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"I class a social meet as a date x" in a one to one situation so do I . | |||
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"I've gone to dating ..... Seeing the same guy since January and not even thought about having sex with anyone else. " After doing swinging for 10 years... I feel like it's normal life to have threesomes and extra fun and swapping... I know it's not but mentally I feel like it's the norm and wanted to see if I was only one who has changed my thinking about normal dating lol | |||
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"I've gone to dating ..... Seeing the same guy since January and not even thought about having sex with anyone else. " Does your boyfriend know you're on Fab? | |||
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"I've gone to dating ..... Seeing the same guy since January and not even thought about having sex with anyone else. Does your boyfriend know you're on Fab? " He does. I was on fab before we met. He knows I'm here and can read my messages. I don't meet only chat. | |||
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"I think I'very found the answer in "polyamory" where everyone has to be totally honest to each other" This is what I want, though a closed, bi MMF triad | |||
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"I think I'very found the answer in "polyamory" where everyone has to be totally honest to each other This is what I want, though a closed, bi MMF triad " Nice dream lol | |||
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"Can you go from swinger... to normal dating?" I'm sure I could, but I'm not sure that the wife would approve. Cal | |||
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"Anyone who classes a meet on here as a date has serious issues and should get help with that as it has long term psychological and relationship consequences. This is a swingers site. It's not match.com" I think you are projecting there. A date can be made up of anything you want... a walk in the park, a coffee, lunch, dinner, a shag. Its two people meeting to do something they both enjoy and see where it goes. | |||
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"I must admit I'd run to the hills if I thought someone viewed a social as a date.... errr naw. A social is basically an interview to see if I want to fuck you. If I want a date I'll get one. No wonder people end up getting hurt on here." | |||
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"I must admit I'd run to the hills if I thought someone viewed a social as a date.... errr naw. A social is basically an interview to see if I want to fuck you. If I want a date I'll get one. No wonder people end up getting hurt on here." This | |||
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"Being in a swinging relationship does not mean that every single time you have sex is with another person. I would say for us its maybe 5% of our sex life together. We might meet someone once a month but have sex 4 times a week just us 2. Why would this ever stop us from having a non swinging relationship if we were not together? Surely it's a very small percentage to give up, no more than say going from a girlfriend that liked anal to one that doesnt" | |||
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"I must admit I'd run to the hills if I thought someone viewed a social as a date.... errr naw. A social is basically an interview to see if I want to fuck you. If I want a date I'll get one. No wonder people end up getting hurt on here." Oh so this! | |||
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"Being in a swinging relationship does not mean that every single time you have sex is with another person. I would say for us its maybe 5% of our sex life together. We might meet someone once a month but have sex 4 times a week just us 2. Why would this ever stop us from having a non swinging relationship if we were not together? Surely it's a very small percentage to give up, no more than say going from a girlfriend that liked anal to one that doesnt" Yeah I agree... prefect situation really... normal relationship with the odd adventure to spice things up. But just saying if you've been a swinger for a while... can you just go meet someone in general who doesn't understand swinging and can you cope going back to 'normal' life lol | |||
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"I have been swinging for a good 10 years on and off... and I feel like it's changed me mentally lol... when I'm walking around sainsburys and I see a couple I think mmmm love to play with his wife or see a nice woman and would love to just bend her over. Not that I would, just think this. But when I think of dating I think it would be weird now to be in a relationship without any other fun with other people. Does anyone else think swinging has sort of changed them? Not saying it's bad... or good, just I feel like I've only just realised this myself?" I know exactly where you are coming from and I have finally come to the realisation that I cannot go on proper 'non fab' dated or have a 'vanilla world' girlfriend, it has and always will end in tears because I always want sex with different women. The fact that this site exists is a vehicle to do that with ease, so unfortunately I can never have a monogamous relationship but I suppose I'll have to settle for a hareem some what like the Earl of Bath | |||
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"I have been swinging for a good 10 years on and off... and I feel like it's changed me mentally lol... when I'm walking around sainsburys and I see a couple I think mmmm love to play with his wife or see a nice woman and would love to just bend her over. Not that I would, just think this. But when I think of dating I think it would be weird now to be in a relationship without any other fun with other people. Does anyone else think swinging has sort of changed them? Not saying it's bad... or good, just I feel like I've only just realised this myself? I know exactly where you are coming from and I have finally come to the realisation that I cannot go on proper 'non fab' dated or have a 'vanilla world' girlfriend, it has and always will end in tears because I always want sex with different women. The fact that this site exists is a vehicle to do that with ease, so unfortunately I can never have a monogamous relationship but I suppose I'll have to settle for a hareem some what like the Earl of Bath " Or find someone in the scene | |||
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"I have been swinging for a good 10 years on and off... and I feel like it's changed me mentally lol... when I'm walking around sainsburys and I see a couple I think mmmm love to play with his wife or see a nice woman and would love to just bend her over. Not that I would, just think this. But when I think of dating I think it would be weird now to be in a relationship without any other fun with other people. Does anyone else think swinging has sort of changed them? Not saying it's bad... or good, just I feel like I've only just realised this myself? I know exactly where you are coming from and I have finally come to the realisation that I cannot go on proper 'non fab' dated or have a 'vanilla world' girlfriend, it has and always will end in tears because I always want sex with different women. The fact that this site exists is a vehicle to do that with ease, so unfortunately I can never have a monogamous relationship but I suppose I'll have to settle for a hareem some what like the Earl of Bath " Oh and to add to that every time I do meet a girl in 'normal' world I usually end up telling them about fab during a d*unken honesty session about a month in and not many seem to understand lol x | |||
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"I have been swinging for a good 10 years on and off... and I feel like it's changed me mentally lol... when I'm walking around sainsburys and I see a couple I think mmmm love to play with his wife or see a nice woman and would love to just bend her over. Not that I would, just think this. But when I think of dating I think it would be weird now to be in a relationship without any other fun with other people. Does anyone else think swinging has sort of changed them? Not saying it's bad... or good, just I feel like I've only just realised this myself?" Not sure i've got this the right way round, but me and my swinging fiance started off as dating, 18 months in we started swinging together (he had done it previously with a previous partner). We have date night, we see people out and about and think mmmm i wouldn't mind, this has no reflection on our dating at all.... LMP | |||
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"According to my ex, it's not healthy to meet someone in the scene " Seems your better off without | |||
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"I have been swinging for a good 10 years on and off... and I feel like it's changed me mentally lol... when I'm walking around sainsburys and I see a couple I think mmmm love to play with his wife or see a nice woman and would love to just bend her over. Not that I would, just think this. But when I think of dating I think it would be weird now to be in a relationship without any other fun with other people. Does anyone else think swinging has sort of changed them? Not saying it's bad... or good, just I feel like I've only just realised this myself? I know exactly where you are coming from and I have finally come to the realisation that I cannot go on proper 'non fab' dated or have a 'vanilla world' girlfriend, it has and always will end in tears because I always want sex with different women. The fact that this site exists is a vehicle to do that with ease, so unfortunately I can never have a monogamous relationship but I suppose I'll have to settle for a hareem some what like the Earl of Bath Or find someone in the scene " Or find someone who you'd be happy with and do swinging as an "extra" for yourself......... | |||
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"I think I'very found the answer in "polyamory" where everyone has to be totally honest to each other This is what I want, though a closed, bi MMF triad Nice dream lol" I prefer to think of it as a plan | |||
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"I have no idea as I've never really experienced the swinging atmosphere yet, but as far as relationships go, I think I'll stick to a vanilla relationship" sorry but what the fuck you doin on a swingers site if you want a steady one to one relationship.we not getting that at all | |||
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"I have no idea as I've never really experienced the swinging atmosphere yet, but as far as relationships go, I think I'll stick to a vanilla relationship sorry but what the fuck you doin on a swingers site if you want a steady one to one relationship.we not getting that at all" Who said I'm on here actively looking for a relationship? Or is looking for a girlfriend all I'm allowed to do on here? | |||
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"I used to think this way, until I met Mr X. We both met on the swinging scene but we both said straight away that we didn't want swinging to become part of our relationship. We eventually agreed that we wanted to include a woman occasionally but even with that we are not overly proactive about organising, if we find someone- great, if we don't then nevermind. And I can honestly say I can't bare the thought of having sex with another man now, partly because I know no one could get me off the way he does also because I know it's not something he would want. As with any relationship communication is the key and when you fall in love with someone your priorities and needs change. Maybe because we don't have a typically vanilla relationship, our sex life has a hint of kink and we enjoy exhibitionism so even though we don't swing with other men and couples we do like to visit clubs but just play together. Mrs X " we very happy for you both.and glad you still enjoy the clubs .even though you not having diferent male fun.think that you still have not become a straight vanilla couple .and are still part of swinging world. | |||
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"I've gone to dating ..... Seeing the same guy since January and not even thought about having sex with anyone else. Does your boyfriend know you're on Fab? He does. I was on fab before we met. He knows I'm here and can read my messages. I don't meet only chat. As my good friend V says she is only here to chat and as the most honest and open person I've ever met on fab that is spot on! It's the power of love!! " | |||
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"I've gone to dating ..... Seeing the same guy since January and not even thought about having sex with anyone else. Does your boyfriend know you're on Fab? He does. I was on fab before we met. He knows I'm here and can read my messages. I don't meet only chat. As my good friend V says she is only here to chat and as the most honest and open person I've ever met on fab that is spot on! It's the power of love!! " what you chat about ?you be better off on a none swinging site shurley we been on here a while and have seen many come and go ,but most return to dance again with the devil ha | |||
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