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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else feel nauseous at overly nice comments.. personally I respect blunt honesty, it's hard to achieve as we are usually raised to 'be nice' but at least you know that person has given an honest thought about answer, not some fluffy guff to fool you into thinking they are a nice person...

now, I'm not saying go be mean and throw insults around but let's not be afraid of saying it how it is??

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

What a lovely idea for a discussion.

Well done, (((hugs)))

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Aww OP, you're a really great man for posting a thread like this. I can tell you must be a fantastic lover as well. Well done you! Kisses x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow! Beautiful thread! And a wonderful OP. Cwtches from Wales, you lovely man!

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham


"Anyone else feel nauseous at overly nice comments.. personally I respect blunt honesty, it's hard to achieve as we are usually raised to 'be nice' but at least you know that person has given an honest thought about answer, not some fluffy guff to fool you into thinking they are a nice person...

now, I'm not saying go be mean and throw insults around but let's not be afraid of saying it how it is??"

Brightened up my day with this post OP , big hugs , mmmmuuuuaaaaaaahhhhhhhh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

WHY I OUGHTA!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"WHY I OUGHTA!!!!!!!!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I think "nice" is overrated. I'm much too cynical for some of the saccharine shite that gets posted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anyone really believe the sycophantic shite that's posted on here on a regular basis+

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't like false flattery. But there's no harm in being kind.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Does anyone really believe the sycophantic shite that's posted on here on a regular basis+ "

Don't tell me the men who say I'm a "stunna" who only looks 30 are lying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone really believe the sycophantic shite that's posted on here on a regular basis+ "

I think some do, and that's a bit terrifying

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By *ustMe06Woman
over a year ago

...the naughty spot.


"Anyone else feel nauseous at overly nice comments.. personally I respect blunt honesty, it's hard to achieve as we are usually raised to 'be nice' but at least you know that person has given an honest thought about answer, not some fluffy guff to fool you into thinking they are a nice person...

now, I'm not saying go be mean and throw insults around but let's not be afraid of saying it how it is??"

Maybe what you perceive as 'fluffy guff' is another person's view of how it is...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people don't like nice unless it's directed at them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone really believe the sycophantic shite that's posted on here on a regular basis+

Don't tell me the men who say I'm a "stunna" who only looks 30 are lying "

Oh you are the objection to the rule of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone really believe the sycophantic shite that's posted on here on a regular basis+ "

Absolutely, you can see it in some people's postings that they do.

*squeezes head through door on way out of thread

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Does anyone really believe the sycophantic shite that's posted on here on a regular basis+

Don't tell me the men who say I'm a "stunna" who only looks 30 are lying

Oh you are the objection to the rule of course "

Phew! Thank goodness

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I meant to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are just the way that they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

Too sweet to be wholesome springs to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're all just too cynical!

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

you just reminded me of my much older sister who never married, everyone who doesnt know her thinks she is really sweet, me and my sister and law know shes the complete opposite and we are both terified of her. Its often the ones who people think are nice arent so nice at all, they are good at fooling people thats all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i also find overly nice a bit weird, i'm the opposite and very blunt and try not to be a cunt with that but it's hard not to be...

there genuinely are people nice like that out there but they seem very strange, like they've been brought up in la-la land with michael jackson and his llamas.

i also agree with grumpy cat in that most people like that i've found are horrible inside and pretending to be something they are not, and they're usually 2 faced.

but i know there are a few people who are genuinely nice like that and they're ok, they just seem a bit detached from reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone really believe the sycophantic shite that's posted on here on a regular basis+

Don't tell me the men who say I'm a "stunna" who only looks 30 are lying

Oh you are the objection to the rule of course

Phew! Thank goodness "

you're not over the top with it though and have never come across as sickly, just genuinely concerned for people or helpful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aww OP, you're a really great man for posting a thread like this. I can tell you must be a fantastic lover as well. Well done you! Kisses x"

Lol.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer honest talking to being nice just for the sake of it. However, honest talk can aslo be nice, it's a matter of balance. I don't think it's too difficult to distinguish actually nice comments from the fake ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer honest talking to being nice just for the sake of it. However, honest talk can aslo be nice, it's a matter of balance. I don't think it's too difficult to distinguish actually nice comments from the fake ones. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nothing worse than fake nice-ness insant fanny drying turn off... but some people just cant help themselve ... normal nice and kind is great tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice and honest are mutually exclusive though ?

Although I must say people who are always nice and sweet and have no edge make me think they are hiding something

I like to think I'm nice with a pinch of evil sarcasm

Mrs

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