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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just want to know if this is a common occurrence... we specifically state that we don't play alone on our profile and it has happened twice to the Princess. Luckily she was suspicious and did not go....

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I'm a bit confused what you mean. If you don't play alone then surely you go together anyway?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Im confused too but then again im barely awake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how can someone trick you into meetin alone?

you either do meet alone or you dont, if you dont you just say no, no matter what they say, really dont see how you can get tricked into doing someone you dont do?

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By *oupleup4funCouple
over a year ago

Ashton

How can you be tricked into going to a meet alone when you only play as a couple?

Does you other half sleep walk?

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

... joins the confused queue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds to me like shes arranging meets behind his back and claiming shes been 'tricked' when cought out lol

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By *roovytwoCouple
over a year ago

burnley

Not happened to us but we have nearly been "caught out" where we have been contacted by a couple who seem genuine but then dont want to speak fem to fem on the phone....?? single guy posing as a couple?

We have met other couples where this has happened to them and they have turned up for a meet only to be told that the female couldnt make it for various reasons but now that they were together why not have some fun

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

All aboard the confused bus!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Glad it's not just me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just read that back and you're right, it makes no sense! Sorry!!

Hubby is away at the moment and although we do not play alone, if she feels comfortable the Princess will meet girls or the girl half of a couple just for coffee (somewhere public) to get to know them before playing. It is made clear from the beginning that this is the case. Twice now it has been implied that it would be the wife/gf of a couple she is meeting and it isn't, then they have decided they want her to go to their house instead..

Just strikes us as being a bit dishonest....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you dont play alone how can she be tricked into meets?? confused.com

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

I know what you mean, and it has been tried on many times, apparently a couple takes an interest in meeting me, and when we arrange it, all of a sudden the female is ill or some other excuse, this happens too many times to be just coincidence, some even leave it until you actually get to the meet to tell you, at which point I turn around and go home, take care all, hugz, xxxx

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Just read that back and you're right, it makes no sense! Sorry!!

Hubby is away at the moment and although we do not play alone, if she feels comfortable the Princess will meet girls or the girl half of a couple just for coffee (somewhere public) to get to know them before playing. It is made clear from the beginning that this is the case. Twice now it has been implied that it would be the wife/gf of a couple she is meeting and it isn't, then they have decided they want her to go to their house instead..

Just strikes us as being a bit dishonest.... "

I find the way you write about yourselves very strange.

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By *oupleup4funCouple
over a year ago

Ashton


"Just read that back and you're right, it makes no sense! Sorry!!

Hubby is away at the moment and although we do not play alone, if she feels comfortable the Princess will meet girls or the girl half of a couple just for coffee (somewhere public) to get to know them before playing. It is made clear from the beginning that this is the case. Twice now it has been implied that it would be the wife/gf of a couple she is meeting and it isn't, then they have decided they want her to go to their house instead..

Just strikes us as being a bit dishonest....

I find the way you write about yourselves very strange. "

Agreed, talking about yourself as the other is strange..

Ever heard of a mobile phone or web cam to prove the fem is for real? Having been on this site more than a year, those 2 things are a must otherwise the fakers will win every time...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are very new to this whole thing, but think using the cam etc will be a must from now on.

Sorry for the confusion and thanks for your replies!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Talk on the phone too, getting a play phone means you dont need to worry abuot giving away your number to all and sundry and no gen couple will refuse the request for the girls to chat.

Oh and only gollum can get away with referring to themselves in the third person.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I looked at the username and thought single lady

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Something similar. When I first joined this site I was messaged by a guy that didn't do anythign for me so I didn't reply. He then sent a message full of abuse so i blocked him. I was then messaged by a woman who wanted to meet, but because she didn't like going into town would prefer to meet at hers, although just for a cofee to start with. She also suggested that, if all went well, her husband could watch and maybe join in. Cut a long story short, I found out her husband was the guy who was abusive. So glad my intuition went off with her!

He has since been in touch under a new profile and I recognised him. They both had profiles as singles and one as a couple, so I guess he used her to lure in the single women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" and only gollum can get away with referring to themselves in the third person."

Good point there.... wasn't sure on wording and it was early!

Sorry!

P x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All aboard the confused bus! "

One ticket for me please (dont be tricking me now)

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

...would put a lid on even thinking about meeting anyone initially at 'their place' that is so risky for a female and tbh for a guy also.

go with the good advise from previous posters, use pics or cam etc.

or wait till he is back and go together

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hubby is away at the moment and although we do not play alone, if she feels comfortable the Princess will meet girls or the girl half of a couple just for coffee (somewhere public) to get to know them before playing. It is made clear from the beginning that this is the case. Twice now it has been implied that it would be the wife/gf of a couple she is meeting and it isn't, then they have decided they want her to go to their house instead.."

Always always always meet in a public place first, if meeting alone. There is nothing more important than your own safety. If you you think you're meeting a female, she would understand your need to protect your personal safety .... being asked to switch a proposed 'social meet' to someone's home is highly suspiscious. If 'she' has babysitting problems (for example) just reschedule the social meet for a more convenient time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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why you take that off i loved it i was right there xxx lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't bloody believe it, typed a gret long post on my phone and sodding deleted it by mistake, I'm really annoyed now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't bloody believe it, typed a gret long post on my phone and sodding deleted it by mistake, I'm really annoyed now "
was really good too like a fairy tale with a twist x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right second time

You can be tricked into playing alone as it happened to me last week

I was at home on a sat afternoon and I heard a strange tinkling noise outside. On inspection I saw what looked suspiciously like the childcatcher from Chitty Chitty Bang Bang standing next to a covered carriage. When he saw me peeking he said 'hello lovely lady, come and see my collection of shoes, I have Louboutin's, Manolo's, Westwood and McQueen, beautiful shoes, all size 3 and all free today. I tried to resist but couldn't and when I got nearer he grabbed me, pushed me into the carriage, which was really a cage with wrist restraints and he said 'I'm really a swinger and I am going to play with you alone.

A strange thing happened and all my clothes fell off, but it was all done in the best possible taste.

It can happen so all be careful

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By *oupleup4funCouple
over a year ago

Ashton


"I don't bloody believe it, typed a gret long post on my phone and sodding deleted it by mistake, I'm really annoyed now was really good too like a fairy tale with a twist x"

Now we are intrigued as to what the story was?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PMSL, I’ve lost count of how many times the female half of couples I was meant to be meeting would unexpectedly and unavoidably be unable to attend at the last minute,

Only to be left with a situation to either call time on the meet, or take the other option to play alone with the guy half, who would always elaborately apologise whilst protesting how disappointed his absent female partner would be feeling at not being able to join in what she'd been so looking forward too ,,,,...sigh....

So there I'd be,,,nodding my head,,, going ,,,,.like yeah,,, yeah,,,,, yeah…. .....Like I'd just keep nodding and going yeah yeah,, yeah,... yeah... until I say….oh… ffs, Shur-rup and stick ya cock in me gob...

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Right second time

You can be tricked into playing alone as it happened to me last week

I was at home on a sat afternoon and I heard a strange tinkling noise outside. On inspection I saw what looked suspiciously like the childcatcher from Chitty Chitty Bang Bang standing next to a covered carriage. When he saw me peeking he said 'hello lovely lady, come and see my collection of shoes, I have Louboutin's, Manolo's, Westwood and McQueen, beautiful shoes, all size 3 and all free today. I tried to resist but couldn't and when I got nearer he grabbed me, pushed me into the carriage, which was really a cage with wrist restraints and he said 'I'm really a swinger and I am going to play with you alone.

A strange thing happened and all my clothes fell off, but it was all done in the best possible taste.

It can happen so all be careful

"

Sounds great!!! Did you take pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course!!!

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I've been tricked into meeting alone.

They distracted my mum as I was chatting and whisked me off before she knew what was happening.

I take my Auntie May to sit shogun now as well.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I understand what your saying now, but surely to arrange a girly meet for a coffee you would do it over the phone with the other fem

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