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By *rbrandon OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

I see lots of profiles saying that "if kissing is not for you we are not looking for you"

Is there really anybody here who doesn't want to kiss while having sex? I mean it is impossible for me to not to start with a kiss

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/573174

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it is impossible for me to not to start with a kiss "

You are an unicorn my mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people don't like kissing, they find it too intimate. I love a good kiss it's a massive turn on for me! Only when it's done right though.

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By *rbrandon OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge


"it is impossible for me to not to start with a kiss

You are an unicorn my mate "

a bearded unicorn mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ewww, cooties!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it is impossible for me to not to start with a kiss

You are an unicorn my mate

a bearded unicorn mate"

And a cute one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see lots of profiles saying that "if kissing is not for you we are not looking for you"

Is there really anybody here who doesn't want to kiss while having sex? I mean it is impossible for me to not to start with a kiss "

yup.. some of us dont find it the be all and end all and has bugger all to do with being to intimate.. I just find it a turn off with other men.. yet adore kissing Mr and him kissing another lady. I also dont like other guys going down on me all that much.. would rather get straight to sucking cock.. and funny never really had an issue on here. And can't remember the last time a guy in a club actually tried to kiss me.

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By *rbrandon OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge


"it is impossible for me to not to start with a kiss

You are an unicorn my mate

a bearded unicorn mate

And a cute one "

I am not gonna kiss you mate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it is impossible for me to not to start with a kiss

You are an unicorn my mate

a bearded unicorn mate

And a cute one

I am not gonna kiss you mate lol"

What abt kissing my bearded penis though ?

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

*Puts hand up*

Me! I'm not a fan of kissing others!

We don't make it a rule as such, but kissing other guys doesn't do anything for me and I will often turn away unconsciously.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Puts hand up*

Me! I'm not a fan of kissing others!

We don't make it a rule as such, but kissing other guys doesn't do anything for me and I will often turn away unconsciously.

- Amy. x"

this is me.. It isnt a rule just something I avoid often without trying to. X but I find its a rare thing to need to avoid

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By *rbrandon OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge


"it is impossible for me to not to start with a kiss

You are an unicorn my mate

a bearded unicorn mate

And a cute one

I am not gonna kiss you mate lol

What abt kissing my bearded penis though ? "

What kind of a straight man are you lol

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By *ureTemptationWoman
over a year ago

Off the grid

I love kissing. It's the best bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't want to kiss you if we meet. In fact you don't even need to make contact whilst we have sex.

Come to think of it, don't bother meeting me,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good kiss gets me more aroused than an earlobe suck

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Well like anything, its each to their own. But we wouldnt meet people that dont kiss. Its a big turn on for both of us. Some people keep things just for themselves, i.e. for us its anal and cumming in her mouth. But if everybody liked the same thing it wouldnt be as much fun. Jack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see lots of profiles saying that "if kissing is not for you we are not looking for you"

Is there really anybody here who doesn't want to kiss while having sex? I mean it is impossible for me to not to start with a kiss yup.. some of us dont find it the be all and end all and has bugger all to do with being to intimate.. I just find it a turn off with other men.. yet adore kissing Mr and him kissing another lady. I also dont like other guys going down on me all that much.. would rather get straight to sucking cock.. and funny never really had an issue on here. And can't remember the last time a guy in a club actually tried to kiss me. "

My wife loves me kissing her and no one else but loves me getting sucked off ! Just preference really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it is impossible for me to not to start with a kiss

You are an unicorn my mate

a bearded unicorn mate

And a cute one

I am not gonna kiss you mate lol

What abt kissing my bearded penis though ?

What kind of a straight man are you lol"

One of the best haha

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By *rbrandon OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge

Well. Hello!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fan of kissing actually and prefer not to on a meet

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"*Puts hand up*

Me! I'm not a fan of kissing others!

We don't make it a rule as such, but kissing other guys doesn't do anything for me and I will often turn away unconsciously.

- Amy. x

this is me.. It isnt a rule just something I avoid often without trying to. X but I find its a rare thing to need to avoid "

Oh, I seem to have to avoid it all the time, lol.

Bradley's kisses send chills all over my body and I guess that because that doesn't happen with anyone else, kissing other people bores me and I actually find it a turn off.

It's like watching paint dry and even worse if they're a terrible kisser!

- Amy. x

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"it is impossible for me to not to start with a kiss

You are an unicorn my mate

a bearded unicorn mate

And a cute one

I am not gonna kiss you mate lol

What abt kissing my bearded penis though ?

What kind of a straight man are you lol"

Dunno. But can I watch??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing no play

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Love a good snog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some girls don't like to be kissed to feel like a fuck toy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some girls don't like to be kissed to feel like a fuck toy"
i dont want to feel like a fuck toy. I just dont get good feelings when someone I have no connection with kisses me. X

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Count me as one who loves kissing. I doubd I could have sex without some build up, and that almost always means kissing and touching.

I fail to see how kissing is too imtimate for someone who has had my tongue or cock inside her....but to each their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Count me as one who loves kissing. I doubd I could have sex without some build up, and that almost always means kissing and touching.

I fail to see how kissing is too imtimate for someone who has had my tongue or cock inside her....but to each their own."

and this is where your failing to grasp the point.. for most it isnt to intimate but a preference same as not wanting cum in mouth or anal....

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"Count me as one who loves kissing. I doubd I could have sex without some build up, and that almost always means kissing and touching.

I fail to see how kissing is too imtimate for someone who has had my tongue or cock inside her....but to each their own. and this is where your failing to grasp the point.. for most it isnt to intimate but a preference same as not wanting cum in mouth or anal.... "

A lot of people state that they feel kissing is too intimate for a casual encounter. That is the phrase that I have seen, here and elsewhere.

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

I adore kissing and it's a huge turn on for me. However, if when I kiss with someone and it "doesn't feel right" ( whatever that means!) it's equally a huge turn off.

Contrary, I know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta be able to kiss, slow and sensual to start with

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"I love kissing. It's the best bit."

I wouldn't quite go that far, but kissing certainly enhances the whole experience. I don't get the argument that kissing is too intimate but apparently giving oral is fine. I would think that was the wrong way round.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

If people could try the idea 'Maybe some people prefer different things to me' , it would help lots of these things.

We kiss, and realise others don't or do a little. It's no biggy either way for us.

Also remember saying 'no kissing wouldn't work in a meet' - well is that equally true in all combinations of mf, mmf, ffm, mfmf ? The dynamic is different in them all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day we all like different things. It would be a boring place if we did. We just have to respect one another's wishes. If I met a guy and he said no kissing then fair enough but I would state that I kiss and things would not progress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bloody love a good snog as long as it is good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is the thing that gets me going the most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Count me as one who loves kissing. I doubd I could have sex without some build up, and that almost always means kissing and touching.

I fail to see how kissing is too imtimate for someone who has had my tongue or cock inside her....but to each their own. and this is where your failing to grasp the point.. for most it isnt to intimate but a preference same as not wanting cum in mouth or anal.... "

Yes if someone is not partial to kissing, or only enjoys kissing with people they really fancy, then it is indeed a preference. But I think a lot of people who don't kiss on the swing scene, the reason seems to be, more often than not, associated with not wanting to be too intimate.

Mrs

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"At the end of the day we all like different things. It would be a boring place if we did. We just have to respect one another's wishes. If I met a guy and he said no kissing then fair enough but I would state that I kiss and things would not progress "

As a generalisation, I think 'no kissing' generally comes from couples, not from singles. Not exclusively of course, but mostly.

Lots of couples have some aspects that they keep just for themselves, this is one of them in some cases.

We are happy either way on this one, but that seems to be when it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bring back the comedian, or next time you'll be finding yourself sitting at home listening to Pink Floyd alone...

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne


"I love kissing. It's the best bit."

Couldn't agree more. No kissing and I'm out of there, I can't have sex without snogging

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

No kissing no point x

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"I love kissing. It's the best bit."

love kissing as well

So you see OP there's a mix of people here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the end of the day we all like different things. It would be a boring place if we did. We just have to respect one another's wishes. If I met a guy and he said no kissing then fair enough but I would state that I kiss and things would not progress

As a generalisation, I think 'no kissing' generally comes from couples, not from singles. Not exclusively of course, but mostly.

Lots of couples have some aspects that they keep just for themselves, this is one of them in some cases.

We are happy either way on this one, but that seems to be when it happens."

I think you are right, it's more likely to be couples. So if you have couples playing together at a least everybody can kiss their respective partner. It's probably more difficult for a single joining a couple, and the couple kissing each other and the extra person feeling as an extra when there's nobody for him/her to kiss. Of course that single person doesn't have to agree to the arrangement.

Mrs

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"At the end of the day we all like different things. It would be a boring place if we did. We just have to respect one another's wishes. If I met a guy and he said no kissing then fair enough but I would state that I kiss and things would not progress

As a generalisation, I think 'no kissing' generally comes from couples, not from singles. Not exclusively of course, but mostly.

Lots of couples have some aspects that they keep just for themselves, this is one of them in some cases.

We are happy either way on this one, but that seems to be when it happens.

I think you are right, it's more likely to be couples. So if you have couples playing together at a least everybody can kiss their respective partner. It's probably more difficult for a single joining a couple, and the couple kissing each other and the extra person feeling as an extra when there's nobody for him/her to kiss. Of course that single person doesn't have to agree to the arrangement.

Mrs"

True.

As a 3some, we've only done ffm, and there was LOTS of kissing.

mmf I don't know, only experience of this would be at clubs, but the guys there didn't seem overly concerned about kissing, they tend to hold out their cocks, not their lips...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the end of the day we all like different things. It would be a boring place if we did. We just have to respect one another's wishes. If I met a guy and he said no kissing then fair enough but I would state that I kiss and things would not progress

As a generalisation, I think 'no kissing' generally comes from couples, not from singles. Not exclusively of course, but mostly.

Lots of couples have some aspects that they keep just for themselves, this is one of them in some cases.

We are happy either way on this one, but that seems to be when it happens.

I think you are right, it's more likely to be couples. So if you have couples playing together at a least everybody can kiss their respective partner. It's probably more difficult for a single joining a couple, and the couple kissing each other and the extra person feeling as an extra when there's nobody for him/her to kiss. Of course that single person doesn't have to agree to the arrangement.

Mrs

True.

As a 3some, we've only done ffm, and there was LOTS of kissing.

mmf I don't know, only experience of this would be at clubs, but the guys there didn't seem overly concerned about kissing, they tend to hold out their cocks, not their lips... "

We tend to do MMF threesomes. Both will kiss me but the guys won't kiss each other. So everybody gets to kiss but I get to kiss 2 people! So I'm lucky But that's digressing.

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By *rbrandon OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge


"it is impossible for me to not to start with a kiss

You are an unicorn my mate

a bearded unicorn mate

And a cute one

I am not gonna kiss you mate lol

What abt kissing my bearded penis though ?

What kind of a straight man are you lol

Dunno. But can I watch?? "

Ok here is the deal. We will be there with you won't kiss each other but we both will kiss you and you can watch yourself on mirror. Deal? Lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I see lots of profiles saying that "if kissing is not for you we are not looking for you"

Is there really anybody here who doesn't want to kiss while having sex? I mean it is impossible for me to not to start with a kiss "

Yes there are people who don't want to kiss .

There have been a couple of these threads lately and they've been quite interesting.

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By *rbrandon OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I see lots of profiles saying that "if kissing is not for you we are not looking for you"

Is there really anybody here who doesn't want to kiss while having sex? I mean it is impossible for me to not to start with a kiss

Yes there are people who don't want to kiss .

There have been a couple of these threads lately and they've been quite interesting."

People people people

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I see lots of profiles saying that "if kissing is not for you we are not looking for you"

Is there really anybody here who doesn't want to kiss while having sex? I mean it is impossible for me to not to start with a kiss "

People are different, you realise that right? I can take it or leave it. Certainly wouldn't question the preferences of others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

each to their own, for me kissing is a must on a meet

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester

We don't kiss the guys we meet. Never have never will.

But if ocd kisses another lady that is totaly different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the problem with kissing, you ask? Done well, it leads to all sorts of passionate and sensual debauchery! And who wants that? Eh?!

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By *rbrandon OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I see lots of profiles saying that "if kissing is not for you we are not looking for you"

Is there really anybody here who doesn't want to kiss while having sex? I mean it is impossible for me to not to start with a kiss

People are different, you realise that right? I can take it or leave it. Certainly wouldn't question the preferences of others."

What's your opinion then?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Oh I love a good make out session

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing a must to lead to sex .. however I could give a blow job without kissing first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay, so in all seriousness, I would probably struggle with sex and no kissing. My libido seems to have an almost physical link to my lips. I know not everyone has it high on the agenda, but if the lady is hoping for intimacy with me, then the kissing is important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore kissing and I wouldn't ever consider having sex with anyone that wouldn't kiss me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good snog with a man is a huge turn on. Really gets me in the mood. I don't think I could have sex without it starting with a great kiss

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Okay, so in all seriousness, I would probably struggle with sex and no kissing. My libido seems to have an almost physical link to my lips. I know not everyone has it high on the agenda, but if the lady is hoping for intimacy with me, then the kissing is important. "

Good to know

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By *rbrandon OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge


"A good snog with a man is a huge turn on. Really gets me in the mood. I don't think I could have sex without it starting with a great kiss"

Olé!!!

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By *rbrandon OP   Man
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I adore kissing and I wouldn't ever consider having sex with anyone that wouldn't kiss me."

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton


"Kissing a must to lead to sex .. however I could give a blow job without kissing first. "

Can I take you up on that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I say it quite eloquently on my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of people don't like kissing, they find it too intimate. I love a good kiss it's a massive turn on for me! Only when it's done right though. "

I've often found this a little odd - that some consider Kissing to be too intimate - oh, but fucking isn't.

That said, I do kinda understand their point of view - to a degree.

I guess it's a way of keeping at least a part of their intimacy just between them.

Personally, I prefer to include kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of people don't like kissing, they find it too intimate. I love a good kiss it's a massive turn on for me! Only when it's done right though.

I've often found this a little odd - that some consider Kissing to be too intimate - oh, but fucking isn't.

That said, I do kinda understand their point of view - to a degree.

I guess it's a way of keeping at least a part of their intimacy just between them.

Personally, I prefer to include kissing"

Kissing is a hell of a lot more intimate in my opinion than having sex is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see lots of profiles saying that "if kissing is not for you we are not looking for you"

Is there really anybody here who doesn't want to kiss while having sex? I mean it is impossible for me to not to start with a kiss "

I'm with you on this , how can you not kiss ? Nothing more intimate than having sex anyway, a good long kiss while explore with hands is always a good starter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see lots of profiles saying that "if kissing is not for you we are not looking for you"

Is there really anybody here who doesn't want to kiss while having sex? I mean it is impossible for me to not to start with a kiss "

I been with a couple who loved to kiss and another couple who didn't want to. Upto the individual and how the mood is.

Always bruch my teeth just incase

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

everyone is entitled to their opinion on kissing.

Its a mistake to assume that people who choose not to kiss always do so for reasons of intimacy though. They choose not to kiss for various reasons and as long as they make it clear so that nobody who finds kissing vital meets them its all good, surely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple. If they don't want to kiss me they don't get to fuck me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's all about the kiss, that's what makes me either want to go further or stop altogether. And if the kiss fires me up then I'd happily kiss for hours..... kissing

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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago

Ashford kent


"I love kissing. It's the best bit."

Couldn't agree more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Puts hand up*

Me! I'm not a fan of kissing others!

We don't make it a rule as such, but kissing other guys doesn't do anything for me and I will often turn away unconsciously.

- Amy. x"

Agree. I seldom kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"everyone is entitled to their opinion on kissing.

Its a mistake to assume that people who choose not to kiss always do so for reasons of intimacy though. They choose not to kiss for various reasons and as long as they make it clear so that nobody who finds kissing vital meets them its all good, surely.

"

I guess people assume it's for reasons of intimacy because on these threads those who have no kissing as a preference tend to say it's for reasons of intimacy. No doubt that is not the only reason for this preference. Indeed I've noticed some people say they don't really enjoy kissing people who they are not fond of. I think the majority of people respect no kissing as a personal choice and preference. It's more curiosity that drives these threads.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see lots of profiles saying that "if kissing is not for you we are not looking for you"

Is there really anybody here who doesn't want to kiss while having sex? I mean it is impossible for me to not to start with a kiss "

we met a couple who didn't kiss and it just felt very awkward

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Kissing is my way of vetting guys I suppose. Good kissing is amazing and usually means the skill is transferable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me passionate kissing is too intimate in a NSA sex session. I admit it can be a turn on but it also start emotions running.

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

I dont kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lots of people don't like kissing, they find it too intimate. I love a good kiss it's a massive turn on for me! Only when it's done right though.

I've often found this a little odd - that some consider Kissing to be too intimate - oh, but fucking isn't.

That said, I do kinda understand their point of view - to a degree.

I guess it's a way of keeping at least a part of their intimacy just between them.

Personally, I prefer to include kissing

Kissing is a hell of a lot more intimate in my opinion than having sex is."

I think completely the opposite way. It's interesting how we all view things differently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Simple. If they don't want to kiss me they don't get to fuck me."

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By *ingAlMan
over a year ago

hereford

Kissing while slowly fucking, can't beat it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me passionate kissing is too intimate in a NSA sex session. I admit it can be a turn on but it also start emotions running. "

Yes I can relate to that. If really passionate kissing is included as part of sex, I will probably leave the experience having developed 'feelings' to a certain extent. For me I enjoy having feelings for my NSA partners, but I do understand that this can be difficult.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I flat out refuse to kiss a guy because it feels like they're trying to eat my face rather than trying to make is sensual, which is why I only kiss fellow dressers

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"Lots of people don't like kissing, they find it too intimate. I love a good kiss it's a massive turn on for me! Only when it's done right though.

I've often found this a little odd - that some consider Kissing to be too intimate - oh, but fucking isn't.

That said, I do kinda understand their point of view - to a degree.

I guess it's a way of keeping at least a part of their intimacy just between them.

Personally, I prefer to include kissing

Kissing is a hell of a lot more intimate in my opinion than having sex is.

I think completely the opposite way. It's interesting how we all view things differently "

This. To try and explain it, I can easily separate sex and love and fuck someone I don't have feelings for. It's an animalistic thing for me.

However, I would have no natural inclination to kiss somebody I didn't love.

So to me, kissing is much more intimate than sex.

- Amy. x

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over a year ago

Like to kiss it sets of the spark and sex is better

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over a year ago


"If people could try the idea 'Maybe some people prefer different things to me' , it would help lots of these things.

We kiss, and realise others don't or do a little. It's no biggy either way for us.

Also remember saying 'no kissing wouldn't work in a meet' - well is that equally true in all combinations of mf, mmf, ffm, mfmf ? The dynamic is different in them all."

Exactly this...in a group situation at parties I've never once had any man insist on me kissing him before I suck his cock...

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