dont like beards, also i dont like the skinny type guys. My partner dont like the larger ladys. We also dont like meeting d*unk ppl. So yehh if this makes me shallow then shallow ill stay. As swinging aint the end all and be all in my life. We have eachother, so why should we settle for anything other than preferences we like.

Guess as well as being a member of the fussy brigade im now a member of the shallow brigade lol

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

We are the members of the US brigade, we do whats suits us

Fussy is a good thing in my book....and you can still be fussy with an open mind.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I completely agree with Rugby on this one. Its completely acceptable to have preferences and if you don't like certain types its ok to state that. But some people don't have a strong preference for a certain types, so when they put the statement that they welcome all people, it doesn't mean they will shag everyone that messages them.

Of course there are people who will shag anything but generally you can tell those types by the kind of profile they've written.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are the members of the US brigade, we do whats suits us

Fussy is a good thing in my book....and you can still be fussy with an open mind."
My thoughts exactly

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

"We are the members of the US brigade, we do whats suits us

Fussy is a good thing in my book....and you can still be fussy with an open mind."

Exactly xxx well put x

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *in4sumMan
over a year ago

sheffield

You need a spark to start the fires of lust and passion!

Everyone can have their own thing that makes sparks!

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Since when did being selective about who you have sex become a bad thing? Think I must be out of the loop. Signed President of the fussy and shallow brigade.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Since when did being selective about who you have sex become a bad thing? Think I must be out of the loop. Signed President of the fussy and shallow brigade.

It's never a bad thing , just shows we have certain standards

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Since when did being selective about who you have sex become a bad thing? Think I must be out of the loop. Signed President of the fussy and shallow brigade.

It's never a bad thing , just shows we have certain standards

we all have standards some lower or higher than others but never price yourself out the market

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"Since when did being selective about who you have sex become a bad thing? Think I must be out of the loop. Signed President of the fussy and shallow brigade.

It's never a bad thing , just shows we have certain standards

we all have standards some lower or higher than others but never price yourself out the market

To be honest, dont look at it like that. Dont play with peeps we arent attracted to or we wouldnt enjoy it so would be happy to go without. We have a good sexlife so can take or leave. My partner is even fussier than I am about the guys we pick and he is straight. He says Im his beautiful wife and his standards for me are high. Love him to bits.

Reply privately

Reply in forum

Reply +quote

Post new Message to Thread