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By *aughtybooy OP   Man
over a year ago

maidstone

Hi all , I might be just trying to justify my own actions! But... am I right in thinking most guys like having our backdoor played with, either fingers or more. Is this frowned at by female's or looked as at the norm?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my best mates ( who is a bloke) once told me when I was dating that if a guy says he doesn't like some sort of anal play ( rimming, finger or more) I shouldn't trust them lol

Mrs

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"One of my best mates ( who is a bloke) once told me when I was dating that if a guy says he doesn't like some sort of anal play ( rimming, finger or more) I shouldn't trust them lol

Mrs "

I'd go with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I like a little play now and again, I get the most amazing orgasm this way.

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By *aughtybooy OP   Man
over a year ago

maidstone

Lol, that sounds like good advice! It's undeniably a great experience so maybe the ones who say it's not for them just haven't tried it yet.

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By *aughtybooy OP   Man
over a year ago

maidstone


"Yes I like a little play now and again, I get the most amazing orgasm this way."
haha fully agree,

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By *XMandMXxCouple
over a year ago

swindon


"Hi all , I might be just trying to justify my own actions! But... am I right in thinking most guys like having our backdoor played with, either fingers or more. Is this frowned at by female's or looked as at the norm?"

Should never be frowned upon, each to their own.... although yes I'm suspicious of guys who don't like a bit of bum play

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By *aughtybooy OP   Man
over a year ago

maidstone

Haha. The gist I'm getting is .. if guys say that they don't like it they are probably fibbing!

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I can't frown .... the Botox won't let me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. My favourite toys are anal ones

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By * inch DanMan
over a year ago

Chinnor


"I can't frown .... the Botox won't let me "

Botox couldn't believe you need it with your body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy bum play with men. My husband is one of the few men who won't let me anywhere near their bum. He doesn't know the fun he's missing out on.

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By * inch DanMan
over a year ago

Chinnor


"I enjoy bum play with men. My husband is one of the few men who won't let me anywhere near their bum. He doesn't know the fun he's missing out on."

Thai love beads

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By *aughtybooy OP   Man
over a year ago

maidstone


"I can't frown .... the Botox won't let me "
haha someone else who likes an insertion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I enjoy bum play with men. My husband is one of the few men who won't let me anywhere near their bum. He doesn't know the fun he's missing out on.

Thai love beads "

He'd run a mile !

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By *aughtybooy OP   Man
over a year ago

maidstone


"I enjoy bum play with men. My husband is one of the few men who won't let me anywhere near their bum. He doesn't know the fun he's missing out on.

Thai love beads

He'd run a mile !"

I'd run a mile if I had a set of jiggle balls inside me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm thai beads. Love to try something more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love giving anal play to a male, it's rather erotic for me, and also has been for previous partners. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its something that intrigues me. I want to push my boundaries and see how far I go. But as with anything I worry if its right for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to explore any part of a mans anatomy & I ind it a big turn on when a man lets me tease them there.

My hubby isn't at all keen to let me do it to him though

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"I'm happy to explore any part of a mans anatomy & I ind it a big turn on when a man lets me tease them there.

My hubby isn't at all keen to let me do it to him though "

Tell him from me... he's a fool!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I misread this. I thought it asked if it was frowned upon if guys LOOKED LIKE anal toys. I really wanted a picture of this guy.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Oh my god...you'll catch gay if you try anal toys!

Seriously....any man with a healthy prostate has the capacity to enjoy anal toys. Personally I love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a strap on. Sore but we love getting it out

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Jack certainly enjoys it

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a strap on. Sore but we love getting it out "

Love having my bum played with love to be rimmed and I dream of being uses with a strap on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a relative newbie to anal play, but ..is ok, fellas! I did catch a little bit of gay in my right thumb, but it's managed and as long as I watch some premiership football before play, it's absolutely fine, you can't tell, even when you look at my thumb up close too.

I had what had turned out to be the biggest orgasm ever (first time I ever lost control of myself) during play there, and I was still tender and sensitive a DAY later.

so don't miss out, stop being daft and experience the complete pleasure potential of your own body, ..it's you missing out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is not for me ta lad

proper fella me like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of blokes who do like it, won't admit it because they think it makes them gay!

A lot of blokes who say "oh god, no way" often think it makes them gay!

Not the case really is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you massage the prostrate just right it can produce a different type of orgasm than normal. Sex afterwards is also really intense with my cock feeling really hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is not for me ta lad

proper fella me like "

You must be such a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is not for me ta lad

proper fella me like

You must be such a man"

more than most tis true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It amazes me how many guys in my age group have never had this experience. Too shy to ask or no one ever asked them.

Once they experienced it they never looked back or behind lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not in our house...we both love it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of blokes who do like it, won't admit it because they think it makes them gay!

A lot of blokes who say "oh god, no way" often think it makes them gay!

Not the case really is it? "

Not if it's a woman doing it...it's heterosexual activity...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather a guy not be into it purely because it's not something i'd like to do and I wouldn't want to leave a guy feeling unsatisfied. I think it's only right we challenge our own judgements. For example, I see men who indulge in anal play with dildos etc as being slightly feminine or not quite manly. What have I to base that on though? Absolutely nothing. Does it mean they are more likely to be bisexual or gay which is more feminine? Again, absolutely no evidence that bisexual or gay men are any more feminine than straight men! Also, no evidence that a man can't be straight and enjoy anal play. So what i'm saying in a very long winded and confusing way is that even if it does put people off, it shouldn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a relative newbie to anal play, but ..is ok, fellas! I did catch a little bit of gay in my right thumb, but it's managed and as long as I watch some premiership football before play, it's absolutely fine, you can't tell, even when you look at my thumb up close too

I had what had turned out to be the biggest orgasm ever (first time I ever lost control of myself) during play there, and I was still tender and sensitive a DAY later.

so don't miss out, stop being daft and experience the complete pleasure potential of your own body, ..it's you missing out

"
mmmmmm what did you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not in our house...we both love it... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather a guy not be into it purely because it's not something i'd like to do and I wouldn't want to leave a guy feeling unsatisfied. I think it's only right we challenge our own judgements. For example, I see men who indulge in anal play with dildos etc as being slightly feminine or not quite manly. What have I to base that on though? Absolutely nothing. Does it mean they are more likely to be bisexual or gay which is more feminine? Again, absolutely no evidence that bisexual or gay men are any more feminine than straight men! Also, no evidence that a man can't be straight and enjoy anal play. So what i'm saying in a very long winded and confusing way is that even if it does put people off, it shouldn't."

I don't understand the femininity that comes with it. Freddie Mercury was gay and he was manly as hell..

The way I see it, gay guys are manlier than straight blokes.

Being shagged up the arse by a big, sweaty, hairy biker and enjoying it is probably one of the manliest things you can do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is not for me ta lad

proper fella me like

You must be such a man

more than most tis true"

More than me?

Mr V

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather a guy not be into it purely because it's not something i'd like to do and I wouldn't want to leave a guy feeling unsatisfied. I think it's only right we challenge our own judgements. For example, I see men who indulge in anal play with dildos etc as being slightly feminine or not quite manly. What have I to base that on though? Absolutely nothing. Does it mean they are more likely to be bisexual or gay which is more feminine? Again, absolutely no evidence that bisexual or gay men are any more feminine than straight men! Also, no evidence that a man can't be straight and enjoy anal play. So what i'm saying in a very long winded and confusing way is that even if it does put people off, it shouldn't.

I don't understand the femininity that comes with it. Freddie Mercury was gay and he was manly as hell..

The way I see it, gay guys are manlier than straight blokes.

Being shagged up the arse by a big, sweaty, hairy biker and enjoying it is probably one of the manliest things you can do... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm happy to explore any part of a mans anatomy & I ind it a big turn on when a man lets me tease them there.

My hubby isn't at all keen to let me do it to him though

Tell him from me... he's a fool! "

Ok I will lol! I've got a fb that likes anal play so at least I'm not missing out

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan


"I'm happy to explore any part of a mans anatomy & I ind it a big turn on when a man lets me tease them there.

My hubby isn't at all keen to let me do it to him though

Tell him from me... he's a fool!

Ok I will lol! I've got a fb that likes anal play so at least I'm not missing out "

Not just the once... tell him hourly at least in waking hours!, text him at work,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love a fb with a strap on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is not for me ta lad

proper fella me like

You must be such a man

more than most tis true

More than me?

am quaking in me boots now kid

Mr V"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"is not for me ta lad

proper fella me like

You must be such a man

more than most tis true

More than me?

am quaking in me boots now kid

Mr V"

Why have you taken it like that?

My point is you think a lesser man or a less manly guy is one who likes anal play.

What qualifies as a manly man?

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

It starts with a finger, then a dido and ends up a blokes cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It starts with a finger, then a dido and ends up a blokes cock."

I make ya right lad

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I think some guys do fear being thought of as gay or somehow less manly if they try receiving anal.

They're missing out. The prostate being stimulated is a most wonderful feeling and in no way indicates a desire to be penetrated by another man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think some guys do fear being thought of as gay or somehow less manly if they try receiving anal.

They're missing out. The prostate being stimulated is a most wonderful feeling and in no way indicates a desire to be penetrated by another man. "

It's a masculine world and comments like the one above and the general negativity from some fabbers shows why it's still a very prejudiced world.

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I have met guys that love me playing with their Ass with my toys lol

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By *heDevilsinthedetailMan
over a year ago

liverpool

I have the most intense orgasms with anal play, anyone who frowns upon it probably hasn't tried it or has had a poor experience of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only by yer arsehole mate

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By *aughtybooy OP   Man
over a year ago

maidstone

Thank you all for replying. It's reassured me that I don't need to feel guilty for enjoying a little bit of anal play. Hope you all have a good swinging future ahead of you. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It starts with a finger, then a dido and ends up a blokes cock."

I believe this to be true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it when guys are keen to experiment with toys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a relative newbie to anal play, but ..is ok, fellas! I did catch a little bit of gay in my right thumb, but it's managed and as long as I watch some premiership football before play, it's absolutely fine, you can't tell, even when you look at my thumb up close too.

I had what had turned out to be the biggest orgasm ever (first time I ever lost control of myself) during play there, and I was still tender and sensitive a DAY later.

so don't miss out, stop being daft and experience the complete pleasure potential of your own body, ..it's you missing out

"

DID YOU NOW......WATCH FUCKING FOOTBALL BEFORE PLAY!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can cope with gentle anal play. I do admit I like it too.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Not if it is with someone I am just swinging with

But if my boyfriend ever came up with the suggestion, I won't even show him the door; he knows where the door is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love her playing with me.Fingers Then toys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's looked at openly to be honest but in private with partner our buddy it's more easy every one got there own thing they like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im partial to a bit of anal play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's amazing. But a real cock up there is so much better than a strap on!

Get fucked by a guy but make sure you are face down in a hot pussy and it cancels the gayness out.

The bisexual bit is a bit more tricky though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although not generally into Anal on me I have been thinking about trying a cock ring with butt plug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of blokes who do like it, won't admit it because they think it makes them gay!

A lot of blokes who say "oh god, no way" often think it makes them gay!

Not the case really is it?

Not if it's a woman doing it...it's heterosexual activity..."

Completely agree, doesn't change the stigma attached to it though unfortunately! I'd like nothing more than a lady to pop a toy in me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not something we've really explored. A hairy bum hole really puts me off not to mention the whole idea of what travels through there on a regular basis. Hubby loves playing with my bum but he's a lot more laid back than I am so none of the above concern him (hopefully I don't have a fuzzy bum hole too often!) I don't use anal toys on myself so it's not really double standards because I don't want to touch my own either! Do feel like hubby is missing out sometimes though but funnily enough he didn't enjoy the one time I did use an anal toy on him (I wore hair dye gloves!)

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