FabSwingers.com forum: Boyfriend

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Many married/attached women are looking for a boyfriend. Is it a new trend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does seem to be an increasing trend, my wife is always looking for a new boyfriend

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

We are the same. Mr works and travels a lot so Mrs often at a loose end. Its not just a FB it is someone to spend time with.

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By *ecretpassion100Couple
over a year ago

Walsall

It's always been like that tbh lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

life hasn't changed we just have the internet which makes it a little easier to find the right people.

people used to call them affairs .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife has one just to keep her ticking over lol

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By *rKinkedKuntMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Ahh the dream. I had a gf from a couple and was the best time I've ever had swinging. One day, one day...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that's just super greedy. Already have a husband but need a boyfriend as well, bet these birds get extra boyfriends as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More and more females are after extra men friends to satisfy them is just the wayAnd they have female friends to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i quite like that my gf has a regular f.b...means i get a night off now and again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say that dating is the new swinging, the old days where you drove to the woods in masks and voyeurism is gone lol.

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"Well that's just super greedy. Already have a husband but need a boyfriend as well, bet these birds get extra boyfriends as well. "

Nothing left for us single girls no wonder it's hard to find somebody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

glad we are still swinging the old way i want nsa and nsa only last thing we want is clingy men or women ...we in in it for sex and sex only

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"We are the same. Mr works and travels a lot so Mrs often at a loose end. Its not just a FB it is someone to spend time with."

Does your Mrs fancy a game of pool

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

Slut always looking for boyfriends and girlfriends for lots of extra and naughty fun . I don't see the problem. At least she'll always be happy

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Well that's just super greedy. Already have a husband but need a boyfriend as well, bet these birds get extra boyfriends as well. "

Does piss me off a bit too, I'm single and can't get one!!!!

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Well that's just super greedy. Already have a husband but need a boyfriend as well, bet these birds get extra boyfriends as well.

Nothing left for us single girls no wonder it's hard to find somebody

Glad someone thinks the same way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a husband but love having a "boyfriend" too.

Maybe the single ladies who are complaining they can't find a "boyfriend" on here should maybe try a proper dating site? Just a thought....

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I'm just after a fb, want the sex but not the commitment tbh x

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Sorry everyone, just a bit angry tonight, will shut the door on my way out lol

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By *otwife63Couple
over a year ago

south wales

Would love to see lily have a BF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say that dating is the new swinging, the old days where you drove to the woods in masks and voyeurism is gone lol."

Swinging is still very much going strong. Anybody who doubts that should get to some parties or clubs. But married ladies wanting to take a lover is no different either. It's always happened, but the internet has made it easier.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a husband but love having a "boyfriend" too.

Maybe the single ladies who are complaining they can't find a "boyfriend" on here should maybe try a proper dating site? Just a thought...."

I have my finger in lots of pies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is that then a ménage a trois?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not looking for a boyfriend, just a regular fuck buddy. Once a week would be nice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want a guy who is more than a fuck buddy but not quite as full on as a boyfriend. He'd need to be local and able to accommodate. Not having any luck so far and I bet when I do find him he's been living around the corner the whole time!

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"I have a husband but love having a "boyfriend" too.

Maybe the single ladies who are complaining they can't find a "boyfriend" on here should maybe try a proper dating site? Just a thought...."

Maybe there would be enough if married women didn't have them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a husband but love having a "boyfriend" too.

Maybe the single ladies who are complaining they can't find a "boyfriend" on here should maybe try a proper dating site? Just a thought....

Maybe there would be enough if married women didn't have them

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best we get married and get one as well then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are noneven of you ever anywhere near me???

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"Many married/attached women are looking for a boyfriend. Is it a new trend?"

I'm single and still can't find a bf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many married/attached women are looking for a boyfriend. Is it a new trend?

I'm single and still can't find a bf

Damn... out of your age range? Xx

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Very happy to have a girlfriend....

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By *ussetdevilCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

"We are the same. Mr works and travels a lot so Mrs often at a loose end. Its not just a FB it is someone to spend time with."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm greedy I have both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm greedy I have both

I'm not surprised... you have the pick of the men xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It looks that way and if that floats there boat then why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where do I need to apply to be one ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well they don't have to look far!

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By *uthLessKnickersCouple
over a year ago

Cornwall/Devon

I (Ruth) have a boyfriend and it suits us both. Glenn loves it when I am away for the weekend with the b/f. The sex when I return is amazing.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I suppose doing it honestly is a huge improvement on doing it behind their backs.

So good on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many married/attached women are looking for a boyfriend. Is it a new trend?"

Most of the 'single' women on here already have a boyfriend or husband.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Where do I need to apply to be one ? "

Your Avatar means you're already through the first round - congratulations !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are the same. Mr works and travels a lot so Mrs often at a loose end. Its not just a FB it is someone to spend time with."

I like this concept. I'm open to the idea of doing bf/gf stuff, without the usual complications of a 'real' relationship.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

"Many married/attached women are looking for a boyfriend. Is it a new trend?"

I would adore having a "hot wife" and would lovingly encourage her adventures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have the time for more than one relationship. Don't these women work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I for one would love a "semi" girlfriend. Someone to have regular sexy fun with, but without the hassle that goes with a full time relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm available ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Them what haves, gets

But on a more serious note it's nothing new - plenty of historical examples. the technology just makes it easier to look and for it to be more widely know.

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Well that's just super greedy. Already have a husband but need a boyfriend as well, bet these birds get extra boyfriends as well. "

I I'm with you on that one, would love to be married and have a bit on the side!!

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"I have a husband but love having a "boyfriend" too.

Maybe the single ladies who are complaining they can't find a "boyfriend" on here should maybe try a proper dating site? Just a thought....

Maybe there would be enough if married women didn't have them

Us single girls are just bitter! Or will have to join a dating site!! I think that some are just too greedy!!! I had a fb, couple knew I was with him, knew I didn't approve, met him twice anyway and wondered why I spat the dummy!!! HAPPY SWINGING!!

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Actually, do any of the men want a girlfriend?? Let's shake it up a bit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Actually, do any of the men want a girlfriend?? Let's shake it up a bit?"

I wouldn't mind one... but I'm very picky - lol

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"I have a husband but love having a "boyfriend" too.

Maybe the single ladies who are complaining they can't find a "boyfriend" on here should maybe try a proper dating site? Just a thought...."

Same bloody thing on a normal site......but why should we.....lol

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"I'm available ladies

Shame your so far away

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By *drenaline rushMan
over a year ago

Burnley

A gf would be goood even better if she was happy to swing and be shared xx

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"A gf would be goood even better if she was happy to swing and be shared xx "

Perhaps you should get a 'bored Wife"

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

Where are all these women looking, where can I apply lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love that it's now the fault of all those pesky married women that some other women can't get a boyfriend.

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"I love that it's now the fault of all those pesky married women that some other women can't get a boyfriend.

I just think it's being greedy but then I probably wouldn't want them anyway, too sad if they wanna be a married woman's toy lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love that it's now the fault of all those pesky married women that some other women can't get a boyfriend.

I just think it's being greedy but then I probably wouldn't want them anyway, too sad if they wanna be a married woman's toy lol x"

It's not greedy because no one is forcing men to be anyone's bit on the side. If a man doesn't want to get into a relationship with a single woman, that's his decision and nothing to do with other women. You're assuming he'd want the other option even if the married woman wasn't there.

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By *r Costa xxMan
over a year ago

stirling

"I love that it's now the fault of all those pesky married women that some other women can't get a boyfriend.

I just think it's being greedy but then I probably wouldn't want them anyway, too sad if they wanna be a married woman's toy lol x

Married woman wasn't there."

Force me please

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"I love that it's now the fault of all those pesky married women that some other women can't get a boyfriend.

I just think it's being greedy but then I probably wouldn't want them anyway, too sad if they wanna be a married woman's toy lol x

Not at all, I'm saying that he is a man that does not want anything other than sex, the married ones are welcome to them lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love that it's now the fault of all those pesky married women that some other women can't get a boyfriend.

I just think it's being greedy but then I probably wouldn't want them anyway, too sad if they wanna be a married woman's toy lol x

Not at all, I'm saying that he is a man that does not want anything other than sex, the married ones are welcome to them lol x"

So then what are the single women whinging about?

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Married smug women who think they are so adorable!! I'm having a bad day Btw x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Them what haves, gets

But on a more serious note it's nothing new - plenty of historical examples. the technology just makes it easier to look and for it to be more widely know."

I agree with you that there is plenty of historical context for a married woman having a regular bf. Mrs Classy has had numerous lovers over the years all with my knowledge and encouragement and we would both be very happy if and indeed when it develops into a gf/bf dynamic.

We do play together as well though and she has not (yet) met someone that has had nothing to do with me

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I'm sure the wives would not object to their bfs having other gfs.

It is a swingers site after all.

Monogamy is the last thing to expect here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sure the wives would not object to their bfs having other gfs.

It is a swingers site after all.

Monogamy is the last thing to expect here."

Absalutely not! In fact I expect and assume my lovers see other women and couples. I would get quite nervous if they started to be exclusive with me.

Mrs

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Actually, do any of the men want a girlfriend?? Let's shake it up a bit?"

some of the men might want a boyfriend -

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

No new wife has two for when required ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Married smug women who think they are so adorable!! I'm having a bad day Btw x"

Fair enough. It's ok anyway, I don't want or have time for a boyfriend. I am adorable though

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Married smug women who think they are so adorable!! I'm having a bad day Btw x

Fair enough. It's ok anyway, I don't want or have time for a boyfriend. I am adorable though

I am adorable too, but I am not interested in a boyfriend for me .... when I was single, I was also adorable, and I didn't think married women were smug ... why the attitude? (not from you, Ruby, just adding to your comment)

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

*single man coughs and walks into thread*

Morning all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Married smug women who think they are so adorable!! I'm having a bad day Btw x

Fair enough. It's ok anyway, I don't want or have time for a boyfriend. I am adorable though

I try hard to pull off being 'adorable', because I'm conscious that at my age I can't take it for granted any more. I do like having a regular lover or two (probably not boyfriend as that implies a similar relationship to what I used to have when I was single). But I certainly don't get in the way of single women wanting to have some fun with the same men. Very happy to share.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cough cough lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I suggested to my lover of 2 years about me trying to get cuddles elsewhere as he can't always guarantee seeing me....he shot me down in flames and I've never heard from him again

Some women have everything and more.

From single/lonely lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a husband but love having a "boyfriend" too.

Maybe the single ladies who are complaining they can't find a "boyfriend" on here should maybe try a proper dating site? Just a thought...."

There are no hard and fast rules for fab! Anything goes. Many guys on here open to something further if all goes well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a husband but love having a "boyfriend" too.

Maybe the single ladies who are complaining they can't find a "boyfriend" on here should maybe try a proper dating site? Just a thought....

There are no hard and fast rules for fab! Anything goes. Many guys on here open to something further if all goes well. "
I met my current hottie on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would these boyfriends be buying them shoes and paying for weekends away so the husband gets a break? Not silly some husbands

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By *evbirmingham21Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Damn out of the age range xxxx

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By *obbywalesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

It's always one excuse of the other, they perhaps got something to say all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Friends"

In between ers style. I'll be a friend

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By *nfamyMan
over a year ago

Goole

I'm Available ladies xxxx

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

"Well that's just super greedy. Already have a husband but need a boyfriend as well, bet these birds get extra boyfriends as well.

Nothing left for us single girls no wonder it's hard to find somebody

Glad someone thinks the same way!"

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

"I have a husband but love having a "boyfriend" too.

Maybe the single ladies who are complaining they can't find a "boyfriend" on here should maybe try a proper dating site? Just a thought...."

Facebook is the new dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happily married and my husband would love me to have a fb or boyfriend.

Hubby works away alot and he wants me to have fun and send him photos and videos at work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm happily married and my husband would love me to have a fb or boyfriend.

Hubby works away alot and he wants me to have fun and send him photos and videos at work. "

Happy to help xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm avalible send requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have the time for more than one relationship. Don't these women work?

I work every day, but always find time for fun. Where there's a will there's a way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm happily married and my husband would love me to have a fb or boyfriend.

Hubby works away alot and he wants me to have fun and send him photos and videos at work. "

Wow....you're so lucky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is more than enough men to go around on here. It really doesn't matter how many men someone is seeing surely. It is after all swinging site

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By *uck princess and himCouple
over a year ago

washington

Greedy, greedy girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Greedy, greedy girls

Quite, it's fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I may have met somebody that fits the bill, I love this feeling in the beginning - so exciting!

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By *losguygl3Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Wifey has had a couple of Boyfriends. Got on well with them great. She's also enjoyed a couple FBs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Warwickshire BF material here

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By *otwife63Couple
over a year ago

south wales

"Many married/attached women are looking for a boyfriend. Is it a new trend?"

No it's not, it's a kink. Lily has a BF.

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By *ustthe2ofusXXXCouple
over a year ago

coventry

The wife would love a bi special friend ( don't know what she has planned

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Someone for coffee, shops and maybe more. She / we have a FB but he finds it hard to commit time and doesn't like to be see out in public with us ( it's complicated

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