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By *ed cj OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham

What are you after. I like to think this site is about having fun not looking for life partners. Recently I have been seeing posts from people looking for some commitment. I would like to hear your views.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If both singles are looking for more than one offs and you suddenly find you've got more than Fab in common then why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Casual

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By *ed cj OP   Man
over a year ago

oldham


"If both singles are looking for more than one offs and you suddenly find you've got more than Fab in common then why not. "

That's fine if it just happens but don't go out looking for a relationship from the start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not looking for relationship but would rather a regular hook up than loads of different lads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Casual

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Depends on my mood

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By *ussetdevilCouple
over a year ago

Swindon


"Not looking for relationship but would rather a regular hook up than loads of different lads"

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By *r SelectiveMan
over a year ago

newcastle

It's a swinging site ..not a dating site ..I thought

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By *amdenfunMan
over a year ago

London


"If both singles are looking for more than one offs and you suddenly find you've got more than Fab in common then why not.

That's fine if it just happens but don't go out looking for a relationship from the start "

Isn't this too much compartmentalising? Some single people want a committed relationship, and also want to meet swingers, and is possible would like the committed relationship to be with someone who also swingers, so they can swing together. They're probably on other dating sites too, and also meet people in "real life". There's no need in that.

That said - if they meet someone here it would have the advantage that they wouldn't need worry about how to introduce the topic of swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

casual is ok, sort of. you don't know what you're getting and when you're getting it though. i like spontaneous, and can get sex any time easily enough, it just is the not knowing what kind of sex you'll get that doesn't do it for me.

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By *ibertine_LifestyleCouple
over a year ago

Sheerness

Casual..although I met my boyfriend on another sex dating site and we've now been together almost 2 years and have a baby, so sometimes if you meet the right person it can work x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If both singles are looking for more than one offs and you suddenly find you've got more than Fab in common then why not.

That's fine if it just happens but don't go out looking for a relationship from the start "

Why not? Where better to meet someone for a non monogamous relationship?

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"If both singles are looking for more than one offs and you suddenly find you've got more than Fab in common then why not.

That's fine if it just happens but don't go out looking for a relationship from the start

Why not? Where better to meet someone for a non monogamous relationship? "

Thats true but not met anyone yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a swinging site ..not a dating site ..I thought "

It's what you make if it. People find serious relationships everywhere, why should Fab be any different?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'm looking for no-strings, non-exclusive but regular.

The site is for what people want to use it for though. Find the people who want the same as you and leave the rest to do their thing.

Why not look here for a like-minded partner with whom to swing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not looking for relationship but would rather a regular hook up than loads of different lads"

I'm moving to Ireland

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

As a couple we're only looking for casual (though a regular casual partner would be grand).

For the site, however, if anyone is looking to hook up for a relationship they ought to know that alot of people (not everyone) will likely be on this site looking for casual, so if it's monogamy you're after the dating sites are probably a safer option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People use it for whatever they wish.

When you say commitment do you mean full on relationship ?

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By *niform ManMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Genuine guy looking for some NSA fun with ladies and want to try some couples fun

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Not looking for relationship but would rather a regular hook up than loads of different lads"

This.

I want a fwb not a fuck and go nor a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like a long term lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are here for fun.

We have our relationship, it's great.

All we are after is one or two regular couples we can socialise with and enjoy some intimate times with.

Not too much to ask for...

Is it?

Lol

Mr

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Love casual sex but also looking for that life partner who enjoys a promiscuous wife/gf.

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are you after. I like to think this site is about having fun not looking for life partners. Recently I have been seeing posts from people looking for some commitment. I would like to hear your views."

If I was looking for love a swing site would be my first choice too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are here for fun.

We have our relationship, it's great.

All we are after is one or two regular couples we can socialise with and enjoy some intimate times with.

Not too much to ask for...

Is it?

Lol

Mr"

Not at all, we're similar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for friends-with-benefits with a very pervy open sexy mind. Would be great if it turned into something more as being aligned on so many levels would be heavenly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People use the site as they see fit, i try not to get too hung up on it. Some people find what they're after, some have it land on them without expecting it, if both parties are open to whatever goes on then I don't see what the issue is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People use the site as they see fit, i try not to get too hung up on it. Some people find what they're after, some have it land on them without expecting it, if both parties are open to whatever goes on then I don't see what the issue is"

Totally agree with this

Kinky

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

My view is that this is a good site to find a long term swinging partner, as proved over the years by various single fabbers who have got together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If both singles are looking for more than one offs and you suddenly find you've got more than Fab in common then why not.

That's fine if it just happens but don't go out looking for a relationship from the start "

Why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Casual bit if right lady comes along I might change my view if she's willing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want a relationship with a man who loves sex and experimenting with me. But until I find him I still have needs I don't want lots of randoms though but if one fuck buddy turns into something more serious then I'm happy with that

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