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Unisex names . Can they be taking seriously?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For years I've had this dilemma.

Are the named person's confused by this?

Can they be trusted?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For example : Chris, lesely, Terry and the like????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Taken*

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For years I've had this dilemma.

Are the named person's confused by this?

Can they be trusted? "

It is abit strange...although I knew a pair of twins(M/F) that are both called Courtney. Safe to say my teacher was annoyed on exam days haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is Terry a unisex name ..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what you mean. I pulled a girl called Russell once. Definitely not trustworthy. The stubble was setting off alarm bells and when we got to the bedroom.. yup, you guessed it. Big hairy cock.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is Terry a unisex name ..?"
Exactly it's confusing. Terrence N Terasa shortended to Terry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is Terry a unisex name ..?"

terri?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is Terry a unisex name ..? Exactly it's confusing. Terrence N Terasa shortended to Terry. "

that's not an actual name though...

its a terri ble example

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Um...you picked your own name?? Mine was given to me.....how can my name reflect on who I am as a person??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is Terry a unisex name ..? Exactly it's confusing. Terrence N Terasa shortended to Terry.

that's not an actual name though...

its a terri ble example "
Exactly confusing. Terri Terry Tez. Confused Terry I take it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can they be trusted, in what way?

If you arrange to meet a Terri it might turn out to be a Terry..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can they be trusted, in what way?

If you arrange to meet a Terri it might turn out to be a Terry.. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Um...you picked your own name?? Mine was given to me.....how can my name reflect on who I am as a person?? "
Just when I'm introduced to some 1. And the name is said n when shake hands more often than not the handshake is the wet fish from Unisex names. Rather than more robust from non unisex....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Um...you picked your own name?? Mine was given to me.....how can my name reflect on who I am as a person?? Just when I'm introduced to some 1. And the name is said n when shake hands more often than not the handshake is the wet fish from Unisex names. Rather than more robust from non unisex...."

Just seems an odd conclusion to arrive at

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know what you mean. I pulled a girl called Russell once. Definitely not trustworthy. The stubble was setting off alarm bells and when we got to the bedroom.. yup, you guessed it. Big hairy cock."
Russell / Rusty I see how you made that mistake. Hope you have learnt from it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Um...you picked your own name?? Mine was given to me.....how can my name reflect on who I am as a person?? Just when I'm introduced to some 1. And the name is said n when shake hands more often than not the handshake is the wet fish from Unisex names. Rather than more robust from non unisex....

Just seems an odd conclusion to arrive at"
Years of scenarios. Have a look at the people you know n start you're on research. Don't take my word for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Um...you picked your own name?? Mine was given to me.....how can my name reflect on who I am as a person?? Just when I'm introduced to some 1. And the name is said n when shake hands more often than not the handshake is the wet fish from Unisex names. Rather than more robust from non unisex....

Just seems an odd conclusion to arrive at Years of scenarios. Have a look at the people you know n start you're on research. Don't take my word for it. "

That's ok, seems like a lot of effort when there are definitely more pleasurable things to pursue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Um...you picked your own name?? Mine was given to me.....how can my name reflect on who I am as a person?? Just when I'm introduced to some 1. And the name is said n when shake hands more often than not the handshake is the wet fish from Unisex names. Rather than more robust from non unisex....

Just seems an odd conclusion to arrive at Years of scenarios. Have a look at the people you know n start you're on research. Don't take my word for it. "

maybe me but i am failing to grasp what you are on about at all..I can't see, especially if the person is close enough to you to be shaking your hand, how you can be confused as to their sex because they have a unisex name?...are you very very short sighted?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Um...you picked your own name?? Mine was given to me.....how can my name reflect on who I am as a person?? Just when I'm introduced to some 1. And the name is said n when shake hands more often than not the handshake is the wet fish from Unisex names. Rather than more robust from non unisex....

Just seems an odd conclusion to arrive at Years of scenarios. Have a look at the people you know n start you're on research. Don't take my word for it.

That's ok, seems like a lot of effort when there are definitely more pleasurable things to pursue "
Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll have to ask my good friends, Sam and Dan.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Um...you picked your own name?? Mine was given to me.....how can my name reflect on who I am as a person?? Just when I'm introduced to some 1. And the name is said n when shake hands more often than not the handshake is the wet fish from Unisex names. Rather than more robust from non unisex....

Just seems an odd conclusion to arrive at Years of scenarios. Have a look at the people you know n start you're on research. Don't take my word for it.

maybe me but i am failing to grasp what you are on about at all..I can't see, especially if the person is close enough to you to be shaking your hand, how you can be confused as to their sex because they have a unisex name?...are you very very short sighted?"
Not on about SeX per say. Just the whole spectrum. Take some time out and do your own research. I'll look forward to your findings.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll have to ask my good friends, Sam and Dan."
Don't need to ask them just observe n ye shall find...

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Short answer No, my dad was a Leslie as was my oldest sibling my sister Lesley. We have two girls, both have unisex (more common for boys though) names though obviously i'm not going to post them here.

S

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over a year ago


"I'll have to ask my good friends, Sam and Dan. Don't need to ask them just observe n ye shall find..."

what? what shall i find? that is what im asking? im not getting your point?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Short answer No, my dad was a Leslie as was my oldest sibling my sister Lesley. We have two girls, both have unisex (more common for boys though) names though obviously i'm not going to post them here.

S"
No being your answer to what? I'm confused

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'll have to ask my good friends, Sam and Dan. Don't need to ask them just observe n ye shall find...

what? what shall i find? that is what im asking? im not getting your point?"
If through life it's been confusing having a unisex name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not confused and I have a unisex name. In fact I chose it myself and changed my name by deed pole.

Why would my choice of name indicate that I can't be trusted?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a woman called Gideon. Firmest handshake I've ever had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit confused ... if you're talking about meeting people in the fab sense, and if it matters to you whether they're male or female or whatever, then wouldn't you clarify that particular point before meeting?

Possibly I'm missing the point though.

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over a year ago


"I'll have to ask my good friends, Sam and Dan. Don't need to ask them just observe n ye shall find...

what? what shall i find? that is what im asking? im not getting your point? If through life it's been confusing having a unisex name"

ok.. no is the answer to your question.

It is not in the least confusing,either for them or anyone else with half a brain.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not confused and I have a unisex name. In fact I chose it myself and changed my name by deed pole.

Why would my choice of name indicate that I can't be trusted?"
Exactly, so why did you change to unisex name?

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over a year ago


"I'm not confused and I have a unisex name. In fact I chose it myself and changed my name by deed pole.

Why would my choice of name indicate that I can't be trusted? Exactly, so why did you change to unisex name?"

Because I preferred it. I like the sound of it better.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Go and ask Chris Eubank and terry BuTcher about their limp fish handshakes...

Load of nonesense, sorry op

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a bit confused ... if you're talking about meeting people in the fab sense, and if it matters to you whether they're male or female or whatever, then wouldn't you clarify that particular point before meeting?

Possibly I'm missing the point though. Not about male or female as a rule that's indisputable. It's the unisex name and it's burden ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My name is male in a few other countries and is shortened the same as the male form in English speaking countries, and used by my family in place of my full name.

I'm very trustworthy.

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over a year ago


"It's the unisex name and it's burden ....

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It's not a burden.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not confused and I have a unisex name. In fact I chose it myself and changed my name by deed pole.

Why would my choice of name indicate that I can't be trusted? Exactly, so why did you change to unisex name?

Because I preferred it. I like the sound of it better."
Yes that's cool. Just as I've said on the whole I find unisex name bearers to be in decisive and confuse matters

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over a year ago


"My name is male in a few other countries and is shortened the same as the male form in English speaking countries, and used by my family in place of my full name.

I'm very trustworthy."

And I've never been mistaken for a man.

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over a year ago


"My name is male in a few other countries and is shortened the same as the male form in English speaking countries, and used by my family in place of my full name.

I'm very trustworthy."
Modesty I like.

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over a year ago


"I'm not confused and I have a unisex name. In fact I chose it myself and changed my name by deed pole.

Why would my choice of name indicate that I can't be trusted? Exactly, so why did you change to unisex name?

Because I preferred it. I like the sound of it better. Yes that's cool. Just as I've said on the whole I find unisex name bearers to be in decisive and confuse matters"

You must be VERY easily confused then.

I fail to see why it even matters to you if someone is male or female. You'll find your life improves immeasurably if you don't let yourself be concerned about that.

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over a year ago


"My name is male in a few other countries and is shortened the same as the male form in English speaking countries, and used by my family in place of my full name.

I'm very trustworthy.

And I've never been mistaken for a man. "
It's not the gender issue. See. Confused . I've reiterated through thread n still your confused.

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over a year ago


"My name is male in a few other countries and is shortened the same as the male form in English speaking countries, and used by my family in place of my full name.

I'm very trustworthy.

And I've never been mistaken for a man. It's not the gender issue. See. Confused . I've reiterated through thread n still your confused. "

What are you confused about?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

1 if the name was a 'burden' or affected the owner of it due to it being taken as feminine, I would imagine he would counteract by acting over masculine and giving you a firmer handshake

2 Your Op was if they could be trusted, not if they could shake hands properly, why would their name affect this?

3 Either way its nonsense

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not confused and I have a unisex name. In fact I chose it myself and changed my name by deed pole.

Why would my choice of name indicate that I can't be trusted? Exactly, so why did you change to unisex name?

Because I preferred it. I like the sound of it better. Yes that's cool. Just as I've said on the whole I find unisex name bearers to be in decisive and confuse matters

You must be VERY easily confused then.

I fail to see why it even matters to you if someone is male or female. You'll find your life improves immeasurably if you don't let yourself be concerned about that."
Read posts above. It's not a gender issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not confused and I have a unisex name. In fact I chose it myself and changed my name by deed pole.

Why would my choice of name indicate that I can't be trusted? Exactly, so why did you change to unisex name?

Because I preferred it. I like the sound of it better. Yes that's cool. Just as I've said on the whole I find unisex name bearers to be in decisive and confuse matters

You must be VERY easily confused then.

I fail to see why it even matters to you if someone is male or female. You'll find your life improves immeasurably if you don't let yourself be concerned about that. Read posts above. It's not a gender issue "

You haven't mentioned once what the 'issue' is, just told people to do their own research.

Or is the 'issue' that someone doesn't shake hands how you want them to shake hands?

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Short answer No, my dad was a Leslie as was my oldest sibling my sister Lesley. We have two girls, both have unisex (more common for boys though) names though obviously i'm not going to post them here.

S No being your answer to what? I'm confused "

"Are the named persons confused?"

No, simples

S

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"1 if the name was a 'burden' or affected the owner of it due to it being taken as feminine, I would imagine he would counteract by acting over masculine and giving you a firmer handshake

2 Your Op was if they could be trusted, not if they could shake hands properly, why would their name affect this?

3 Either way its nonsense"
Over egging handshake that would be going against how the really shake hands. See Un trustworthy. Just be them selves

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over a year ago


"Short answer No, my dad was a Leslie as was my oldest sibling my sister Lesley. We have two girls, both have unisex (more common for boys though) names though obviously i'm not going to post them here.

S No being your answer to what? I'm confused

"Are the named persons confused?"

No, simples

S"

I'm confused about why I should be confused...

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"1 if the name was a 'burden' or affected the owner of it due to it being taken as feminine, I would imagine he would counteract by acting over masculine and giving you a firmer handshake

2 Your Op was if they could be trusted, not if they could shake hands properly, why would their name affect this?

3 Either way its nonsense

Over egging handshake that would be going against how the really shake hands. See Un trustworthy. Just be them selves "

OK, just refer to point 3

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not confused and I have a unisex name. In fact I chose it myself and changed my name by deed pole.

Why would my choice of name indicate that I can't be trusted? Exactly, so why did you change to unisex name?

Because I preferred it. I like the sound of it better. Yes that's cool. Just as I've said on the whole I find unisex name bearers to be in decisive and confuse matters

You must be VERY easily confused then.

I fail to see why it even matters to you if someone is male or female. You'll find your life improves immeasurably if you don't let yourself be concerned about that. Read posts above. It's not a gender issue

You haven't mentioned once what the 'issue' is, just told people to do their own research.

Or is the 'issue' that someone doesn't shake hands how you want them to shake hands? "
Not at all. Just the alarm bells ring when unisex name rings out. Give it a week . And return your findings...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not confused and I have a unisex name. In fact I chose it myself and changed my name by deed pole.

Why would my choice of name indicate that I can't be trusted? Exactly, so why did you change to unisex name?

Because I preferred it. I like the sound of it better. Yes that's cool. Just as I've said on the whole I find unisex name bearers to be in decisive and confuse matters

You must be VERY easily confused then.

I fail to see why it even matters to you if someone is male or female. You'll find your life improves immeasurably if you don't let yourself be concerned about that. Read posts above. It's not a gender issue "

you have not made it clear what your 'issue' actually is though...try and spell it out for me,i am old and slow witted...words of one syllable please...

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over a year ago


"I'm not confused and I have a unisex name. In fact I chose it myself and changed my name by deed pole.

Why would my choice of name indicate that I can't be trusted? Exactly, so why did you change to unisex name?

Because I preferred it. I like the sound of it better. Yes that's cool. Just as I've said on the whole I find unisex name bearers to be in decisive and confuse matters

You must be VERY easily confused then.

I fail to see why it even matters to you if someone is male or female. You'll find your life improves immeasurably if you don't let yourself be concerned about that. Read posts above. It's not a gender issue

You haven't mentioned once what the 'issue' is, just told people to do their own research.

Or is the 'issue' that someone doesn't shake hands how you want them to shake hands? Not at all. Just the alarm bells ring when unisex name rings out. Give it a week . And return your findings..."

I can't return my findings if I don't know what my hypothesis is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

actually, never mind...i think you may just have had a 'long lunch'..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not confused and I have a unisex name. In fact I chose it myself and changed my name by deed pole.

Why would my choice of name indicate that I can't be trusted? Exactly, so why did you change to unisex name?

Because I preferred it. I like the sound of it better. Yes that's cool. Just as I've said on the whole I find unisex name bearers to be in decisive and confuse matters

You must be VERY easily confused then.

I fail to see why it even matters to you if someone is male or female. You'll find your life improves immeasurably if you don't let yourself be concerned about that. Read posts above. It's not a gender issue

You haven't mentioned once what the 'issue' is, just told people to do their own research.

Or is the 'issue' that someone doesn't shake hands how you want them to shake hands? Not at all. Just the alarm bells ring when unisex name rings out. Give it a week . And return your findings...

I can't return my findings if I don't know what my hypothesis is."
Assess and evaluate bearers of unisex names and thee behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not confused and I have a unisex name. In fact I chose it myself and changed my name by deed pole.

Why would my choice of name indicate that I can't be trusted? Exactly, so why did you change to unisex name?

Because I preferred it. I like the sound of it better. Yes that's cool. Just as I've said on the whole I find unisex name bearers to be in decisive and confuse matters

You must be VERY easily confused then.

I fail to see why it even matters to you if someone is male or female. You'll find your life improves immeasurably if you don't let yourself be concerned about that. Read posts above. It's not a gender issue

You haven't mentioned once what the 'issue' is, just told people to do their own research.

Or is the 'issue' that someone doesn't shake hands how you want them to shake hands? Not at all. Just the alarm bells ring when unisex name rings out. Give it a week . And return your findings...

I can't return my findings if I don't know what my hypothesis is. Assess and evaluate bearers of unisex names and thee behaviour. "

What behaviour am I looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not confused and I have a unisex name. In fact I chose it myself and changed my name by deed pole.

Why would my choice of name indicate that I can't be trusted? Exactly, so why did you change to unisex name?

Because I preferred it. I like the sound of it better. Yes that's cool. Just as I've said on the whole I find unisex name bearers to be in decisive and confuse matters

You must be VERY easily confused then.

I fail to see why it even matters to you if someone is male or female. You'll find your life improves immeasurably if you don't let yourself be concerned about that. Read posts above. It's not a gender issue

You haven't mentioned once what the 'issue' is, just told people to do their own research.

Or is the 'issue' that someone doesn't shake hands how you want them to shake hands? Not at all. Just the alarm bells ring when unisex name rings out. Give it a week . And return your findings...

I can't return my findings if I don't know what my hypothesis is. Assess and evaluate bearers of unisex names and thee behaviour. "

their behaviour in what particular regard?..let me get this straight..you are asking if others have found that people with unisex names are untrustworthy, and also have suspiciously limp handshakes?..have i got that right? if so, then can we put an end to your puzzlement with a simple answer. No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not confused and I have a unisex name. In fact I chose it myself and changed my name by deed pole.

Why would my choice of name indicate that I can't be trusted? Exactly, so why did you change to unisex name?

Because I preferred it. I like the sound of it better. Yes that's cool. Just as I've said on the whole I find unisex name bearers to be in decisive and confuse matters

You must be VERY easily confused then.

I fail to see why it even matters to you if someone is male or female. You'll find your life improves immeasurably if you don't let yourself be concerned about that. Read posts above. It's not a gender issue

You haven't mentioned once what the 'issue' is, just told people to do their own research.

Or is the 'issue' that someone doesn't shake hands how you want them to shake hands? Not at all. Just the alarm bells ring when unisex name rings out. Give it a week . And return your findings..."

What do your alarm bells warn you about, and is this in real life, or on here?

In real life I know quite a few people with unisex names, including a man named Tracy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not confused and I have a unisex name. In fact I chose it myself and changed my name by deed pole.

Why would my choice of name indicate that I can't be trusted? Exactly, so why did you change to unisex name?

Because I preferred it. I like the sound of it better. Yes that's cool. Just as I've said on the whole I find unisex name bearers to be in decisive and confuse matters

You must be VERY easily confused then.

I fail to see why it even matters to you if someone is male or female. You'll find your life improves immeasurably if you don't let yourself be concerned about that. Read posts above. It's not a gender issue

You haven't mentioned once what the 'issue' is, just told people to do their own research.

Or is the 'issue' that someone doesn't shake hands how you want them to shake hands? Not at all. Just the alarm bells ring when unisex name rings out. Give it a week . And return your findings...

I can't return my findings if I don't know what my hypothesis is. Assess and evaluate bearers of unisex names and thee behaviour.

their behaviour in what particular regard?..let me get this straight..you are asking if others have found that people with unisex names are untrustworthy, and also suspiciously limp handshakes?..have i got that right? if so, then can we put an end to your puzzlement with a simple answer. No."
No I was asking the question my reserve over the years favours them to be confused wouldn't say untrustworthy in most cases. Was throwing it to the Fab legions

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not confused and I have a unisex name. In fact I chose it myself and changed my name by deed pole.

Why would my choice of name indicate that I can't be trusted? Exactly, so why did you change to unisex name?

Because I preferred it. I like the sound of it better. Yes that's cool. Just as I've said on the whole I find unisex name bearers to be in decisive and confuse matters

You must be VERY easily confused then.

I fail to see why it even matters to you if someone is male or female. You'll find your life improves immeasurably if you don't let yourself be concerned about that. Read posts above. It's not a gender issue

You haven't mentioned once what the 'issue' is, just told people to do their own research.

Or is the 'issue' that someone doesn't shake hands how you want them to shake hands? Not at all. Just the alarm bells ring when unisex name rings out. Give it a week . And return your findings...

I can't return my findings if I don't know what my hypothesis is. Assess and evaluate bearers of unisex names and thee behaviour.

their behaviour in what particular regard?..let me get this straight..you are asking if others have found that people with unisex names are untrustworthy, and also suspiciously limp handshakes?..have i got that right? if so, then can we put an end to your puzzlement with a simple answer. No. No I was asking the question my reserve over the years favours them to be confused wouldn't say untrustworthy in most cases. Was throwing it to the Fab legions "
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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales


"Short answer No, my dad was a Leslie as was my oldest sibling my sister Lesley. We have two girls, both have unisex (more common for boys though) names though obviously i'm not going to post them here.

S No being your answer to what? I'm confused

"Are the named persons confused?"

No, simples

S

I'm confused about why I should be confused..."

Your not the only one now

S (a unisex named one)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not confused and I have a unisex name. In fact I chose it myself and changed my name by deed pole.

Why would my choice of name indicate that I can't be trusted? Exactly, so why did you change to unisex name?

Because I preferred it. I like the sound of it better. Yes that's cool. Just as I've said on the whole I find unisex name bearers to be in decisive and confuse matters

You must be VERY easily confused then.

I fail to see why it even matters to you if someone is male or female. You'll find your life improves immeasurably if you don't let yourself be concerned about that. Read posts above. It's not a gender issue

You haven't mentioned once what the 'issue' is, just told people to do their own research.

Or is the 'issue' that someone doesn't shake hands how you want them to shake hands? Not at all. Just the alarm bells ring when unisex name rings out. Give it a week . And return your findings...

I can't return my findings if I don't know what my hypothesis is. Assess and evaluate bearers of unisex names and thee behaviour.

their behaviour in what particular regard?..let me get this straight..you are asking if others have found that people with unisex names are untrustworthy, and also suspiciously limp handshakes?..have i got that right? if so, then can we put an end to your puzzlement with a simple answer. No. No I was asking the question my reserve over the years favours them to be confused wouldn't say untrustworthy in most cases. Was throwing it to the Fab legions "

What do you think people with unisex names are confused about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always had a unisex name, can't say it's ever been an issue and I'm sure I have a good firm manly handshake when it suits me to : )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've always had a unisex name, can't say it's ever been an issue and I'm sure I have a good firm manly handshake when it suits me to : )"
See that's a tad random.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

John Wayne had the right idea changed to double barrelled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've always had a unisex name, can't say it's ever been an issue and I'm sure I have a good firm manly handshake when it suits me to : )"

Do you think that there's a scientific way to measure if our handshakes are firm enough? Perhaps that's a way we could decide if people with unisex names are confused?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've always had a unisex name, can't say it's ever been an issue and I'm sure I have a good firm manly handshake when it suits me to : )

Do you think that there's a scientific way to measure if our handshakes are firm enough? Perhaps that's a way we could decide if people with unisex names are confused?"
No. Can't tamper with handshake. Go as you will don't confuse matters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"John Wayne had the right idea changed to double barrelled "

On this forum, it's more like John Wayne Gacey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my own vague gender goes deeper than my given name. Interesting to speculate though how I might have turned out if I'd been christened something else. John Wayne maybe : )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think my own vague gender goes deeper than my given name. Interesting to speculate though how I might have turned out if I'd been christened something else. John Wayne maybe : )

"

John Wayne would be a cool name. Maybe I should change mine to that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think my own vague gender goes deeper than my given name. Interesting to speculate though how I might have turned out if I'd been christened something else. John Wayne maybe : )

John Wayne would be a cool name. Maybe I should change mine to that."
No. You've changed it once. You are happy. Don't confuse matters

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I think my own vague gender goes deeper than my given name. Interesting to speculate though how I might have turned out if I'd been christened something else. John Wayne maybe : )

"

There you go. You prove his point 100%. If you had been called John, you would have been completely straight. Simple as that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think my own vague gender goes deeper than my given name. Interesting to speculate though how I might have turned out if I'd been christened something else. John Wayne maybe : )

John Wayne would be a cool name. Maybe I should change mine to that. No. You've changed it once. You are happy. Don't confuse matters"

But I'm confused - you said so yourself that people with unisex names are confused. If I changed it to John, then I wouldn't be confused anymore!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how is 'john wayne' a double barelled name? this is getting more nonsensical by the minute...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think my own vague gender goes deeper than my given name. Interesting to speculate though how I might have turned out if I'd been christened something else. John Wayne maybe : )

John Wayne would be a cool name. Maybe I should change mine to that. No. You've changed it once. You are happy. Don't confuse matters

But I'm confused - you said so yourself that people with unisex names are confused. If I changed it to John, then I wouldn't be confused anymore!"
I said mostly . Didn't say you. Clutching at straws now. Keep to the thread it's not a name assantion it's my observations

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think my own vague gender goes deeper than my given name. Interesting to speculate though how I might have turned out if I'd been christened something else. John Wayne maybe : )

John Wayne would be a cool name. Maybe I should change mine to that. No. You've changed it once. You are happy. Don't confuse matters

But I'm confused - you said so yourself that people with unisex names are confused. If I changed it to John, then I wouldn't be confused anymore! I said mostly . Didn't say you. Clutching at straws now. Keep to the thread it's not a name assantion it's my observations "
Assassination*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does this confusion stretch to surnames cos my surname is a unisexed name. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does this confusion stretch to surnames cos my surname is a unisexed name. xxx"
Humour I commend you.

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

In my adult life experience, in general, no research, I have found those males with over powerful handshakes to be full of themselves egotistical arsewipes usually to be found on golf courses or in cricket pavilions, and usually working in middle management.

But my "life" research has as much fact behind it as the OP's

S (still with a unisex name)..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does this confusion stretch to surnames cos my surname is a unisexed name. xxx Humour I commend you. "

No really it is. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my adult life experience, in general, no research, I have found those males with over powerful handshakes to be full of themselves egotistical arsewipes usually to be found on golf courses or in cricket pavilions, and usually working in middle management.

But my "life" research has as much fact behind it as the OP's

S (still with a unisex name).."
So by shaking hands with these folk. You must of had occasion to be in their company and sounds like quite a few to know there personal pastimes. See confused to the arse wipes that you rub shoulders with. I deduce

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does this confusion stretch to surnames cos my surname is a unisexed name. xxx Humour I commend you.

No really it is. xxx"
Okay still funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thread of the week and it's only Monday

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thread of the week and it's only Monday "
Early days yet....

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Has the OP revealed his name? I'm intrigued.

I've read a few of your comments OP, I think you're over thinking it a bit tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has the OP revealed his name? I'm intrigued.

I've read a few of your comments OP, I think you're over thinking it a bit tbh "
Gideon. Pleased to make your acquaintance.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Has the OP revealed his name? I'm intrigued.

I've read a few of your comments OP, I think you're over thinking it a bit tbh Gideon. Pleased to make your acquaintance. "

Oh, seems I misread your post lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Has the OP revealed his name? I'm intrigued.

I've read a few of your comments OP, I think you're over thinking it a bit tbh Gideon. Pleased to make your acquaintance.

Oh, seems I misread your post lol. "
Lol.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I work with a woman who's son is called Kerry. I'd never heard of that before

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I work with a woman who's son is called Kerry. I'd never heard of that before "
Have you shook his hand?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I work with a woman who's son is called Kerry. I'd never heard of that before Have you shook his hand?"
Yes there was a Chelsea player years ago named Kerry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

genuinely don't know how some people go 45 years and come up with this stuff.

Someones name is not causation for a similar personality.

Are all Ben's you know all the same? or perhaps all Emma's have a similar trait?

So much for survival of the fittest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"genuinely don't know how some people go 45 years and come up with this stuff.

Someones name is not causation for a similar personality.

Are all Ben's you know all the same? or perhaps all Emma's have a similar trait?

So much for survival of the fittest "
Life's observations. I take it you are a said unisex name.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

So Gideon,

Are you saying people having slightly unusual names leads them to behave unusually?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Sandy

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire


"Is Terry a unisex name ..?"

Terri Hatcher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"genuinely don't know how some people go 45 years and come up with this stuff.

Someones name is not causation for a similar personality.

Are all Ben's you know all the same? or perhaps all Emma's have a similar trait?

So much for survival of the fittest Life's observations. I take it you are a said unisex name. "

I have a male orientated name.

you didn't answer my question though.

Are all Ben's you know all the same? or perhaps all Emma's have a similar trait?

perhaps you should make an attempt to look past your immature view on unisex names. Given no-one but yourself believes that unisex names lead to an indecisive person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"genuinely don't know how some people go 45 years and come up with this stuff.

Someones name is not causation for a similar personality.

Are all Ben's you know all the same? or perhaps all Emma's have a similar trait?

So much for survival of the fittest Life's observations. I take it you are a said unisex name.

I have a male orientated name.

you didn't answer my question though.

Are all Ben's you know all the same? or perhaps all Emma's have a similar trait?

perhaps you should make an attempt to look past your immature view on unisex names. Given no-one but yourself believes that unisex names lead to an indecisive person."
I don't single any 1 name out eg Ben or Emma. My findings are across the board....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know a woman called Gideon. Firmest handshake I've ever had."

Is she from Merseyside?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I work with a woman who's son is called Kerry. I'd never heard of that before Have you shook his hand? Yes there was a Chelsea player years ago named Kerry"

it didn't do Kerry packer any harm...

you need to get over your obsession OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know a woman called Gideon. Firmest handshake I've ever had.

Is she from Merseyside? "

think i may know her, pissed me off eventually because she couldn't decide on anything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know a woman called Gideon. Firmest handshake I've ever had.

Is she from Merseyside?

think i may know her, pissed me off eventually because she couldn't decide on anything!"

Are you sure .... you might just have been confused by her name or her handshake

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh the rounding on the Op as started. All the sensible points of views been exhausting now the daft comments start....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh the rounding on the Op as started. All the sensible points of views been exhausting now the daft comments start.... "
Exhausted *

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By *iltshiregentMan
over a year ago

Calne

You're confusing unisex with omnisex. Uni means 'one', whilst omni means 'all'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You're confusing unisex with omnisex. Uni means 'one', whilst omni means 'all'."
Don't be silly. Unisex names.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Is Terry a unisex name ..?"

Dunno

But there is also Terri

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met heaps of people with unisex names. For the most part they all seemed pretty normal. And if they are confused I very highly doubt it has anything to do with their name. Plenty of people with male/female names who are also confused.

I think whether or not you can be trusted has nothing to do with your name and more to do with you as a person and how you act and behave.

I honestly don't get why people are still hung up on unisex names or a guy having a "girls" name and vice versa. It's just a name I don't see the need to label it with one gender.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've met heaps of people with unisex names. For the most part they all seemed pretty normal. And if they are confused I very highly doubt it has anything to do with their name. Plenty of people with male/female names who are also confused.

I think whether or not you can be trusted has nothing to do with your name and more to do with you as a person and how you act and behave.

I honestly don't get why people are still hung up on unisex names or a guy having a "girls" name and vice versa. It's just a name I don't see the need to label it with one gender.

~Mia"
A few fair points. It's not about gender. It's the unisex name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never even thought about it -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met heaps of people with unisex names. For the most part they all seemed pretty normal. And if they are confused I very highly doubt it has anything to do with their name. Plenty of people with male/female names who are also confused.

I think whether or not you can be trusted has nothing to do with your name and more to do with you as a person and how you act and behave.

I honestly don't get why people are still hung up on unisex names or a guy having a "girls" name and vice versa. It's just a name I don't see the need to label it with one gender.

~Mia A few fair points. It's not about gender. It's the unisex name."

Yes I am aware but as I said I think names have nothing to do with you as a person as your parents chose it before you formed a personality and a lot of people change their names or use fake names so I think it holds no relevance to the person.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've met heaps of people with unisex names. For the most part they all seemed pretty normal. And if they are confused I very highly doubt it has anything to do with their name. Plenty of people with male/female names who are also confused.

I think whether or not you can be trusted has nothing to do with your name and more to do with you as a person and how you act and behave.

I honestly don't get why people are still hung up on unisex names or a guy having a "girls" name and vice versa. It's just a name I don't see the need to label it with one gender.

~Mia A few fair points. It's not about gender. It's the unisex name.

Yes I am aware but as I said I think names have nothing to do with you as a person as your parents chose it before you formed a personality and a lot of people change their names or use fake names so I think it holds no relevance to the person.

~Mia"
Yes growing up with a unisex therfore having a bearing. You can't just fleetingly say it's black and white.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met heaps of people with unisex names. For the most part they all seemed pretty normal. And if they are confused I very highly doubt it has anything to do with their name. Plenty of people with male/female names who are also confused.

I think whether or not you can be trusted has nothing to do with your name and more to do with you as a person and how you act and behave.

I honestly don't get why people are still hung up on unisex names or a guy having a "girls" name and vice versa. It's just a name I don't see the need to label it with one gender.

~Mia A few fair points. It's not about gender. It's the unisex name.

Yes I am aware but as I said I think names have nothing to do with you as a person as your parents chose it before you formed a personality and a lot of people change their names or use fake names so I think it holds no relevance to the person.

~Mia Yes growing up with a unisex therfore having a bearing. You can't just fleetingly say it's black and white.....

"

I'm not saying it is. But a name after all is just a label we are given so others can identify us in a "unique" way.

Most people's names mean nothing to them, others do.

When someone tells me their name I think nothing of it. Just this is "Person XYZ" it holds no relevance to me personally as I've met all kinds of people whose name may have fitted them and others who didn't.

Unless we were named after our most noticeable personality trait I don't think it holds much relevance to them.

~Mia

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've met heaps of people with unisex names. For the most part they all seemed pretty normal. And if they are confused I very highly doubt it has anything to do with their name. Plenty of people with male/female names who are also confused.

I think whether or not you can be trusted has nothing to do with your name and more to do with you as a person and how you act and behave.

I honestly don't get why people are still hung up on unisex names or a guy having a "girls" name and vice versa. It's just a name I don't see the need to label it with one gender.

~Mia A few fair points. It's not about gender. It's the unisex name.

Yes I am aware but as I said I think names have nothing to do with you as a person as your parents chose it before you formed a personality and a lot of people change their names or use fake names so I think it holds no relevance to the person.

~Mia Yes growing up with a unisex therfore having a bearing. You can't just fleetingly say it's black and white.....

I'm not saying it is. But a name after all is just a label we are given so others can identify us in a "unique" way.

Most people's names mean nothing to them, others do.

When someone tells me their name I think nothing of it. Just this is "Person XYZ" it holds no relevance to me personally as I've met all kinds of people whose name may have fitted them and others who didn't.

Unless we were named after our most noticeable personality trait I don't think it holds much relevance to them.

~Mia"
Now you have been made more aware of unisex names. At your leisure examine their traits. I'll be interested in any feed back . As before they just a person to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've met heaps of people with unisex names. For the most part they all seemed pretty normal. And if they are confused I very highly doubt it has anything to do with their name. Plenty of people with male/female names who are also confused.

I think whether or not you can be trusted has nothing to do with your name and more to do with you as a person and how you act and behave.

I honestly don't get why people are still hung up on unisex names or a guy having a "girls" name and vice versa. It's just a name I don't see the need to label it with one gender.

~Mia A few fair points. It's not about gender. It's the unisex name.

Yes I am aware but as I said I think names have nothing to do with you as a person as your parents chose it before you formed a personality and a lot of people change their names or use fake names so I think it holds no relevance to the person.

~Mia Yes growing up with a unisex therfore having a bearing. You can't just fleetingly say it's black and white.....

I'm not saying it is. But a name after all is just a label we are given so others can identify us in a "unique" way.

Most people's names mean nothing to them, others do.

When someone tells me their name I think nothing of it. Just this is "Person XYZ" it holds no relevance to me personally as I've met all kinds of people whose name may have fitted them and others who didn't.

Unless we were named after our most noticeable personality trait I don't think it holds much relevance to them.

~Mia Now you have been made more aware of unisex names. At your leisure examine their traits. I'll be interested in any feed back . As before they just a person to you."

I've always been aware of unisex names. And I examine everyone's traits. And I've never noticed people with unisex names all sharing one personality trait. Just like everyone else they all have similarities and differences.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've met heaps of people with unisex names. For the most part they all seemed pretty normal. And if they are confused I very highly doubt it has anything to do with their name. Plenty of people with male/female names who are also confused.

I think whether or not you can be trusted has nothing to do with your name and more to do with you as a person and how you act and behave.

I honestly don't get why people are still hung up on unisex names or a guy having a "girls" name and vice versa. It's just a name I don't see the need to label it with one gender.

~Mia A few fair points. It's not about gender. It's the unisex name.

Yes I am aware but as I said I think names have nothing to do with you as a person as your parents chose it before you formed a personality and a lot of people change their names or use fake names so I think it holds no relevance to the person.

~Mia Yes growing up with a unisex therfore having a bearing. You can't just fleetingly say it's black and white.....

I'm not saying it is. But a name after all is just a label we are given so others can identify us in a "unique" way.

Most people's names mean nothing to them, others do.

When someone tells me their name I think nothing of it. Just this is "Person XYZ" it holds no relevance to me personally as I've met all kinds of people whose name may have fitted them and others who didn't.

Unless we were named after our most noticeable personality trait I don't think it holds much relevance to them.

~Mia Now you have been made more aware of unisex names. At your leisure examine their traits. I'll be interested in any feed back . As before they just a person to you.

I've always been aware of unisex names. And I examine everyone's traits. And I've never noticed people with unisex names all sharing one personality trait. Just like everyone else they all have similarities and differences."
Yes airing on the side of confusion the traits with unisex names . As say keep an open mind as go forward now. Your findings will be interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well "Mikki" seems to work for me

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

I honestly don't believe people are going to be keeping this in their mind for when they next meet a unisex named person then reporting back. The nonesence has mostly been forgotten already...

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"well "Mikki" seems to work for me"

Don't post that! NikiRandom , also TV has posted too.

You're just proving that having a Unisex name makes you become TV/TS ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well "Mikki" seems to work for me"
Seems to? Or does. See a tad confused there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well "Mikki" seems to work for me

Don't post that! NikiRandom , also TV has posted too.

You're just proving that having a Unisex name makes you become TV/TS ... "
No far from it.

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"well "Mikki" seems to work for me

Don't post that! NikiRandom , also TV has posted too.

You're just proving that having a Unisex name makes you become TV/TS ... "

lol,,utter nonsense,,its my name

seems like you got issues

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"well "Mikki" seems to work for me

Don't post that! NikiRandom , also TV has posted too.

You're just proving that having a Unisex name makes you become TV/TS ...

lol,,utter nonsense,,its my name

seems like you got issues"

(It was a joke)

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over a year ago


"well "Mikki" seems to work for me

Don't post that! NikiRandom , also TV has posted too.

You're just proving that having a Unisex name makes you become TV/TS ...

lol,,utter nonsense,,its my name

seems like you got issues

(It was a joke) "

was it

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over a year ago


"I've met heaps of people with unisex names. For the most part they all seemed pretty normal. And if they are confused I very highly doubt it has anything to do with their name. Plenty of people with male/female names who are also confused.

I think whether or not you can be trusted has nothing to do with your name and more to do with you as a person and how you act and behave.

I honestly don't get why people are still hung up on unisex names or a guy having a "girls" name and vice versa. It's just a name I don't see the need to label it with one gender.

~Mia A few fair points. It's not about gender. It's the unisex name.

Yes I am aware but as I said I think names have nothing to do with you as a person as your parents chose it before you formed a personality and a lot of people change their names or use fake names so I think it holds no relevance to the person.

~Mia Yes growing up with a unisex therfore having a bearing. You can't just fleetingly say it's black and white.....

I'm not saying it is. But a name after all is just a label we are given so others can identify us in a "unique" way.

Most people's names mean nothing to them, others do.

When someone tells me their name I think nothing of it. Just this is "Person XYZ" it holds no relevance to me personally as I've met all kinds of people whose name may have fitted them and others who didn't.

Unless we were named after our most noticeable personality trait I don't think it holds much relevance to them.

~Mia Now you have been made more aware of unisex names. At your leisure examine their traits. I'll be interested in any feed back . As before they just a person to you.

I've always been aware of unisex names. And I examine everyone's traits. And I've never noticed people with unisex names all sharing one personality trait. Just like everyone else they all have similarities and differences. Yes airing on the side of confusion the traits with unisex names . As say keep an open mind as go forward now. Your findings will be interesting. "

My findings are that they are still normal functioning people despite having a unisex name.

Now what?

~Mia

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over a year ago


"I've met heaps of people with unisex names. For the most part they all seemed pretty normal. And if they are confused I very highly doubt it has anything to do with their name. Plenty of people with male/female names who are also confused.

I think whether or not you can be trusted has nothing to do with your name and more to do with you as a person and how you act and behave.

I honestly don't get why people are still hung up on unisex names or a guy having a "girls" name and vice versa. It's just a name I don't see the need to label it with one gender.

~Mia A few fair points. It's not about gender. It's the unisex name.

Yes I am aware but as I said I think names have nothing to do with you as a person as your parents chose it before you formed a personality and a lot of people change their names or use fake names so I think it holds no relevance to the person.

~Mia Yes growing up with a unisex therfore having a bearing. You can't just fleetingly say it's black and white.....

I'm not saying it is. But a name after all is just a label we are given so others can identify us in a "unique" way.

Most people's names mean nothing to them, others do.

When someone tells me their name I think nothing of it. Just this is "Person XYZ" it holds no relevance to me personally as I've met all kinds of people whose name may have fitted them and others who didn't.

Unless we were named after our most noticeable personality trait I don't think it holds much relevance to them.

~Mia Now you have been made more aware of unisex names. At your leisure examine their traits. I'll be interested in any feed back . As before they just a person to you.

I've always been aware of unisex names. And I examine everyone's traits. And I've never noticed people with unisex names all sharing one personality trait. Just like everyone else they all have similarities and differences. Yes airing on the side of confusion the traits with unisex names . As say keep an open mind as go forward now. Your findings will be interesting.

My findings are that they are still normal functioning people despite having a unisex name.

Now what?

~Mia"
Sweeping statement.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"well "Mikki" seems to work for me

Don't post that! NikiRandom , also TV has posted too.

You're just proving that having a Unisex name makes you become TV/TS ...

lol,,utter nonsense,,its my name

seems like you got issues

(It was a joke)

was it"

Did you see the wink and smiley face?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhhh this thread was so much better yesterday. xxx

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over a year ago


"Ahhhhh this thread was so much better yesterday. xxx"
Agreed it's ran out of energy. Points Neen made. Points been listened to. If have any research findings feel free to pm me. My last post on the subject. Thanks for input folks.....

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

Here's an interesting one for you. Knew a couple where guy and girl were both called Lee. Imagine shouting your partners name during sex when it's also your own name.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once met Shirley Crabtree, I took him vey seriously.

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over a year ago


"I once met Shirley Crabtree, I took him vey seriously."
There's a blast from past. Big Daddy

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over a year ago


"Ahhhhh this thread was so much better yesterday. xxx Agreed it's ran out of energy. Points Neen made. Points been listened to. If have any research findings feel free to pm me. My last post on the subject. Thanks for input folks....."

I did some research.

Both myself and my gorgeous gym instructor are not confused despite having gender neutral names.

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over a year ago


"Ahhhhh this thread was so much better yesterday. xxx Agreed it's ran out of energy. Points Neen made. Points been listened to. If have any research findings feel free to pm me. My last post on the subject. Thanks for input folks.....

I did some research.

Both myself and my gorgeous gym instructor are not confused despite having gender neutral names."
Confused those who can do. Those who can't teach. What did gym instructor really want to do. Research and share findings....

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over a year ago


"Ahhhhh this thread was so much better yesterday. xxx Agreed it's ran out of energy. Points Neen made. Points been listened to. If have any research findings feel free to pm me. My last post on the subject. Thanks for input folks.....

I did some research.

Both myself and my gorgeous gym instructor are not confused despite having gender neutral names. Confused those who can do. Those who can't teach. What did gym instructor really want to do. Research and share findings...."

Damn... I didn't realise that teaching was an indicator of confusion.

Maybe I am confused after all.

Do you think that teaching professions have a higher than normal number of gender neutral names?

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over a year ago

I don't understand. Confused about what?

(For avoidance of doubt, my confusion is not down to my name, which is entirely gender specific.)

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over a year ago


"Ahhhhh this thread was so much better yesterday. xxx Agreed it's ran out of energy. Points Neen made. Points been listened to. If have any research findings feel free to pm me. My last post on the subject. Thanks for input folks.....

I did some research.

Both myself and my gorgeous gym instructor are not confused despite having gender neutral names. Confused those who can do. Those who can't teach. What did gym instructor really want to do. Research and share findings....

Damn... I didn't realise that teaching was an indicator of confusion.

Maybe I am confused after all.

Do you think that teaching professions have a higher than normal number of gender neutral names?"
Who knows once again . I urge you to research. Boring now. Circles and going round springs to mind....

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

This is one of the weirdest threads I've read.

I have a unisex name. I shorten it. And it's a man's name. The only confusion I've had is when people question the male spelling instead of me choosing the female spelling.

I don't think it makes me untrustworthy. It's all a bit of a non issue.

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over a year ago


"I don't understand. Confused about what?

(For avoidance of doubt, my confusion is not down to my name, which is entirely gender specific.)"
Do your own research. I throw a question to the floor on my findings and I'm expected to speak for every uni seed named person I don't know. Embrace the fact you are unisex named liberated...

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over a year ago


"Ahhhhh this thread was so much better yesterday. xxx Agreed it's ran out of energy. Points Neen made. Points been listened to. If have any research findings feel free to pm me. My last post on the subject. Thanks for input folks.....

I did some research.

Both myself and my gorgeous gym instructor are not confused despite having gender neutral names. Confused those who can do. Those who can't teach. What did gym instructor really want to do. Research and share findings....

Damn... I didn't realise that teaching was an indicator of confusion.

Maybe I am confused after all.

Do you think that teaching professions have a higher than normal number of gender neutral names? Who knows once again . I urge you to research. Boring now. Circles and going round springs to mind...."

Hang on my mum was a teacher n she has my surname. xxx

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over a year ago


"This is one of the weirdest threads I've read.

I have a unisex name. I shorten it. And it's a man's name. The only confusion I've had is when people question the male spelling instead of me choosing the female spelling.

See confusion reigns. And as for being trustworthy. That's great.

I don't think it makes me untrustworthy. It's all a bit of a non issue. "

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over a year ago


"Ahhhhh this thread was so much better yesterday. xxx Agreed it's ran out of energy. Points Neen made. Points been listened to. If have any research findings feel free to pm me. My last post on the subject. Thanks for input folks.....

I did some research.

Both myself and my gorgeous gym instructor are not confused despite having gender neutral names. Confused those who can do. Those who can't teach. What did gym instructor really want to do. Research and share findings....

Damn... I didn't realise that teaching was an indicator of confusion.

Maybe I am confused after all.

Do you think that teaching professions have a higher than normal number of gender neutral names? Who knows once again . I urge you to research. Boring now. Circles and going round springs to mind....

Hang on my mum was a teacher n she has my surname. xxx"
2 wrongs don't make a right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But John Wayne's 'real' name is Marion.... true

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over a year ago


"I don't understand. Confused about what?

(For avoidance of doubt, my confusion is not down to my name, which is entirely gender specific.)

Do your own research. I throw a question to the floor on my findings and I'm expected to speak for every uni seed named person I don't know. Embrace the fact you are unisex named liberated..."

How can I research something when I don't know what that something is? So I'll repeat my question: you think they are confused about what? Sexuality? Gender identity? What to have for tea?

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over a year ago


"I don't understand. Confused about what?

(For avoidance of doubt, my confusion is not down to my name, which is entirely gender specific.)

Do your own research. I throw a question to the floor on my findings and I'm expected to speak for every uni seed named person I don't know. Embrace the fact you are unisex named liberated...

How can I research something when I don't know what that something is? So I'll repeat my question: you think they are confused about what? Sexuality? Gender identity? What to have for tea? "
This has been covered in thread time n time again. Re read . It's becoming boring....

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over a year ago


"I don't understand. Confused about what?

(For avoidance of doubt, my confusion is not down to my name, which is entirely gender specific.)

Do your own research. I throw a question to the floor on my findings and I'm expected to speak for every uni seed named person I don't know. Embrace the fact you are unisex named liberated...

How can I research something when I don't know what that something is? So I'll repeat my question: you think they are confused about what? Sexuality? Gender identity? What to have for tea? This has been covered in thread time n time again. Re read . It's becoming boring...."

I've re-read. I still don't understand what the hell you are on about. I suspect that's not a failure of comprehension on my part.

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over a year ago


"I don't understand. Confused about what?

(For avoidance of doubt, my confusion is not down to my name, which is entirely gender specific.)

Do your own research. I throw a question to the floor on my findings and I'm expected to speak for every uni seed named person I don't know. Embrace the fact you are unisex named liberated...

How can I research something when I don't know what that something is? So I'll repeat my question: you think they are confused about what? Sexuality? Gender identity? What to have for tea? This has been covered in thread time n time again. Re read . It's becoming boring....

I've re-read. I still don't understand what the hell you are on about. I suspect that's not a failure of comprehension on my part. "
See I know you say you don't have a unisex name. However the 1 you have chosen on here is. That being Ruby. Therfore backing my findings up that Unisex names tend to be confused or cause confusion.

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over a year ago


"I don't understand. Confused about what?

(For avoidance of doubt, my confusion is not down to my name, which is entirely gender specific.)

Do your own research. I throw a question to the floor on my findings and I'm expected to speak for every uni seed named person I don't know. Embrace the fact you are unisex named liberated...

How can I research something when I don't know what that something is? So I'll repeat my question: you think they are confused about what? Sexuality? Gender identity? What to have for tea? This has been covered in thread time n time again. Re read . It's becoming boring....

I've re-read. I still don't understand what the hell you are on about. I suspect that's not a failure of comprehension on my part. See I know you say you don't have a unisex name. However the 1 you have chosen on here is. That being Ruby. Therfore backing my findings up that Unisex names tend to be confused or cause confusion."

Not really. Ruby isn't a unisex name by any stretch of the imagination.

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over a year ago


"I don't understand. Confused about what?

(For avoidance of doubt, my confusion is not down to my name, which is entirely gender specific.)

Do your own research. I throw a question to the floor on my findings and I'm expected to speak for every uni seed named person I don't know. Embrace the fact you are unisex named liberated...

How can I research something when I don't know what that something is? So I'll repeat my question: you think they are confused about what? Sexuality? Gender identity? What to have for tea? This has been covered in thread time n time again. Re read . It's becoming boring....

I've re-read. I still don't understand what the hell you are on about. I suspect that's not a failure of comprehension on my part. See I know you say you don't have a unisex name. However the 1 you have chosen on here is. That being Ruby. Therfore backing my findings up that Unisex names tend to be confused or cause confusion.

Not really. Ruby isn't a unisex name by any stretch of the imagination. "
And you where doing so well. Confusion reigns....

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over a year ago


"I don't understand. Confused about what?

(For avoidance of doubt, my confusion is not down to my name, which is entirely gender specific.)

Do your own research. I throw a question to the floor on my findings and I'm expected to speak for every uni seed named person I don't know. Embrace the fact you are unisex named liberated...

How can I research something when I don't know what that something is? So I'll repeat my question: you think they are confused about what? Sexuality? Gender identity? What to have for tea? This has been covered in thread time n time again. Re read . It's becoming boring....

I've re-read. I still don't understand what the hell you are on about. I suspect that's not a failure of comprehension on my part. See I know you say you don't have a unisex name. However the 1 you have chosen on here is. That being Ruby. Therfore backing my findings up that Unisex names tend to be confused or cause confusion.

Not really. Ruby isn't a unisex name by any stretch of the imagination. And you where doing so well. Confusion reigns...."

Yes, it really does. I think I'd best leave you to it.

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over a year ago


"I don't understand. Confused about what?

(For avoidance of doubt, my confusion is not down to my name, which is entirely gender specific.)

Do your own research. I throw a question to the floor on my findings and I'm expected to speak for every uni seed named person I don't know. Embrace the fact you are unisex named liberated...

How can I research something when I don't know what that something is? So I'll repeat my question: you think they are confused about what? Sexuality? Gender identity? What to have for tea? This has been covered in thread time n time again. Re read . It's becoming boring....

I've re-read. I still don't understand what the hell you are on about. I suspect that's not a failure of comprehension on my part. See I know you say you don't have a unisex name. However the 1 you have chosen on here is. That being Ruby. Therfore backing my findings up that Unisex names tend to be confused or cause confusion.

Not really. Ruby isn't a unisex name by any stretch of the imagination. "

I know loads of men called Ruby

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over a year ago


"I don't understand. Confused about what?

(For avoidance of doubt, my confusion is not down to my name, which is entirely gender specific.)

Do your own research. I throw a question to the floor on my findings and I'm expected to speak for every uni seed named person I don't know. Embrace the fact you are unisex named liberated...

How can I research something when I don't know what that something is? So I'll repeat my question: you think they are confused about what? Sexuality? Gender identity? What to have for tea? This has been covered in thread time n time again. Re read . It's becoming boring....

I've re-read. I still don't understand what the hell you are on about. I suspect that's not a failure of comprehension on my part. See I know you say you don't have a unisex name. However the 1 you have chosen on here is. That being Ruby. Therfore backing my findings up that Unisex names tend to be confused or cause confusion.

Not really. Ruby isn't a unisex name by any stretch of the imagination.

I know loads of men called Ruby "
Yes exactly. A confused unisex name bearer.

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over a year ago


"I don't understand. Confused about what?

(For avoidance of doubt, my confusion is not down to my name, which is entirely gender specific.)

Do your own research. I throw a question to the floor on my findings and I'm expected to speak for every uni seed named person I don't know. Embrace the fact you are unisex named liberated...

How can I research something when I don't know what that something is? So I'll repeat my question: you think they are confused about what? Sexuality? Gender identity? What to have for tea? This has been covered in thread time n time again. Re read . It's becoming boring....

I've re-read. I still don't understand what the hell you are on about. I suspect that's not a failure of comprehension on my part. See I know you say you don't have a unisex name. However the 1 you have chosen on here is. That being Ruby. Therfore backing my findings up that Unisex names tend to be confused or cause confusion.

Not really. Ruby isn't a unisex name by any stretch of the imagination.

I know loads of men called Ruby Yes exactly. A confused unisex name bearer. "

Erm.... I think my sarcasm got lost there

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over a year ago


"I don't understand. Confused about what?

(For avoidance of doubt, my confusion is not down to my name, which is entirely gender specific.)

Do your own research. I throw a question to the floor on my findings and I'm expected to speak for every uni seed named person I don't know. Embrace the fact you are unisex named liberated...

How can I research something when I don't know what that something is? So I'll repeat my question: you think they are confused about what? Sexuality? Gender identity? What to have for tea? This has been covered in thread time n time again. Re read . It's becoming boring....

I've re-read. I still don't understand what the hell you are on about. I suspect that's not a failure of comprehension on my part. See I know you say you don't have a unisex name. However the 1 you have chosen on here is. That being Ruby. Therfore backing my findings up that Unisex names tend to be confused or cause confusion.

Not really. Ruby isn't a unisex name by any stretch of the imagination.

I know loads of men called Ruby Yes exactly. A confused unisex name bearer.

Erm.... I think my sarcasm got lost there"
a Famous jump jockey. Riding at moment for 1.

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over a year ago


"I don't understand. Confused about what?

(For avoidance of doubt, my confusion is not down to my name, which is entirely gender specific.)

Do your own research. I throw a question to the floor on my findings and I'm expected to speak for every uni seed named person I don't know. Embrace the fact you are unisex named liberated...

How can I research something when I don't know what that something is? So I'll repeat my question: you think they are confused about what? Sexuality? Gender identity? What to have for tea? This has been covered in thread time n time again. Re read . It's becoming boring....

I've re-read. I still don't understand what the hell you are on about. I suspect that's not a failure of comprehension on my part. See I know you say you don't have a unisex name. However the 1 you have chosen on here is. That being Ruby. Therfore backing my findings up that Unisex names tend to be confused or cause confusion.

Not really. Ruby isn't a unisex name by any stretch of the imagination.

I know loads of men called Ruby Yes exactly. A confused unisex name bearer.

Erm.... I think my sarcasm got lost there a Famous jump jockey. Riding at moment for 1. "
House wives choice now the other top jump jockey retired....

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over a year ago


"I don't understand. Confused about what?

(For avoidance of doubt, my confusion is not down to my name, which is entirely gender specific.)

Do your own research. I throw a question to the floor on my findings and I'm expected to speak for every uni seed named person I don't know. Embrace the fact you are unisex named liberated...

How can I research something when I don't know what that something is? So I'll repeat my question: you think they are confused about what? Sexuality? Gender identity? What to have for tea? This has been covered in thread time n time again. Re read . It's becoming boring....

I've re-read. I still don't understand what the hell you are on about. I suspect that's not a failure of comprehension on my part. See I know you say you don't have a unisex name. However the 1 you have chosen on here is. That being Ruby. Therfore backing my findings up that Unisex names tend to be confused or cause confusion.

Not really. Ruby isn't a unisex name by any stretch of the imagination.

I know loads of men called Ruby Yes exactly. A confused unisex name bearer.

Erm.... I think my sarcasm got lost there a Famous jump jockey. Riding at moment for 1. House wives choice now the other top jump jockey retired.... "
look out for him in next year's Grand national. You heard it here first....

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"I don't understand. Confused about what?

(For avoidance of doubt, my confusion is not down to my name, which is entirely gender specific.)

Do your own research. I throw a question to the floor on my findings and I'm expected to speak for every uni seed named person I don't know. Embrace the fact you are unisex named liberated...

How can I research something when I don't know what that something is? So I'll repeat my question: you think they are confused about what? Sexuality? Gender identity? What to have for tea? This has been covered in thread time n time again. Re read . It's becoming boring....

I've re-read. I still don't understand what the hell you are on about. I suspect that's not a failure of comprehension on my part. See I know you say you don't have a unisex name. However the 1 you have chosen on here is. That being Ruby. Therfore backing my findings up that Unisex names tend to be confused or cause confusion.

Not really. Ruby isn't a unisex name by any stretch of the imagination.

I know loads of men called Ruby Yes exactly. A confused unisex name bearer.

Erm.... I think my sarcasm got lost there a Famous jump jockey. Riding at moment for 1. "

Do you mean the guy who is actually called Rupert, but Ruby is a nickname? Because that's not the same thing now is it.

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over a year ago


"I don't understand. Confused about what?

(For avoidance of doubt, my confusion is not down to my name, which is entirely gender specific.)

Do your own research. I throw a question to the floor on my findings and I'm expected to speak for every uni seed named person I don't know. Embrace the fact you are unisex named liberated...

How can I research something when I don't know what that something is? So I'll repeat my question: you think they are confused about what? Sexuality? Gender identity? What to have for tea? This has been covered in thread time n time again. Re read . It's becoming boring....

I've re-read. I still don't understand what the hell you are on about. I suspect that's not a failure of comprehension on my part. See I know you say you don't have a unisex name. However the 1 you have chosen on here is. That being Ruby. Therfore backing my findings up that Unisex names tend to be confused or cause confusion.

Not really. Ruby isn't a unisex name by any stretch of the imagination.

I know loads of men called Ruby Yes exactly. A confused unisex name bearer.

Erm.... I think my sarcasm got lost there a Famous jump jockey. Riding at moment for 1.

Do you mean the guy who is actually called Rupert, but Ruby is a nickname? Because that's not the same thing now is it. "
Type in unisex names to a search engine. You'll find Ruby there pride of place ensconced amongst unisex names. How confused are you! !!!!!!!

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"I don't understand. Confused about what?

(For avoidance of doubt, my confusion is not down to my name, which is entirely gender specific.)

Do your own research. I throw a question to the floor on my findings and I'm expected to speak for every uni seed named person I don't know. Embrace the fact you are unisex named liberated...

How can I research something when I don't know what that something is? So I'll repeat my question: you think they are confused about what? Sexuality? Gender identity? What to have for tea? This has been covered in thread time n time again. Re read . It's becoming boring....

I've re-read. I still don't understand what the hell you are on about. I suspect that's not a failure of comprehension on my part. See I know you say you don't have a unisex name. However the 1 you have chosen on here is. That being Ruby. Therfore backing my findings up that Unisex names tend to be confused or cause confusion.

Not really. Ruby isn't a unisex name by any stretch of the imagination.

I know loads of men called Ruby Yes exactly. A confused unisex name bearer.

Erm.... I think my sarcasm got lost there a Famous jump jockey. Riding at moment for 1.

Do you mean the guy who is actually called Rupert, but Ruby is a nickname? Because that's not the same thing now is it. Type in unisex names to a search engine. You'll find Ruby there pride of place ensconced amongst unisex names. How confused are you! !!!!!!!"

Type "Ruby name" into a well-known search engine.

Top results: "Ruby is a predominantly feminine given name taken from the name of the gemstone ruby"; "Ruby: Meaning, origin, and popularity of the girl's name Ruby"

Just because the occasional person of the opposite sex is called something doesn't make it a unisex name.

Is Shane a unisex name? Is Gareth?

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"I don't understand. Confused about what?

(For avoidance of doubt, my confusion is not down to my name, which is entirely gender specific.)

Do your own research. I throw a question to the floor on my findings and I'm expected to speak for every uni seed named person I don't know. Embrace the fact you are unisex named liberated...

How can I research something when I don't know what that something is? So I'll repeat my question: you think they are confused about what? Sexuality? Gender identity? What to have for tea? This has been covered in thread time n time again. Re read . It's becoming boring....

I've re-read. I still don't understand what the hell you are on about. I suspect that's not a failure of comprehension on my part. See I know you say you don't have a unisex name. However the 1 you have chosen on here is. That being Ruby. Therfore backing my findings up that Unisex names tend to be confused or cause confusion.

Not really. Ruby isn't a unisex name by any stretch of the imagination.

I know loads of men called Ruby Yes exactly. A confused unisex name bearer.

Erm.... I think my sarcasm got lost there a Famous jump jockey. Riding at moment for 1.

Do you mean the guy who is actually called Rupert, but Ruby is a nickname? Because that's not the same thing now is it. Type in unisex names to a search engine. You'll find Ruby there pride of place ensconced amongst unisex names. How confused are you! !!!!!!!

Type "Ruby name" into a well-known search engine.

Top results: "Ruby is a predominantly feminine given name taken from the name of the gemstone ruby"; "Ruby: Meaning, origin, and popularity of the girl's name Ruby"

Just because the occasional person of the opposite sex is called something doesn't make it a unisex name.

Is Shane a unisex name? Is Gareth?"
Ruby is unisex.

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"I don't understand. Confused about what?

(For avoidance of doubt, my confusion is not down to my name, which is entirely gender specific.)

Do your own research. I throw a question to the floor on my findings and I'm expected to speak for every uni seed named person I don't know. Embrace the fact you are unisex named liberated...

How can I research something when I don't know what that something is? So I'll repeat my question: you think they are confused about what? Sexuality? Gender identity? What to have for tea? This has been covered in thread time n time again. Re read . It's becoming boring....

I've re-read. I still don't understand what the hell you are on about. I suspect that's not a failure of comprehension on my part. See I know you say you don't have a unisex name. However the 1 you have chosen on here is. That being Ruby. Therfore backing my findings up that Unisex names tend to be confused or cause confusion.

Not really. Ruby isn't a unisex name by any stretch of the imagination.

I know loads of men called Ruby Yes exactly. A confused unisex name bearer.

Erm.... I think my sarcasm got lost there a Famous jump jockey. Riding at moment for 1.

Do you mean the guy who is actually called Rupert, but Ruby is a nickname? Because that's not the same thing now is it. Type in unisex names to a search engine. You'll find Ruby there pride of place ensconced amongst unisex names. How confused are you! !!!!!!!

Type "Ruby name" into a well-known search engine.

Top results: "Ruby is a predominantly feminine given name taken from the name of the gemstone ruby"; "Ruby: Meaning, origin, and popularity of the girl's name Ruby"

Just because the occasional person of the opposite sex is called something doesn't make it a unisex name.

Is Shane a unisex name? Is Gareth? Ruby is unisex. "

No it isn't. You're getting confused with Reuben (confused! Fancy that). You haven't answered my question again. Gareth? Shane?

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over a year ago


"I don't understand. Confused about what?

(For avoidance of doubt, my confusion is not down to my name, which is entirely gender specific.)

Do your own research. I throw a question to the floor on my findings and I'm expected to speak for every uni seed named person I don't know. Embrace the fact you are unisex named liberated...

How can I research something when I don't know what that something is? So I'll repeat my question: you think they are confused about what? Sexuality? Gender identity? What to have for tea? This has been covered in thread time n time again. Re read . It's becoming boring....

I've re-read. I still don't understand what the hell you are on about. I suspect that's not a failure of comprehension on my part. See I know you say you don't have a unisex name. However the 1 you have chosen on here is. That being Ruby. Therfore backing my findings up that Unisex names tend to be confused or cause confusion.

Not really. Ruby isn't a unisex name by any stretch of the imagination.

I know loads of men called Ruby Yes exactly. A confused unisex name bearer.

Erm.... I think my sarcasm got lost there a Famous jump jockey. Riding at moment for 1.

Do you mean the guy who is actually called Rupert, but Ruby is a nickname? Because that's not the same thing now is it. Type in unisex names to a search engine. You'll find Ruby there pride of place ensconced amongst unisex names. How confused are you! !!!!!!!

Type "Ruby name" into a well-known search engine.

Top results: "Ruby is a predominantly feminine given name taken from the name of the gemstone ruby"; "Ruby: Meaning, origin, and popularity of the girl's name Ruby"

Just because the occasional person of the opposite sex is called something doesn't make it a unisex name.

Is Shane a unisex name? Is Gareth? Ruby is unisex.

No it isn't. You're getting confused with Reuben (confused! Fancy that). You haven't answered my question again. Gareth? Shane?"
Ruby is unisex. I haven't checked other 2 at a guess I'd say no.

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"I don't understand. Confused about what?

(For avoidance of doubt, my confusion is not down to my name, which is entirely gender specific.)

Do your own research. I throw a question to the floor on my findings and I'm expected to speak for every uni seed named person I don't know. Embrace the fact you are unisex named liberated...

How can I research something when I don't know what that something is? So I'll repeat my question: you think they are confused about what? Sexuality? Gender identity? What to have for tea? This has been covered in thread time n time again. Re read . It's becoming boring....

I've re-read. I still don't understand what the hell you are on about. I suspect that's not a failure of comprehension on my part. See I know you say you don't have a unisex name. However the 1 you have chosen on here is. That being Ruby. Therfore backing my findings up that Unisex names tend to be confused or cause confusion.

Not really. Ruby isn't a unisex name by any stretch of the imagination.

I know loads of men called Ruby Yes exactly. A confused unisex name bearer.

Erm.... I think my sarcasm got lost there a Famous jump jockey. Riding at moment for 1.

Do you mean the guy who is actually called Rupert, but Ruby is a nickname? Because that's not the same thing now is it. Type in unisex names to a search engine. You'll find Ruby there pride of place ensconced amongst unisex names. How confused are you! !!!!!!!

Type "Ruby name" into a well-known search engine.

Top results: "Ruby is a predominantly feminine given name taken from the name of the gemstone ruby"; "Ruby: Meaning, origin, and popularity of the girl's name Ruby"

Just because the occasional person of the opposite sex is called something doesn't make it a unisex name.

Is Shane a unisex name? Is Gareth? Ruby is unisex.

No it isn't. You're getting confused with Reuben (confused! Fancy that). You haven't answered my question again. Gareth? Shane? Ruby is unisex. I haven't checked other 2 at a guess I'd say no."

There are famous women called both of those names but I still wouldn't class them as unisex. names. I can't think of a single man called Ruby. It's not a unisex name.

And none of this proves anything, anyway...because at no point have you been clear about what exactly it is people with unisex names are supposed to be confused about. Which leads me to believe you can't explain, because it's bollocks.

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over a year ago


"I don't understand. Confused about what?

(For avoidance of doubt, my confusion is not down to my name, which is entirely gender specific.)

Do your own research. I throw a question to the floor on my findings and I'm expected to speak for every uni seed named person I don't know. Embrace the fact you are unisex named liberated...

How can I research something when I don't know what that something is? So I'll repeat my question: you think they are confused about what? Sexuality? Gender identity? What to have for tea? This has been covered in thread time n time again. Re read . It's becoming boring....

I've re-read. I still don't understand what the hell you are on about. I suspect that's not a failure of comprehension on my part. See I know you say you don't have a unisex name. However the 1 you have chosen on here is. That being Ruby. Therfore backing my findings up that Unisex names tend to be confused or cause confusion.

Not really. Ruby isn't a unisex name by any stretch of the imagination.

I know loads of men called Ruby Yes exactly. A confused unisex name bearer.

Erm.... I think my sarcasm got lost there a Famous jump jockey. Riding at moment for 1.

Do you mean the guy who is actually called Rupert, but Ruby is a nickname? Because that's not the same thing now is it. Type in unisex names to a search engine. You'll find Ruby there pride of place ensconced amongst unisex names. How confused are you! !!!!!!!

Type "Ruby name" into a well-known search engine.

Top results: "Ruby is a predominantly feminine given name taken from the name of the gemstone ruby"; "Ruby: Meaning, origin, and popularity of the girl's name Ruby"

Just because the occasional person of the opposite sex is called something doesn't make it a unisex name.

Is Shane a unisex name? Is Gareth? Ruby is unisex.

No it isn't. You're getting confused with Reuben (confused! Fancy that). You haven't answered my question again. Gareth? Shane? Ruby is unisex. I haven't checked other 2 at a guess I'd say no.

There are famous women called both of those names but I still wouldn't class them as unisex. names. I can't think of a single man called Ruby. It's not a unisex name.

And none of this proves anything, anyway...because at no point have you been clear about what exactly it is people with unisex names are supposed to be confused about. Which leads me to believe you can't explain, because it's bollocks."
Just researched the names. They are masculine. Therfore not uni sex. You can call yourself what ever you want look at the Geldofs. Your points of view are way out there. You are mega confused/ trying to confuse this thread Ruby. Tut tut

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"

And none of this proves anything, anyway...because at no point have you been clear about what exactly it is people with unisex names are supposed to be confused about. Which leads me to believe you can't explain, because it's bollocks. Just researched the names. They are masculine. Therfore not uni sex. You can call yourself what ever you want look at the Geldofs. Your points of view are way out there. You are mega confused/ trying to confuse this thread Ruby. Tut tut"

I was seeking clarity. I haven't tried to confuse the thread. I haven't succeeded in confusing the thread, you've managed that all by yourself, Gideon.

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over a year ago


"

And none of this proves anything, anyway...because at no point have you been clear about what exactly it is people with unisex names are supposed to be confused about. Which leads me to believe you can't explain, because it's bollocks. Just researched the names. They are masculine. Therfore not uni sex. You can call yourself what ever you want look at the Geldofs. Your points of view are way out there. You are mega confused/ trying to confuse this thread Ruby. Tut tut

I was seeking clarity. I haven't tried to confuse the thread. I haven't succeeded in confusing the thread, you've managed that all by yourself, Gideon. "
You have Throwing poor Shanes n Gareth s into the equation. The thread is unisex names.

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over a year ago


"

And none of this proves anything, anyway...because at no point have you been clear about what exactly it is people with unisex names are supposed to be confused about. Which leads me to believe you can't explain, because it's bollocks. Just researched the names. They are masculine. Therfore not uni sex. You can call yourself what ever you want look at the Geldofs. Your points of view are way out there. You are mega confused/ trying to confuse this thread Ruby. Tut tut

I was seeking clarity. I haven't tried to confuse the thread. I haven't succeeded in confusing the thread, you've managed that all by yourself, Gideon. You have Throwing poor Shanes n Gareth s into the equation. The thread is unisex names. "

My point, which you chose to wilfully ignore, was that a few people called a name does not make it unisex. Those were examples of that to counter your Ruby assertion.

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over a year ago


"

And none of this proves anything, anyway...because at no point have you been clear about what exactly it is people with unisex names are supposed to be confused about. Which leads me to believe you can't explain, because it's bollocks. Just researched the names. They are masculine. Therfore not uni sex. You can call yourself what ever you want look at the Geldofs. Your points of view are way out there. You are mega confused/ trying to confuse this thread Ruby. Tut tut

I was seeking clarity. I haven't tried to confuse the thread. I haven't succeeded in confusing the thread, you've managed that all by yourself, Gideon. You have Throwing poor Shanes n Gareth s into the equation. The thread is unisex names.

My point, which you chose to wilfully ignore, was that a few people called a name does not make it unisex. Those were examples of that to counter your Ruby assertion. "
It is classified as unisex on unisex names. Feel free to type into a search engine. Wow your confused

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over a year ago


"Ahhhhh this thread was so much better yesterday. xxx Agreed it's ran out of energy. Points Neen made. Points been listened to. If have any research findings feel free to pm me. My last post on the subject. Thanks for input folks.....

I did some research.

Both myself and my gorgeous gym instructor are not confused despite having gender neutral names. Confused those who can do. Those who can't teach. What did gym instructor really want to do. Research and share findings....

Damn... I didn't realise that teaching was an indicator of confusion.

Maybe I am confused after all.

Do you think that teaching professions have a higher than normal number of gender neutral names? Who knows once again . I urge you to research. Boring now. Circles and going round springs to mind....

Hang on my mum was a teacher n she has my surname. xxx 2 wrongs don't make a right. "

No but I does sometimes cum before e. xxx

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"

And none of this proves anything, anyway...because at no point have you been clear about what exactly it is people with unisex names are supposed to be confused about. Which leads me to believe you can't explain, because it's bollocks. Just researched the names. They are masculine. Therfore not uni sex. You can call yourself what ever you want look at the Geldofs. Your points of view are way out there. You are mega confused/ trying to confuse this thread Ruby. Tut tut

I was seeking clarity. I haven't tried to confuse the thread. I haven't succeeded in confusing the thread, you've managed that all by yourself, Gideon. You have Throwing poor Shanes n Gareth s into the equation. The thread is unisex names.

My point, which you chose to wilfully ignore, was that a few people called a name does not make it unisex. Those were examples of that to counter your Ruby assertion. It is classified as unisex on unisex names. Feel free to type into a search engine. Wow your confused"

It isn't. Not that it has any influence on my confusion or otherwise, since it's not my name.

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over a year ago


"Ahhhhh this thread was so much better yesterday. xxx Agreed it's ran out of energy. Points Neen made. Points been listened to. If have any research findings feel free to pm me. My last post on the subject. Thanks for input folks.....

I did some research.

Both myself and my gorgeous gym instructor are not confused despite having gender neutral names. Confused those who can do. Those who can't teach. What did gym instructor really want to do. Research and share findings....

Damn... I didn't realise that teaching was an indicator of confusion.

Maybe I am confused after all.

Do you think that teaching professions have a higher than normal number of gender neutral names? Who knows once again . I urge you to research. Boring now. Circles and going round springs to mind....

Hang on my mum was a teacher n she has my surname. xxx 2 wrongs don't make a right.

No but I does sometimes cum before e. xxx"
Yes I wouldn't have any other way . I'm unselfish like that ...

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over a year ago


"

And none of this proves anything, anyway...because at no point have you been clear about what exactly it is people with unisex names are supposed to be confused about. Which leads me to believe you can't explain, because it's bollocks. Just researched the names. They are masculine. Therfore not uni sex. You can call yourself what ever you want look at the Geldofs. Your points of view are way out there. You are mega confused/ trying to confuse this thread Ruby. Tut tut

I was seeking clarity. I haven't tried to confuse the thread. I haven't succeeded in confusing the thread, you've managed that all by yourself, Gideon. You have Throwing poor Shanes n Gareth s into the equation. The thread is unisex names.

My point, which you chose to wilfully ignore, was that a few people called a name does not make it unisex. Those were examples of that to counter your Ruby assertion. It is classified as unisex on unisex names. Feel free to type into a search engine. Wow your confused

It isn't. Not that it has any influence on my confusion or otherwise, since it's not my name. "
Here you go confused one type this into search engine. " Ruby unisex name"

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over a year ago


"

And none of this proves anything, anyway...because at no point have you been clear about what exactly it is people with unisex names are supposed to be confused about. Which leads me to believe you can't explain, because it's bollocks. Just researched the names. They are masculine. Therfore not uni sex. You can call yourself what ever you want look at the Geldofs. Your points of view are way out there. You are mega confused/ trying to confuse this thread Ruby. Tut tut

I was seeking clarity. I haven't tried to confuse the thread. I haven't succeeded in confusing the thread, you've managed that all by yourself, Gideon. You have Throwing poor Shanes n Gareth s into the equation. The thread is unisex names.

My point, which you chose to wilfully ignore, was that a few people called a name does not make it unisex. Those were examples of that to counter your Ruby assertion. It is classified as unisex on unisex names. Feel free to type into a search engine. Wow your confused

It isn't. Not that it has any influence on my confusion or otherwise, since it's not my name. "
But it does. As you chose it. Therfore you back up my argument that unisex named are confused. You most certainly are and element untrustworthy as trying to fib regards Ruby not being a unisex name when clearly is.

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over a year ago


"

And none of this proves anything, anyway...because at no point have you been clear about what exactly it is people with unisex names are supposed to be confused about. Which leads me to believe you can't explain, because it's bollocks. Just researched the names. They are masculine. Therfore not uni sex. You can call yourself what ever you want look at the Geldofs. Your points of view are way out there. You are mega confused/ trying to confuse this thread Ruby. Tut tut

I was seeking clarity. I haven't tried to confuse the thread. I haven't succeeded in confusing the thread, you've managed that all by yourself, Gideon. You have Throwing poor Shanes n Gareth s into the equation. The thread is unisex names.

My point, which you chose to wilfully ignore, was that a few people called a name does not make it unisex. Those were examples of that to counter your Ruby assertion. It is classified as unisex on unisex names. Feel free to type into a search engine. Wow your confused

It isn't. Not that it has any influence on my confusion or otherwise, since it's not my name. Here you go confused one type this into search engine. " Ruby unisex name" "

I've typed exactly that into a search engine and got for the top results an English unisex names generator which gives you the male and female versions of a name "male name: Reuben, Rubin....female name: Ruby, Rubina" and a load of mumsnet (or similar) posts going "for gods sake don't call your baby boy Ruby, it's a girl's name".

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"

And none of this proves anything, anyway...because at no point have you been clear about what exactly it is people with unisex names are supposed to be confused about. Which leads me to believe you can't explain, because it's bollocks. Just researched the names. They are masculine. Therfore not uni sex. You can call yourself what ever you want look at the Geldofs. Your points of view are way out there. You are mega confused/ trying to confuse this thread Ruby. Tut tut

I was seeking clarity. I haven't tried to confuse the thread. I haven't succeeded in confusing the thread, you've managed that all by yourself, Gideon. You have Throwing poor Shanes n Gareth s into the equation. The thread is unisex names.

My point, which you chose to wilfully ignore, was that a few people called a name does not make it unisex. Those were examples of that to counter your Ruby assertion. It is classified as unisex on unisex names. Feel free to type into a search engine. Wow your confused

It isn't. Not that it has any influence on my confusion or otherwise, since it's not my name. But it does. As you chose it. Therfore you back up my argument that unisex named are confused. You most certainly are and element untrustworthy as trying to fib regards Ruby not being a unisex name when clearly is."

So why would I become inherently untrustworthy as a result of a username which I've used online for approximately the past year?

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over a year ago


"

And none of this proves anything, anyway...because at no point have you been clear about what exactly it is people with unisex names are supposed to be confused about. Which leads me to believe you can't explain, because it's bollocks. Just researched the names. They are masculine. Therfore not uni sex. You can call yourself what ever you want look at the Geldofs. Your points of view are way out there. You are mega confused/ trying to confuse this thread Ruby. Tut tut

I was seeking clarity. I haven't tried to confuse the thread. I haven't succeeded in confusing the thread, you've managed that all by yourself, Gideon. You have Throwing poor Shanes n Gareth s into the equation. The thread is unisex names.

My point, which you chose to wilfully ignore, was that a few people called a name does not make it unisex. Those were examples of that to counter your Ruby assertion. It is classified as unisex on unisex names. Feel free to type into a search engine. Wow your confused

It isn't. Not that it has any influence on my confusion or otherwise, since it's not my name. Here you go confused one type this into search engine. " Ruby unisex name"

I've typed exactly that into a search engine and got for the top results an English unisex names generator which gives you the male and female versions of a name "male name: Reuben, Rubin....female name: Ruby, Rubina" and a load of mumsnet (or similar) posts going "for gods sake don't call your baby boy Ruby, it's a girl's name"."
Ruby is unisex.

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This is the weirdest post.. are you asking if unisex names cause confusion? Or if people with unisex names are confused? And if the latter.. confused about what?

I have a unisex name and the only thing I am confused about is your post

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