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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm wondering if I'm being selfish in that I state that we will only meet couples where the female is bi. Mr SnT seems happy with this but occasionally makes the comment that I get more to play with. But yet when we look at profiles he does dismiss those where the woman is straight.

Mrs SnT

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

The only person whose opinion matters is your partners. If he doesn't feel its selfish then it isn't.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I'm wondering if I'm being selfish in that I state that we will only meet couples where the female is bi. Mr SnT seems happy with this but occasionally makes the comment that I get more to play with. But yet when we look at profiles he does dismiss those where the woman is straight.

Mrs SnT

"

You aren't alone, we will only meet if the female is bi, preferably very bi Its more fun all round that way

If you are both happy with that then that's all that matters

Bun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suspect Mr SnT is messing with you - I'm sure he's quite happy that you get to play with another woman as long as he gets to watch

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I suspect Mr SnT is messing with you - I'm sure he's quite happy that you get to play with another woman as long as he gets to watch "

I think he is to be honest. Especially as when we look at profiles and the lady is straight he will turn to me and say that's no good for you!

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By *ublincouple80Couple
over a year ago

brisbane


"I'm wondering if I'm being selfish in that I state that we will only meet couples where the female is bi. Mr SnT seems happy with this but occasionally makes the comment that I get more to play with. But yet when we look at profiles he does dismiss those where the woman is straight.

Mrs SnT

"

We just aim for bi sexual/curious ladies so that all three can have interactive fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm wondering if I'm being selfish in that I state that we will only meet couples where the female is bi. Mr SnT seems happy with this but occasionally makes the comment that I get more to play with. But yet when we look at profiles he does dismiss those where the woman is straight.

Mrs SnT

"

Not at all, we're exactly the same, neither of us consider playing with another couple where the female is straight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I suspect Mr SnT is messing with you - I'm sure he's quite happy that you get to play with another woman as long as he gets to watch

I think he is to be honest. Especially as when we look at profiles and the lady is straight he will turn to me and say that's no good for you! "

Actually I'm not all that fussed about girl/girl. I've never been that big on lesbian porn. I prefer to see a cock going in and out of a pussy (or another hole).

As long as Mrs SnT is enjoying herself I don't mind.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"The only person whose opinion matters is your partners. If he doesn't feel its selfish then it isn't. "

This

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By *limandtrim300Couple
over a year ago

Ely

We tend to go for the bi fem couples as well..we just prefer to get everyone involved...besides...nothing quite like when your Mrs turns to you and says ..damn she tastes sweet...you should try ...hehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really don't get the obsession on here with bi women,

If a couple are nice looking and we get on who cares if the woman is bi?

It seems ridiculous to us, in fact if we chat to a couple and they are pushing the bi thing it turns us off,

And i don't understand the statement it gets everyone involved, everyone is involved in a full swap why do the women have to play to make it everyone involved

Going off that theory then you should only meet bi couples so the guys can play with each other too, that is everyone involved

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I really don't get the obsession on here with bi women,

If a couple are nice looking and we get on who cares if the woman is bi?

It seems ridiculous to us, in fact if we chat to a couple and they are pushing the bi thing it turns us off,

And i don't understand the statement it gets everyone involved, everyone is involved in a full swap why do the women have to play to make it everyone involved

Going off that theory then you should only meet bi couples so the guys can play with each other too, that is everyone involved"

It's all down to preference. We certainly don't 'push the bi thing' we wouldn't want to play

unless everyone was happy.

Everyone is more involved even in a foursome if both ladies are bi, the ladies can play together in the midst of all the fun.

Why should we meet bi couples, hubby is completely straight, so he wouldn't want to play with the other man/men!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really don't get the obsession on here with bi women,

If a couple are nice looking and we get on who cares if the woman is bi?

It seems ridiculous to us, in fact if we chat to a couple and they are pushing the bi thing it turns us off,

And i don't understand the statement it gets everyone involved, everyone is involved in a full swap why do the women have to play to make it everyone involved

Going off that theory then you should only meet bi couples so the guys can play with each other too, that is everyone involved

It's all down to preference. We certainly don't 'push the bi thing' we wouldn't want to play

unless everyone was happy.

Everyone is more involved even in a foursome if both ladies are bi, the ladies can play together in the midst of all the fun.

Why should we meet bi couples, hubby is completely straight, so he wouldn't want to play with the other man/men!!"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really don't get the obsession on here with bi women,

If a couple are nice looking and we get on who cares if the woman is bi?

It seems ridiculous to us, in fact if we chat to a couple and they are pushing the bi thing it turns us off,

And i don't understand the statement it gets everyone involved, everyone is involved in a full swap why do the women have to play to make it everyone involved

Going off that theory then you should only meet bi couples so the guys can play with each other too, that is everyone involved

It's all down to preference. We certainly don't 'push the bi thing' we wouldn't want to play

unless everyone was happy.

Everyone is more involved even in a foursome if both ladies are bi, the ladies can play together in the midst of all the fun.

Why should we meet bi couples, hubby is completely straight, so he wouldn't want to play with the other man/men!!"

Has you have said everyone is involved in a foursome anyway, so why does bi play make it more so?

People have stated in this thread that girl girl makes it so everyone is involved when that isn't the case if it's a foursome everyone should be involved anyway the bi thing doesn't make people more involved??

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"I really don't get the obsession on here with bi women,

If a couple are nice looking and we get on who cares if the woman is bi?

It seems ridiculous to us, in fact if we chat to a couple and they are pushing the bi thing it turns us off,

And i don't understand the statement it gets everyone involved, everyone is involved in a full swap why do the women have to play to make it everyone involved

Going off that theory then you should only meet bi couples so the guys can play with each other too, that is everyone involved

It's all down to preference. We certainly don't 'push the bi thing' we wouldn't want to play

unless everyone was happy.

Everyone is more involved even in a foursome if both ladies are bi, the ladies can play together in the midst of all the fun.

Why should we meet bi couples, hubby is completely straight, so he wouldn't want to play with the other man/men!!

Has you have said everyone is involved in a foursome anyway, so why does bi play make it more so?

People have stated in this thread that girl girl makes it so everyone is involved when that isn't the case if it's a foursome everyone should be involved anyway the bi thing doesn't make people more involved??"

If the two ladies are bi there are more opportunities for fun if required than a straight swap. For example, the 2 girls can 69 each other whilst the guys fuck them, or they can reach over and kiss or play with each other during play.

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By *limandtrim300Couple
over a year ago

Ely


"I really don't get the obsession on here with bi women,

If a couple are nice looking and we get on who cares if the woman is bi?

It seems ridiculous to us, in fact if we chat to a couple and they are pushing the bi thing it turns us off,

And i don't understand the statement it gets everyone involved, everyone is involved in a full swap why do the women have to play to make it everyone involved

Going off that theory then you should only meet bi couples so the guys can play with each other too, that is everyone involved

It's all down to preference. We certainly don't 'push the bi thing' we wouldn't want to play

unless everyone was happy.

Everyone is more involved even in a foursome if both ladies are bi, the ladies can play together in the midst of all the fun.

Why should we meet bi couples, hubby is completely straight, so he wouldn't want to play with the other man/men!!

Has you have said everyone is involved in a foursome anyway, so why does bi play make it more so?

People have stated in this thread that girl girl makes it so everyone is involved when that isn't the case if it's a foursome everyone should be involved anyway the bi thing doesn't make people more involved??

If the two ladies are bi there are more opportunities for fun if required than a straight swap. For example, the 2 girls can 69 each other whilst the guys fuck them, or they can reach over and kiss or play with each other during play. "

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