FabSwingers.com forum: Do genuine people here exist?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right,

We've seen all these couples with wonderful verifications, we exchange a few messages and when it comes to meeting they don't respond.

Can someone please explain?!

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Usually the male half who is working on the other half to be naughty, gets close to the event and then someone chickens out.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

maybe and only maybe... you are being too pushy... and will repeat.. MAYBE.

maybe they don't think you are what they are looking for. remeber all 4 need an attraction.

maybe they are away on holidays, it's coming into that time.

maybe they have your message stored and will get back to you.

loads of maybes... only they can tell you.

maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

May be after exchanging a few messages they decide that your not suited.

Doesn't mean they aren't genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Its sometimes very difficult to find a 4 way attraction among couples,it can take time but you have 4 peoples wants and needs to all be compatible

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"May be after exchanging a few messages they decide that your not suited.

Doesn't mean they aren't genuine.

* nods *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right,

We've seen all these couples with wonderful verifications, we exchange a few messages and when it comes to meeting they don't respond.

Can someone please explain?!"

Another 'maybe' for you.... maybe the couples you are interacting with are looking for a full or soft swap and not just looking for a fem on fem show.

....just a thought.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It's Thursday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's Thursday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's possible they're looking for a full swap and decide to go with that option over you....

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

same here to be honest..

been on here a long time looking for a guy with an 11inch cock, likes to buy his meets the latest seasons Vivienne Westwood, cooks Turkish food and looks the spit of Liam Neeson..

and nowt..

fecking timewasters the lot of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's Thursday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesnt really matter what the reason does it. Just because you exchange a few messages, that doesnt mean that they have entered into a contract to meet with you. If nothing comes of it, then so be it, no point getting stressed over that

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"May be after exchanging a few messages they decide that your not suited.

Doesn't mean they aren't genuine.

Very well said,

Or as someone once said,maybe there just not that into you.After all they have the veri's,they have met someone!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Oh just read the profile. Cos u dont want a couple, u want a bi fem whose husband is happy to sit in the corner twiddling his thumbs.

What do u have to offer a couple?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Soft swap?

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By *laphe1Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

I think it is all about trust building,lets face it we are all strangers to each other.I have been on here almost a year and only met 1 couple ,had a great time .I would like to meet more but appreciate it aint that easy.think most people on here are genuine just a bit cautious and rightly so.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Oh just read the profile. Cos u dont want a couple, u want a bi fem whose husband is happy to sit in the corner twiddling his thumbs.

What do u have to offer a couple?

a fem on fem meet lol they cant be the only people out there looking for just female play

OP you have chosen for your own personal reasons to limit the pool of people who will want to meet you by deciding only for fem on fem so you have to accept that it will be harder to find a meet

good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check my profile , read the heading it should answer your dilemma

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh just read the profile. Cos u dont want a couple, u want a bi fem whose husband is happy to sit in the corner twiddling his thumbs.

What do u have to offer a couple?

That's was my immediate thought.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Soft swap?"

No the profile says no swapping of any sort on their part,but they want to play with the fem...

i wouldnt call that soft swap ,id call it cheeky!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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Let's not get into dissecting their profile though please.

What they are asking for is what they want, they won't be the first to want just fem play.

Their question isn't about getting someone to want to mail them, they are asking about after they have chatted, so someone initially must like what they see on the profile.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Oh just read the profile. Cos u dont want a couple, u want a bi fem whose husband is happy to sit in the corner twiddling his thumbs.

What do u have to offer a couple?

a fem on fem meet lol they cant be the only people out there looking for just female play

OP you have chosen for your own personal reasons to limit the pool of people who will want to meet you by deciding only for fem on fem so you have to accept that it will be harder to find a meet

good luck x"

Eves i do fem on fem meets, and have met couples for that,but alone,not with kev!

That's the point i was trying to make.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Soft swap?

No the profile says no swapping of any sort on their part,but they want to play with the fem...

i wouldnt call that soft swap ,id call it cheeky!

I thought two women of the couples playing and then each other play with their own partner was soft swop? Not having done soft swop there seems lots of definitions for it.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Let's not get into dissecting their profile though please.

What they are asking for is what they want, they won't be the first to want just fem play.

Their question isn't about getting someone to want to mail them, they are asking about after they have chatted, so someone initially must like what they see on the profile."

But they have asked for advice,and enough single guys get their profiles dissected.

Ohh look at me, argueing with Ruggers, i must still be brain fecxked from this afternoon.

Wanders off to catch butterflies and moonbeams.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"same here to be honest..

been on here a long time looking for a guy with an 11inch cock, likes to buy his meets the latest seasons Vivienne Westwood, cooks Turkish food and looks the spit of Liam Neeson..

and nowt..

11 inch cock ! ! i'm not taking 3 inches off mine for no one

fecking timewasters the lot of them. "

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Let's not get into dissecting their profile though please.

What they are asking for is what they want, they won't be the first to want just fem play.

Their question isn't about getting someone to want to mail them, they are asking about after they have chatted, so someone initially must like what they see on the profile.

But they have asked for advice,and enough single guys get their profiles dissected.

Ohh look at me, argueing with Ruggers, i must still be brain fecxked from this afternoon.

Wanders off to catch butterflies and moonbeams.

They havnt asked for advice about their profiles. They have asked why do we think they are not having any luck AFTER initial chats. Obviously their profile isn't in question as the people are chatting to them.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

PS, why what happened this afternoon? a hot meet?

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By *orth West CoupleCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"Right,

We've seen all these couples with wonderful verifications, we exchange a few messages and when it comes to meeting they don't respond.

Can someone please explain?!"
Could be the pompey bit.....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I chat to a lot of people, couples and singles because i like chatting, doesnt always mean I am up for meeting but I always make that clear and never lead someone on....You can like chatting to someone but not want to take it any further than that and like someone else said trying to please 3 or 4 people is quite hard

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"It's Thursday!

Too late, I shut hours ago.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"It's Thursday!

Too late, I shut hours ago.

not sure... I can see a little opening

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"It's Thursday!

Too late, I shut hours ago.

not sure... I can see a little opening

...and I'm definately not opening for you, you bleedin' deviant!!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"It's Thursday!

Too late, I shut hours ago.

not sure... I can see a little opening

...and I'm definately not opening for you, you bleedin' deviant!!

ffs...... another bites the dust instead of the pillow.

good luck

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"It's Thursday!

Too late, I shut hours ago.

not sure... I can see a little opening

...and I'm definately not opening for you, you bleedin' deviant!!

Hmmmmph... timewaster!!

*legs it*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right,

We've seen all these couples with wonderful verifications, we exchange a few messages and when it comes to meeting they don't respond.

Can someone please explain?!"

Maybe they just dont like you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

silly question but have you messaged the couples in question directly?

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"PS, why what happened this afternoon? a hot meet?

Put it this way,3 towels,2 duvets a sheet and the matress is still wet

i realise they didn't ask for profile advice,but since they are only swapping a few messages i imagine most couples once they find out they only want the fems to play are not interested.Most ppl we know who do soft swap mean everything but penetration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"same here to be honest..

been on here a long time looking for a guy with an 11inch cock, likes to buy his meets the latest seasons Vivienne Westwood, cooks Turkish food and looks the spit of Liam Neeson..

and nowt..

fecking timewasters the lot of them. "

Met him last week - he was crap in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

takes time to find the right people.

we all different and will not appeal to all.

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a drop down box for suggested thread titles and I didn't see it?

Yes, there are genuine people. Else the site would fall apart. Where do you think the verifications come from? Patience is key...

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

I dont think its fair to critise what anyone is searching for. There are lots searching for the same on this site no matter what it is. If couples are chatting to you and you have exchanged pics etc and all happy can only assume that maybe cold feet or just dont fancy playing right now. People sometimes fail to remember that not all of us want to meet all the time. If for example we have just had a meet it is often a month or more until we want to meet again no matter who asks. Some people are just not good at explaining what is going on unfortunately which leaves room for speculation often leading to the wrong conclusion. People are pretty selfish in general and only want to meet when they want... understandable really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Check my profile , read the heading it should answer your dilemma

Did anyone check my profile ?

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"Check my profile , read the heading it should answer your dilemma

Did anyone check my profile ? "

Yes - dont get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Check my profile , read the heading it should answer your dilemma

Did anyone check my profile ?

Yes - dont get it.

The text is written in clear english , what dont you get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very Genuine male , can travel or accomodate .

Ladies thats not hard to understand is it

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"same here to be honest..

been on here a long time looking for a guy with an 11inch cock, likes to buy his meets the latest seasons Vivienne Westwood, cooks Turkish food and looks the spit of Liam Neeson..

and nowt..

fecking timewasters the lot of them.

Met him last week - he was crap in bed

but brilliant over the sofa?

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"Very Genuine male , can travel or accomodate .

Ladies thats not hard to understand is it

lol they are looking for a bifem

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

The OP itself is perfectly fine.

The profile deatil, although i'm a bloke, is perfectly fine.

Just that the thread title, which is what initially catches peoples eye, is suspect.

It implies that the remainder of us are not genuine.

Perhaps putting more thought into a thread title to go with patience and preseverance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very Genuine male , can travel or accomodate .

Ladies thats not hard to understand is it

lol they are looking for a bifem

I am quite happy with a straight female

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"Very Genuine male , can travel or accomodate .

Ladies thats not hard to understand is it

lol they are looking for a bifem

I am quite happy with a straight female

lmao you are deliberately confusing the issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are allowed to change their mind! OP if these couples have verifications they are meeting: they just don't want to meet you for whatever reason!

Get over yourselves: you'll never appeal to all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very Genuine male , can travel or accomodate .

Ladies thats not hard to understand is it

lol they are looking for a bifem

I am quite happy with a straight female

lmao you are deliberately confusing the issue

Been here for a year

Easily done

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"Very Genuine male , can travel or accomodate .

Ladies thats not hard to understand is it

lol they are looking for a bifem

I am quite happy with a straight female

lmao you are deliberately confusing the issue

Been here for a year

Easily done

Are you saying Im easily confused?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very Genuine male , can travel or accomodate .

Ladies thats not hard to understand is it

lol they are looking for a bifem

I am quite happy with a straight female

lmao you are deliberately confusing the issue

Been here for a year

Easily done

Are you saying Im easily confused?

Not sure if I can answer that .

But you can .

Are you easily confused ?

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"Very Genuine male , can travel or accomodate .

Ladies thats not hard to understand is it

lol they are looking for a bifem

I am quite happy with a straight female :

lmao you are deliberately confusing the issue

Been here for a year

Easily done

Are you saying Im easily confused?

Not sure if I can answer that .

But you can .

Are you easily confused ?"

Who said that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your rolling your eyes again

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"Your rolling your eyes again

seriously, can you see me then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your rolling your eyes again

seriously, can you see me then?

No I dont think I can , but the eyes keep rolling try a different smiley it might help , like this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had some great meet dont give up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be on this site as a couple, and had the same problem, exchange a few messages then that would be it....... dont get it really im not bad looking, and the girl I was with was gorgeouse! just a lot of time wasers, but that could be said for some singles. parties are the way to go we found

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is very hard to find genuine people on Fab. Without a doubt they are there & we have been lucky enough to meet a number of them - Hi to you all - you know who you are

There seems however to be a misunderstanding from many (usually) guys who write to us about a meet. They seem to assume that we are available at short notice with the intention to fulfill their needs.

When we don't accept we are accused of being phoney!

Some people (mostly guys again!) seem to think this site is like a pizza delivery service. Simply place your order & voila it appears at your front door 15 minutes later.

Anyway perseverance has proved there are some really cool, fun & 100% genuine people out there so its worth it in the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes when people are messaging they get a feel for someone, along the line something may be said that puts them off, it happens

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I've met couples and single ladies and never yet had any issues with time wasters or worries about them being genuine.

I take my time to get to know them and like to have a level of friendship in place before we meet, even if that's only from exchanging PM's on site for a while.

So no issues here.

Keep at it, they do exist.

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By *AUCY SUEWoman
over a year ago

portsmouth

"Right,

We've seen all these couples with wonderful verifications, we exchange a few messages and when it comes to meeting they don't respond.

Can someone please explain?!"

Verifications are GENUINE, sometimes,people change their mind, doesnt mean they are not genuine but out of politeness they should at least text their meet, we always meet and if we dont click then we say, not worth stringing people along, everybody has a life outside swinging.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"People genuine yes here are"

From the Wisdom of Yoda.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

read it properly then it says fem on fem my husband just wants to watch me with other women so hows that cheeky eh

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

There are plenty of others who are looking for the same as you (girl/girl only) just need a little patience to find them.

But agree with what others have said...surely it doesn't really matter what the reason was, people are entitled to change their mind, doesn't mean they are not genuine.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Nope, Im just a figment of my own imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes they do exist

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By *afesurfer4uCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

"Right,

We've seen all these couples with wonderful verifications, we exchange a few messages and when it comes to meeting they don't respond.

Can someone please explain?!"

I've only just been spending some time on here as I'm on hols and just want to keep up with friends - but what I have found is that a lot of guys are on here from work and they message you with dirty comments - which is ok by me LOL but not a lot of people are on here on the night which does tend to give the impression that people missuse the site just for sexual gratification and are pic collectors - my advice would be to vet and choose any possible friends and dont be too hasty with any meets unless you are all compatable - sometimes you only get 80% compatability anyway - if you are lucky.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Right,

We've seen all these couples with wonderful verifications, we exchange a few messages and when it comes to meeting they don't respond.

Can someone please explain?!

We are stuffed then as it is very rare for us to come online in the evenings...must be photo collectors!

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