FabSwingers.com forum: Blocking People

By *orth West Couple OP Couple
over a year ago

liverpool

We have been critized in the past for indiscriminately blocking people, but we hold this _iew, we have stated on our profile what we are looking for, if somebody mails us who does not meet that criteria then we block them from mailing us again, let’s give a example, we state on our profile we do not wish to meet Bi-Sexual males, so if we get a email from a Bi-Sexual or Bi-Sexual curious bloke we will block them, it’s the same with Smoking, I smoke now and then ( I know...disgusting habit ) but if we get a email from a bloke who say’s “Won’t meet Smokers” on his profile then we block them, in the past we have replied and stated the reason, then usually they reply saying they will make a exception etc etc.... but I am not interested in being a exception, so cannot see the point in carrying on the conversation, so prefer to just block those who do not meet the criteria, and to be frank fully honest, if they cannot be bothered to read our profile for what we are looking for and mail us anyway then is it really our problem?

Just curious if other people block people who do not meet what they are looking for, or are we being a bit harsh.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Use the block how you want to, not how others want you too.

It's like all the other tools on here, use them as you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont use block unless they really piss me off. Even though they are not what we are looking for we dont block them because they can become.great.friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to u who ya wanna block...but its best in MY opinion, that u dont block ppl that u simply arent interested in...unless they fuck u off!-To me it depends on what u like doing,I like the social side of swinging hence i dont have many id block for no particular reason.

btw, tasty pics on profile..pls dont block me...i enjoy a tasty perving!!!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"Use the block how you want to, not how others want you too.

It's like all the other tools on here, use them as you want. "

Stop calling me a tool!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Use the block how you want to, not how others want you too.

It's like all the other tools on here, use them as you want. "

Oh you made a senisable comment.. hahah

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By *orth West Couple OP Couple
over a year ago

liverpool

"Up to u who ya wanna block...but its best in MY opinion, that u dont block ppl that u simply arent interested in...unless they fuck u off!-To me it depends on what u like doing,I like the social side of swinging hence i dont have many id block for no particular reason.

btw, tasty pics on profile..pls dont block me...i enjoy a tasty perving!!!"
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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I would say that you're being practical, who is doing the critizising?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what you see fit and use the site as you like, if it works for you it's all good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Use the block how you want to, not how others want you too.

It's like all the other tools on here, use them as you want.

Stop calling me a tool!

Oh look... a spanner calling a tool er... a tool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

couldnt resist mailing...my perviness got the better of me...

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By *orth West Couple OP Couple
over a year ago

liverpool

"I would say that you're being practical, who is doing the critizising?

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A member who we had blocked due to having "Wont Meet Smokers" who we did actually email and give our reasons, rejoined the site using another name and sent us an abusive email, this was forwarded to admin last week and he was removed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i block for the same reasons! there no point in my opinion, in getting pestered with the same shitty messages when im clearly not interested or when they not in age range or have certain things stated like wont meet smokers/fat birds etc x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say that you're being practical, who is doing the critizising?

A member who we had blocked due to having "Wont Meet Smokers" who we did actually email and give our reasons, rejoined the site using another name and sent us an abusive email, this was forwarded to admin last week and he was removed."

It is amazing what some guys will do , to change their preferences at the hint of some fanny...sometime cock lol..."I'm straight, dont meet smokers...mind if I smoke while i suck ur cock"

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"Use the block how you want to, not how others want you too.

It's like all the other tools on here, use them as you want.

Oh you made a senisable comment.. hahah

Meds have just kicked in.... ahhhhhhhh.

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

it a tool so use how you want that's why its there..

just blocked you and NO I'm not telling you why!

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By *ockwell DominusMan
over a year ago

Birstall

Maybe i'm just unlucky on here but I do get quite a few abusive replies to my messages and then blocked before I can reply.

I haven't blocked anyone on here so far as I'd much rather make friends than burn bridges at every turn.

Block me if you wish.....really is your loss

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Rock,

we would not class it as burning bridges ourselves.

have had one liners from guys with no pic, very bare profile in their 70's from the top of Scotland, like wtf is that about?

its a tool as has been said, and there to be used.

ps mrs surrey says 'nice arse'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rock,

we would not class it as burning bridges ourselves.

have had one liners from guys with no pic, very bare profile in their 70's from the top of Scotland, like wtf is that about?

its a tool as has been said, and there to be used.

from scotland but well travelled...Nice thighs!!!

ps mrs surrey says 'nice arse'

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

we only block people who have been rude ,a pain ,or plain creepy...example;a local single guy was our friend on here,until he knew when I [mrs a sexy]had a day off,messages sent like "oh did you enjoy your bike ride today?"and you look lovely in that green top I saw you in etc.he got blocked! we personally wouldnt block someone who didnt meet our preferences though I can see why people do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looks like I am one of those people you have blocked !!!!! lol.

I have no problems with you or anyone else for that matter blocking me,

It can be a bit of a let down if you compile a nice message and you meet the " criteria " of the people you are sending the message to and you still get blocked anyway without even a thanks but no thanks.

But that is your perogative as it is every one else's.

Personally I only block if there is no chance of becoming friends or they are rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never felt the need to block anyone but then I'm not a couple or a single female being bombarded !

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

we answer the vast majority of emails, we receive (about 3 a month lol) as its only polite to do so.

when we get a one liner saying eg. 'like to shag your slut' from someone who joined last week from hundreds of miles away its block and delete.

pretty much the same as not sending cheques to dodgy fuckers in far off places really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we answer the vast majority of emails, we receive (about 3 a month lol) as its only polite to do so.

when we get a one liner saying eg. 'like to shag your slut' from someone who joined last week from hundreds of miles away its block and delete.

pretty much the same as not sending cheques to dodgy fuckers in far off places really. "

am not that far off...but ive a got rich quick scheme

Yours sincerely, NigerianPyramidConsorteum

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

its in the post lol

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

I always asked to be blocked if there is no interest. It's easy to do on the message page or profile page and it's quicker than writing a reply. It also stops me looking like a desperate pest erm I mean over attentive!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

always amuses me when people get uppity when they are blocked..

it saves them contacting you

and you contacting them.

win/win..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your choice, your decision, i block those where a meet hasn't gone well, those that scare me, those that annoy me incredibly and cheaters

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

As others have already said the block tool is to be used as you see fit.

What ever works for you!

Personally we only block someone if they are abusive or if they keep emailing us despite being told several times we are not interested.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

"As others have already said the block tool is to be used as you see fit.

What ever works for you!

Personally we only block someone if they are abusive or if they keep emailing us despite being told several times we are not interested."

Nods agreement.

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By *orth West Couple OP Couple
over a year ago

liverpool

"looks like I am one of those people you have blocked !!!!! lol.

I have no problems with you or anyone else for that matter blocking me,

But that is your perogative as it is every one else's.

Personally I only block if there is no chance of becoming friends or they are rude.

Hi,

We blocked you because we recognised you, you do not live that far away from us, just thought we would say that before blocking you again.....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i dont block people unless they block me...but sometimes i take the blocks off...guess i just like showing my profile off lol....and think ive said before...its amazing that some people change their opinion on u after time and unblock u, possibly meet!!!!

of course blocking fuckwads is rather vital if they are nuisances/aggressive

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"looks like I am one of those people you have blocked !!!!! lol.

I have no problems with you or anyone else for that matter blocking me,

But that is your perogative as it is every one else's.

Personally I only block if there is no chance of becoming friends or they are rude.

Hi,

We blocked you because we recognised you, you do not live that far away from us, just thought we would say that before blocking you again.....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm blocking north west cos they refused to grant me access to private pics, then they teased me about the contents!!!!!-dont they know I'm fragile n horny!!!! lol

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By *orth West Couple OP Couple
over a year ago

liverpool

"I'm blocking north west cos they refused to grant me access to private pics, then they teased me about the contents!!!!!-dont they know I'm fragile n horny!!!! lol

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saves us blocking you, especially after reading the bit on your profile about having sex with Bi-Curious animals.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

saves us blocking you, especially after reading the bit on your profile about having sex with Bi-Curious animals.....

OMG- when I meant bi-pussy i meant women...sorry its a derogitory term but i meant birds,bints,hoes,slags,sluts who are bi!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"looks like I am one of those people you have blocked !!!!! lol.

I have no problems with you or anyone else for that matter blocking me,

But that is your perogative as it is every one else's.

Personally I only block if there is no chance of becoming friends or they are rude.

Hi,

We blocked you because we recognised you, you do not live that far away from us, just thought we would say that before blocking you again.....lol

sometimes it's nice to play with people whi are close lol.

Not to far to travel lol.

I have always wanted to play with someone I know or live close to lol as it seems really sexy to me !!!!

ahhh well can always dream lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"looks like I am one of those people you have blocked !!!!! lol.

I have no problems with you or anyone else for that matter blocking me,

But that is your perogative as it is every one else's.

Personally I only block if there is no chance of becoming friends or they are rude.

Hi,

We blocked you because we recognised you, you do not live that far away from us, just thought we would say that before blocking you again.....lol

sometimes it's nice to play with people whi are close lol.

Not to far to travel lol.

I have always wanted to play with someone I know or live close to lol as it seems really sexy to me !!!!

ahhh well can always dream lol.

forgot to mention your profile is great and you look fantastic !!!!

ok you can block me again now.....

and I didn't recognise you lol.....

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By *orth West Couple OP Couple
over a year ago

liverpool

"looks like I am one of those people you have blocked !!!!! lol.

I have no problems with you or anyone else for that matter blocking me,

But that is your perogative as it is every one else's.

Personally I only block if there is no chance of becoming friends or they are rude.

Hi,

We blocked you because we recognised you, you do not live that far away from us, just thought we would say that before blocking you again.....lol

sometimes it's nice to play with people whi are close lol.

Not to far to travel lol.

I have always wanted to play with someone I know or live close to lol as it seems really sexy to me !!!!

ahhh well can always dream lol.

forgot to mention your profile is great and you look fantastic !!!!

ok you can block me again now.....

and I didn't recognise you lol.....

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you probably didn't recognise me because I seldom walk around with my tits out like my profile photos.....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"looks like I am one of those people you have blocked !!!!! lol.

I have no problems with you or anyone else for that matter blocking me,

But that is your perogative as it is every one else's.

Personally I only block if there is no chance of becoming friends or they are rude.

Hi,

We blocked you because we recognised you, you do not live that far away from us, just thought we would say that before blocking you again.....lol

sometimes it's nice to play with people whi are close lol.

Not to far to travel lol.

I have always wanted to play with someone I know or live close to lol as it seems really sexy to me !!!!

ahhh well can always dream lol.

forgot to mention your profile is great and you look fantastic !!!!

ok you can block me again now.....

and I didn't recognise you lol.....

you probably didn't recognise me because I seldom walk around with my tits out like my profile photos.....lol

ha ha made me laugh that !!! well maybe next time you go to sainsbury's lol.

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By *ndy pandy and looby looCouple
over a year ago

YORK/LEEDS/HARROGATE/EAST COAST/NORTH WALES

Im a fiest Yorkshire woman I block all bi/bi curious/TV/TS/ some smokers/some who just look creepy (to me, may look like Greek God to the next woman)/ sometimes I block because they keep looking and make no contact so I feel "web" stalked. Of course these may be people I meet out and about and have a good laugh with, but I judge on "paper" the new contacts and like anyone reserve the right to block who ever -Im quite sure some who read our dogmatic profile will have blocked me! Its not as if there is a shortage of people on this site. The good ,thebad and the ugly - but we all decide this for ourselves isnt that the point of a profile and photos to have some way of initial sceening.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's already been said blocking is kind of a personal thing !! if you state on your profile what you are looking for and people send messages who are not in your criteria then it's your choice to block and rightly so.

But there can be instances where the messenger does meet your criteria but for whatever reason you don't fancy the person, Do you then block straight away or message them back saying thanks for the message but although you meet our criteria we feel you are not for us !!!

I think I would do that but luckily or not lol I haven't been in that situation.

It's horses for courses do what you think is roight for you and carry on havin fun !!!!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

When I first joined I used to block people who had said no thanks so I didn't bother them again by accident.

Then when I started using the forums I realised it wasn't necessarily a good move as I like to banter with people in PM's.

When you're a site supporter you can see if you've mailed or winked someone before anyway.

I do block single blokes in privacy settings, but only to avoid me having to wade through all the 'straight' and bi blokes in my 'looked at me' list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Use the block how you want to, not how others want you too.

It's like all the other tools on here, use them as you want. "

*Nods in agreement*

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By *acktilMan
over a year ago

Tewkesbury

Only had to block 2 profiles in just over 2 years. Been blocked loads, which sometimes smarts as I'm only ever polite.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Considering ive been on here nearly 3 years and spoken to probably 100s of people my block list is'nt that big really

some people live by the button and some are'nt fussed with it at all,its there to be used if you want to use it

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