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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't know if you women are aware of just how difficult it is in knowing what to write, how to start, what to say, what to avoid saying etc etc etc, when messaging someone that inspires you in the first place to actually send a message! Lol, having said that, you, and the majority of other women probably need not worry about how you approach, because us narrow minded, brain in your cock thinking, sex crazed dogs on heat of men, if truth is told would be more than happy with just a wink and a fanny shot to get their attention, never mind one line messages and face pictures that you girls are seemingly so sensitive to, and hence, makes it bloody difficult to grab the attention of... or remotely stand out from the other 15,000 messages received that day opening up with things like "alright schweetheart, fucking great tits, I'd like to hang out the back of you..." or even more boringly, a simple "Hello how are you..." or "your up late, fancy a fuck.." -_- zzZZZ
I understand that there's probably a thousand blokes to every ten women on here (maybe not quite so extreme, but you get my drift) and if you was to receive lets say 50 messages over one night, there's a good chance that your probably gonna bin erm......50 of them? lol or maybe a couple are lucky enough to slip through the 'no thanks, another wanker' filter, because they stood out from the continuous influctuation of mundane, chav like inuendo's from a stranger claiming to be a man, or more importantly claiming to be man that you are going to like or somehow find flattering in some way, when in fact all they are doing is mugging themselves off and ultimately getting nowhere!! Am I right, or am I right? Lol...
You may now be wondering how I know this, yet regularly fail to get the attention of a female myself, that in fairness, would, in a real life situation, face to face, in a bar, club etc, be in with a much better chance. After all I'm not bad looking, i'm not George Clooney, fair play but I'm not Ian Beale either, I'm tall, girls like tall men usually don't they?? then again maybe 6ft5" is just a bit too tall?? I'm reasonably fit, or I'm certainly 'adequately in proportion' anyway! :D I'm confident, good bit of banter, easy going & uncomplicated...what could possibly be the problem? Is my profile boring have i said too little, or am i saying to much, lol? My gallery, am I showing too little, or am I showing too much??
There is clearly a fine line between dating & no strings sex, and you can generally make your own judgement on an individuals preferences, what they are ultimately looking for....get it wrong and its game over, before you've even started lol.
For me personally I'm all for the dating bit, and of course I could easily cross that fine line without to much thought, because ultimately I joined this site with the intention of meeting new people on a casual, kind of no strings basis, but it is sometimes frustrating when you just can't seem to nail it, yet spend a significant amount of time and effort in trying.
I only wish i was having the same effect on here towards the women, as I am with the men!!! That is how I am able to only assume what you girls must be faced with, because men just don't have the same values or morals - because yeah, mostly our brains are in our cocks!!! But I also know just how easy it is to fail at the first hurdle, and how frustrating that can be, especially for those of us that aren't amazingly physically attractive with ripped abs, six packs and hollywood style looks!!
Many may disagree, but the bottom line is, in my opinion for a woman, you don't have to be a Barbie, you are still going to attract men from every corner, whether that be for dating or for a one-off steaming sex session, because men are far easier to 'pull' than women.
For a guy, to have any real chance of initially attracting a Barbie, especially those who are here for the more casual or discreet encounters, then you have to be a Ken, because physical attraction is the only weapon, if your lucky enough to be blessed in that way that will make a woman be instantly attracted to you, regardless of how bland or non-descriptive your profile is, or the fact that there is no indication of your personality...if she wants sex, then your appearence is most important. If she's a Barbie looking for more than just a fuck and your not a Ken, but you know that your personality is your strongest weapon, well then you can only do your best in attempting to portray yourself in the best way possible. You can't be ugly and have no profile either - thats gonna get you nowehere, lol.
If your gay, which im not - but hasn't stopped the 100's of messages I get from guys telling me what they would like to do with my COCK....well there you go, enough said...in this department you don't need a profile or necessarily be good looking or super fit....a large penis is all ya need LOL !!!
I just wanted to share my thoughts and opinions on all of the above and am keen to hear what others think about all of the above. Oh, and whilst we are on this subject, seeing that this will by far be the most 'open' and descriptive message that I will ever be on here, if by any chance any of you women feel like I have managed to jump over that ever so intense first hurdle I've been talkig about, and think there might just be some potential, whether that be dating or casual sex (or a mix of both) then do feel free to come forward won't you - it would be refreshing to say the least, if even if it was just for a day, that I opened my inbox and saw anything other than male genitalia LOL
- Tom -  |
