FabSwingers.com forum: What has being on Fab done for everyone?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well for me it has certainly lifted my low mood after I had a close family bereavement;

It has provided me some escapism from being a carer for my disabled mum;

Given me a few great friends I would never have met in any other walk of life;

It has encouraged me to lose weight and be more confident in my body shape and like myself more.

Given me more self esteem and confidence (I choose my meets carefully and avoid the negative ones!)

Opened up a world of parties and hedonistic debauchery

And given me a few fantastic fwbs along the way...

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By *ottotrot1Man
over a year ago

kilbirnie

Friendships for me too , lol hoping for more fun going forward

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By *rgyll_LadMan
over a year ago

Around

I totally agree. I was in vanilla relationship that wasn't working. When I became single, it opened up a whole new world and have met some amazing people and had an amazing horny time since joining.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its been a great time, been great for my confidence, chatted to lots of amazing girls, had some fantastic meets, long may it continue

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By *artinlycraMan
over a year ago

southport

hi givern me confidence at chatting with u huns

helped with meeting friends at clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing! Absolutely nothing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing! Absolutely nothing!

Well you being on here has done a hell of alot for me and everyone else so hope that gives you some

Solace beautiful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of fun for us as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had couple of lovely meets. One I'm seeing again this week

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

Given me an insight into a whole new world of intriguing sexy people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a damn thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's given me lots of good times. I made friends that my life would have been poorer without. I found my balloon. I discovered clubs. I learnt a few things I didn't know before, regardless of whether I wanted to know. All thanks to the one guy who introduced me to this weird and wonderful place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has helped me through some tough times lately. I have met some absolutely gorgeous people. I have friends to chat with.

On the down side it has been a challenge to stay positive and at times I have felt distant from it all. Going through a down patch just now.

I guess I have learned just how diverse humans really are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has put a smile on my face and make me feel like even at my age that fun hasn't passed me by ?

And with the help of my horny partner I can't see anything more than good times ahead

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nada diddly squat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fab is a time thief

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It's helped me explore my sexuality even further, prevent myself from being too narrow minded regarding preferences. It's also helped me meet several fantastic people, one who is very dear to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well for me it has certainly lifted my low mood after I had a close family bereavement;

It has provided me some escapism from being a carer for my disabled mum;

Given me a few great friends I would never have met in any other walk of life;

It has encouraged me to lose weight and be more confident in my body shape and like myself more.

Given me more self esteem and confidence (I choose my meets carefully and avoid the negative ones!)

Opened up a world of parties and hedonistic debauchery

And given me a few fantastic fwbs along the way..."

Good for you really happy for you nice to see it's help you along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much killed any faith in humanity that I had left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretty much killed any faith in humanity that I had left."

so young yet so cynical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well, it's wasted my time and left me quite frustrated.

I would like to say different but it's good for finding out about clubs but I've never really had any luck with meets or making friendships via the site.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Contributed to the steady decline of reality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so young yet so cynical

Might be young, but lived a long, hard life.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I met jack here,so im very grateful to fab

Miss

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

It gave me some friends, which have been invaluable to me.

It showed me I'm not totally unattractive to all women.

Managed to find a woman who wanted to meet me. Not really sure how that happened but it was a priceless experience.

It highlighted a lot of problems and issues I've had, brought them into clear focus. Not a bad thing that though. It showed me what I need to work on.

It gave me hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lifted me general mood, gave me a bit more confidece helped me mature a little and overall give me a new lease of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met some lovely people.

Got a sore bottom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For Sandy

Confidence in her own body and a escape from normal life

For Mr Sinn

The ability to see Sandy blossom and the use of the forums to expand our knowledge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well recently, met some nice guys who have plans with again

Others have built up my confidence, that im chatting with. All good for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Helped me become an even bigger slut!

And find those that love me sleeping with different people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Builds me up and kicks me down on an alternating basis.

I've had some very nice things said by people I would never expect to say those things and my natural instinct is always to think 'where is the but...'

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley

"fab is a time thief

Forums definitely are, but then I'm just killing time at work, so, hey, lol.

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

Opened up a whole new world x

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

fab has given me the odd laugh lead to some truly interesting thought provoking conversations with some truly interesting individuals .

reminded me how dismissive in general people are off opinions that differ from their own .

but above all it has reminded me how lucky and blessed as a human being I truly am .

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By *ust Share xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

We've met some beautiful people that we now socialise with as often as time allows, and speak to almost daily! Love where we are in life now and so glad we joined this site!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lifted me general mood, gave me a bit more confidece helped me mature a little and overall give me a new lease of life "

And let us ogle overy ya

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Taught me that there are people out their (ok maybe not in the vanilla world) that find me sexually attractive at least.

and it was one tool to overcome depression.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been filled with ups and downs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since joining FAB my self esteem and confidence has been restored. I actually didn't realise I'd lost it as much until it began to come back.

I have met some amazing people some of whom are social friends.Have to give the forums a mention too as some great laughs had when reading some of the messages.

I was introduced to the club scene which I wouldn't have done without joining fab.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

It's allowed me to find out that I am what I always suspected myself to be... A right tart with a love of good hard cock. What anyone else thinks of that revelation I don't care. I've found that I love my hubby more than I imagined because he not only let's me be a tart, he actively encourages me, he gives me confidence to be me, he tells me everyday how much he loves me, tells me I'm beautiful even if I don't think it myself, makes me laugh when we've had a bad meet and is always supportive.

Have fun when you can everyone, you're a long time dead xx

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"It's allowed me to find out that I am what I always suspected myself to be... A right tart with a love of good hard cock. What anyone else thinks of that revelation I don't care. I've found that I love my hubby more than I imagined because he not only let's me be a tart, he actively encourages me, he gives me confidence to be me, he tells me everyday how much he loves me, tells me I'm beautiful even if I don't think it myself, makes me laugh when we've had a bad meet and is always supportive.

Have fun when you can everyone, you're a long time dead xx"

Your post is self reflective and well thought through makes my two lines seem shockingly ill thought through compared to your post . . . I like it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of ups and downs. Annoying frustrating arseoles but kind, beautiful,fun people also. Helped us live out sexual fantasies and hopefully more to come. We embrace it all good and bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and it was one tool to overcome depression. "

How so? I'm concerned the opposite way.

Happy to PM if you don't want to put too much out in public

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Good times, bad times, more bad than good lately but I will not give in!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Made me happier and probably saved my marriage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have fun when you can everyone, you're a long time dead xx"

I feel the same

Doll x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well for me it has certainly lifted my low mood after I had a close family bereavement;

It has provided me some escapism from being a carer for my disabled mum;

Given me a few great friends I would never have met in any other walk of life;

It has encouraged me to lose weight and be more confident in my body shape and like myself more.

Given me more self esteem and confidence (I choose my meets carefully and avoid the negative ones!)

Opened up a world of parties and hedonistic debauchery

And given me a few fantastic fwbs along the way...

Good for you really happy for you nice to see it's help you along

xx"

Xxx

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"and it was one tool to overcome depression.

How so? I'm concerned the opposite way.

Happy to PM if you don't want to put too much out in public"

I was in a stage in my life where I had not aicheved or would meet the goals I had set myself and what others expected of myself and what I expected of myself.

there was also other reasons that may have or were unlikley contributing factors. you can't live in fear or worry about things you can't control all the time the body can't cope.

it's a tool that helped I'm not too sure now why it helped (the age of time has decayed those thoughts) but I suppose that i found people in a similar situation as myself and possibly helped me to forget things going on in my life and forget the situation I found my self in.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"and it was one tool to overcome depression.

How so? I'm concerned the opposite way.

Happy to PM if you don't want to put too much out in public

I was in a stage in my life where I had not aicheved or would meet the goals I had set myself and what others expected of myself and what I expected of myself.

there was also other reasons that may have or were unlikley contributing factors. you can't live in fear or worry about things you can't control all the time the body can't cope.

Its an escape from the real world.

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

It always makes me laugh and i get to see so many gorgeous every day people naked and its made me accept people as people not by there sexuality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and it was one tool to overcome depression.

How so? I'm concerned the opposite way.

Happy to PM if you don't want to put too much out in public

I was in a stage in my life where I had not aicheved or would meet the goals I had set myself and what others expected of myself and what I expected of myself.

there was also other reasons that may have or were unlikley contributing factors. you can't live in fear or worry about things you can't control all the time the body can't cope.

Its an escape from the real world."

thank you

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"and it was one tool to overcome depression.

How so? I'm concerned the opposite way.

Happy to PM if you don't want to put too much out in public

I was in a stage in my life where I had not aicheved or would meet the goals I had set myself and what others expected of myself and what I expected of myself.

there was also other reasons that may have or were unlikley contributing factors. you can't live in fear or worry about things you can't control all the time the body can't cope.

Its an escape from the real world."

one thing it has done is given me freinds that I never thought I would get and would certainly not have met or have spoken to in such intimate detail.

done of my swinging derives are the closest I have.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"and it was one tool to overcome depression.

How so? I'm concerned the opposite way.

Happy to PM if you don't want to put too much out in public

I was in a stage in my life where I had not aicheved or would meet the goals I had set myself and what others expected of myself and what I expected of myself.

there was also other reasons that may have or were unlikley contributing factors. you can't live in fear or worry about things you can't control all the time the body can't cope.

Its an escape from the real world.

thank you"

why do you think fab makes you depressed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given us a good laugh and a big helping of WTF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's provided me the opportunity to meet people from all over the country, some lovely friendships have developed as a result.

The forums have taught me a lot about getting along with people whom I'd probably give a wide berth too in every day life.

I guess the diversity of the site is what makes it successful.

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By *egin551Couple
over a year ago

south west !

It's made the trust between us even stronger than it was before.

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Had fun along the way. A few relationships too and trying out new experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Contributed to the steady decline of reality"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and it was one tool to overcome depression.

How so? I'm concerned the opposite way.

Happy to PM if you don't want to put too much out in public

I was in a stage in my life where I had not aicheved or would meet the goals I had set myself and what others expected of myself and what I expected of myself.

there was also other reasons that may have or were unlikley contributing factors. you can't live in fear or worry about things you can't control all the time the body can't cope.

Its an escape from the real world.

thank you

why do you think fab makes you depressed?"

I don't think fab necessarily makes me depressed. More it has highlighted things in life that lead me to think that maybe I should go to the doctor. If you see what I mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's helped boosted my confidence and self esteem. I may some amazing people and made some life long friends along the way. Tried things I deemed that was too perversed in the past. I've had some fantastic naughty fun and Brought out the really naughty side of me I never knew I had. Hoping it continues for many many years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Assuming being on Fab is the equivalent of starting Swinging, I can safely say it has brought us bags of sex we wouldn't otherwise have had, not only with others but also with each other. It's a classic example of the more you get the more you want.

We have met people who will be close friends for life.

We have discovered new techniques which we never dreamed of.

We have killed off the religious morality which was pumped into us as children.

Is that enough?

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I've been on the swinging scene a lot longer than I have been on Fab...but Fab has allowed me to reconnect with a few people I'd lost touch with from 10 or so years ago. It's also helped me meet a few new people...and the forums are a giggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found me a husband . We're getting married in a few months time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made me a selfie whore.

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