FabSwingers.com forum: married search filter

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone else think a search filter for married would be any good? Would save alot of wasted messages on both sides

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a few people do.

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/feedback/571825

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else think a search filter for married would be any good? Would save alot of wasted messages on both sides"

Or in a relationship as well if they are on as a single. But then again most people would lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a good idea. Almost foolproof, but I can forsee just one minor flaw in the scheme for it not to be a resounding success ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most of the married men on here don't declare it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"most of the married men on here don't declare it...

I think it's the burning, stoning and crucifixions...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your assuming that folk will be truthful when clicking the married/attached/single options?

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By *ilmissplumpyWoman
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"most of the married men on here don't declare it...

I have to disagree. I've had a few messages recently from some married men who have said in their opening messages that they are married and is it a problem?

Fair play to the cheating toads for being honest.

LMP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"most of the married men on here don't declare it...

I have to disagree. I've had a few messages recently from some married men who have said in their opening messages that they are married and is it a problem?

Fair play to the cheating toads for being honest.

LMP"

what I meant was they don't declare it on their profile, so a search option wouldn't be of much help in that respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your assuming that folk will be truthful when clicking the married/attached/single options?

I think quite a lot would. Especially if there was the option to filter out messages from those who won't meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your assuming that folk will be truthful when clicking the married/attached/single options?

I think quite a lot would. Especially if there was the option to filter out messages from those who won't meet them."

I think we'd get even more 'fab singles' if you could filter out married ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"most of the married men on here don't declare it...

I have to disagree. I've had a few messages recently from some married men who have said in their opening messages that they are married and is it a problem?

Fair play to the cheating toads for being honest.

LMP"

Cheating and honest in the same sentence?? Describing the same person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well what a surprise, who could of predicted it, married people getting knocked again on here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your assuming that folk will be truthful when clicking the married/attached/single options?

I think quite a lot would. Especially if there was the option to filter out messages from those who won't meet them.

I think we'd get even more 'fab singles' if you could filter out married ones"

I meant more if the married people could filter out messages from the anti-marrieds. Cut down on the random abusive messages. I think more people would be upfront if they weren't subject to that.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

A filter for single would be good but then there would have to be one for 'Fab single' too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your assuming that folk will be truthful when clicking the married/attached/single options?

I think quite a lot would. Especially if there was the option to filter out messages from those who won't meet them.

I think we'd get even more 'fab singles' if you could filter out married ones

I meant more if the married people could filter out messages from the anti-marrieds. Cut down on the random abusive messages. I think more people would be upfront if they weren't subject to that."

Ah I see where you're coming from Ruby. Good idea. Anything to save us from the abuse we receive from those who know nothing about our marriages, yet want to sit as judge and jury.

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By *esiderataWoman
over a year ago

St Helier

"A filter for single would be good but then there would have to be one for 'Fab single' too

The fab single same as fab straight button lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A filter for single would be good but then there would have to be one for 'Fab single' too

Yeah that should be done..... No wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and what about the couples with single profiles?

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

I don't quite see why people potentially lying should be a reason not to do it. We have other search and tick-boxes, and people lie about those.

It has always been something we like to know about, as it can alter how a meet pans out.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well what a surprise, who could of predicted it, married people getting knocked again on here....

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"and what about the couples with single profiles?

Surely the single profile would be checked as married, if they're married, single if they are only FBs.

Wouldn't it?

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"A filter for single would be good but then there would have to be one for 'Fab single' too

The fab single same as fab straight button lol...

Married-curious?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I always declare am married in my first message, so are ok with it some are nof

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By *asyukMan
over a year ago

West London

I don't see why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and what about the couples with single profiles?

if they're married they choose married option on their single profiles too.

i think most people will lie though and put single anyway.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Married-curious? "

Single-playful?

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By *r.ringMan
over a year ago

totton

What a surprise married being knocked again. There are as many married men as women per head on here and any one worth meeting is truthfull about this. I think people knocking "married" should be careful as they have no idea as to the set up of that relationship. Sure there are going to be some that are cheating and that's men and women. But at the end of the day that's there own business not any one else's. there is no way that any filter could work as is already shown in the "fab straight " option.

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Married-curious?

Single-playful?"

Commitment-lite?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Married-curious?

Single-playful?

Commitment-lite?

Partnership -phobic?

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By *r.ringMan
over a year ago

totton

And to think about it ??? Isn't this a swinging site ?? A contact site for friendship and sexy fun??

It's not a singles contact site.

Or is it ???

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Married-curious?

Single-playful?

Commitment-lite?

Partnership -phobic?"

Flexi-nuptial?

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"And to think about it ??? Isn't this a swinging site ?? A contact site for friendship and sexy fun??

It's not a singles contact site.

Or is it ???"

Meh, swingles are fun too

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

then i wouldn't meet married couples would i?

oh, you mean other marrieds who other people tell us we aren't supposed to meet..??

i dont live my life by anyone elses rules otherwise they would control my meets..right? so if you feel this way find one of them, plenty on them on here...they will vet your meets for you, all you have to do is, do as you are told

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"And to think about it ??? Isn't this a swinging site ?? A contact site for friendship and sexy fun??

It's not a singles contact site.

Or is it ???"

Do they have to be mutually exclusive?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Married-curious?

Single-playful?

Commitment-lite?

Partnership -phobic?

Flexi-nuptial?"

That's just polyamorous, isn't it?

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Married-curious?

Single-playful?

Commitment-lite?

Partnership -phobic?

Flexi-nuptial?

That's just polyamorous, isn't it?"

Isn't that sex with parrots?

{awaits the caning from Interrupted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married-curious?

Single-playful?"

Or maybe highly sexed, o/h doesn't want sex or to swing... no sex for years... hey ho..

Options... monastery or Fab... ? Dunno? Just saying as know a few guys n gals that fit that description n play with full permission from o/h's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe some people should actually read the profile instead of bitching about it afterwards?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"most of the married men on here don't declare it...

As do a lot of women

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