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By *itmanAndHerr OP   Couple
over a year ago

st helens

What do you prefer?

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

home visit, cost me less lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Home

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I like both! Clubs are great for socialising - but if I'm meeting someone so hot I just don't want to share - or someone who's not into clubs - then I'll meet at theirs or a hotel!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are not our thing at all but socials followed by hotel room or theirs yes please

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Only ever clubs for us - we like to keep our real life and swinging life totally separate. Besides which clubs help us avoid the "timewasters" that people complain about, and we can see what people really look like before we commit to playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *aughtypair555Couple
over a year ago

north west

Hotel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer home, because it is free and you dont need to travel

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"I prefer home, because it is free and you dont need to travel "

And if you can't get home - bushes in or around Penge will suffice eh shag?

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Home visit to mine. More garantee of a snog grope or more. Clubs not a garantee of anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither. Hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer home, because it is free and you dont need to travel

And if you can't get home - bushes in or around Penge will suffice eh shag? "
That is right it will and there are few bushes in penge, to do it in lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are all home but I am looking forward to my first club visit in the new year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both although we've not been to a club together as yet. We plan to go in the new year

Kinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Home play for us, tried clubs and didn't like them, we couldn't relax and feel comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to a club ... utility would like to try it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....mainly homeplay for us as there are no clubs nearest to us for us to visit as we live in 'the back of bejond' in norwich lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have only met in clubs so far but would like to try private meets in someone's home, we can't accommodate at present.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for an arranged play meet I don't like the constrictions of clubs..swing clubs are great for social interaction for me but I don't find them good environments to play in, I don't fund them a particular turn on so it depends.

club for a night out and a bit of a social.

home for play

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"What do you prefer?"

Although I can accommodate , plus I'm not shy so I'm more than capable of attending clubs and playing round a friends house is good for keeping things regular .

I by far prefer a nice hotel meet not one of the big chains think four star and upwards think gourmet restaurant standard food chilled atmosphere.

Its the naughty secret of everyone thinking me and my play partner are a normal couple when in reality we are far from that that adds to the vibe and often means I bring my true A game to the table .

In fact 6 out of my ten most memorable meets where such motel meets so as I'm looking for memorable meets its hardly surprising that I like hotel meets above all others .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel for us due to experience we had when we had our first social meet with a lady off here and invited her to our house. It was a last minute arrangement said she would arrive by 7 turned up at half 8 extremely inebriated and she had driven. Went out for a few drinks and to chat got back to ours and she was going to drive home which we couldn't let her so said she could sleep in our spare room. Spent nearly all night awake as she was a smoker and in her d*unken state was worried she would light a cigarette and set fire to our house needless to say we never met her again.

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By *andsonjohnMan
over a year ago

in the eye of the storm


"Hotel for us due to experience we had when we had our first social meet with a lady off here and invited her to our house. It was a last minute arrangement said she would arrive by 7 turned up at half 8 extremely inebriated and she had driven. Went out for a few drinks and to chat got back to ours and she was going to drive home which we couldn't let her so said she could sleep in our spare room. Spent nearly all night awake as she was a smoker and in her d*unken state was worried she would light a cigarette and set fire to our house needless to say we never met her again. "

Bloody hell

You'd be surprised by how many similar tales to that I've heard .

Even heard of one fella turning up at a couples house uninvited looking to play after they had played with him a week earlier .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

either - had brill times at both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotels usually, thought really wanting to venture into the club scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotel for us due to experience we had when we had our first social meet with a lady off here and invited her to our house. It was a last minute arrangement said she would arrive by 7 turned up at half 8 extremely inebriated and she had driven. Went out for a few drinks and to chat got back to ours and she was going to drive home which we couldn't let her so said she could sleep in our spare room. Spent nearly all night awake as she was a smoker and in her d*unken state was worried she would light a cigarette and set fire to our house needless to say we never met her again.

Bloody hell

You'd be surprised by how many similar tales to that I've heard .

Even heard of one fella turning up at a couples house uninvited looking to play after they had played with him a week earlier . "

Cheeky bugger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs if we are in a social mood but for a more intense fuck private

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To meet new people probably a club...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hotel for us due to experience we had when we had our first social meet with a lady off here and invited her to our house. It was a last minute arrangement said she would arrive by 7 turned up at half 8 extremely inebriated and she had driven. Went out for a few drinks and to chat got back to ours and she was going to drive home which we couldn't let her so said she could sleep in our spare room. Spent nearly all night awake as she was a smoker and in her d*unken state was worried she would light a cigarette and set fire to our house needless to say we never met her again. "

we dont give or receive all night sleep overs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been to a club ... utility would like to try it "
. Oh you must try one we love chams its a nice place there's a bbw party on the 18th get your name down (Kat) xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you prefer?"
club.. we can't accommodate and if we go to someone elses then the expectations are huge.. and obviously we get no time just us after.

Clubs or a hotel that we are stopping at is much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only ever clubs for us - we like to keep our real life and swinging life totally separate. Besides which clubs help us avoid the "timewasters" that people complain about, and we can see what people really look like before we commit to playing."

This is our preference too, we choose not to accommodate as we want to keep this part of our life separate. We would perhaps consider hotel meets if we were away but think this may be more spur of the moment than planned a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play in clubs however we have been to a few peoples houses and we have had one meet at our home hoping a certain someone will join us soon (Kat) xx

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

More relaxed at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are good for socialising, but prefer home.

Less stress and effort. More comfort. More personal to really enjoy each other. And the 20 entry can be spent on food and drink or a gift instead lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we like a mix of both , but find clubs much easier as you get to see them from the start instead of loads of pics and messages, also at a club they are already there so no worrys about them not turning up for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Home, more intimate, relaxing and fun and you know the intention to play of the people you are visiting (if they Iike you!!) in a club turning up with no meet arranged is a lottery at best, people there with no intention to play, people arranged meets, people unable to communicate xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs till we know people then both homes or clubs are fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer the intimacy of home but clubs are good fun at times, especially for group sex as the beds are bigger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love the excitement of clubs but also host our own home parties so a bit of variety for us. Also, like to have a single man around for threesome fun.

Mr

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By *entenTeaCouple
over a year ago

Buckley North Wales

So far its only been clubs. We can never accomadate, also we are hot tub fans so even if we dont play with some else we still get some spa and chill time. But if it feels right we might go for meet up at some ones home if we know them quite well.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Both are fun in different ways xx

Home is nice to focus on one person but I love thatvin clubs you have the choice for group play too

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By *itmanAndHerr OP   Couple
over a year ago

st helens


"Clubs till we know people then both homes or clubs are fine."

Sounds sensible and probably more comforting for the single female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club visit only. Would never visit a random off here and certainly wouldn't have them round to mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer club at the moment but never say never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So far its only been clubs. We can never accomadate, also we are hot tub fans so even if we dont play with some else we still get some spa and chill time. But if it feels right we might go for meet up at some ones home if we know them quite well."

We totally agree with you on this

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By *ubik cubeMan
over a year ago

Near Liverpool

I prefer to host a meet as if I may say so I have a nice clean, comfortable house that people love come to. It's just a pity due to weirdos people aren't confident and comfortable with attending a house. But I understand and once they get to know me there's no further issue

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Clubs for the initial meet or when we feel like a hot tub and social.

Private meets and hotel maybe for people we have met previous or for those that we've met at socials etc that don't enjoy the club environment. Though we do try and talk them into trying the vanilla alternative before they rule out all clubs lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer meeting in clubs first and then if we get in at either home. We have tried home meets before and held fantastic parties, but a couple of home meets first have turned out disasterious, and whilst Mr is happy to do it again, I am not really, so we as a couple prefer clubs (or a couple of socials first at least)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs only for us, our first ever meet was at someone's house and the couple drank too much and ended up fighting with each other it was extremely awkward to just leave - plus they had kids upstairs which really puts us off. We would never meet at ours as firstly you'd have to get past the dogs but mainly because swinging and home life are totally separate for us and if we didn't take to someone how do you say no thanks when they're in your house?! At least in clubs it's not a wasted night if you don't have any playtime or get on with anyone as you can enjoy the social side of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you prefer?"
Home everytime ! Or there's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Home. . Haven't been brave enough to go to a club yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to be private meets as a preference, but found them to be far too much hassle to arrange, too unpredictable as to how they would go, and far too limiting and restricting.

Our free time is limited and rare, so for a guaranteed fun filled evening we prefer club meets now in the main.

Tend to only do private meets with those we have already met before, although if a profile really does catch our eye, there's always that possibility

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer hotels the most

Clubs are fun but i prefer more

private meet but i feel far more relaxed in a hotel rather than going to people's homes

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By *carletcoupleCouple
over a year ago

manchester

So far only home for us, mainly ours but occasionally theirs. We may do a club at some point who knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer home visits but like clubs once in a while

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By *itmanAndHerr OP   Couple
over a year ago

st helens


"So far only home for us, mainly ours but occasionally theirs. We may do a club at some point who knows. "

A question for those who don't go to clubs...

Where have you found your meets? Are they all from Fab or are we missing something?

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"So far only home for us, mainly ours but occasionally theirs. We may do a club at some point who knows.

A question for those who don't go to clubs...

Where have you found your meets? Are they all from Fab or are we missing something?

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There are one or two other websites like fabs that require a fee. In our experience they're not much different to here apart from one maybe.

What you guys are looking for will be found much easier in a club. If you don't want to do that then patience and persistance will be required and a lot of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only ever clubs for us - we like to keep our real life and swinging life totally separate. Besides which clubs help us avoid the "timewasters" that people complain about, and we can see what people really look like before we commit to playing.

This is our preference too, we choose not to accommodate as we want to keep this part of our life separate. We would perhaps consider hotel meets if we were away but think this may be more spur of the moment than planned a meet"

Over the past 3 years we have found that home or hotel meets only work for us when we know the play partners very very well - meets at clubs work much better for us as when we step into the club we are leaving the real world behind for a few hours of fun and frolics - this puts us at our ease and the club environment then creates the best atmosphere for us to indulge ourselves

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By *nmgCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Clubs for us every time.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Club but I wish we had some nearer!

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By *bs37Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Both !

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

Has to be club as wife won't use our house . She likes to keep our swinging life separate. And as someone else has said it s out no shows and time wasters , oh and she gets a choice of more guys or women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single guy I prefer home or hotel meets as clubs are quite daunting for a guy on his own.

I much prefer to relax, take time to flirt and then get the bed bouncing.

It gives you more choices too. You can fall asleep and go again or you can really go for a long session and open the toy box at the bottom of the bed!

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By *xotic indianCouple
over a year ago

leicester

Home is more relax cosy and private

Can talk about everything fantasies and even try some Yes can go for second serving after first round Prefer home fun

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Their home, fucking her in the matrimonial bed, sheer heaven.

And you can have a rummage in her knicker drawer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer clubs tbh, there's no pressure then and if they don't turn up we can still have a great night

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