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"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past. However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so. Nobody gave anyone to have to God given right to control or get jealous over the fact that a person meets someone else. Their choice no matter what. So my advice is don't get jealous and just enjoy the site for whay it is socialising and have safe happy and naughty fun x " Preach it bro | |||
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"I don't think jealous people can just switch it off can they. I don't feel jealousy but I have plenty of other bad traits " Nope but still it does spoilt people's fun | |||
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"I don't think jealous people can just switch it off can they. I don't feel jealousy but I have plenty of other bad traits Nope but still it does spoilt people's fun" Only if you allow it too. Remember buddy you are in control of who you surround yourself with and if its negative vibes just loose them theirs 7 billion people in this world to choose from. | |||
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"I don't think jealous people can just switch it off can they. I don't feel jealousy but I have plenty of other bad traits Nope but still it does spoilt people's fun Only if you allow it too. Remember buddy you are in control of who you surround yourself with and if its negative vibes just loose them theirs 7 billion people in this world to choose from. " * there's | |||
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"I don't think jealous people can just switch it off can they. I don't feel jealousy but I have plenty of other bad traits Nope but still it does spoilt people's fun Only if you allow it too. Remember buddy you are in control of who you surround yourself with and if its negative vibes just loose them theirs 7 billion people in this world to choose from. " I definately hear that!!! | |||
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"I don't think jealous people can just switch it off can they. I don't feel jealousy but I have plenty of other bad traits Nope but still it does spoilt people's fun" Can do, yes. | |||
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"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past. However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so. Nobody gave anyone to have to God given right to control or get jealous over the fact that a person meets someone else. Their choice no matter what. So my advice is don't get jealous and just enjoy the site for whay it is socialising and have safe happy and naughty fun x " is this a veiled rant? | |||
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"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past. However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so. Nobody gave anyone to have to God given right to control or get jealous over the fact that a person meets someone else. Their choice no matter what. So my advice is don't get jealous and just enjoy the site for whay it is socialising and have safe happy and naughty fun x is this a veiled rant? " Nope a general one | |||
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"Never had a problem with jealously. We have played others who I know are much better looking then me and can do things better then me.. but they are not me and my partner doesn't love them he loves me and all my downfalls... He will say the same thing about me x" Blessed that a nice thing you have | |||
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"People when it comes to jealousy do NOT have control of their emotions Agreed in fab world its pretty negative However that's why we all have it own rules, our own restrictions etc Its just one them things Dealing with it and how we approach it is the main thing I agree with what's been written before" Agreed | |||
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"I don't think jealous people can just switch it off can they. I don't feel jealousy but I have plenty of other bad traits " Vagueness | |||
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"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past. However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so. Nobody gave anyone to have to God given right to control or get jealous over the fact that a person meets someone else. Their choice no matter what. So my advice is don't get jealous and just enjoy the site for whay it is socialising and have safe happy and naughty fun x " When are you bringing your wife on here OP? | |||
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"I don't think jealous people can just switch it off can they. I don't feel jealousy but I have plenty of other bad traits Vagueness " Erm maybe. I might have, I suppose. | |||
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"I'm sure it would be almost impossible to swing or share partners in a sexual if there is any jealousy. I have to admit that before we started on here and visited our first club I (MrJ) had quite a bad jealous streak which was originally kicked off by an ex girlfriend going off behind my back. Now that we've both swapped and thoroughly enjoyed it that all that jealousy has subsided. What we have now is 100% trust. " That's great news!!! Glad your sorted!! Nice profile by the way x | |||
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"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past. However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so. Nobody gave anyone to have to God given right to control or get jealous over the fact that a person meets someone else. Their choice no matter what. So my advice is don't get jealous and just enjoy the site for whay it is socialising and have safe happy and naughty fun x When are you bringing your wife on here OP?" What wife I don't have one lol | |||
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"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past. However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so. Nobody gave anyone to have to God given right to control or get jealous over the fact that a person meets someone else. Their choice no matter what. So my advice is don't get jealous and just enjoy the site for whay it is socialising and have safe happy and naughty fun x When are you bringing your wife on here OP? What wife I don't have one lol " But when you're married, will you look forward to another guy fucking her? If you meet your wife through swinging you might even be lucky enough to watch her taking another guys dick on your honeymoon! How cool would that be?! | |||
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"you dont like people to be jealous OP, fair enough. some people are, just avoid them " Believe me Ive learnt the hard way hun belive xxxx. | |||
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"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past. However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so. Nobody gave anyone to have to God given right to control or get jealous over the fact that a person meets someone else. Their choice no matter what. So my advice is don't get jealous and just enjoy the site for whay it is socialising and have safe happy and naughty fun x When are you bringing your wife on here OP? What wife I don't have one lol But when you're married, will you look forward to another guy fucking her? If you meet your wife through swinging you might even be lucky enough to watch her taking another guys dick on your honeymoon! How cool would that be?!" That's if I meet someone in the swinging world!!! | |||
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"Jealousy in and of itself isn't a terrible trait. It's how you behave as a result of the feeling which matters." totally agree there | |||
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"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past. However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so. Nobody gave anyone to have to God given right to control or get jealous over the fact that a person meets someone else. Their choice no matter what. So my advice is don't get jealous and just enjoy the site for whay it is socialising and have safe happy and naughty fun x When are you bringing your wife on here OP? What wife I don't have one lol But when you're married, will you look forward to another guy fucking her? If you meet your wife through swinging you might even be lucky enough to watch her taking another guys dick on your honeymoon! How cool would that be?! That's if I meet someone in the swinging world!!! " But if you don't, you're a swinger now aren't you? Surely you'd like to see the woman you love full of dick? | |||
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"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past. However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so. Nobody gave anyone to have to God given right to control or get jealous over the fact that a person meets someone else. Their choice no matter what. So my advice is don't get jealous and just enjoy the site for whay it is socialising and have safe happy and naughty fun x When are you bringing your wife on here OP? What wife I don't have one lol But when you're married, will you look forward to another guy fucking her? If you meet your wife through swinging you might even be lucky enough to watch her taking another guys dick on your honeymoon! How cool would that be?! That's if I meet someone in the swinging world!!! But if you don't, you're a swinger now aren't you? Surely you'd like to see the woman you love full of dick? " .yes it would be fun or her pussy licked | |||
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"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past. However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so. Nobody gave anyone to have to God given right to control or get jealous over the fact that a person meets someone else. Their choice no matter what. So my advice is don't get jealous and just enjoy the site for whay it is socialising and have safe happy and naughty fun x When are you bringing your wife on here OP? What wife I don't have one lol But when you're married, will you look forward to another guy fucking her? If you meet your wife through swinging you might even be lucky enough to watch her taking another guys dick on your honeymoon! How cool would that be?! That's if I meet someone in the swinging world!!! But if you don't, you're a swinger now aren't you? Surely you'd like to see the woman you love full of dick? .yes it would be fun or her pussy licked " You should get in touch when you get a girlfriend. My wife and i are always on the look out for sexy couples with guys like yourself. I'd be happy to fuck her in front of you | |||
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"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past. However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so. Nobody gave anyone to have to God given right to control or get jealous over the fact that a person meets someone else. Their choice no matter what. So my advice is don't get jealous and just enjoy the site for whay it is socialising and have safe happy and naughty fun x When are you bringing your wife on here OP? What wife I don't have one lol But when you're married, will you look forward to another guy fucking her? If you meet your wife through swinging you might even be lucky enough to watch her taking another guys dick on your honeymoon! How cool would that be?! That's if I meet someone in the swinging world!!! But if you don't, you're a swinger now aren't you? Surely you'd like to see the woman you love full of dick? .yes it would be fun or her pussy licked You should get in touch when you get a girlfriend. My wife and i are always on the look out for sexy couples with guys like yourself. I'd be happy to fuck her in front of you " Thanks for that fella lol | |||
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"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past. However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so. Nobody gave anyone to have to God given right to control or get jealous over the fact that a person meets someone else. Their choice no matter what. So my advice is don't get jealous and just enjoy the site for whay it is socialising and have safe happy and naughty fun x When are you bringing your wife on here OP? What wife I don't have one lol But when you're married, will you look forward to another guy fucking her? If you meet your wife through swinging you might even be lucky enough to watch her taking another guys dick on your honeymoon! How cool would that be?! That's if I meet someone in the swinging world!!! But if you don't, you're a swinger now aren't you? Surely you'd like to see the woman you love full of dick? .yes it would be fun or her pussy licked You should get in touch when you get a girlfriend. My wife and i are always on the look out for sexy couples with guys like yourself. I'd be happy to fuck her in front of you Thanks for that fella lol " If it happens I think you'll be the first black guy I've chatted to who will swap with a white guy! Kudos indeed! | |||
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"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past. However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so. Nobody gave anyone to have to God given right to control or get jealous over the fact that a person meets someone else. Their choice no matter what. So my advice is don't get jealous and just enjoy the site for whay it is socialising and have safe happy and naughty fun x When are you bringing your wife on here OP? What wife I don't have one lol But when you're married, will you look forward to another guy fucking her? If you meet your wife through swinging you might even be lucky enough to watch her taking another guys dick on your honeymoon! How cool would that be?! That's if I meet someone in the swinging world!!! But if you don't, you're a swinger now aren't you? Surely you'd like to see the woman you love full of dick? .yes it would be fun or her pussy licked You should get in touch when you get a girlfriend. My wife and i are always on the look out for sexy couples with guys like yourself. I'd be happy to fuck her in front of you Thanks for that fella lol If it happens I think you'll be the first black guy I've chatted to who will swap with a white guy! Kudos indeed! " Okay no worries fella | |||
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"You've only been back 5 minutes and you're already getting invitations from FAB royalty! " Lol!!! | |||
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"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past. However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so. Nobody gave anyone to have to God given right to control or get jealous over the fact that a person meets someone else. Their choice no matter what. So my advice is don't get jealous and just enjoy the site for whay it is socialising and have safe happy and naughty fun x " It's easy for a single person on here to speak out of term to say not be jealous and tell couples not too, I think it is the couples on here who are the real swingers who have to make judgment on who they invite to join them, so respecting them is essential, we singles are just add on's to join them or other singles but we singles never share, should not judge couples of their jealousy, it is their business not ours to moan about. | |||
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"Yep..jealousy an ugly trait..agree..swinging and jealousy should not go hand in hand. If you are the jealous type swingine is NOT recommended!" | |||
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"Ok I've been on the receiving end of jealous singles and couples. Neither makes the fit of a swinging lifestyle work. If you are on here you are looking to swing meaning sharing and playing with multiples/groups/singles not just entering into a relationship. By being a single swinger you have no claim over any other single or couple. Therein meaning you can see whom ever and so can they. The issue I've experienced is other singles in the main, whom I've been a FB of, getting jealous of my other fbs getting my attention? Or if I'm attending an event or club without them.... My other meets I'm made to feel guilty of as if it I'm their property and should be faithful...??? Is that not just a relationship folks? Yes please explain how you can get jealous of my other meets if we A- not in an exclusive relationship B- they are free to see whom ever they wish when ever they wish... double standards? C- I am made to feel bad that someone else is getting my attention D- in a group situation they want to have their pick of playmates but I'm told to stick to the ladies? Hmmmm folks this jealousy I do not understand from either fbs or fwbs. That said I've also met couples where the lady gets jealous of any attention I'm getting of her Partner. This is the situation I find truly uncomfortable!! This means that both parties are not on board with swinging and you should walk away and let them sort them selves out. I've met many sexy singles and couples alike too where I get the respect of swinging and they welcome the experiences we offer as a group. The fun is awesome and shared well. This is swinging this is fun and this is what works for me. If I should enter into another relationship.... then discussions of how we progress forward should be had and if jealousy is an issue we will deal with it our way. Respect to every one who understands my plight and those couples who make this life work. You are awesome !! " a great outlook | |||
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"This is why i love the swing scene so much - just love sharing my sex partners and my them sharing me. However sometimes jealousy can be an aphrodisiac. I do get a mild jealousy which I find a huge turn on, when my husband or a lover is playing with someone else, and I have to wait my turn. But negative jealousy is not good. Mrs " I Agree indeed | |||
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"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past. However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so. Nobody gave anyone to have to God given right to control or get jealous over the fact that a person meets someone else. Their choice no matter what. So my advice is don't get jealous and just enjoy the site for whay it is socialising and have safe happy and naughty fun x It's easy for a single person on here to speak out of term to say not be jealous and tell couples not too, I think it is the couples on here who are the real swingers who have to make judgment on who they invite to join them, so respecting them is essential, we singles are just add on's to join them or other singles but we singles never share, should not judge couples of their jealousy, it is their business not ours to moan about." what? i share, what are you talking about, you be a fuck toy and see yourself as an 'add on if you like' that's your business, but dont be telling other people, they should feel the same way...or its ok to be treated that way..cos its not ..true swingers indeed.. | |||
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"I don't know how this will help or will change but jealously is such a terrible trait and we probably all been guilty of it at some degree in the past. However this gets you nowhere in the swinging world and people should be free to do whatever they like especially when they are free and single to do so. Nobody gave anyone to have to God given right to control or get jealous over the fact that a person meets someone else. Their choice no matter what. So my advice is don't get jealous and just enjoy the site for whay it is socialising and have safe happy and naughty fun x When are you bringing your wife on here OP? What wife I don't have one lol But when you're married, will you look forward to another guy fucking her? If you meet your wife through swinging you might even be lucky enough to watch her taking another guys dick on your honeymoon! How cool would that be?! That's if I meet someone in the swinging world!!! But if you don't, you're a swinger now aren't you? Surely you'd like to see the woman you love full of dick? .yes it would be fun or her pussy licked You should get in touch when you get a girlfriend. My wife and i are always on the look out for sexy couples with guys like yourself. I'd be happy to fuck her in front of you Thanks for that fella lol If it happens I think you'll be the first black guy I've chatted to who will swap with a white guy! Kudos indeed! " We have shared a fair few men, and lots of time they aren't black .... I dont think these women are as hard to find as you think | |||
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"This is why i love the swing scene so much - just love sharing my sex partners and my them sharing me. However sometimes jealousy can be an aphrodisiac. I do get a mild jealousy which I find a huge turn on, when my husband or a lover is playing with someone else, and I have to wait my turn. But negative jealousy is not good. Mrs " I am with you that sometimes it can drive you on. I rarely get jealous except ive found in the rare times we have tried seperate meets. The idea of mr 121 with someone else.. nope. Drives me scatty and I get very agitated... yet watching him with someone.. I get this delightful pang of something.. and its like I want to grab him and kiss him .. its so sexy.. Watching him be passionate with other ladies. Odd creatures arent we x | |||
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"This is why i love the swing scene so much - just love sharing my sex partners and my them sharing me. However sometimes jealousy can be an aphrodisiac. I do get a mild jealousy which I find a huge turn on, when my husband or a lover is playing with someone else, and I have to wait my turn. But negative jealousy is not good. Mrs I am with you that sometimes it can drive you on. I rarely get jealous except ive found in the rare times we have tried seperate meets. The idea of mr 121 with someone else.. nope. Drives me scatty and I get very agitated... yet watching him with someone.. I get this delightful pang of something.. and its like I want to grab him and kiss him .. its so sexy.. Watching him be passionate with other ladies. Odd creatures arent we x " Indeed | |||
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