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I think I'm a sex addict

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By *eductive_Encounters OP   Man
over a year ago

Brixton

Is it bad that I have to Cum 4-5 times a day??? Am I the only one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a sex addict isnt about how much you cum or even have sex.... its about where in your life you place it.

I am in rehab so to speak.. Mr keeps me focussed and sex doesn't rule my life now. I manage to put my own health and family before a fuck.. something I couldn't always do. Sometimes it takes a lot of restraint but I have tried to change my focus

Your a sex addict when you would rather have sex than go to work. As in days off just for it and often.. food comes second.. you forgot to do normal things and your life revolves around it.

Thankfully at present that isnt me but... my desires are still the same just my focus has shifted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes you a compulsive wanker maybe rather than an addict

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By *hadow_MoonMan
over a year ago

St Columb Major, Cornwall


"Being a sex addict isnt about how much you cum or even have sex.... its about where in your life you place it.

I am in rehab so to speak.. Mr keeps me focussed and sex doesn't rule my life now. I manage to put my own health and family before a fuck.. something I couldn't always do. Sometimes it takes a lot of restraint but I have tried to change my focus

Your a sex addict when you would rather have sex than go to work. As in days off just for it and often.. food comes second.. you forgot to do normal things and your life revolves around it.

Thankfully at present that isnt me but... my desires are still the same just my focus has shifted. "

Well said...I also wear that T-Shirt so to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes you a compulsive wanker maybe rather than an addict "
I just spat my cuppa everywhere lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes you a compulsive wanker maybe rather than an addict I just spat my cuppa everywhere lol "

Sorry, I was giggling my juvenile head off as I typed it too if that's any consolation. And I'll make you a fresh brew

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By *orny and KinkyCouple
over a year ago

Greater Manchester


"It makes you a compulsive wanker maybe rather than an addict "

Fantastic !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4-5 is a lot. I'd do that at the very most once a day, least perhaps once or twice a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being a sex addict isnt about how much you cum or even have sex.... its about where in your life you place it.

I am in rehab so to speak.. Mr keeps me focussed and sex doesn't rule my life now. I manage to put my own health and family before a fuck.. something I couldn't always do. Sometimes it takes a lot of restraint but I have tried to change my focus

Your a sex addict when you would rather have sex than go to work. As in days off just for it and often.. food comes second.. you forgot to do normal things and your life revolves around it.

Thankfully at present that isnt me but... my desires are still the same just my focus has shifted. "

Not my focus, but is it a good idea to be on this? Like a recovering drug addict working in a meth lab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

**"not my concern", don't know why I wrote not my focus

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By *mo-amas-amatMan
over a year ago

brighton

If you'd rather a facial than work,

If a titjob is not even a perk,

If anal is king

Above everything,

Then at sex addicts anonymous, you'll lurk.

Adieu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being a sex addict isnt about how much you cum or even have sex.... its about where in your life you place it.

I am in rehab so to speak.. Mr keeps me focussed and sex doesn't rule my life now. I manage to put my own health and family before a fuck.. something I couldn't always do. Sometimes it takes a lot of restraint but I have tried to change my focus

Your a sex addict when you would rather have sex than go to work. As in days off just for it and often.. food comes second.. you forgot to do normal things and your life revolves around it.

Thankfully at present that isnt me but... my desires are still the same just my focus has shifted.

Not my focus, but is it a good idea to be on this? Like a recovering drug addict working in a meth lab"

pretty good place for a sex addict to be, really.

you can think or talk about sex if you wanna. sometimes you get reminders of why sex addiction isn't the best idea. some things put you off sex also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her story sounds quite sad to me, causing such stress to herself and her family by the sounds of it. I don't think a site dedicated to sex is the best place for a self confessed sex addict.

Free to do as she pleases though, she's obviously better placed to decide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Her story sounds quite sad to me, causing such stress to herself and her family by the sounds of it. I don't think a site dedicated to sex is the best place for a self confessed sex addict.

Free to do as she pleases though, she's obviously better placed to decide "

lessens the stress too, for me anyway. i know i can get a fuck any time i want to but this doesn't mean i will any more.

you're right though, she is in the better place to decide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's be honest for a second, when sex is more important than food or family, and you acknowledge you're a sex addict, this isn't s good place to be.

You say it lessens your stress, well it's more important to her than everything. Insensitive to turn a blind eye to this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes you a compulsive wanker maybe rather than an addict "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being a sex addict isnt about how much you cum or even have sex.... its about where in your life you place it.

I am in rehab so to speak.. Mr keeps me focussed and sex doesn't rule my life now. I manage to put my own health and family before a fuck.. something I couldn't always do. Sometimes it takes a lot of restraint but I have tried to change my focus

Your a sex addict when you would rather have sex than go to work. As in days off just for it and often.. food comes second.. you forgot to do normal things and your life revolves around it.

Thankfully at present that isnt me but... my desires are still the same just my focus has shifted. "

...... well I think I have problem then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Your a sex addict when you would rather have sex than go to work.

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Who would rather go to work than have sex?!

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france


"Being a sex addict isnt about how much you cum or even have sex.... its about where in your life you place it.

I am in rehab so to speak.. Mr keeps me focussed and sex doesn't rule my life now. I manage to put my own health and family before a fuck.. something I couldn't always do. Sometimes it takes a lot of restraint but I have tried to change my focus

Your a sex addict when you would rather have sex than go to work. As in days off just for it and often.. food comes second.. you forgot to do normal things and your life revolves around it.

Thankfully at present that isnt me but... my desires are still the same just my focus has shifted.

...... well I think I have problem then "

Yep - I think I'm in the addict category..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The criteria, developed by a DSM-5 sexual and gender identity disorders work group for the revised manual, establish a number of symptoms that must be present in order for the diagnosis to be made.

The symptoms for sex addiction include a recurring pattern of sexual fantasies, urges and behaviors lasting six months or longer that are not caused by other issues, such as substance abuse, another medical condition or manic episodes associated with bipolar disorder.

Also, an individual must show a pattern of sexual activity in response to unpleasant mood states, such as feeling depressed, or a pattern of repeatedly using sex as a way of coping with stress.

The criteria also states that individuals must be unsuccessful in their attempts to reduce or stop sexual activities they believe are problematic.

“As with many other mental health disorders, there must also be evidence of personal distress caused by the sexual behaviors that interfere with relationships, work or other important aspects of life,” Reid said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You said it lessons stress for you. She says it came above EVERYTHING and was putting huge strain on how family. So I don't know what you're getting at? That you're a sex addict also?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just put the criteria there for anyone questioning if they are one.

i'm an ex addict, struggle at times still but not as much, and being on this site helped me quite a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Her story sounds quite sad to me, causing such stress to herself and her family by the sounds of it. I don't think a site dedicated to sex is the best place for a self confessed sex addict.

Free to do as she pleases though, she's obviously better placed to decide "
also extremely qualified to decide and been doing this for 17 years... it helps a lot. And I haven't been like that for 4 years now thanks to having a man that understands me and helps me

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