FabSwingers.com forum: Unhappy male!

By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"

Was he hairy?

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"

Some guys can't stand rejection ignore the idiot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"

What a prick! You are a gorgeous woman and from the email we exchanged some time ago, you are polite and nothing but friendly

Ignore the fool

M x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may well be 47 but your not fat and ugly.

He is just annoyed at being knocked back. Some blokes don't take rejection well.

Block and move on lol

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By *ambscouple2015Couple
over a year ago

Not in Wisbech but near

It is quite funny how quickly they change their minds and say that they didn't really want to meet once you say no to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot understand why ppl join these sites if they cannot accept polite rejection without insulting people. I have had to block people I've rejected before they can reply with insults.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look stunning op just wish I was closer xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is quite funny how quickly they change their minds and say that they didn't really want to meet once you say no to them."

They show their true colours eh x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the same previously . Said no thanks and was told how I am fat ( no shit Sherlock ) , men on here were just using me for sex ( literally reason we are on here is just for sex so not sure why that would bother us) and that I should get to a gym

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of that and he still wanted to meet you?

Gosh what a charmer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"

It's ya own fault for allowing creepy weirdos to mail you..then by knocking him back start getting abused..

You either search yourself or belt up moaning

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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol

Was he hairy? "

Yeah lol

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Sounds like you turned him down and he proved he wasn't worthy of a meet with you in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"

Best decision you made in hindsight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least the fecker didn't try to save you. We had a Welsh sheep farmer approach us about 6 weeks ago and when I said NO he had a rant about how we were all damned and that only Jesus could save us ... with lots of quotes from the Bible. S said to ignore him as to respond only encourages nutters. The same applies in your case ... most people are really warm and nice ... and we both think you are lovely. If you ever want to find Jesus we can give you a hot lead. Cx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another bloke who can't handle rejection - pfft!

Block and move on OP - and if you want to be picky and choosy then you do just that! It's your decision who you want to meet, so don't let one petulant idiot tell you otherwise!

Have a nice day OP!

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By *ndigo40Woman
over a year ago

secret town

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol

Was he hairy?

Yeah lol"

I knew it

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

Well he sounds delicious!!! NOT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow. I get turned down all the time, but would never dream of insulting the woman/couple because they exercised their right to politely not fuck me!

Some people on this site are no better than stroppy children!

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"

Dont worry about this loser if he cant take a polite no from a lady then he has problems.

All men are not the same if i get told no i respect and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're fat them I'm officially a whale

The problem is a lot of single blokes join up who have no idea what swinging is about and who think any woman is game and they're garunteed a fuck. So even if you say no politely their pride takes a knock and all of a sudden they wouldn't have touched you with a barge pole

Mrs xxxx

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By *weetandHungMan
over a year ago

liverpool

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol

It's ya own fault for allowing creepy weirdos to mail you..then by knocking him back start getting abused..

You either search yourself or belt up moaning

No need for that

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By *reddy96Man
over a year ago

scunthorpe

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"
silly man just ignore him x you aint any of wot he said

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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago

north kensington w10

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"

Yep, never condone anyone being rude and offensive, but i also know how much it can hurt, constantly being turned down ever time. Especially when you have taken the time to think out a message and you care!

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By *xploringThisWorldMan
over a year ago

collier row

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol

Okay, creepy post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"

I'm sure you will not lose any sleep over it as you can get meets when you pretty much want to

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By *hloe12Woman
over a year ago

york

Ignore the prick iam sick of tossers thinking use women are free meat. Your very sexy

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

Sort of similar ...... just had a messsge from someone with 3 cock pics attached saying....... 'There you go....... up yours!'

And then he blocked me.......WTF?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol

It's ya own fault for allowing creepy weirdos to mail you..then by knocking him back start getting abused..

You either search yourself or belt up moaning

No need for that"

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

Nothing wrong with you..cannt take rejection get use to idiots after while..move on and block not worth it alot of us have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a complete waste of space he is.

Laugh it off and move on, you're worth so much more than losers like him x

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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol

It's ya own fault for allowing creepy weirdos to mail you..then by knocking him back start getting abused..

You either search yourself or belt up moaning

No need for that"

Wasn't it a joke?

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By *.TaylorMan
over a year ago

reading

Cheeky fucker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"

He must be fucking bonkers hun your gorgeous and don't let arse holes like him get to you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think a lot of men get worked up once they get a reply and automatically think it means a meet and definitely playing....they've got themselves so worked up and spent hours fantasising that rejection just blows them away and they just lash out..

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"You look stunning op just wish I was closer xx"

...assuming you were her type and she wanted to meet you! Location doesn't equate meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he thought you where all them things why did he ask you to meet him ! I think we all know why he is single lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rejection is my middle name it seems....hahaha...but never would I insult anyone....what a prick. ..and by that I mean an insecure little boy prick. ...it takes but one to spoil it for others...so hang on..hang in...and enjoy your own self worth...its clearly way more supreme than his....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but if you had said yes you would have been the best lady on fab, giving the best blow job, and to be treated with respect blah blah -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but if you had said yes you would have been the best lady on fab, giving the best blow job, and to be treated with respect blah blah -

That's if he even turned up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had a pound for every time I've had 'thanks but no thanks ' mail back .....

I would have £2.467

OP don't stress the small stuff... lucky escape me thinks .. now where is this sheep farmer ? I need my sins purged

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"

Thats why I've changed and after sending my usual polite no thanks I block them

The abuse back got too much

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"You look stunning op just wish I was closer xx

...assuming you were her type and she wanted to meet you! Location doesn't equate meet!

I was just typing something similar!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"

Did you blow a raspberry and stick your two fingers up at the screen? That's what he deserves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"

Wow cheeky git. You are far from any of that tell us who he is and let's take a peek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when he first contacted you he obviously thought you was attractive and sexy enough to have sex with you,

you turn him down and suddenly your fat and ugly ect,

obviously thought he was Adonis and doesn't understand why women don't fall at his feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"

2 lovely cheeks from behind

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By *r Stagger LeeMan
over a year ago

torquay

said it before on here there seem to be 4 stages of fab rejection with some people

1, anger

2, bargaining, if they haven't been blocked already that is.

3, depression

4, acceptance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And that's why us genuine guys get a bad rep and struggle as dickheads upset the ladies and we get tarred with the same brush I hope u have blocked him op and don't judge us normal guys by his low standards of decency

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"said it before on here there seem to be 4 stages of fab rejection with some people

1, anger

2, bargaining, if they haven't been blocked already that is.

3, depression

4, acceptance."

Where do moaning statuses and moaning forum threads fit into that scheme?

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By *r Stagger LeeMan
over a year ago

torquay

"said it before on here there seem to be 4 stages of fab rejection with some people

1, anger

2, bargaining, if they haven't been blocked already that is.

3, depression

4, acceptance.

Where do moaning statuses and moaning forum threads fit into that scheme?"

very true, may need a little work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And that's why us genuine guys get a bad rep and struggle as dickheads upset the ladies and we get tarred with the same brush I hope u have blocked him op and don't judge us normal guys by his low standards of decency "

This isn't true. Dickheads get themselves a bad name. they actually make the good guys look better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a really abusive one earlier. Plain to see he hadn't read my profile at all. I reported him and blocked him. No doubt he's gone and vented his anger on some other poor woman but he won't be pestering me again

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"said it before on here there seem to be 4 stages of fab rejection with some people

1, anger

2, bargaining, if they haven't been blocked already that is.

3, depression

4, acceptance.

Where do moaning statuses and moaning forum threads fit into that scheme?"

And good that saved some time

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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago

north kensington w10

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol

Okay, creepy post.

Don't you have any feelings then? I know a lot of people on here are to scared to say what they really think!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isn't true. Dickheads get themselves a bad name. they actually make the good guys look better"
but it also has the effect that couples or bi females decide fuck this and block single guys from messaging them

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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

This isn't true. Dickheads get themselves a bad name. they actually make the good guys look betterbut it also has the effect that couples or bi females decide fuck this and block single guys from messaging them"

I haven't, plenty of good ones on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"

What a complete and utter prick!!

You are absolutely gorgeous xx

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Makes me wonder what these couples and bi females are on the site for, surely not for their own needs....

I'm sure if they want single guys they don't need to feel like they are in a cattle auction to find them, or have someone attempt to make them feel crap. Truthfully what option would you use.

Cream floats so they say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't, plenty of good ones on here x"
I strive to be one of them but my meets will confirm that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to us at weekend my Mrs simply said sorry not my type. All the best. He replied by saying she wasn't his and she was a fat cunt. Didn't bother her because she saw it logically that he must have fancied her to bother messaging. She curvy but definitely not fat, not that, that should make any difference. It really made me angry and I stewed over in for a day or so. Can't believe some people

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

We are not even looking for guys so logic says we shouldn't need to block them, especially as our header says looking for a bi-fem fwb..but guess what? Blocked..just can't be doing with them, even had one guy message he was a polite & respectful person. I just responded shouldn't the first part of respect be to read a profile? Then you just get the "You is hot babes, wanna fuck?" Even a local one we chatted to about normal stuff comes on Friday night with "I'm free & local if you guys wanna play" So now all blocked & they'd stay all blocked if we were looking for a guy too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes me wonder what these couples and bi females are on the site for, surely not for their own needs....

I'm sure if they want single guys they don't need to feel like they are in a cattle auction to find them, or have someone attempt to make them feel crap. Truthfully what option would you use.

Cream floats so they say.

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it does and I'm not saying they shouldn't have minds of their own I'm just saying that one bad apple spoils it sometimes for the rest of us and that as a result the afore mentioned people might decide it's not worth the aggro so then block all single guys sometimes it's not one guy but a few that pushes people to react but generally people with bad attitudes spoil it for those who genuinely try and be courteous and polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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this happens a lot people just look at pictures location and age and forget to actually read your preferences that is disrespectful and I for one do read profiles as I like to see if there's a common factor we have on common before messaging so I only ever message people looking for someone like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry op I seem to have hijacked your thread trying to defend my comments but you know what I said in private stands I hope you have a good rest of the night and to everyone else please stop beating me up lol

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"

I think you got off lightly op i had a glass of wine thrown over me in a club by a fern I turn down . I had a husband blow a fuse over me turning down the chance to play with his wife came out of the club to find a flat tire on my car .

I had a fern stalk me for 6 months over the fact I turned her down .

the moral of the story its not only immature men who can't handle rejection.

by the way yes he was a prat just like everyone who turns nasty over rejection are .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's clearly a idiot and needs specsavers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On behalf of probably all males here that person.is stupid.

You are not fat you are not ugly you look very nice I think you look under 47. He is probably just jealous that he doesn't have a chance with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"

Did he have a small cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had an almost similar response when j sent a polite no thank you message. The guy said I couldn't afford to be fussy as I'm fat!

My response was I think you will find I can lol

Hugs xx

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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Sorry op I seem to have hijacked your thread trying to defend my comments but you know what I said in private stands I hope you have a good rest of the night and to everyone else please stop beating me up lol"

Thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had an almost similar response when j sent a polite no thank you message. The guy said I couldn't afford to be fussy as I'm fat!

My response was I think you will find I can lol

Hugs xx

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in the words of queen fat bottomed girls you make the rocking world go round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fat and ugly !! no and no is the answer to that

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Seems to me that your instinct to turn him down was spot-on, given his sudden aggresion...

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By *ollyG OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

He seamed OK up until that point lol, he has now hidden his profile, perhaps he has read this thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow nice guy. Obviously doesn't take rejection very well

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol

What a prick! You are a gorgeous woman and from the email we exchanged some time ago, you are polite and nothing but friendly

Ignore the fool

M x"

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some just don't handle rejection well... And a few wonder why we sometimes find it easier not to reply... X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some just don't handle rejection well... And a few wonder why we sometimes find it easier not to reply... X"
yeah that's what I just said, looking at her photos she fit. He's just pissed off he couldn't have her

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol

Was he hairy?

Yeah lol"

Short?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems to me that your instinct to turn him down was spot-on, given his sudden aggresion..."

What a knob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had the same previously . Said no thanks and was told how I am fat ( no shit Sherlock ) , men on here were just using me for sex ( literally reason we are on here is just for sex so not sure why that would bother us) and that I should get to a gym

Gyms are great. Ours has a machine and another that's sells crisps and chocolate and all kinds.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i think you should thank your intuition for having such good judgement to say no in the first place x we've all had them, they made me smile and go, that was a lucky escape x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gyms are great. Ours has a machine and another that's sells crisps and chocolate and all kinds.

Love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boo hoo for him

you are great and he is a loser X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol

Was he hairy?

Yeah lol

I knew it "
what's wrong with hairy?? Well chest only not ape like haha! Hairy is more manly okay mrs waxes my back lol Its always the case that when kids carnt have what they want the dummy comes out the trolley

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol

Was he hairy?

Yeah lol

I knew it what's wrong with hairy?? Well chest only not ape like haha! Hairy is more manly okay mrs waxes my back lol Its always the case that when kids carnt have what they want the dummy comes out the trolley

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trolley! Pram!!!

it's too early for this

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG I had this last week, well slightly different and I should of followed my instincts on this one. Long story but here goes.

I'd gone to a club with a friend and got chatting to some guy things did not go to plan but I won't go into detail. Got home that night to have a surprise in my box (he he) a message from the guy saying how lovely it was to meet and how he'd love to meet again, we exchanged kik's and chatted for a while.

A few days passed with no chatting and to that's a neither of us are interested and that's cool. He keep putting status up about how much action he was getting so I cheekily messaged him something like keeping busy as a joke and he called me judgemental to which I explain was a joke, there no room for judgemental people on here(in my opinion)

About 20/30 minutes later he messaged saying about my friend (not the one from the club another YES I have 2 friends lol) basically saying she's not meet him because he'd meet me and I'd told her we'd played which we did not but she never botherd asking lol. I explain I never said that as we'd never spoken about him.

Another while passed and he messaged agin saying some very derogatory things about me and my club friend. To which I was very polite I said I will take your comments on bored and hopefully it will improve my swinging.

I then blocked him and I'm aware he's been "warning" people about me since this happened and it's probably all lies but no one wants to here my side. I feel swinging should be light hearted and fun and very naughty no one should have to revive abusive or derogatory comments, messgages or face to face.

I do realise I've ranted on but I had to get this of my chest and rant over

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By *rixieswTV/TS
over a year ago

S.Westerly

Fat? Ugly? The guy needs specksavers. Love the legs as well babes. Beautiful. And as we all know its a womans right to say NO.

But clearly we're all happier when we hear a YES.

Happy playtimes sexy. Trixie x

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"

Be more Choosy in future. Ignorent blind men are clearly not for you.

Dont know what gets into some guys on the scene they seam to forget that swinging is NOT prostitution its a mutual thing. Clearly these guys are so vane they have problems with rejection. Can anyone recomend them a good pyciatrist? They would benifit from therapy.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

Not Fat Fabulious!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"

Bullet dodged.

Psycho

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I don't think it's truly related to rejection.

They purposely want to bully or hassle people, and use the rejection as an excuse.

Even if you accept the offer to meet, I guess these kind of people won't turn up.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I wouldn't worry lovely - I got a message the other day that told me I was wonderful, even called me a sex goddess!

I said no and I was suddenly fat

Twerp!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's always one twat. Gives use guys a bad name??

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

"There's always one twat. Gives use guys a bad name??"

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

Well i supose if people consentrate on the pyhsical and dont look at the person as a whole these kind of imature comments are going to be made.

Frankly that level of imaturity suggests a crap fuck anyway. So celabrate finding and blocking these morons.

Sadly however i have to say there are some women on here who are just as bad. But the mature answer is not to be abusive but just say ok block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's always one twat. Gives use guys a bad name??"

It can also make the good guys stand out more too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies pls pls pls stick with it , the genuine males do appreciate u taking time out to say no ,, not good news but least we know the score ,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"

F..k him.

*you know what I mean.

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By *ral addict 13Man
over a year ago

lincolnshire

Dick head springs to mind!! Spoils it for the rest of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"

How very dare you!

You should be honoured that he chose to include you as one of his 500 recipients for the day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"

Well hes a tit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take no notice his loss pete

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"
may I apologise on behalf of us males....no need for that. Be assured that there's not many like that out there..

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By *ral addict 13Man
over a year ago

lincolnshire

Dick head springs to mind!! Spoils it for the rest of us

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By *ainbowBrite57Woman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I got told I was fat, ugly and smelt by someone who messaged me on here... didn't realise fab had a smelly vision option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol

Was he hairy? "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"

Wow. It's a minefield.

Maybe we should all initially say " thanks, but no thanks" just to out idiots like this. One could always recant later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a similar situation recently, only the guy went through my verification list and started telling other guys to be warned that I gave him an STD. Just because I told him I didn't want to see him again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was called a sad fat rub out?

How did he know lol as he didn't get that far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow! This thread is quite enlightening.

I can see why a lot of single women are wary of meeting guys they don't really know. There are some absolute mentalists on here!

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By *otlips2000Man
over a year ago

swadlincote

Where's the fat bit

If your fat and ugly I definitely love fat and ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol"

Were you 47, fat and ugly before he messaged you?

*I bet you weren't.

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By *otlips2000Man
over a year ago

swadlincote

Just read your profile

Where's the fat bit

If your fat and ugly I definitely love fat and ugly

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"I've had a similar situation recently, only the guy went through my verification list and started telling other guys to be warned that I gave him an STD. Just because I told him I didn't want to see him again."
wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore him Pauline, you look gorgeous xxx

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By *uddleanstrokeMan
over a year ago

Bristol / Crete / Glasgow

Good that you obviously made the right choice ... blokes need to be able to take rejection with a smile ... as mentioned - a more light- hearted approach helps ... and peeps not too full of their own importance ... now - I just need to check the ferry timetable .... and hope you've found someone to have a great time with ...

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

And this is exactly why I just delete messages from people I'm not interested in, too many people spitting their dummy's out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And this is exactly why I just delete messages from people I'm not interested in, too many people spitting their dummy's out "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is quite funny how quickly they change their minds and say that they didn't really want to meet once you say no to them.

They show their true colours eh x"

Don't they just, like someone else said in the wrong place if they can't handle rejection. Shrug it off there problem not yours, concentrate on the positive people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is quite funny how quickly they change their minds and say that they didn't really want to meet once you say no to them.

They show their true colours eh x

Don't they just, like someone else said in the wrong place if they can't handle rejection. Shrug it off there problem not yours, concentrate on the positive people."

Couldn't agree more... u live and learn..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even get the meets so haven't been rejected yet!

Take no notice of him, as others have already said, he just couldn't handle rejection which is 100% his problem and not yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have just politely turned a guy down to be told that us woman should not pick and choose, that I am 47, fat, ugly and have a cheek, so much for being polite lol may I apologise on behalf of us males....no need for that. Be assured that there's not many like that out there.."

Unfortunately there are. Not just males but some couples too.

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