FabSwingers.com forum: How to make your message stand so women reply

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Never know what to put when trying to get a woman attention on here?

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Never know what to put when trying to get a woman attention on here? "

A profile?

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Never know what to put when trying to get a woman attention on here?

A profile?"

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Never know what to put when trying to get a woman attention on here? "

Loads and loads of cock pics, works every time

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Put "ooooiiiii you fuckin slaaaaaag" in the header, they'll notice that

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

"Never know what to put when trying to get a woman attention on here? "
I don't think your stumbling block is the messages you're sending op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you really to know why you're not getting any replies?

Just look at your profile and then look at someone's who gets meets.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"Do you really to know why you're not getting any replies?

Just look at your profile and then look at someone's who gets meets. "

Hey guys, don't help the OP to improve his profile, his makes mine look great

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By *uck.Squeeze.Bang.BlowCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

"Never know what to put when trying to get a woman attention on here? "

Send us a message op and then we will know what we are working with. A profile worth reading is a must tho

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By *ellblessMan
over a year ago

Berkshire

Send them a fancy a fuck message with a cock pic.....10% of the time it works everytime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have given up sending messages any more since i never get a reply anyway. Unless its to say not interested which is always nice lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need photos first mate, facepics more so than cock pics keep cock pics private ect, try and make photos artistic and sensual/teasing, and always read profiles before you message, mention somthing about thier profile so they know u have read it, attach facepics if they have asked for it... all them things x

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

Have you tried using the secret word that guarantees a reply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you tried using the secret word that guarantees a reply?"

Oh do tell

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

"Have you tried using the secret word that guarantees a reply?

Oh do tell

But then it wouldn't be a secret!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sky remote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send a "how has your day been" that always gets our attention and make sure you are not what there looking for as well. Or just send a friend request with no message and wait for them to reply to you.

Hope this helps...,.,..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you tried using the secret word that guarantees a reply?

Oh do tell

But then it wouldn't be a secret!

Damn it i knew there would be a catch haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you tried using the secret word that guarantees a reply?

Oh do tell

But then it wouldn't be a secret!

Damn it i knew there would be a catch haha"

The secret password is always 'cunnilingus'. The ladies are always swooning if a man can spell that correctly!

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Send them a fancy a fuck message with a cock pic.....10% of the time it works everytime."

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Send them a message telling them how to run their profile better - instant dripping from the receiver and a guaranteed legs wide open response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never know what to put when trying to get a woman attention on here? "

If a message is of interest then most ladies will read the profile before deciding whether to reply. What do you think of your profile, OP? Is it interesting? Is it likely to tempt?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never know what to put when trying to get a woman attention on here?

A profile?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me know when your hubby goes to tesco for a quick one lol

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

OP, just out of interest how many messages do you send to women with no pictures at all and one line of profile text?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you really to know why you're not getting any replies?

Just look at your profile and then look at someone's who gets meets. "
so you think it my profile I need to look at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm surprised more guys don't use the 'highlighter' pen facility.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"Do you really to know why you're not getting any replies?

Just look at your profile and then look at someone's who gets meets. so you think it my profile I need to look at

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you really to know why you're not getting any replies?

Just look at your profile and then look at someone's who gets meets. so you think it my profile I need to look at

You have a profile?

Who knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you really to know why you're not getting any replies?

Just look at your profile and then look at someone's who gets meets. so you think it my profile I need to look at

You have a profile?

Who knew

You beat me to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Messages no matter how much it stood out wouldn't be opened, like a few people I look at profiles first nothing on there delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you really to know why you're not getting any replies?

Just look at your profile and then look at someone's who gets meets. so you think it my profile I need to look at

Understatement. Full profile+good pics+not being a cockwomble+patience needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never know what to put when trying to get a woman attention on here? "

Best to go with something like "I've kidnapped your kids and will only give proof of life if you agree to add me on Kik"

She will be more than willing, as it's clear that the situation can only improve from there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" FREE SHOES"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have you tried using the secret word that guarantees a reply?

Oh do tell

But then it wouldn't be a secret!

Damn it i knew there would be a catch haha

The secret password is always 'cunnilingus'. The ladies are always swooning if a man can spell that correctly!

Or if they can get their tongue around saying it?

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By *mo-amas-amatMan
over a year ago

brighton

"Never know what to put when trying to get a woman attention on here? "

How about... 'I'd like to give you something.....

....Syphilis.'

That'd grab their attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"" FREE SHOES""

I'm on my way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Messages no matter how much it stood out wouldn't be opened, like a few people I look at profiles first nothing on there delete."
get your point ssbbw

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

profile been updated what do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" profile been updated what do you think? "

It is so revealing.

By the way, did you come up with the "I don't bite" line all by yourself? I have never seen that before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

still doesnt really say much

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I didn't see your original profile OP but if what you have now is supposed to be an improvement, I in all honesty, dread to think what the original was like.

You've not really given any detail about who you are, what you're looking for, what you think you can offer etc. There's no pics of any kind, which I guess is better than just cock pics, but nothing to give anyone any idea what you're like.

Take a look around at other guys profiles for ideas of how you can improve yours and think about what you're hoping to get from the site and try to convey that in words is my advice.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'I texted you first because I know you were too shy to do so love. '

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Never know what to put when trying to get a woman attention on here? "

Use the red font.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

" profile been updated what do you think? "

Facepalm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always put the topic of "There is a pigeon In your bank account".

That always works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" profile been updated what do you think? "

You need some pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people will look at your profile before they even consider reading your message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Messages no matter how much it stood out wouldn't be opened, like a few people I look at profiles first nothing on there delete. get your point ssbbw "

Updated profile generic "genuine professional" "I don't bite" it would be a roll of the eyes

and on the to next profile

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

" profile been updated what do you think? "
first one was rubbish and this one is even worse op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" profile been updated what do you think? "

Perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All but the last digit of your credit card details?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually take time to read their profile rather than just messaging a generic message, it seems to work for me....and the hard work is definitely worth it

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By *erfumedpornovampireWoman
over a year ago

Swindon

" profile been updated what do you think?

You need some pics

And some punctuation

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By *mo-amas-amatMan
over a year ago

brighton

" profile been updated what do you think?

You need some pics

And some punctuation

And syntax, a narrative, a beginning, middle, end, a hero, a conceit, a plot, a heroine, some passionate lovemaking on the wings of a biplane....

Simple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 30/11/16 23:15:41]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can you do same and separate room swapping if you are single?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"How can you do same and separate room swapping if you are single?"

More fundamentally, what's he swapping?

A fleshlight?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have a partner who on here to that how lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have a partner who on here to that how lol "

Then create a couple's profile.

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By *mo-amas-amatMan
over a year ago

brighton

"Have a partner who on here to that how lol "

Sorry..can you repeat yourself?

Once more, with feeling....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have a partner who on here to that how lol

Then create a couple's profile."

...and you'll probably find more people might be responsive to your messages.

Just a thought

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I mean me and my partner have a couple profile on here to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mean me and my partner have a couple profile on here to "

I hope it is better than yours.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"I mean me and my partner have a couple profile on here to "

Get verified as a couple and say you meet as a single too. Looks better. What is the couples profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just use the highlighter in your browser.

Your messages stand out from the crowd that way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

BBWANDHIM69

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples profile just as bland as the single one...

Funny how it ENDS with a little about me...

Well WHAT ABOUT YOU THEN?

Good luck.... I think your gonna need it

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

" profile been updated what do you think? "

You are just talking about your couples profile in it. What do you have to offer anyone and what would you like in return. We don't even open messages, that have no public pics, but good luck.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I mean me and my partner have a couple profile on here to

Get verified as a couple and say you meet as a single too. Looks better. What is the couples profile?"

Yes this. You have verifications on your couples profile, so you are obviously meeting,with your partner. As suggested, put on your profile that you meet as a single, along with your user name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we not actually allowed to say "how are you?" I know that it would be a dull main part of the message but a common courtesy surely?!from some of the comments on the forums asking how their day was is akin to putting their cat in the microwave

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Have you actually read it? Your cut and paste hasn't worked and you still haven't put up any pictures. It's highly likely you won't have any success in its current form.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Are we not actually allowed to say "how are you?" I know that it would be a dull main part of the message but a common courtesy surely?!from some of the comments on the forums asking how their day was is akin to putting their cat in the microwave"

You're allowed to say anything you want but if it's not working, try something g else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're allowed to say anything you want but if it's not working, try something g else."

haha, well naturally I leave most of my readers feeling like they are corresponding with Oscar Wilde but it is nice to be polite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you've answered your own question there - 'I know that it would be dull'

There is absolutely nothing wrong with common courtesy, but the OP is asking about how to make his message stand out. 'How are you?' is fine as a opening to a message, but is unlikely to evoke a response if it is the sole content of the message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy be polite and no cock pics

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By *ornyfun121Man
over a year ago

all over

I struggle to get replays to can you lot tell me wher I'm going wrong lol

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

When some of theses ladies get many 'how are you' type messages in a day and nothing else, you can see why they are not replied to and/or deleted. Especially where there are no pics, whatsoever on the sender's profile.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"I struggle to get replays to can you lot tell me wher I'm going wrong lol"

Yes, you need to write a profile.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Thanks for the message OP. You are either not reading the posts or are trying to be humorous....not working!....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them you know me

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