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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A few guys have taken the huff because I don't always sign off with kisses...apparently it shows I am 'a cold person' or 'am not really interested'!

I generally don't tend to put.xxx after messaging but wasn't aware that lack of them signalled a snub!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol stop talking to people who so easily take the huff imagine what they'd be like on a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think they need to grow up I always put xx because then people know if its me or John (Kat) xx

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

Block. Next....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few guys have taken the huff because I don't always sign off with kisses...apparently it shows I am 'a cold person' or 'am not really interested'!

I generally don't tend to put.xxx after messaging but wasn't aware that lack of them signalled a snub!! "

Great way to filter idiots I would think?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Really? People take offence at that? Then as others have said they've just given you another filter. Sure it's always nice to see a 'x' with a message (and to be honest I don't always notice them anyway) but unless it's someone you've got to know, it has little meaning, so anyone bemoaning the lack of them really does need to get out more!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, no kisses at the end of your post?? Makes it sound so cold!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1st world problems eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh Tracey im so hurt

You didn't sign off xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few guys have taken the huff because I don't always sign off with kisses...apparently it shows I am 'a cold person' or 'am not really interested'!

I generally don't tend to put.xxx after messaging but wasn't aware that lack of them signalled a snub!! "

I'd say they are needy. Block and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bugger that. I'm more put off by people who *do* sign off with kisses all the time, it renders it totally meaningless. Signing off forum posts with kisses is even worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, you've been talking to some morons... I never sign off with a kiss here, if ladies want to do it that's fine, but I'd never expect it or care if she didn't! Needy children...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they're looking for love, bless!

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By *mo-amas-amatMan
over a year ago

brighton

I never use the letter 'x' to sign off....

Try 'v.d' instead.

It makes for amusement....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why should anyone be expected to put xx's at the end of every message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is everyone so thin skinned and flouncy!! sorry not everyone. but man up/grow a pair!

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"A few guys have taken the huff because I don't always sign off with kisses...apparently it shows I am 'a cold person' or 'am not really interested'!

I generally don't tend to put.xxx after messaging but wasn't aware that lack of them signalled a snub!! "

I dont either, not until I know them well enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only do the xx if its someone I know...

I wonder OP if you were telling them they weren't your type, and they thought a few xxx's might soften the blow?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"A few guys" doubt anyone ive ever spoken to would even know if i signed of with kisses or not.

Some people do interact with some strange people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is everyone so thin skinned and flouncy!! sorry not everyone. but man up/grow a pair!"

and to whom is this missive directed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bugger that. I'm more put off by people who *do* sign off with kisses all the time, it renders it totally meaningless. Signing off forum posts with kisses is even worse. "
. Oh dear I'm guilty of this here's the gun shoot me now haha (Kat) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bugger that. I'm more put off by people who *do* sign off with kisses all the time, it renders it totally meaningless. Signing off forum posts with kisses is even worse. "

I fully agree and I'm glad I say your comment because I know I'm not alone!

The only person I ever sign off with kisses to is when I have a GF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very very rarely sign off with a kiss unless i have a real connection with the person.

But it does make me grin to myself when a 'straight' guy messages me and signs of with one on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MWAH!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lol stop talking to people who so easily take the huff imagine what they'd be like on a meet "

Exactly

That's why a meet never follows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few guys have taken the huff because I don't always sign off with kisses...apparently it shows I am 'a cold person' or 'am not really interested'!

I generally don't tend to put.xxx after messaging but wasn't aware that lack of them signalled a snub!! "

I never sign off with kisses

I save them for family and friend

But then I'm often called s cold person anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few guys have taken the huff because I don't always sign off with kisses...apparently it shows I am 'a cold person' or 'am not really interested'!

I generally don't tend to put.xxx after messaging but wasn't aware that lack of them signalled a snub!! "

I never add 'x' onto the end of any messages. Not to random blokes on fab, not to my friends, not to the people I have sex with, not to the person I live with.

If that makes me 'cold', well, I can take that.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

In all my years of texting and messaging, I think I've probably ended 10 or so messages with X.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is everyone so thin skinned and flouncy!! sorry not everyone. but man up/grow a pair!

and to whom is this missive directed? "

The huffy ones who do not get enough kisses. They are to be given not taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bugger that. I'm more put off by people who *do* sign off with kisses all the time, it renders it totally meaningless. Signing off forum posts with kisses is even worse. "

I'll remember that in future xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky chaps??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Supposed to be a smile emoticon there , not "??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a habit of putting kisses at the end . Even sometimes by mistake too my mates xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few guys have taken the huff because I don't always sign off with kisses...apparently it shows I am 'a cold person' or 'am not really interested'!

I generally don't tend to put.xxx after messaging but wasn't aware that lack of them signalled a snub!!

I never add 'x' onto the end of any messages. Not to random blokes on fab, not to my friends, not to the people I have sex with, not to the person I live with.

If that makes me 'cold', well, I can take that

xxxxxxxxxxx."

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"A few guys have taken the huff because I don't always sign off with kisses...apparently it shows I am 'a cold person' or 'am not really interested'!

I generally don't tend to put.xxx after messaging but wasn't aware that lack of them signalled a snub!! "

my answer to this is only add a kiss if you mean it fake kisses for the sake of it no thanks I'm only interested in the real not the fake .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...really??? I wouldn't have thought guys would be in the least bit concerned.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I'm pretty sure I've never put an 'x' on message's to guy's from here. May be wrong though.

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

We were told to always sign your name with a X. Feel very sorry for the unfortunate ones called Andre!!

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