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"A veri proves your a real person and turned up etc so why should you care what people think about them? " ...but we all looked. Nothing like self promotion! | |||
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What are people supposed to think?"This. Other than its a desperate LAM thread? Which to be honest, if someone was using our veri we left them to that purpose, we'd feel a bit miffed I think. (Rightly or wrongly...) | |||
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"I'd like to hear what people think of my veri's
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This.
Other than its a desperate LAM thread? Which to be honest, if someone was using our veri we left them to that purpose, we'd feel a bit miffed I think. (Rightly or wrongly...) "Desperate, hmm your entitled to think that, I can assure you that is not the case. | |||
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"At least this is a blatant look at me thread. Most threads are look at me....." It's an easy filter, soon find out who the nice people are and who the vile ones are. It's nice to be nice but not everyone knows that | |||
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"I'd like to hear what people think of my veri's
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What are people supposed to think?"Surely we're simply meant to let our curiosity get the better of us, read them, and decide the OP is a genuine & considerate Fabber? Well done OP, you made me look!
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"I'd like to hear what people think of my veri's
This could be a mistake "They all portray you as a nice, friendly guy. | |||
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"At least this is a blatant look at me thread. Most threads are look at me..... It's an easy filter, soon find out who the nice people are and who the vile ones are. It's nice to be nice but not everyone knows that "Well there's nothing wrong with wanting to be looked at anyway. How else do we all expect to get meets if nobody looks at us | |||
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"Nothing wrong with asking the forum for an opinion, and if you would like feedback on your veris then go for it. As someone who checks veris before considering a meet, this is what yours tell me: I think most of your meets were play meets so this tells me that people aren't generally changing their mind upon meeting you. You seem to prefer meeting single women so as a couple we would take that into account. However you have met 2 couples, so you probably understand the dynamics of MF couple play. The women you play with are a variety of body shapes which tells me you don't have a type. I didn't see any evidence of club meets in your veris which tells me you prefer private meets. You've had a good number of meets in a short space of time which tells me you might be worth meeting. These are the sort of questions I ask myself when looking at someone's veris. Hope this helps Mrs" Top of the class
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"Nothing wrong with asking the forum for an opinion, and if you would like feedback on your veris then go for it. As someone who checks veris before considering a meet, this is what yours tell me: I think most of your meets were play meets so this tells me that people aren't generally changing their mind upon meeting you. You seem to prefer meeting single women so as a couple we would take that into account. However you have met 2 couples, so you probably understand the dynamics of MF couple play. The women you play with are a variety of body shapes which tells me you don't have a type. I didn't see any evidence of club meets in your veris which tells me you prefer private meets. You've had a good number of meets in a short space of time which tells me you might be worth meeting. These are the sort of questions I ask myself when looking at someone's veris. Hope this helps Mrs Top of the class
Honest and to the point. Thankyou for your feedback.
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"At least this is a blatant look at me thread. Most threads are look at me..... It's an easy filter, soon find out who the nice people are and who the vile ones are. It's nice to be nice but not everyone knows that
Well there's nothing wrong with wanting to be looked at anyway. How else do we all expect to get meets if nobody looks at us "Totally agree if that's what you want, but when your bringing other people into that method (I.e. Veri's) it just feels wrong to do so, can't explain why though? Lol Just seems a little inconsiderate or disrespectful to those that left them? | |||
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"Nothing wrong with asking the forum for an opinion, and if you would like feedback on your veris then go for it. As someone who checks veris before considering a meet, this is what yours tell me: I think most of your meets were play meets so this tells me that people aren't generally changing their mind upon meeting you. You seem to prefer meeting single women so as a couple we would take that into account. However you have met 2 couples, so you probably understand the dynamics of MF couple play. The women you play with are a variety of body shapes which tells me you don't have a type. I didn't see any evidence of club meets in your veris which tells me you prefer private meets. You've had a good number of meets in a short space of time which tells me you might be worth meeting. These are the sort of questions I ask myself when looking at someone's veris. Hope this helps Mrs Top of the class
Honest and to the point. Thankyou for your feedback.
Really! Did I interpret you accurately? "I'm not here to fish for compliments, just to hear how other people see it and you nailed it well I know now I need to update my profile a little | |||
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"At least this is a blatant look at me thread. Most threads are look at me..... It's an easy filter, soon find out who the nice people are and who the vile ones are. It's nice to be nice but not everyone knows that
Well there's nothing wrong with wanting to be looked at anyway. How else do we all expect to get meets if nobody looks at us
Totally agree if that's what you want, but when your bringing other people into that method (I.e. Veri's) it just feels wrong to do so, can't explain why though? Lol
Just seems a little inconsiderate or disrespectful to those that left them? "Yeah suppose so. Hadn't thought of like that. I personally wouldn't send a veri if I didn't want anybody looking at it, but I guess others may have a different view. | |||
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"Nothing wrong with asking the forum for an opinion, and if you would like feedback on your veris then go for it. As someone who checks veris before considering a meet, this is what yours tell me: I think most of your meets were play meets so this tells me that people aren't generally changing their mind upon meeting you. You seem to prefer meeting single women so as a couple we would take that into account. However you have met 2 couples, so you probably understand the dynamics of MF couple play. The women you play with are a variety of body shapes which tells me you don't have a type. I didn't see any evidence of club meets in your veris which tells me you prefer private meets. You've had a good number of meets in a short space of time which tells me you might be worth meeting. These are the sort of questions I ask myself when looking at someone's veris. Hope this helps Mrs Top of the class
Honest and to the point. Thankyou for your feedback.
Really! Did I interpret you accurately?
I'm not here to fish for compliments, just to hear how other people see it and you nailed it well I know now I need to update my profile a little "Goes to show that I'm right in my belief that veris give invaluable information | |||
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"At least this is a blatant look at me thread. Most threads are look at me..... It's an easy filter, soon find out who the nice people are and who the vile ones are. It's nice to be nice but not everyone knows that
Well there's nothing wrong with wanting to be looked at anyway. How else do we all expect to get meets if nobody looks at us
Totally agree if that's what you want, but when your bringing other people into that method (I.e. Veri's) it just feels wrong to do so, can't explain why though? Lol
Just seems a little inconsiderate or disrespectful to those that left them? "Surely the people that leave the veri's do so other people can see them? If they didn't want people to know then they would leave one in the 1st place? | |||
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" Just seems a little inconsiderate or disrespectful to those that left them? " I am guessing as they left them they would know they might be shown and seen by lots of people on the site and not just the people reading his profile after looking at this thread | |||
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"At least this is a blatant look at me thread. Most threads are look at me..... It's an easy filter, soon find out who the nice people are and who the vile ones are. It's nice to be nice but not everyone knows that
Well there's nothing wrong with wanting to be looked at anyway. How else do we all expect to get meets if nobody looks at us
Totally agree if that's what you want, but when your bringing other people into that method (I.e. Veri's) it just feels wrong to do so, can't explain why though? Lol
Just seems a little inconsiderate or disrespectful to those that left them?
Yeah suppose so. Hadn't thought of like that. I personally wouldn't send a veri if I didn't want anybody looking at it, but I guess others may have a different view. "Yeah, that's where I'm struggling, when you leave a veri, you know it will be looked at, but if I knew someone was going to use it to actively advertise themselves, then that would put a different spin on it, and leave me wondering if I wanted to leave a Veri at all? Were you open and honest with the people you met about how you intended to use their Veri's OP? | |||
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"At least this is a blatant look at me thread. Most threads are look at me..... It's an easy filter, soon find out who the nice people are and who the vile ones are. It's nice to be nice but not everyone knows that
Well there's nothing wrong with wanting to be looked at anyway. How else do we all expect to get meets if nobody looks at us
Totally agree if that's what you want, but when your bringing other people into that method (I.e. Veri's) it just feels wrong to do so, can't explain why though? Lol
Just seems a little inconsiderate or disrespectful to those that left them? "I was thinking that. I'd be pissed off if someone I'd verified done a post like this. You look at the veri then click on who left it through curiosity. I don't like showing my veris or having my left ones on public view for similar reasons. | |||
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"At least this is a blatant look at me thread. Most threads are look at me..... It's an easy filter, soon find out who the nice people are and who the vile ones are. It's nice to be nice but not everyone knows that
Well there's nothing wrong with wanting to be looked at anyway. How else do we all expect to get meets if nobody looks at us
Totally agree if that's what you want, but when your bringing other people into that method (I.e. Veri's) it just feels wrong to do so, can't explain why though? Lol
Just seems a little inconsiderate or disrespectful to those that left them?
Surely the people that leave the veri's do so other people can see them? If they didn't want people to know then they would leave one in the 1st place?"Not necessarily some people like me don't show their veris. I leave one just to say we've met basically and it counts towards his total meets. Not to tell the world about our experience or how good he can fuck | |||
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"Nothing wrong with asking the forum for an opinion, and if you would like feedback on your veris then go for it. As someone who checks veris before considering a meet, this is what yours tell me: I think most of your meets were play meets so this tells me that people aren't generally changing their mind upon meeting you. You seem to prefer meeting single women so as a couple we would take that into account. However you have met 2 couples, so you probably understand the dynamics of MF couple play. The women you play with are a variety of body shapes which tells me you don't have a type. I didn't see any evidence of club meets in your veris which tells me you prefer private meets. You've had a good number of meets in a short space of time which tells me you might be worth meeting. These are the sort of questions I ask myself when looking at someone's veris. Hope this helps Mrs Top of the class
Honest and to the point. Thankyou for your feedback.
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I'm not here to fish for compliments, just to hear how other people see it and you nailed it well I know now I need to update my profile a little "Why would you want others opinions on what others have said about you?  | |||
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"At least this is a blatant look at me thread. Most threads are look at me..... It's an easy filter, soon find out who the nice people are and who the vile ones are. It's nice to be nice but not everyone knows that
Well there's nothing wrong with wanting to be looked at anyway. How else do we all expect to get meets if nobody looks at us
Totally agree if that's what you want, but when your bringing other people into that method (I.e. Veri's) it just feels wrong to do so, can't explain why though? Lol
Just seems a little inconsiderate or disrespectful to those that left them?
Surely the people that leave the veri's do so other people can see them? If they didn't want people to know then they would leave one in the 1st place?"It's different I think to leaving a veri, knowing other people will look at it, to leaving a veri knowing that the person you are leaving it for will then use it to actively promote themselves I think? If we had people messaging us, telling us someone we had left a veri for was advertising it in the forums, I think We'd be pissed... | |||
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"At least this is a blatant look at me thread. Most threads are look at me..... It's an easy filter, soon find out who the nice people are and who the vile ones are. It's nice to be nice but not everyone knows that
Well there's nothing wrong with wanting to be looked at anyway. How else do we all expect to get meets if nobody looks at us
Totally agree if that's what you want, but when your bringing other people into that method (I.e. Veri's) it just feels wrong to do so, can't explain why though? Lol
Just seems a little inconsiderate or disrespectful to those that left them?
Yeah suppose so. Hadn't thought of like that. I personally wouldn't send a veri if I didn't want anybody looking at it, but I guess others may have a different view.
Yeah, that's where I'm struggling, when you leave a veri, you know it will be looked at, but if I knew someone was going to use it to actively advertise themselves, then that would put a different spin on it, and leave me wondering if I wanted to leave a Veri at all?
Were you open and honest with the people you met about how you intended to use their Veri's OP? "Open and honest, the people I have met have all left me veri's, they also all asked me to leave them one so I would say if they were bothered about what I wrote or what they wrote that it wouldn't be displayed by either party. I wouldn't say that veri's are advertising, more as part of your profile that someone else wrote for you with there opinion of you. | |||
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"Nothing wrong with asking the forum for an opinion, and if you would like feedback on your veris then go for it. As someone who checks veris before considering a meet, this is what yours tell me: I think most of your meets were play meets so this tells me that people aren't generally changing their mind upon meeting you. You seem to prefer meeting single women so as a couple we would take that into account. However you have met 2 couples, so you probably understand the dynamics of MF couple play. The women you play with are a variety of body shapes which tells me you don't have a type. I didn't see any evidence of club meets in your veris which tells me you prefer private meets. You've had a good number of meets in a short space of time which tells me you might be worth meeting. These are the sort of questions I ask myself when looking at someone's veris. Hope this helps Mrs" Wow that's awesome, I never realised you could tell that much by someone's veri's. I was thinking this was just another look at me thread, but after reading your post, I'm intrigued to find out what mine say about me  | |||
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"At least this is a blatant look at me thread. Most threads are look at me..... It's an easy filter, soon find out who the nice people are and who the vile ones are. It's nice to be nice but not everyone knows that
Well there's nothing wrong with wanting to be looked at anyway. How else do we all expect to get meets if nobody looks at us
Totally agree if that's what you want, but when your bringing other people into that method (I.e. Veri's) it just feels wrong to do so, can't explain why though? Lol
Just seems a little inconsiderate or disrespectful to those that left them?
I was thinking that. I'd be pissed off if someone I'd verified done a post like this. You look at the veri then click on who left it through curiosity. I don't like showing my veris or having my left ones on public view for similar reasons. "Me personally, couldn't give a toss if one of our playmates encouraged others via the forum to look at a selection of veris that included ours. In fact we're always pleased when people look at our profile. We use veris for networking and expanding our circles anyway. Anything we want private, is not displayed on the publically on Fab, But we're all different. It does show that any doubts about privacy then don't show anything publically. Mrs | |||
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"At least this is a blatant look at me thread. Most threads are look at me..... It's an easy filter, soon find out who the nice people are and who the vile ones are. It's nice to be nice but not everyone knows that
Well there's nothing wrong with wanting to be looked at anyway. How else do we all expect to get meets if nobody looks at us
Totally agree if that's what you want, but when your bringing other people into that method (I.e. Veri's) it just feels wrong to do so, can't explain why though? Lol
Just seems a little inconsiderate or disrespectful to those that left them?
Yeah suppose so. Hadn't thought of like that. I personally wouldn't send a veri if I didn't want anybody looking at it, but I guess others may have a different view.
Yeah, that's where I'm struggling, when you leave a veri, you know it will be looked at, but if I knew someone was going to use it to actively advertise themselves, then that would put a different spin on it, and leave me wondering if I wanted to leave a Veri at all?
Were you open and honest with the people you met about how you intended to use their Veri's OP?
Open and honest, the people I have met have all left me veri's, they also all asked me to leave them one so I would say if they were bothered about what I wrote or what they wrote that it wouldn't be displayed by either party. I wouldn't say that veri's are advertising, more as part of your profile that someone else wrote for you with there opinion of you."Correct, but you have just used them to advertise, have you not? | |||
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"Nothing wrong with asking the forum for an opinion, and if you would like feedback on your veris then go for it. As someone who checks veris before considering a meet, this is what yours tell me: I think most of your meets were play meets so this tells me that people aren't generally changing their mind upon meeting you. You seem to prefer meeting single women so as a couple we would take that into account. However you have met 2 couples, so you probably understand the dynamics of MF couple play. The women you play with are a variety of body shapes which tells me you don't have a type. I didn't see any evidence of club meets in your veris which tells me you prefer private meets. You've had a good number of meets in a short space of time which tells me you might be worth meeting. These are the sort of questions I ask myself when looking at someone's veris. Hope this helps Mrs Wow that's awesome, I never realised you could tell that much by someone's veri's. I was thinking this was just another look at me thread, but after reading your post, I'm intrigued to find out what mine say about me "Very very quickly. You seem quite experienced on the swing scene and you play with a lot of couples. Don't have time to look in further depth. But we also look to see if men are experienced with couples. Important factor for us, which chance answered with veris | |||
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"Should we all message those who left you Veri's OP? We can ask them directly what they thought about you? (I would hope no one would out of respect) But do you get my point OP? Theres nothing wrong with a blatant look at me thread, as someone said earlier, most of them are. But you have a point of specifically bringing other people against their wishes (possibly, unless you did ask them before posting?) into that LAM thread, and it could go horribly wrong... " Totally agree it's against forum rules to name names but in my opinion the OP LAM thread is basically naming his past meets. Some might be ok with that and others might not I know I'd be pissed off. Obviously you asked permission of your prev meets ? I can gaurntee their people views have rocketed as a result of this | |||
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"At least this is a blatant look at me thread. Most threads are look at me..... It's an easy filter, soon find out who the nice people are and who the vile ones are. It's nice to be nice but not everyone knows that
Well there's nothing wrong with wanting to be looked at anyway. How else do we all expect to get meets if nobody looks at us
Totally agree if that's what you want, but when your bringing other people into that method (I.e. Veri's) it just feels wrong to do so, can't explain why though? Lol
Just seems a little inconsiderate or disrespectful to those that left them?
Yeah suppose so. Hadn't thought of like that. I personally wouldn't send a veri if I didn't want anybody looking at it, but I guess others may have a different view.
Yeah, that's where I'm struggling, when you leave a veri, you know it will be looked at, but if I knew someone was going to use it to actively advertise themselves, then that would put a different spin on it, and leave me wondering if I wanted to leave a Veri at all?
Were you open and honest with the people you met about how you intended to use their Veri's OP?
Open and honest, the people I have met have all left me veri's, they also all asked me to leave them one so I would say if they were bothered about what I wrote or what they wrote that it wouldn't be displayed by either party. I wouldn't say that veri's are advertising, more as part of your profile that someone else wrote for you with there opinion of you."So why are you asking others opinions on what others have said ? | |||
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" It could be perceived like that but that was not my intention. How I see it is I've nothing to hide,here's what these people think, how do you perceive their views? Also my veri's would probably like all the extra views they will gain, but then I could be wrong! "It's THEIR veiews so why ask us what they think. Totally weird IMO | |||
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" Totally agree it's against forum rules to name names but in my opinion the OP LAM thread is basically naming his past meets. " Thats a bit of an over reaction. If the person giving the veri doesn't want it to be shown they would no doubt ask the person to not show it or block the person so it doesn't show. Lots of people are quite happy showing veri's even if you are not. | |||
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"Should we all message those who left you Veri's OP? We can ask them directly what they thought about you? (I would hope no one would out of respect) But do you get my point OP? Theres nothing wrong with a blatant look at me thread, as someone said earlier, most of them are. But you have a point of specifically bringing other people against their wishes (possibly, unless you did ask them before posting?) into that LAM thread, and it could go horribly wrong... Totally agree it's against forum rules to name names but in my opinion the OP LAM thread is basically naming his past meets. Some might be ok with that and others might not I know I'd be pissed off. Obviously you asked permission of your prev meets ? I can gaurntee their people views have rocketed as a result of this " Interesting moral question. I don't think he's gone against forum rules. He hasn't named anybody he has met. The names of the people he has met happen to be on his profile in the form of a legitimate verification, which is viewable to any member of Fab including any forum member. People go to the forum the whole time asking for profile reviews, which frequently causes people to look at their veris as part of a profile review. I guess this guy has been a bit more specific, but I don't think he has broken any forum rules. Mrs | |||
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" Totally agree it's against forum rules to name names but in my opinion the OP LAM thread is basically naming his past meets. Thats a bit of an over reaction. If the person giving the veri doesn't want it to be shown they would no doubt ask the person to not show it or block the person so it doesn't show. Lots of people are quite happy showing veri's even if you are not." If people didn't want to be seen on a veri they just wouldn't leave one right? You wouldn't leave a veri then think I don't want people to know I/we met said person! | |||
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" Totally agree it's against forum rules to name names but in my opinion the OP LAM thread is basically naming his past meets. Thats a bit of an over reaction. If the person giving the veri doesn't want it to be shown they would no doubt ask the person to not show it or block the person so it doesn't show. Lots of people are quite happy showing veri's even if you are not." But in theory everyone will go look at his veris and click the said profiles. Imo big difference to leaving a veri to a blatant lam thread pointing people and asking their opinion on what they said about him. He's asked what others think about what they have said. Everyone's different I guess but I just think it's a bit weird | |||
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"Should we all message those who left you Veri's OP? We can ask them directly what they thought about you? (I would hope no one would out of respect) But do you get my point OP? Theres nothing wrong with a blatant look at me thread, as someone said earlier, most of them are. But you have a point of specifically bringing other people against their wishes (possibly, unless you did ask them before posting?) into that LAM thread, and it could go horribly wrong... Totally agree it's against forum rules to name names but in my opinion the OP LAM thread is basically naming his past meets. Some might be ok with that and others might not I know I'd be pissed off. Obviously you asked permission of your prev meets ? I can gaurntee their people views have rocketed as a result of this Interesting moral question. I don't think he's gone against forum rules. He hasn't named anybody he has met. The names of the people he has met happen to be on his profile in the form of a legitimate verification, which is viewable to any member of Fab including any forum member. People go to the forum the whole time asking for profile reviews, which frequently causes people to look at their veris as part of a profile review. I guess this guy has been a bit more specific, but I don't think he has broken any forum rules. Mrs" Yes but they haven't asked personally have they. | |||
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"Should we all message those who left you Veri's OP? We can ask them directly what they thought about you? (I would hope no one would out of respect) But do you get my point OP? Theres nothing wrong with a blatant look at me thread, as someone said earlier, most of them are. But you have a point of specifically bringing other people against their wishes (possibly, unless you did ask them before posting?) into that LAM thread, and it could go horribly wrong... Totally agree it's against forum rules to name names but in my opinion the OP LAM thread is basically naming his past meets. Some might be ok with that and others might not I know I'd be pissed off. Obviously you asked permission of your prev meets ? I can gaurntee their people views have rocketed as a result of this Interesting moral question. I don't think he's gone against forum rules. He hasn't named anybody he has met. The names of the people he has met happen to be on his profile in the form of a legitimate verification, which is viewable to any member of Fab including any forum member. People go to the forum the whole time asking for profile reviews, which frequently causes people to look at their veris as part of a profile review. I guess this guy has been a bit more specific, but I don't think he has broken any forum rules. Mrs" | |||
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"Should we all message those who left you Veri's OP? We can ask them directly what they thought about you? (I would hope no one would out of respect) But do you get my point OP? Theres nothing wrong with a blatant look at me thread, as someone said earlier, most of them are. But you have a point of specifically bringing other people against their wishes (possibly, unless you did ask them before posting?) into that LAM thread, and it could go horribly wrong... Totally agree it's against forum rules to name names but in my opinion the OP LAM thread is basically naming his past meets. Some might be ok with that and others might not I know I'd be pissed off. Obviously you asked permission of your prev meets ? I can gaurntee their people views have rocketed as a result of this Interesting moral question. I don't think he's gone against forum rules. He hasn't named anybody he has met. The names of the people he has met happen to be on his profile in the form of a legitimate verification, which is viewable to any member of Fab including any forum member. People go to the forum the whole time asking for profile reviews, which frequently causes people to look at their veris as part of a profile review. I guess this guy has been a bit more specific, but I don't think he has broken any forum rules. Mrs" No, probably not broken any forum rules, but those pertaining to respect? possibly, but as I say, the only people who should decide on that are those who left him The verifications in the first place? The OP asked the opinions outside of those who left him Veri's, those opinions have been shared, and my opinion is based on how I would feel if someone did the same to us. I think admin could be treading a fine line on this interpretation of use of Veri's...... | |||
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" Totally agree it's against forum rules to name names but in my opinion the OP LAM thread is basically naming his past meets. Thats a bit of an over reaction. If the person giving the veri doesn't want it to be shown they would no doubt ask the person to not show it or block the person so it doesn't show. Lots of people are quite happy showing veri's even if you are not. If people didn't want to be seen on a veri they just wouldn't leave one right? You wouldn't leave a veri then think I don't want people to know I/we met said person! It's more the fact you've included your previous meets into this thread by default. And asked others opinion on what they wrote. Nothing to do with people leaving veris Right so here is my point. Those people all were happy to leave veri's and all wanted one so why would anyone be bothered? These people have nothing to hide. Ive noticed that most of the people against this thread have no veri's or hiden profiles. " Your trying too Say I have something to hide. I have my profile hidden as I'm not currently meeting and it stops people messaging me simple. I usually unhide when active on forum but forgot. I shouldn't be forced to explain but you've wrote a post again basically saying I have something to hide | |||
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As I said earlier, veris are a great way of networking. If we were on your veri list and had more people look at our profile today, we'd be very pleased, and if we made further friends out it then even better But that's us. I" you sound like the kind of people I have on my friends list | |||
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"They're very good veri's OP! Proves you're not a timewaster and the people you've met seem to like you which should be a positive signal to any other prospective meets! Sounds like you're having some excellent fun on here which is what it should be all about! Good work!
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"Nothing wrong with asking the forum for an opinion, and if you would like feedback on your veris then go for it. As someone who checks veris before considering a meet, this is what yours tell me: I think most of your meets were play meets so this tells me that people aren't generally changing their mind upon meeting you. You seem to prefer meeting single women so as a couple we would take that into account. However you have met 2 couples, so you probably understand the dynamics of MF couple play. The women you play with are a variety of body shapes which tells me you don't have a type. I didn't see any evidence of club meets in your veris which tells me you prefer private meets. You've had a good number of meets in a short space of time which tells me you might be worth meeting. These are the sort of questions I ask myself when looking at someone's veris. Hope this helps Mrs Top of the class
Honest and to the point. Thankyou for your feedback.
Really! Did I interpret you accurately?
I'm not here to fish for compliments, just to hear how other people see it and you nailed it well I know now I need to update my profile a little
Goes to show that I'm right in my belief that veris give invaluable information "that's brilliant could you please review ours ! Ha | |||
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"Nothing wrong with asking the forum for an opinion, and if you would like feedback on your veris then go for it. As someone who checks veris before considering a meet, this is what yours tell me: I think most of your meets were play meets so this tells me that people aren't generally changing their mind upon meeting you. You seem to prefer meeting single women so as a couple we would take that into account. However you have met 2 couples, so you probably understand the dynamics of MF couple play. The women you play with are a variety of body shapes which tells me you don't have a type. I didn't see any evidence of club meets in your veris which tells me you prefer private meets. You've had a good number of meets in a short space of time which tells me you might be worth meeting. These are the sort of questions I ask myself when looking at someone's veris. Hope this helps Mrs Top of the class
Honest and to the point. Thankyou for your feedback.
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I'm not here to fish for compliments, just to hear how other people see it and you nailed it well I know now I need to update my profile a little
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"They're very good veri's OP! Proves you're not a timewaster and the people you've met seem to like you which should be a positive signal to any other prospective meets! Sounds like you're having some excellent fun on here which is what it should be all about! Good work!
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The point I'm trying to say is the OP has specifically put those people who left Veri's in the spotlight, without consultation or agreement, as he's yet to specifically say he checked with them it was ok to do so.
And by doing so he has exposed them to a much higher level of scrutiny? Again, against their permission or agreement."I should have added that I feel that's just rude and disrespectful, again my opinion, which is after all what he asked for. Although, it appears he can't handle people's opinion who disagree with him, resorting to him being rude about sniping those. But as I say, the only people's opinion who truly matter are those who left the Veri's in the first place. But by his own admission, he doesn't really care about those, or how they would feel about it either.... | |||
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At least someone got what I was after. Clearly I've ruffled some feathers with this one! What do people have against a LAM thread anyway, they want looks when they leave negative feedback so it's hypocritical in a way!
But they're not looking at you...they're looking at the people who've left your veris...are you trying to get kudos vicariously by boasting about the people you've met? because it looks a lot that way to me" he doesn't understand. So disrespectful he's even started another thread about this thread (green arrow) | |||
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At least someone got what I was after. Clearly I've ruffled some feathers with this one! What do people have against a LAM thread anyway, they want looks when they leave negative feedback so it's hypocritical in a way!
But they're not looking at you...they're looking at the people who've left your veris...are you trying to get kudos vicariously by boasting about the people you've met? because it looks a lot that way to me
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At least someone got what I was after. Clearly I've ruffled some feathers with this one! What do people have against a LAM thread anyway, they want looks when they leave negative feedback so it's hypocritical in a way!
But they're not looking at you...they're looking at the people who've left your veris...are you trying to get kudos vicariously by boasting about the people you've met? because it looks a lot that way to me
he doesn't understand. So disrespectful he's even started another thread about this thread (green arrow)
You don't understand. It's not disrespectful at all, I'm not here to gloat boast I'm not that kind of guy. I think some of you have looked into this too and trying to make it something it's not. "Didn't say you was gloating. Fact is you started another thread about this thread yes? FACT! And you indirectly involved all your veris in a public discussion without consent. FACT. | |||
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At least someone got what I was after. Clearly I've ruffled some feathers with this one! What do people have against a LAM thread anyway, they want looks when they leave negative feedback so it's hypocritical in a way!
But they're not looking at you...they're looking at the people who've left your veris...are you trying to get kudos vicariously by boasting about the people you've met? because it looks a lot that way to me
he doesn't understand. So disrespectful he's even started another thread about this thread (green arrow)
You don't understand. It's not disrespectful at all, I'm not here to gloat boast I'm not that kind of guy. I think some of you have looked into this too and trying to make it something it's not. "We're not trying to make it something we're not, honestly. You asked an opinion, which people have shared, positively or negatively. You've just acted terribly defensively against those who have had a negative opinion, and refused to accept the thoughts, opinions and feelings of those who have. If you ask for opinions, you should be prepared to accept both positive and negative. You said it could go terribly wrong, so how is it you've acted so surprised that in part it has? | |||
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At least someone got what I was after. Clearly I've ruffled some feathers with this one! What do people have against a LAM thread anyway, they want looks when they leave negative feedback so it's hypocritical in a way!
But they're not looking at you...they're looking at the people who've left your veris...are you trying to get kudos vicariously by boasting about the people you've met? because it looks a lot that way to me
he doesn't understand. So disrespectful he's even started another thread about this thread (green arrow)
You don't understand. It's not disrespectful at all, I'm not here to gloat boast I'm not that kind of guy. I think some of you have looked into this too and trying to make it something it's not.
We're not trying to make it something we're not, honestly.
You asked an opinion, which people have shared, positively or negatively. You've just acted terribly defensively against those who have had a negative opinion, and refused to accept the thoughts, opinions and feelings of those who have. If you ask for opinions, you should be prepared to accept both positive and negative.
You said it could go terribly wrong, so how is it you've acted so surprised that in part it has?
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"So as not to offend as I'm not here for that, I've pulled my veri's until I know they don't mind this post! I have messaged all of them and as I get consent I shall re add them thankyou please "Which was the point I was trying to get at all along OP. But I won't say I told you so. (Well, ok maybe a little bit) | |||
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"Perhaps the best way to resolve this dispute is, for those who feel the OP has behaved unethical, to report to admin. OP I'm glad you found my feedback useful
At least someone got what I was after. Clearly I've ruffled some feathers with this one! What do people have against a LAM thread anyway, they want looks when they leave negative feedback so it's hypocritical in a way!
But they're not looking at you...they're looking at the people who've left your veris...are you trying to get kudos vicariously by boasting about the people you've met? because it looks a lot that way to me
he doesn't understand. So disrespectful he's even started another thread about this thread (green arrow)
You don't understand. It's not disrespectful at all, I'm not here to gloat boast I'm not that kind of guy. I think some of you have looked into this too and trying to make it something it's not.
We're not trying to make it something we're not, honestly.
You asked an opinion, which people have shared, positively or negatively. You've just acted terribly defensively against those who have had a negative opinion, and refused to accept the thoughts, opinions and feelings of those who have. If you ask for opinions, you should be prepared to accept both positive and negative.
You said it could go terribly wrong, so how is it you've acted so surprised that in part it has?
He ONLY asked for opinions on his veris, and nothing else. He never asked for an opinion on whether his thread was ethical, and he never ask for an opinion on whether his question was reasonable. If asking for a veri review is indeed unethical or against forum rules then this thread should be reported. " | |||
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"I left this very lovely man a veri a while ago...veris often lead to people checking you out, whether it is from a potential meet for whoever recieved it or just a random...it is no different to getting checked out from posting on the forums or anything else...I am fine with this thread being started....if I didn't want anyone to know I had met him....or what we got up to... I either wouldn't verify him as I did....or would ask him to not display it...He is a great guy that I enjoyed playing with so... "You might of and that's fine. But one other already posted to say she wasn't happy in the slightest | |||
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"I left this very lovely man a veri a while ago...veris often lead to people checking you out, whether it is from a potential meet for whoever recieved it or just a random...it is no different to getting checked out from posting on the forums or anything else...I am fine with this thread being started....if I didn't want anyone to know I had met him....or what we got up to... I either wouldn't verify him as I did....or would ask him to not display it...He is a great guy that I enjoyed playing with so... "Which is great, thanks for thank you for posting, your valuable opinion. Buy one person has taken offence to their verification being put under scrutiny. And in my opinion that should call for a review of thread rules Admin? | |||
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"So as not to offend as I'm not here for that, I've pulled my veri's until I know they don't mind this post! I have messaged all of them and as I get consent I shall re add them thankyou please
Which was the point I was trying to get at all along OP.
But I won't say I told you so.
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Which was the point I was trying to get at all along OP.
But I won't say I told you so.
(Well, ok maybe a little bit) how inconsiderate of me
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"So as not to offend as I'm not here for that, I've pulled my veri's until I know they don't mind this post! I have messaged all of them and as I get consent I shall re add them thankyou please
Which was the point I was trying to get at all along OP.
But I won't say I told you so.
(Well, ok maybe a little bit) how inconsiderate of me
different people see different things as this thread proves.
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"But hey, you live and learn, and as I said, I know you hadn't broken any thread rules, maybe just etiquette? And perhaps it's been very useful that the rules should be reviewed? It's a very thin line, and I think one that would be very difficult for admin to police or enforce? " Some people are just to sensitive but if we're all the same how boring would life be | |||
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Omg you don't learn do you? How am I a troll! ? Explain please. I'm
Interested haha no no, the green arrow dear
Ohhh not exactly rocket science but your very welcome. Hopefully learnt your lesson about respect also "no I have respect. I hadn't looked at it how you have so now it's pointed out its no problem. My veri's ar returnin btw | |||
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Omg you don't learn do you? How am I a troll! ? Explain please. I'm
Interested haha no no, the green arrow dear
Ohhh not exactly rocket science but your very welcome. Hopefully learnt your lesson about respect also no I have respect. I hadn't looked at it how you have so now it's pointed out its no problem. My veri's ar returnin btw "All is good then | |||
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Interested haha no no, the green arrow dear
Ohhh not exactly rocket science but your very welcome. Hopefully learnt your lesson about respect also no I have respect. I hadn't looked at it how you have so now it's pointed out its no problem. My veri's ar returnin btw "Im really not interested in your veris. It wasn't about that in the first place. It was about decency and respect involving others by default without their consent. | |||
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Ohhh not exactly rocket science but your very welcome. Hopefully learnt your lesson about respect also no I have respect. I hadn't looked at it how you have so now it's pointed out its no problem. My veri's ar returnin btw
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Ohhh not exactly rocket science but your very welcome. Hopefully learnt your lesson about respect also no I have respect. I hadn't looked at it how you have so now it's pointed out its no problem. My veri's ar returnin btw
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"At least this is a blatant look at me thread. Most threads are look at me..... It's an easy filter, soon find out who the nice people are and who the vile ones are. It's nice to be nice but not everyone knows that
Well there's nothing wrong with wanting to be tlooked at anyway. How else do we all expect to get meets if nobody looks at us
Totally agree if that's what you want, but when your bringing other people into that method (I.e. Veri's) it just feels wrong to do so, can't explain why though? Lol
Just seems a little inconsiderate or disrespectful to those that left them?
I was thinking that. I'd be pissed off if someone I'd verified done a post like this. You look at the veri then click on who left it through curiosity. I don't like showing my veris or having my left ones on public view for similar reasons. "I have to agree with this I could have added four or five veries to my profile from a club visit on Friday night social mind you but I did not ask for any nor did I offer any such is my contempt for the veri system .it causes more harm than good it reminds me f school play ground chat except its proven you know did you hear e got off with her she won't be happy about that . the world I come from D\s you don't post what someone likes sexually ever its a unwritten rule that what goes on in the bedroom stays in the bloody bedroom end off my veries prove I meet nothing else . Jessus I could have a couple of outstanding play veries on my profile but what would be the point to get a few more meets from people who had no interest in me as a human being nd where only interested in my sexuality and how good I am or not at wat I do . No thanks I'd rather people not know and if that means some people don't want to meet me that's on them not me . | |||
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But I'm still puzzled as to what the actual purpose was of the thread in the first place?
I suspect I will get a time out for this but what the hell .
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But I'm still puzzled as to what the actual purpose was of the thread in the first place?
I suspect I will get a time out for this but what the hell .
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apart from 1 person so far all of the rest my veri's have no problem with this post. How they see it is if they didn't want to be seen then they wouldn't have left a public verification on a public site. Maybe people have thought I meant look at the people that had left them but that's not the case. What harm is it me asking people what they think about what's been written about ME? What's wrong with me wanting to know how my veri's make ME look or how im perceived. Ive not come to brag or show off about the fact I've met people and I'm far from desperate so no point trying to wave that flag | |||
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"Your lack of discretion when it's evident at least one was unhappy with the arrangement of you ppsting those is one off putting factor. However, I thought I would offer a fair appraisal now as that's what you 'clearly' seek and as an alternative to Classy. Having read your veris and those you've left for others it's clear you're not my type - the generic standard 'treat her nice' type remarks hints at unoriginality and a lack of imagination that probably translates to dull fucks. A cheeky chappy sort as quite a few veris mention indicate a nervous bravado put on, I much prefer some sort of confidence and not poor jokes. The constant reference to your fingers would suggest you have adequate fingering skills and poor penetrative sex. Just a different take on it. But well done you OP for getting meets and being able to post about them." Thanks for your feedback What is discreet about posting a veri about somebody? If they wanted 100% discretion they would not even write a veri! Im totally discreet when I meet with people, I don't arrive looking like Frank Butcher with a twirling bow tie .
Maybe the references to my fingers might mean I don't actually sleep with everybody i meet as I'm not here purely for notches on my bed! I am a cheeky guy thats not nerves that's who I am. As for the treat her nice, well I'll admit I didn't put a whole lot of effort in to that so that's something I can alter in the future.
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"Nothing wrong with asking the forum for an opinion, and if you would like feedback on your veris then go for it. As someone who checks veris before considering a meet, this is what yours tell me: I think most of your meets were play meets so this tells me that people aren't generally changing their mind upon meeting you. You seem to prefer meeting single women so as a couple we would take that into account. However you have met 2 couples, so you probably understand the dynamics of MF couple play. The women you play with are a variety of body shapes which tells me you don't have a type. I didn't see any evidence of club meets in your veris which tells me you prefer private meets. You've had a good number of meets in a short space of time which tells me you might be worth meeting. These are the sort of questions I ask myself when looking at someone's veris. Hope this helps Mrs" I absolutely love it when someone forms a reply like this after a string of negative, cynical cuntposts from other people. Clearly a very intelligent couple who can think for themselves. | |||
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