FabSwingers.com forum: Men in women's underwear.

By *reenleaves OP Couple
over a year ago

North Wales

Hello!

I'd like to preface this by saying this thread is purely intended as an understanding tool and not as an attack or judgement

Men who wear women's underwear as a kink / fetish. What is the main motivation for you for doing this? Is it part of a submission fantasy or is it more of an escapism / role play?

Is it a case of when you're wearing the underwear then you can indulge in sexual activities that your '9-5 self' would not? Is there a hanging up of your regular sexuality that occurs when you dress in lingerie?

Thanks for your time

Rob

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

This isn't for the men who can't be bothered to put their own underwear in the wash and take someone else's just because it's clean.

Is it?

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By *reenleaves OP Couple
over a year ago

North Wales

"This isn't for the men who can't be bothered to put their own underwear in the wash and take someone else's just because it's clean.

Is it?

Haha no!

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By *dcumlover2Man
over a year ago

dunfermline

For me its the feel of it and it really turns me on more but finding women and couples into that is hard its even Horner if the woman's partner dresses too

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By *imale38Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

I enjoy wearing stockings and thong as its something I can't do in everyday life. My only chance to wear is when my wife is away with the kids at her mums during school holidays. It also gives me chance to be a little slut too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy it.

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

I love wearing mine and dressing up in all sorts as makes me feel naughty and very kinky. Just don't seem to find any females who like the idea or turned on by it .

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I just love wearing knickers and hold ups under my male attire, only thing is trying hard not to wiggle when I walk.

Be careful it starts with knickers, then tights, then a skirt, then......

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By *reenleaves OP Couple
over a year ago

North Wales

"I love wearing mine and dressing up in all sorts as makes me feel naughty and very kinky. Just don't seem to find any females who like the idea or turned on by it ."

So would you say it was the typically taboo nature of cross dressing that is the attraction for you? Or is it simply the act of dressing up in lingerie and feeling sexy, just the same as when a woman does it?

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By *atie ShayTV/TS
over a year ago

"Hello!

I'd like to preface this by saying this thread is purely intended as an understanding tool and not as an attack or judgement

Men who wear women's underwear as a kink / fetish. What is the main motivation for you for doing this? Is it part of a submission fantasy or is it more of an escapism / role play?

Thanks for your time

Rob"

I think you pretty much got it spot on for me - it's a kink, I feel super sexy with my attire on, I love the attention at clubs, I like the change from my usual "straight" alpha male side to my submissive bi cd side it's - just a completely different from of sex.

Plus my god when me and the gf are both dressed the sex really is amazing! It turns us both on hugely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started of as an escape from reality, but I quickly discovered women's briefs are really comfortable too.

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By *reenleaves OP Couple
over a year ago

North Wales

Plus my god when me and the gf are both dressed the sex really is amazing! It turns us both on hugely

Thanks for the comment! I find that really interesting! So when you dress up, are you dressing as a woman or just in women's lingerie? I think that's quite an important distinction to make in order to understand the kink, for me.

Does the lingerie serve to make you feel sexy and subservient or is it the act of role playing as a sexual woman?

I really do appreciate all the comments, thank you all!

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By *atie ShayTV/TS
over a year ago

Plus my god when me and the gf are both dressed the sex really is amazing! It turns us both on hugely

Does the lingerie serve to make you feel sexy and subservient or is it the act of role playing as a sexual woman?

I really do appreciate all the comments, thank you all!

No problem!

I class myself as a cd, my line of thinking is a TV gets turned on by dressing / acting female, a TS being a person who feels they were born the wring sex.

I don't see myself as either of the above, but also don't class myself as a hairy panty wearer either hahaha

clear as mud eh!

I'm funny, I get a real kick out of wearing the lingerie! I also definitely have the nylon addiction which led to my cross dressing.

I feel more feminine so do act a little more feminine when wearing and I am definitely sub so do like to take the female role. The ultimate for me being a lady taking the man's role and wearing a strap on.

I have tried wigs and make up but it didn't feel quite right. Like I was pretending to be something I wasn't. Yet me having sex or walking around a club in women's underwear feels so right!

And from the comments I receive I must look right too!?!?!

Who are we to say what is right or wrong haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to admit, I don't understand it either. Apart from there not being adequate space for my dong in women's underwear (at least it looks like that would be the case), I just prefer the look of boxers or briefs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love wearing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ( the chap ) have had a few girls ask me to put thier lingerie on and whilst it did zero for me and I thought I looked daft , it did make me have a greater understanding of how girls : dress for sex using lingerie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why should women have all the fun of wearing lace and satin and wearing sensors lingerie. My wife loves me to dress and helps me buy my clothes

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By *reenleaves OP Couple
over a year ago

North Wales

This is all so interesting, thank you folks!

I've been having this discussion with some female friends who are deep into women's rights and feminism. Their take on it is that men wearing women's underwear to be sexualy submissive is endemic of the patriarchy casting women as inferior. And that the only way that a man can feel the required level of submission and inferiority is to dress as a woman.

Now I don't necessarily agree with this perspective but it did strike me as something to explore. I don't think that all men who cross dress are sexist in that way. I think it's more a case that they're playing a character role of the 'sexualy submissive minx' that is in opposition to their 9-5 lifestyle. Much in the same way that fans will go to long lengths to dress up as their heroes to costume play (cosplay) them.

Again, this honestly isn't an attack on those who cross dress. Thanks again for your time

Rob

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By *atie ShayTV/TS
over a year ago

I can understand the feminists point of view, however for me it has absolutely nothing to do with society or social conditioning, or anything like that. It is purely from experimenting what feels good in the bedroom. I tried, I enjoyed and therefore it became part of me. There is nothing more to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like wearing mine for the comfort.... well OK also the feel around my bits too

Nothing more boring than 'man pants' or the dreaded 'boxers' that feel soo rough

I wear mine every day, and don't give a flying fuck what people say about it... if I am comfortable wearing them, then that's all that counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love wearing it, and Jane loves it when I''m wearing hers, especially if she's just taken them off, but I do have some of my own, that Jane has bought for me, and often wear it under my everyday clothes to work.

Jane loves it when I'm wearing it and the sex is more passionate somehow.

If I'm going to a meet on my own she likes to choose my underwear for me.

It makes me feel horny, but I think that is the anticipation of the fun to come rather than the feel of the underwear itself.

Don't feel submissive in it, but always happy for Jane to be in charge anyway as it's all about her pleasure so perhaps it is just a sign of my sexual nature. I've noticed many tv's are submissive though.

I do dress fully occasionally but am not anywhere near convincing as I don't do a wig or make-up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Started of as an escape from reality, but I quickly discovered women's briefs are really comfortable too."

Frankly, you're right!

I wear thongs, I own male ones and some plain M&S womman's ones, either way they are far and away the most comfy undies I've ever had. They look daft but for comfort, can't beat them. I have tried knickers, they're comfier than men's pants but no much as thongs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Got to admit, I don't understand it either. Apart from there not being adequate space for my dong in women's underwear (at least it looks like that would be the case), I just prefer the look of boxers or briefs"

Don't understand the point of boxers, no support or comfort, and I've tried them for a while. Trunks are nearly as uncomfy.

Briefs are ok but not nearly as comfy as thongs, male or female. As to space, my package is by no means small and there's plenty of room.

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By *urabriteMan
over a year ago

stafford

Just love the feel of nylon on me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess for me it began as a kink fetish sort of thing but one thing led to another and now i only own feminine underwear

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

I think the motivation etc to cross dress maybe different for everyone..

For me, I remember the type of guys I fancied seemed to only be attracted to those who x dressed,so I made changes and found that the men I wanted began to want me..Result..

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By *reenleaves OP Couple
over a year ago

North Wales

Thanks again for the responses! I find it fascinating!

In the interests of doing due diligence to my understanding, I tried on a pair of steph's pants (see latest pic). I can appreciate the comfort aspect as well as the bra effect they have on my butt

I wasn't approaching it from a sexual gratification perspective so I didn't get that kink but maybe that's a step to take another day

Happy Friday!

Rob

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