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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guys who have profiles saying they are straight but messaging me telling me what they would love to do or telling me what they would love me to do to them so annoying! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the fabs straight not wanting a label in case it puts some of the women off or they just see themselves that way have a hard time saying Bi you'll never change it.

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent

Not only as above but ..there are ppl on fab that know others that don't know they bi..and they don't want them to know....

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By *essThePirateWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Utter pain in the arse..as I say..it not like females forgot to mention bi..

This reply from a guy that I pointed out had a straight profile but only has a sex meet verification from a guy. I was not offended..Er, so why?

"Sexuality is a spectrum, straight is what I put when I made the profile... sorry if this offends you."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find this strange . Maybe the guys are just in denial. When I've checked out ladies verifications , by clicking on guys profile who has met them , I've seen so many guys say they're straight , yet have TV's as friends etc and checking further , seen they've left a veri talking about how good it was to fuck the Tv's tight 'pussy' . Bizarre

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By *essThePirateWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"Not only as above but ..there are ppl on fab that know others that don't know they bi..and they don't want them to know...."

Declare and don't stigmatise...

A head count of % bi females declared might encourage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always find this strange . Maybe the guys are just in denial. When I've checked out ladies verifications , by clicking on guys profile who has met them , I've seen so many guys say they're straight , yet have TV's as friends etc and checking further , seen they've left a veri talking about how good it was to fuck the Tv's tight 'pussy' . Bizarre "

Not totally since they could have had the op the TV/TS labelling bunches a whole spectrum together round here. But those are arguments on other threads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always find this strange . Maybe the guys are just in denial. When I've checked out ladies verifications , by clicking on guys profile who has met them , I've seen so many guys say they're straight , yet have TV's as friends etc and checking further , seen they've left a veri talking about how good it was to fuck the Tv's tight 'pussy' . Bizarre

Not totally since they could have had the op the TV/TS labelling bunches a whole spectrum together round here. But those are arguments on other threads."

Thanks. Interesting take on it . Doesn't appear to be the case, from profiles I've seen, but I take your point

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

It's mostly because they don't consider themselves bi as it has connotations to fucking men but they don't consider a TV a man. We're like an odd middle ground. A lot of people I've spoken to about these sort of things have basically said they're attracted to cock, but not men and they like the femininity of women so us TVs strike the middle

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By *punkymonkey40Man
over a year ago

derby

Well I am straight and I was getting messages from a man who was also straight asking me if I am horny and want action..after many short emails he as gave up

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By *punkymonkey40Man
over a year ago

derby

It could be possible that single straight men are getting to the point now that if they can't get a woman they go after men lol

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"It could be possible that single straight men are getting to the point now that if they can't get a woman they go after men lol"

That's not really how sexuality works lol, it's not a choice

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By *arkside2698Man
over a year ago

luton

I think some guys are so desperate to have sexual contact with anything other than their hand, that they will literally fuck anything with a pulse. Thankfully these "straight" guys are seeming to leave me alone for a while. Some are so aggressive and don't take too kindly to a polite "no thank you"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not only as above but ..there are ppl on fab that know others that don't know they bi..and they don't want them to know...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it's the other way around I'm not interested in guys TVs or ts but seem to get hounded by them that's fab for ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some guys are so desperate to have sexual contact with anything other than their hand, that they will literally fuck anything with a pulse. Thankfully these "straight" guys are seeming to leave me alone for a while. Some are so aggressive and don't take too kindly to a polite "no thank you""

I've had ' straight ' guys contacting me before asking if i fancied a meet for them to do so and so before . i'v generally blocked them after a polite no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's mostly because they don't consider themselves bi as it has connotations to fucking men but they don't consider a TV a man. We're like an odd middle ground. A lot of people I've spoken to about these sort of things have basically said they're attracted to cock, but not men and they like the femininity of women so us TVs strike the middle"

Wow.. thanks for sharing .

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"It's mostly because they don't consider themselves bi as it has connotations to fucking men but they don't consider a TV a man. We're like an odd middle ground. A lot of people I've spoken to about these sort of things have basically said they're attracted to cock, but not men and they like the femininity of women so us TVs strike the middle

Wow.. thanks for sharing . "

Really hard to tell whether that was genuine or mocking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's mostly because they don't consider themselves bi as it has connotations to fucking men but they don't consider a TV a man. We're like an odd middle ground. A lot of people I've spoken to about these sort of things have basically said they're attracted to cock, but not men and they like the femininity of women so us TVs strike the middle

Wow.. thanks for sharing .

Really hard to tell whether that was genuine or mocking lol"

I know exactly where you are coming from. Some people are scared to be labelled as 'tranny shaggers' I hate the term. I am attracted to women and tgirls but I consider myself as straight as I like the female form. Now a naked guy does nothing for me at all.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"It's mostly because they don't consider themselves bi as it has connotations to fucking men but they don't consider a TV a man. We're like an odd middle ground. A lot of people I've spoken to about these sort of things have basically said they're attracted to cock, but not men and they like the femininity of women so us TVs strike the middle

Wow.. thanks for sharing .

Really hard to tell whether that was genuine or mocking lol

I know exactly where you are coming from. Some people are scared to be labelled as 'tranny shaggers' I hate the term. I am attracted to women and tgirls but I consider myself as straight as I like the female form. Now a naked guy does nothing for me at all. "

Some guys will do a range of stuff with guys - wanking, sucking, rimming and fucking but still refuse to say that they are bi. Well it's their preference, but if you regularly engage in sexual activity with another male and you still say you are straight then you are in denial. But I don't mind - guys can label themselves as they want - it's up to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys who have profiles saying they are straight but messaging me telling me what they would love to do or telling me what they would love me to do to them so annoying! Lol "

first mistake you made was assuming it was a guy. it may well of been one of them pesky gnomes in disguise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it's the other way around I'm not interested in guys TVs or ts but seem to get hounded by them that's fab for ya "

look in your settings and x those you do not want to contact you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's mostly because they don't consider themselves bi as it has connotations to fucking men but they don't consider a TV a man. We're like an odd middle ground. A lot of people I've spoken to about these sort of things have basically said they're attracted to cock, but not men and they like the femininity of women so us TVs strike the middle

Wow.. thanks for sharing .

Really hard to tell whether that was genuine or mocking lol

I know exactly where you are coming from. Some people are scared to be labelled as 'tranny shaggers' I hate the term. I am attracted to women and tgirls but I consider myself as straight as I like the female form. Now a naked guy does nothing for me at all.

Some guys will do a range of stuff with guys - wanking, sucking, rimming and fucking but still refuse to say that they are bi. Well it's their preference, but if you regularly engage in sexual activity with another male and you still say you are straight then you are in denial. But I don't mind - guys can label themselves as they want - it's up to them "

I agreee. Hence why i said a naked male does nothing for me. I like women and tgirls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's mostly because they don't consider themselves bi as it has connotations to fucking men but they don't consider a TV a man. We're like an odd middle ground. A lot of people I've spoken to about these sort of things have basically said they're attracted to cock, but not men and they like the femininity of women so us TVs strike the middle

Wow.. thanks for sharing .

Really hard to tell whether that was genuine or mocking lol

I know exactly where you are coming from. Some people are scared to be labelled as 'tranny shaggers' I hate the term. I am attracted to women and tgirls but I consider myself as straight as I like the female form. Now a naked guy does nothing for me at all.

Some guys will do a range of stuff with guys - wanking, sucking, rimming and fucking but still refuse to say that they are bi. Well it's their preference, but if you regularly engage in sexual activity with another male and you still say you are straight then you are in denial. But I don't mind - guys can label themselves as they want - it's up to them "

Also there are those that simply just love sex in all its forms and guises and do not care for labels.

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"It's mostly because they don't consider themselves bi as it has connotations to fucking men but they don't consider a TV a man. We're like an odd middle ground. A lot of people I've spoken to about these sort of things have basically said they're attracted to cock, but not men and they like the femininity of women so us TVs strike the middle

Wow.. thanks for sharing .

Really hard to tell whether that was genuine or mocking lol

I know exactly where you are coming from. Some people are scared to be labelled as 'tranny shaggers' I hate the term. I am attracted to women and tgirls but I consider myself as straight as I like the female form. Now a naked guy does nothing for me at all.

Some guys will do a range of stuff with guys - wanking, sucking, rimming and fucking but still refuse to say that they are bi. Well it's their preference, but if you regularly engage in sexual activity with another male and you still say you are straight then you are in denial. But I don't mind - guys can label themselves as they want - it's up to them

Also there are those that simply just love sex in all its forms and guises and do not care for labels. "

That's fine by me as long as they enjoy themselves and no one gets hurt

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

It could actually be to do with the fact the guy doesn't want to publicly reveal their sexuality.

You've got to remember, even in this day and age, it's not acceptable to many people to be bisexual or gay.

Society may be much more tolerant now, but there is still a stigma attached. And family, friends and even strangers may not understand or accept a person's choices.

Fab is a very public forum, a site anyone can access, and it only takes one person to recognise you for your secret to be out - maybe it is seen as too big a risk to some to be publicly outed as bisexual out gay.

We've come across colleagues and neighbours on this site, so it's not unusual to be recognised.

Maybe they simply want to retain plausible deniability, not for themselves, but for others.

That's my take on it anyways

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"It could actually be to do with the fact the guy doesn't want to publicly reveal their sexuality.

You've got to remember, even in this day and age, it's not acceptable to many people to be bisexual or gay.

Society may be much more tolerant now, but there is still a stigma attached. And family, friends and even strangers may not understand or accept a person's choices.

Fab is a very public forum, a site anyone can access, and it only takes one person to recognise you for your secret to be out - maybe it is seen as too big a risk to some to be publicly outed as bisexual out gay.

We've come across colleagues and neighbours on this site, so it's not unusual to be recognised.

Maybe they simply want to retain plausible deniability, not for themselves, but for others.

That's my take on it anyways "

I agree - Fab is a sheltered community which is pretty broadminded - you can be lulled into a false sense of security here and think that society outside is the same. It's great that sites like this exist so that people can network and express themselves openly.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Sites this are great, but you have to be so careful.

This is after all the Internet. Once something is out there - it's public property and almost impossible to hide.

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By *icoleAndLisaTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port


"Guys who have profiles saying they are straight but messaging me telling me what they would love to do or telling me what they would love me to do to them so annoying! Lol "

I got over this one a while ago. Perhaps they think they're straight because they don't lust after shirtless pinup firemen with long hoses and hard helmets, or guys in tight cycling shorts. Perhaps they are closet bi or gay and worried that someone might find their profile on here. As long as they don't hate themselves the moment they orgasm, I couldn't care less what they say their sexuality is. You're straight and I'm a different kind of lady? If it works for you, then it works for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys who have profiles saying they are straight but messaging me telling me what they would love to do or telling me what they would love me to do to them so annoying! Lol

I got over this one a while ago. Perhaps they think they're straight because they don't lust after shirtless pinup firemen with long hoses and hard helmets, or guys in tight cycling shorts. Perhaps they are closet bi or gay and worried that someone might find their profile on here. As long as they don't hate themselves the moment they orgasm, I couldn't care less what they say their sexuality is. You're straight and I'm a different kind of lady? If it works for you, then it works for me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol should be renamed disneyland thread.

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By *essThePirateWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it's the other way around I'm not interested in guys TVs or ts but seem to get hounded by them that's fab for ya "

Same here, get more messages off guys than women or couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys who have profiles saying they are straight but messaging me telling me what they would love to do or telling me what they would love me to do to them so annoying! Lol "

why does it bother you?

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate


"I find it's the other way around I'm not interested in guys TVs or ts but seem to get hounded by them that's fab for ya

Same here, get more messages off guys than women or couples "

It must be the homoerotic pics

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By *ovis and GreeneyesCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Love the "it says straight as I have friends on here" or "people from work are on here & want it kept secret" excuses

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By *ovis and GreeneyesCouple
over a year ago

Swansea


"I find it's the other way around I'm not interested in guys TVs or ts but seem to get hounded by them that's fab for ya

Same here, get more messages off guys than women or couples

It must be the homoerotic pics "

You can put filters on to stop men message you if you don't want the attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it's the other way around I'm not interested in guys TVs or ts but seem to get hounded by them that's fab for ya

Same here, get more messages off guys than women or couples

It must be the homoerotic pics

You can put filters on to stop men message you if you don't want the attention"

I tend to get offers to join in with MMF from single straight males and have had invites to parties too. Unfortunately the filters are block all males messages rather than the messages you don't want e.g. "Fancy a discrete bj, nothing in return" or "reward for meet" etc

I don't want to filter out mmf or parties messages and miss out hence no filters but thanks for the advice

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