FabSwingers.com forum: Leave a message read or delete

By *ed cj OP Man
over a year ago

oldham

What do you do. If you leave it read and unanswered does that mean you are interested ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for us, if we're not interested we don't even bother reading them and simply hit the delete button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to read all of em.I've over 1000 so will end up.just randomly deleting loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don't get a reply, they're not interested. There could be a chance if they never read your message, but if it's read and they don't reply, they're not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Here's how I do things:

Unread - either unread or I've looked and am interested but I'm waiting for the time to reply properly or I've looked but it's dropped off the bottom of my mailbox so I can't reply until I dig it out again.

Deleted without reply - occasionally an accident but more usually it means they clearly didn't read my profile or ignored it and aren't what I'm looking for.

Read but no reply - usually if I intend to reply I mark messages unread, but if I'm defitely not interested I usually reply or delete, so this scenario is unusual and can mean various things. I may be interested, I may not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not for us, if we're not interested we don't even bother reading them and simply hit the delete button."

Brutal

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

OP, don't look at your sent message page.

It can't tell you anything useful.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

It's better to delete all your sent box

That way you won't know what has happened and if you get any messages they'll be a happy surprise

Too many are glued to their sent boxes and mess their heads up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i reply if interested. sometimes i won't reply if interested also though, for varying reasons.

just take it as they definitely aren't interested at the time you sent it and deleting your outbox is a good idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means I ain't decided or I'm in a rush and want to re-read of again later!

Doll x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Atm I'm deleting most of my mail because I'm not meeting. I find if I reply they get their cock in their hands all excited. Apart from going unlos (which I don't want to do) or hidding my pro. (As above) I can't get peeps to understand that I'm not horny atm.

xxx

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Sometimes Dick reads messages and doesn't say we have had any.

I try to be polite and answer even if it is a no thanks.

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

"Here's how I do things:

Deleted without reply - occasionally an accident but more usually it means they clearly didn't read my profile or ignored it and aren't what I'm looking for.

That's me x

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

So many men .... so little time

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If im interested i reply if im not i dont.

Only time i reply if im not interested is if someone has sent a well thought out messsage then i send a nice no thankyou

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"What do you do. If you leave it read and unanswered does that mean you are interested ?"

I look at the profile first

If they don't fit my criteria

It's an instant block, without me reading their messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard to read all of em.I've over 1000 so will end up.just randomly deleting loads

I'm glad mine get answered x

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

It depends on my mood. At the moment I'm not in the mood, so best left unread, until I can give a proper Suzi response. I am even deleting most of my posts on threads atm. Suzi xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Atm I'm deleting most of my mail because I'm not meeting. I find if I reply they get their cock in their hands all excited. Apart from going unlos (which I don't want to do) or hidding my pro. (As above) I can't get peeps to understand that I'm not horny atm.

xxx"

Im kinda doing this just now also.. then I get the messages asking why am on a sex site if i dont want sex.. thats when i just dont reply or block lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's better to delete all your sent box

That way you won't know what has happened and if you get any messages they'll be a happy surprise

Too many are glued to their sent boxes and mess their heads up!"

This

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By *jcmjcCouple
over a year ago

Newport

With us it either means one of us has read it and is leaving it for the other to read.

Or we're busy and reply properly later

Or we've read it and aren't interested.

So yeah, it could mean anything.

Hope this helps

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By *r Stagger LeeMan
over a year ago

torquay

if your sending to a couple you may well find the both people will have a look before anything is done with a message.

I also have a couple of friends who delete everything after they reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

xxx

Im kinda doing this just now also.. then I get the messages asking why am on a sex site if i dont want sex.. thats when i just dont reply or block lol"

Yea I've had that one too.

xxx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"What do you do. If you leave it read and unanswered does that mean you are interested ?"

Means I'm waiting for them to go offline before I delete so I don't get a follow up message immediately after telling me I'm a stuck up cow/asking why I deleted.

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By *jcmjcCouple
over a year ago

Newport

"What do you do. If you leave it read and unanswered does that mean you are interested ?

Means I'm waiting for them to go offline before I delete so I don't get a follow up message immediately after telling me I'm a stuck up cow/asking why I deleted."

This

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Unread - haven't got round to reading it yet.

Read - not interested.

Deleted - not interested

Read but marked as unread - thinking it over.

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