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By *razydriver8 OP   Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

Do you tell your friends and family your swingers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noop.

Have you told anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My family know i am on the site , well my kids who are all over 18 do .

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By *essesCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

Our best friends of many years, moved abroad and then became swingers and got us thinking about it but other than them, no, no one knows.

My friend though, made the mistake of telling someone, who she then fell out with. This person then tried to befriend all her facebook friends and relatives and outed her and her husband!! Luckily most said "what the hell, we love you whatever you do in your private life" but it was a fraught couple of months for them. So it does make me very wary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people we know are aware of what we do.

We've been open and honest about it for years and it's never caused any problems, lots of interest though,lol.

If the subject ever crops up and we're asked, then we're straight up about it.

The way we see it is this, there are always people ready to make up their own minds and blab about others if they get the chance, anyone thinking they can keep things secret will be very lucky to do so.

We'd just sooner friends etc found out from us, rather than be waiting for the hammer to fall, most likely at a family gathering or in a crowded place.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes thay know i just dont swing around or ner them xx its away from home or on the boat ..... if here thay are away .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people we know are aware of what we do.

We've been open and honest about it for years and it's never caused any problems, lots of interest though,lol.

If the subject ever crops up and we're asked, then we're straight up about it.

The way we see it is this, there are always people ready to make up their own minds and blab about others if they get the chance, anyone thinking they can keep things secret will be very lucky to do so.

We'd just sooner friends etc found out from us, rather than be waiting for the hammer to fall, most likely at a family gathering or in a crowded place.

XXXX

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exactly why most of our friends and most of our family know.

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By *edditchcpl69Couple
over a year ago

REDDITCH

hubbis family know all and to my suprise the mother in law actually admitted to having dabbled in the past.

most of our friends that dont swing know aswell and we have never hidden the fact either.

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

I personally dont care, so yes most ppl i know, now we swing. As we are who we are and if they fall out with us over it, then they wasnt true freinds to begin with. Lie i say we are who we are not hurting anyone else. so sod them if they dont like it, we do xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally dont care, so yes most ppl i know, now we swing. As we are who we are and if they fall out with us over it, then they wasnt true freinds to begin with. Lie i say we are who we are not hurting anyone else. so sod them if they dont like it, we do xx"

That's the way we see it too, we would hate to have to hide a facet of our nature just to keep people as friends who aren't really friends at all.

True friends accept you for what you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Close friends and family know about it and kids and other mates know I "date" xx

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Nope. Not a bloody soul.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Never. The only person who knows is my boss becaues of the vetting I have to have for work...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"No. Never. The only person who knows is my boss becaues of the vetting I have to have for work... "

My workplace do regular searches on the internet for stuff so to save the embrassessment I told them..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My close friends know. If im meeting a new guy then she knows where when nd who with. Last point of contact...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our close friends know and are fine with it and have some expressed interest but say they'd never be brave enough to do it themselves lol. Family, as far as i'm aware, don't know and I've no intention of telling them. Just hope none of them join this site and find us!

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By *ichelle n big alCouple
over a year ago

Derbys

no we have to keep it secret , we have a very religious family , anyway we see this as a hobby lol xx

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Yes, three friends know, so far so good

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