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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Get around 10 requests a week t0 meet them...happy to meet them for a social first but they almost always go in the huff if it doesn't entail sex in their room. Anyone else had this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With travelling woman, yes.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Get around 10 requests a week t0 meet them...happy to meet them for a social first but they almost always go in the huff if it doesn't entail sex in their room. Anyone else had this? "

Please can you move down South as I'd snap up your offer for a social.

I cover half the country and struggle to get a social in my hotel, I return to the same areas every few weeks so a socials good as I know I'll be back to build on that

I'm finding that women and couples won't meet as they think you're visiting for a one off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get around 10 requests a week t0 meet them...happy to meet them for a social first but they almost always go in the huff if it doesn't entail sex in their room. Anyone else had this?

Please can you move down South as I'd snap up your offer for a social.

I cover half the country and struggle to get a social in my hotel, I return to the same areas every few weeks so a socials good as I know I'll be back to build on that

I'm finding that women and couples won't meet as they think you're visiting for a one off"

Well if you get to Scotland give shout and we shall have that social..

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Get around 10 requests a week t0 meet them...happy to meet them for a social first but they almost always go in the huff if it doesn't entail sex in their room. Anyone else had this?

Please can you move down South as I'd snap up your offer for a social.

I cover half the country and struggle to get a social in my hotel, I return to the same areas every few weeks so a socials good as I know I'll be back to build on that

I'm finding that women and couples won't meet as they think you're visiting for a one off

Well if you get to Scotland give shout and we shall have that social.."

I do come north occasionally so yes please I'll hold you to that x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

None of the people who ask to meet when they're on their travels get in a huff but they do go quiet when we suggest a social. It's fair enough

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"None of the people who ask to meet when they're on their travels get in a huff but they do go quiet when we suggest a social. It's fair enough "

They're not playing the long game, what's one social when it might lead to ongoing fun

The chances are if they turn down the social they'll end up in the hotel bar alone any way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as I see "in your area " I delete the mail. I make it clear on my profile that I don't meet people who are just here on business

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"None of the people who ask to meet when they're on their travels get in a huff but they do go quiet when we suggest a social. It's fair enough

They're not playing the long game, what's one social when it might lead to ongoing fun

The chances are if they turn down the social they'll end up in the hotel bar alone any way"

True, but they might not want to waste time meeting people they're not going to see again for a while.

It's the ones who say they're coming down on holiday then suggest we provide b and b that make us smile

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"None of the people who ask to meet when they're on their travels get in a huff but they do go quiet when we suggest a social. It's fair enough

They're not playing the long game, what's one social when it might lead to ongoing fun

The chances are if they turn down the social they'll end up in the hotel bar alone any way

True, but they might not want to waste time meeting people they're not going to see again for a while.

It's the ones who say they're coming down on holiday then suggest we provide b and b that make us smile "

On that note can I book a room at yours in a couple of weeks time

It might be guys on one off visits,

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"As soon as I see "in your area " I delete the mail. I make it clear on my profile that I don't meet people who are just here on business "

Note to self, don't use "in your area" in my messages

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"None of the people who ask to meet when they're on their travels get in a huff but they do go quiet when we suggest a social. It's fair enough

They're not playing the long game, what's one social when it might lead to ongoing fun

The chances are if they turn down the social they'll end up in the hotel bar alone any way

True, but they might not want to waste time meeting people they're not going to see again for a while.

It's the ones who say they're coming down on holiday then suggest we provide b and b that make us smile

On that note can I book a room at yours in a couple of weeks time

It might be guys on one off visits, "

Yes, it might be.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Travelling salesmen....love it, what they got a brown leather suitcase full of brushes or bibles ?

Sounds like that film paper moon

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We occasionally meet business travellers, quite a nice discreet option as they're obviously not local and are generally in anonymous chain hotels . We usually meet fro a quick social in the bar and, if things click, progress there and then. But have to say the initial messages have to be good, "I'm in the area, want to fuck" doesn't often work!

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"We occasionally meet business travellers, quite a nice discreet option as they're obviously not local and are generally in anonymous chain hotels . We usually meet fro a quick social in the bar and, if things click, progress there and then. But have to say the initial messages have to be good, "I'm in the area, want to fuck" doesn't often work!"

Awesome profile photos....wow some of this big cumshots

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As soon as I see "in your area " I delete the mail. I make it clear on my profile that I don't meet people who are just here on business "

Well I have to agree.. I have suggested to some travelling guys in the past to contact an escort agency and hire a hooker...

Doesn't always go down well I must say

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"We occasionally meet business travellers, quite a nice discreet option as they're obviously not local and are generally in anonymous chain hotels . We usually meet fro a quick social in the bar and, if things click, progress there and then. But have to say the initial messages have to be good, "I'm in the area, want to fuck" doesn't often work!

Awesome profile photos....wow some of this big cumshots "
thank you

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Would you rather they chatted endlessly for a few weeks to get to know you, then met you for a social or one off? This is supposing you do meet for nsa.

Meeting people that move around the country is no different to meeting people locally really if it ends in a one off meet.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

As a business traveller myself, my view on socials is that they're interesting in their own right, and an entirely valid "investment" in next time.

It's difficult to be reassuring to "locals" though...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Would you rather they chatted endlessly for a few weeks to get to know you, then met you for a social or one off? This is supposing you do meet for nsa.

Meeting people that move around the country is no different to meeting people locally really if it ends in a one off meet. "

I agree with that. If you want one off meets it doesn't really matter if the people are local or not.

For us there's little point because we take time to move to playing and we wouldn't expect an infrequent visitor to the area to engage with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We occasionally meet business travellers, quite a nice discreet option as they're obviously not local and are generally in anonymous chain hotels . We usually meet fro a quick social in the bar and, if things click, progress there and then. But have to say the initial messages have to be good, "I'm in the area, want to fuck" doesn't often work!"

I've been known to do this. For me it's about whether I feel a connection with the person, not location.

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