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"Woe is me, I'm shagging three women, life is so hard... Take your humble bragging elsewhere, or get sharing "This is actually the two girls asking , we've talked ourselves but thought we'd ask experienced people , this is after all a swingers forum , but thank you for your input anyway | |||
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"Sounds a bad news story waiting to happen. Old affections will no doubt raise their heads as it's unlikely she will be able to separate the attention she was getting 1-2-1 from a group dynamic. Letting her into your activities not least relationship, if she gets burned would just be a disaster. There a a huge number of other women to chose from." It's one of the things that has crossed our mind . We've all talked about it but as we two are the three year established girls it makes us ponder about a third girl on a semi permenant , living with us for long periods basis . It all works fine at the moment . We girls sleep with each other , and with him individually and together depending on who's home etc.. The idea is erotic but we wonder if anyone's experienced the reality ? | |||
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"Sounds a bad news story waiting to happen. Old affections will no doubt raise their heads as it's unlikely she will be able to separate the attention she was getting 1-2-1 from a group dynamic. Letting her into your activities not least relationship, if she gets burned would just be a disaster. There a a huge number of other women to chose from. It's one of the things that has crossed our mind . We've all talked about it but as we two are the three year established girls it makes us ponder about a third girl on a semi permenant , living with us for long periods basis . It all works fine at the moment . We girls sleep with each other , and with him individually and together depending on who's home etc.. The idea is erotic but we wonder if anyone's experienced the reality ? " There are a few threads about 'would you fuck an ex' and ex's in general, the census is they are ex's for a reason. https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/574735 You don't really have to experience the specific 'introduce an ex' to a poly dynamic, to understand that it probably wouldn't be good. Unless she was a swinger or didn't want a relationship then due to wanting an open one, I'd say it would be a bad move. Have you asked her why the sudden change of heart with him, especially with such a big shift to now casual terms and ff rels? | |||
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"Sounds a bad news story waiting to happen. Old affections will no doubt raise their heads as it's unlikely she will be able to separate the attention she was getting 1-2-1 from a group dynamic. Letting her into your activities not least relationship, if she gets burned would just be a disaster. There a a huge number of other women to chose from. It's one of the things that has crossed our mind . We've all talked about it but as we two are the three year established girls it makes us ponder about a third girl on a semi permenant , living with us for long periods basis . It all works fine at the moment . We girls sleep with each other , and with him individually and together depending on who's home etc.. The idea is erotic but we wonder if anyone's experienced the reality ? There are a few threads about 'would you fuck an ex' and ex's in general, the census is they are ex's for a reason. https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/574735 You don't really have to experience the specific 'introduce an ex' to a poly dynamic, to understand that it probably wouldn't be good. Unless she was a swinger or didn't want a relationship then due to wanting an open one, I'd say it would be a bad move. Have you asked her why the sudden change of heart with him, especially with such a big shift to now casual terms and ff rels?" They were an item and they have swung together years ago , so she's of the same mould as us so to speak . We wonder if we are being closet minded having doubts even . | |||
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"Yeah, I'm only 3 females away from this same situation so I can sympathise. It seems like you're setting your sights too low, why not try for 5 girls and one guy? "Once again , thanks for your input but if you read this is the girls asking a question . NOT the chap | |||
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"Yeah, I'm only 3 females away from this same situation so I can sympathise. It seems like you're setting your sights too low, why not try for 5 girls and one guy?
Once again , thanks for your input but if you read this is the girls asking a question . NOT the chap "Ah men, eh? *tuts* I hope women can negotiate the rocky shoals of 'not becoming utterly jealous and crazy' better than men. Sounds fun otherwise. All the best. | |||
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"Yeah, I'm only 3 females away from this same situation so I can sympathise. It seems like you're setting your sights too low, why not try for 5 girls and one guy?
Once again , thanks for your input but if you read this is the girls asking a question . NOT the chap
Ah men, eh?
*tuts*
I hope women can negotiate the rocky shoals of 'not becoming utterly jealous and crazy' better than men.
Sounds fun otherwise. All the best."
It's a sound point . We do feel maybe a hint of that , yet we are off to a party this weekend ! | |||
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